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me, thinking about where i want to be in life and having unrealistic goals:

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im getting out of here alive (my twenties)

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Women be like "I'm fighting demons" and the demons are bad adaptations of jane austen's novels.

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If someone makes you feel like you have to compete with other people as "candidates" to prove yourself worthy to be in a serious relationship with them, then walk away. You shouldn't have to constantly prove yourself worthy to be loved, and love is not a competition on being the best person available to someone else. Don't let someone only see your value based on what you can do for them, don't let them treat you like a commodity. Because as soon as they see someone they think is a better "commodity" or a better "service" to them, they will leave you for them. You are a human, you are not a service, you are not an object, you aren't meant to be used. You are meant to be loved. The idea that you have to conquer someone's love through fighting with others and proving that you "are different and better than others" comes from romantic books that end beautifully - but in real life, those relationships are often toxic.

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oh to be standing next to a stranger, staring at the same painting in an art museum, an unspoken romance between us

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Mary, Mary, quite contrary, how does your garden grow?

The Secret Garden (1993), dir. Agnieszka Holland

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Anastasia (1997) dir. Don Bluth and Gary Goldman

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Shadow and Bone (2021-) “There is something far greater than armies, something strong enough to topple kings and generals, to crumble nations and birth empires. Faith, Alina.”

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mood

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Are you okay? Do you have nowhere to go?

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Do you have regrets?

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betty + august + cardigan = the teenage love triangle

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✨MY FAVORITE 2D DISNEY & DREAMWORKS LADIES ✨ ↳ “The evening star is shining bright, so make a wish and hold on tight. There’s magic in the air tonight, and anything can happen.”

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The Princess Diaries (2001) dir. Garry Marshall

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to all the boys i’ve loved before; for @loudwithlaughter

❝ I want to say yes, but I don’t want to be with a boy whose heart belongs to someone else. Just once, I want to be somebody else’s f i r s t choice . ❞

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so depressing seeing so many young women getting nose jobs and moulding their unique faces into some perfect instagram influencer archetype. whats more depressing are the thousands of people in the replies praising it when they share the before and after photos on social media. and whats MOST depressing is the fact that criticism of this trend is met with “well this is how they can be the most confident in their body, leave them alone!!” 

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