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[whatdoinose]

Nobody said otherwise. What was said though is Kris is explicitly neutral. You're taking a trans neutral character and changing it. It's weird. There's other trans coded characters right there..

Kris can't be transfem because they use they/them pronouns, which are the pronouns we use to misgender you, you're not allowed to actually use them.

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No, kris can't be transfem because headcannoning a cannon trans character as anything else besides what they cannonically are is WEIRD!!

in CANNON they don't use anything besides they them in CANNON they aren't transfem or transmasc or bigender or gender fluid..

idk about anyone else but as a trans woman it'd still be weird to me if somebody headcannoned any cannon trans woman as transmasc or vice versa, it's not this huge social commentary it's just weird to do to trans rep..

Kris can't be transfem because they use they/them pronouns, which are the pronouns we use to misgender you, you're not allowed to actually use them.

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Am I allowed to follow you if I'm a trans woman?? I'm pretty new to the community but from what I gather trans men and women don't tend to like eachother a lot and I'm very confused why and if this means I can't follow cool people like you now

Hi! Trans people have a lot of solidarity with each other, you are just seeing the small percent of people who are so obsessed with discourse it harms how they interact with other queers. They have their own internalized issues and ideologies they need to work out. Anyone can follow me.

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i really enjoy looking through reddit threads related to death metal because the replies sound like a groupchat for cartoon villains

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"Whaaa, whaaa I'm not dangerous to trans men I'm just a radfem who wants you to detransition and normalize violence in your communities!!!!"

Block this person, shes vile and a terf who calls us tim/tifs, and doesn't care about the real self defense of trans men or transmasc.

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A popular artist suddenly made a trans man comic, and the viewers are not getting it

Being against a trans man's transition because you think it's too boring is transphobic, actually.

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"Trans men of color have power over white trans women because they're men!"

[ID: A stock image of a black man holding a huge cup titled "white women's tears" /End of ID]

[whatdoinose]

Everyone who got annoyed at me over the cis woman who couldn't understand a man knowing what experiencing misogyny is like post is proving my point btw.

Everyone who had something to say about "do you want to be seen as a man or not" is proving my exact point that people cannot fully accept the notion of men who are not welcomed into the boys club of cis manhood. The notion of "Man" is entwined inextricably with Power, Control, if I am a man that must mean I wear The Boot because Man means Wearing The Boot. You want me to chose between my sense of self and my lived experiences because to you, a "real man" would not have had my experiences.

You people are incapable of understanding gender as an internal sense of self and not as a magic spell. You fail to progress your feminism past a no boys allowed sign hung on the door of a playhouse. You are deeply fucking unserious and it's frankly embarrassing.

There's a serious problem in progressive spaces wrt seeing people as entire people with flexible experiences and not just identities listed like Pokémon types. Be better.

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This is so weird to me? Yes, so sorry I supported the evidence of somebody using AI art, please put me on your harassment list. /s

Thinking that maybe this is where the recent harassment came from.. ANYWAYS, if you looked at the logic, reasoning, and evidence and didn't just go "wah wah! this person is a minority so you can't critique them!" , you wouldn't be making these harassment lists.

[whatdoinose]

This is so weird to me? Yes, so sorry I supported the evidence of somebody using AI art, please put me on your harassment list. /s

Thinking that maybe this is where the recent harassment came from.. ANYWAYS, if you looked at the logic, reasoning, and evidence and didn't just go "wah wah! this person is a minority so you can't critique them!" , you wouldn't be making these harassment lists.

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And remember, the people who ran me off, they were mostly #transrights we should all be making out stop dividing the community transmascs and cis women who chase after Trans women. Never forget who did this, never forget it was american supposed "leftists" who turned on a Trans woman as soon as she didn't believe her transphobic abuser's claims, after they called me a zoophile, pedophile, groomer (because as a person born in 2000 I am dating a person who is born in 2002), a person who saw me vent about being abused by my jewish father who held nazi beliefs called me a neo nazi, never forget that when I called a blonde blue eyed person white and asked them to not be racist towards my black boyfriend I was met with "I can't be racist I'm mixed raced latino" who later harassed me relentlessly for this, sending their terfy transmasc friends to gaslight me and make me feel like this was worth getting stuck on over. The people who cried about being anti racist, dismissing my black boyfriend's experience with racism, dismissing his experience with prejudice and calling him lazy and entitled for being disabled and having benefits (which they disclosed to his stalkers). The people who are blonde with blue eyes, calling me aryan to legitimizs their harassment as some kind of justified fight against nazism. The people who police a black man for dating a white person and dictating that he should not be allowed to do that and demanding he breaks up with me over this. Never forget those are the people who wear the banner of progressive leftism. The people who completely covered up Trans woman's rape and harassed another Trans woman for even speaking to her and asking what happened. Never forget those people are responsible for my departure. Never forget the people who did this to me are conservative in every aspect other than the veneer. Never forget that during Trans genocide they chose to focus on a mentally ill Trans woman who lashed out at their abuser and ridicule her until she wanted to kill herself. Never forget they focused their whole time to doing all that. Never forget that the performance of progress is more important to Americans than listening to people they claim to protect.

Never forget any of this.

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It's hilarious when I get TMRA as an insult because it literally means that I'm an activist for trans men's rights.

yeah. i do think that the rights of trans men not to be brutalized and raped are pretty important. why do you think that me advocating for that makes me a bad person?

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Love how transandrophobes be like "yeah all men should die. Including trans ones. Why aren't you happy about this, trans men? Youre basically misgendering yourself and a misogynist if you say you shouldn't die for being a man also."

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what did she mean by this

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No we didn't. The idea that transitioning into a man automatically makes someone a misogynist is fucking stupid.

Where is this happening? Who on this website views everyone as trans men? I also highly doubt people are ignoring lesbianism and bisexuality and still seeing people as trans men?

This is just jackass behaviour. Yous really don't see trans men and nonbinary people as trans do you. You genuinely think we are the exact same as cis people. Christ on a fucking stick.

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So many asking for "proof" of people being shitty like this so lemme give you some examples of how vile ""queercourse"" is these days

this loser and all her hundreds of posts harassing people, misgendering them, accussing trans men of all being sexual assaulters and secret terfs, etc

this bullshit where people INSIST trans men are actually just terfs and shuld detransition already (very common thing to see)

I've had people tell me trans men experience a "more manageable oppression".. after I talked about being raped, murdered, detransitions, etc. (not sharing because hiding usernames would make it just clunky and confusing)

My askbox (I don't feel comfortable sharing the rest.)

People using forcefem "jokes" in the inboxes of trans dudes, i don't have any screenshots but you can ask any trans dude.. not like it's a quiet thing

white people constantly comparaing the transandrophobia discussion to racism along with yt people just in genderal trying their best to claim blk oppression (i have dozens of screenies)

and thats all my phone could handle before breaking..

@harlequinmanequin since u asked. i archive a lot of screenshots and have a shit device but trust me this is no rare phenomonem

i miss when queercouse was "DNI if you use the mean lesbian flag, it's really biphobic to call yourself that"

and not "i hope trans men get raped and detransition"

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I got banned from an LGBTQ+ crisis holine for being pro-endogenic today.

yes, really. I got hired on as a support councilor, and made my introduction as a diagnosised DID system that is happy to help out with plurality related conflicts regardless of their system's origin. The owner of the hotline knew nothing of the discourse up until this point.

multiple anti-endo systems bombarded their DMs, calling me ableist and said people like "me" were ruining the community. I provided my sources. despite the owner agreeing with me in the end, they couldn't keep me as a councilor OR LET ME USE THE HOTLINE because my opinions built on inclusiveness made the other systems uncomfortable.