wolverinefan2006

[wolverinefan2006]

I'm probably low-to-medium support needs, but do you ever have to mask super hard to not have a meltdown or is that me? I also have an undiagnosed physical condition, so I guess it makes less sense.

I'm a Deadpool fan, by the way, maybe we should talk!

im not good at masking at all and i cant stop my meltdowns when they happen. like if im getting overloaded its just gonna happen no matter what i do. i try sometimes to hold it together but it doesnt really work and i end up melting down anyway. i think for me trying to stop it actually makes everything worse cause im using up energy i dont have. for me theres no stopping it once it starts happening its just gonna happen and everyone has to deal with it. by the way i think deadpool is an interesting character and also thank you for the ask

[wolverinefan2006]

the other day something really bad happened my top surgery consult got cancelled just cause im 18. we drove all the way there just for them to tell us they couldnt do it and they didnt even call us first to let us know. they said i have to wait 6 more months until im 19 to even have the consult. i thought everything would be better once i turned 18 but i guess not. im really scared about what's gonna happen in the future​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

“sure i mean these bills affect all trans people but they specifically target and name trans women” an executive order was signed to halt transition under 19 with the expectation that we need our breasts for our future as mothers and cites anti fgm laws against trans men and mascs specifically. what do you MEAN we arent being targeted

[wolverinefan2006]

hi so ive been thinking alot about autistic meltdowns and tantrums and how they affect me and i realized something important. while i do have meltdowns sometimes tantrums are way more common for me and i dont see really anyone talking about tantrum behavior in autistic adults

for me tantrums are different from meltdowns cause they happen when i dont get something i want. i have this really strong need for routine and i get frustrated super easy and sometimes i just cant handle being told no. i really like things to be fair and if theres no good reason why i cant have something i want i get really angry

my tantrums look like arguing and hitting things and crying and screaming and it might seem like im freaking out over something small like not getting chick-fil-a or a toy i want but its actually a really big deal for me. ill try to negotiate and argue to get what i want and if that doesnt work ill get even more upset. i totally refuse to move on until i either get what i want or the person im arguing with leaves completely and then i might do SIB or self harm

these tantrums are really emotionally intense and they drain me completely. i get headaches from crying and screaming and afterwards i feel super guilty and exhausted. i dont like having tantrums but they happen

does anyone else have tantrums like this? what do yours looks like? how do you deal with them?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

[wolverinefan2006]

2. What does your overall issues with communication look like?

hello thank you for asking i have trouble talking when i am really stressed or overwhelmed and sometimes talk too loud or too quiet and cant really tell which one im doing it is also hard for me to look at peoples eyes when im talking to them.

i also have issues with back and forth talking because i don't know the right things to say and i usually just talk about Wolverine or other things that interest me. also have trouble with literal thinking and take things too seriously sometimes and make people confused. writing is easier for me than talking but i still write a bit messy sometimes but thats ok

i get really overwhelmed in group conversations or noisy places and sometimes lose my words i also have trouble telling people when i need help or when im feeling bad and sometimes i cant find the right words to explain whats wrong. my mom helps me alot with talking to doctors and stuff cause its hard for me to explain things to them the right way

also sometimes i need extra time to think about what people said before i can answer them and people think im ignoring them but im not i just need more time to process stuff. i also get really nervous to talk one on one on the internet but not in groups on the internet for some reason.

[wolverinefan2006]

13. What is an unpopular opinion about something discuses in the autism community you have?

im really tired of people on tiktok and other places saying that autism levels are just like functioning labels and that they hurt autistic people the same way. its mostly level 1 and LSN autistics or even allistics saying this stuff. im level 2 autistic and i know i need my diagnosis level cause without it i wouldnt get the help i really really need to live my life. its kinda frustrating when people who dont need as much help try to speak for people like me who do​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

[wolverinefan2006]

9. What is your story of how you got diagnosed?

so basically when i was little i was really good at some things but really behind in others. like i could make animal sounds when people asked me to when i was super young and i could read and write pretty early too cause i was hyperlexic. but i had trouble with stuff like standing up and walking and using the bathroom. i still cant use the bathroom properly and i wet the bed almost every night. i also had alot of behavior problems when i was a kid like i would take bottles from babies at daycare and drink from them and i would have really bad meltdowns at school. i had really big social and communication problems so my parents got me tested for autism when i was 12. a very nice doctor lady said i was level 2 autistic after she tested me.

[wolverinefan2006]

hello guys feel free to ask me some of these stuffs ok

Autism ask game!!

1. What does your ability to speak look like?

2. What does your overall issues with communication look like?

3. What type of therapies do you do if any? Or are trying to get?

4. What did your education look like?

5. What is your safe food if you have any?

6. Do you have any comorbid disabilities?

7. What are your support needs?

8. What did your support needs look like growing up?

9. What is your story of how you got diagnosed?

10. Do you have a carer?

11. What support are you hoping to get?

12. Are you able to work?

13. What is an unpopular opinion about something discuses in the autism community you have?

14. Is there anything you would do if you were not autistic/did not have all of your support needs?

15. How did your development look like growing up? Did you have developmental delays?

[wolverinefan2006]

hey im Adam from Texas im 18 and im Level 2 autistic and transgender i use he/him pronouns and being a Leo is part of who i am too i wanna be open about myself cause people should know about this stuff Level 2 autistic means i need medium support with things

i have trouble with mostly all ADLs and social stuff which is hard for me my mom helps me with eating and taking medicine and other things were gonna get me into a group home soon where ill get support i need this is important cause i have autism ADHD depression anxiety and other diagnosis that affect how i do things

i like watching YouTube and making art its good for me and i love Wolverine hes the best superhero i collect everything with him on it im done with high school and right now im NEET which means no work or school but im focusing on getting better and getting support first

ask me anything about being autistic or transgender or whatever else cause sharing helps people understand​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​