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is tj an incel why does he act like that

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IM SO PISSED OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WANT TO EAT SWEETS AND CHOCOLATE BUT THERE ARE NONE IN THE HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHOVIANS: GET IN THE TARDIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!! GRAB YOUR SWIMSUITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOMESTUCK

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my constant typos make my posts pure and honest

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im sayinggg like!! dude i know women get disproportionate hate compared to men but theres the other side of the sword which is infantilizing women and sayinf they cant do anything wrong and are always victims

I fear this one is the latter which sucks because its already a conservative season but yknow

someone explain to me why there are so many hude defenders. like listen im a dyke I hate men but she is not a good person for thisss

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the "feels like 103 degrees" notification on my weather app hates to see an autistic pots haver taking srris and adderall coming

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i actually do think it’s anti-feminist to be fatphobic and yes i do mean that

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undone without you 

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someone explain to me why there are so many hude defenders. like listen im a dyke I hate men but she is not a good person for thisss

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I love people who fall for tumblr sexyman bait characters every single time. you’re an important part of the ecosystem and I hope you never ever change

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self discipline is so hard like. i know the sucker who's in charge...a pushover who hates authority and loves hedonism

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solstice

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sorry for the lesbian politics I am watching love island and it does something to me

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as a butch who is 4'10 and dating a femme im starting to realize a lot of my insecurities are... male ones? Which is baffling. Like, im insecure of my tits and ass because of gender reasons sure, but, also partially because im thinking how can I be desirable as "the man" with these incredibly feminine aspects of myself?

I feel like a large portion of the lesbian community kind of perpetuates this. I have to remind myself im not here to replicate a straight relationship. Im not "the man". Im nonbinary, queer, and happen to be built curvy and short. I fear many butches perpetuate the same kind of rhetoric when it comes to other butches as well.

We are drag kings, undesirable to the general cis and straight societies. And I think its sometimes hard coming to terms with the fact that I am, at the end of the day, doing something deeply controversial and undesirable to the majority. I will not get the validation and affections I did when I dressed womanly. I will not receive the openness I did when I wore makeup. I will not be received with friendliness, kindness, unconditionally as im no longer a small cute girl yknow? Im now approached with hesitance, ignored, or a sort of unattracitveness I am still admittedly getting used to.

As a general punk I know being countercultural is theoretically hard, and I also know that I am making this choice. I also know its not the worst as im still, regardless of how "unattractive" I now appear, I am a white obviously afab navigating in the world and that is regardless going to be soooo easy. but its so different.

I only came out as a butch 3 and a half years ago. It's so new. I love it, im me, I am so happy. But I really need to write out sometimes my feelings on the way I am treated so differently now not just by straights, but by the queer community at large.

Annnywaaay sorry about the lesbian ramblings. tldr; butch lesbians experience a complicated gender situation and I think that maybe we as a queer community should give butches and studs maybe a bit less grief and maybe lift up all bodies shapes and styles of said butches and studs. controversial I know but sometimes it must be said.

thanks this podcast isn't sponsored. I also had an edible so who knows how coherent i am