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Possibly the best Doctor/Companion combo

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The Allos are NOT okay, you guys.

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The utter PAIN I feel when I do this

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Coming Out

I don’t think anyone will see this, but I just needed to say it. It���s the first day of ace week and I’m not ready to come out in real life. I’m a bit scared to. So I’ll  come out as best I can, anonymously to the internet: Hello World. I am asexual.

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HAPPY ACE AWARENESS WEEK FROM AUSTRALIA!!!

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hope this clears it up!

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I feel this in my soul

Ace culture is is not being sure whether you’re really ace “enough” to claim the label, but then reading ace culture posts and books with ace characters etc. etc. and going OMG SAME SO RELATABLE the whole time 🙄.

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This!

Friendly Reminder Time:

1 - Asexuals can still have sex and even enjoy it

2 - Aromantics can still be in a romantic relationship and/or enjoy the concept of romance

3 - Not all aromantics are asexual and not all asexuals are aromantic

4 - Sexual and Romantic attraction are NOT the same thing nor are they the only types of attraction

5 - Stop assuming that all aroaces are lonely and/or don’t want friends

6 - Not all aroaces are straight, they can be gay, lesbian, pan, bi, etc

7 - Aro/Aces are lgbtqia+ whether you like it or not and are queer (queer doesn’t just mean gay and lesbian, not every aro/ace will/want to use the term ‘queer’ for themselves).

8 - Not all marriages are romantic or sexual, they can be also be platonic.

If there is anything I missed (which I probably did) just reblog or comment with your addons.

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Respect the pronouns! It takes literally zero effort.

asexual user boxes

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Me: I'm asexual

Someone: Cool

Me: Thank you for not saying...

Someone: But maybe you just haven’t met the right person yet

Me:

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OH SHIT

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explaining different types of attraction

***cw: brief mentions of sex***

romantic attraction

romantic attraction is the desire to be in a romantic relationship with a specific person, also known as a crush.

sexual attraction

sexual attraction is the desire to perform sexual acts with a specific person.

sensual attraction

sensual attraction is the desire to be physically close to a specific person. this can include kissing, hugging, cuddling, and holding hands. it often goes with another type of attraction, but can also stand on its own.

platonic attraction

platonic attraction is the desire to be friends with a specific person.

alterous attraction

alterous attraction is the desire to be with a specific person that is deeper and more intense than platonic attraction, but not in a romantic way. it is most often talked about within the aromantic community, but some alloromantics also experience alterous attraction.

aesthetic attraction

aesthetic attraction is enjoying looking at a specific person because of their physical appearance.

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“sexual attraction is part of what makes us fundamentally human” who said i was human? i could be 25 ducks holding up a skin suit while snakes operate my arms and legs like a fucked up version of ratatouille. better yet, the ducks may not even be from this planet. bold of you to assume i’m not an alien life form. actually, fuck it, you are the aliens to me. i have been slowly collecting all of the data i need and world domination shall begin soon. buckle up bitches cause i own your asses. now i decide what makes you human.

fear me.

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Oh to be openly ace, how nice that would be. To live and let live, let others be them let me be me.

Gay🐢irl

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THIS. This this this this this this this. Only come out when you're ready and to who you're comfortable coming out to.

the idea that being closeted is being a liar is a heterosexual propaganda that hates queer people protecting themselves. you don't have to come out if you're not safe.

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This. Paying people with shitty opinions is just supporting their shitty opinions.

It’s all gay rights and love wins until you’re asked to stop eating one sandwich.

It’s all fuck terfs until you’re asked to stop making merch for a 23-year-old book series.

You’re an activist until you’re asked to change even the smallest thing about the way you live your life.