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[aspd-confessions]

hello i had a curious question if it's possible to get input in any form would be helpful.

Has anyone with aspd or other cluster b disorders has difficulty in finding a therapist who seem to push everything in a bpd category. so what i mean is i have done extensive research in cluster b disorders.

but somehow my therapist says she has a ton of bpd clients but only worked with one npd person which was more of a stigmatized version of it. she also said a narcissist won't admit they are a narcissist. also keeps saying well you have bpd traits when its clearly another disorder.

apparently you have to be someone who puts someone down and always told they were right and put others down and be over achieving to have npd or be a narcissist. because i guess she had someone who had the stigmatized version but she couldn't work with him. i'm pretty sure she sees npd as that version.

even though she says shes worked with avpd pd,schizoid pd,dpd pd,schizotypal pd ,paranoid pd,ect. even though there tends to be overlaps but somehow no one with other cluster b and somehow she has a ton a patients with bpd.

oh saying you don't feel remorse for a past psychiatrist if something bad happened is a bpd mood shift. its really annoying because someone fucked up my life why would i feel sorry for them its not a mood swing.

then when i say i had looked into intensive research studies i was told they are not liable because they pick very specific people and the studies can be skewed. but definitely don't go online to the people who actually have symptoms because they can be misdiagnosed.

then i was told im a sociology's dream and i'm really cool and its okay to like things that are not conforming. then she gave an example of liking something from her own life which was drastically different than what i said. and i would have to create a political statement for the qualification of aspd. but then she plays the your having homicidal thoughts BUT you don't want to act on them so it's not really concerning and to use "my skills".

even though i clearly can't hold a job nor listen to others and gets in the way of my functioning especially with authority issues which i didn't want to admit a lot of my symptoms.

i'm not asking for a diagnosis but does anyone have any similar experiences or advice? i didn't completely talk about my symptoms but i'm getting really mixed signals with this whole bpd traits being pushed when obviously there is something more intense going on and i keep dissecting my life and my taught habits and realized whats really going on and somehow she just doesn't get it.

i also thought it was a really big turn off with her saying narcissist thing i mentioned.

:^ - sign off

I think I kind of lost the plot at some point but I'll answer your first part.

I have worked with a shrink who tried to push the BPD label, yes. PwBPD seem to be more willing to seek treatment than other cluster B or even A and C disorders from what I've observed, so it doesn't necessarily surprise me that they've worked with a lot of BPD patients in comparison to other personality disorders. It sounds like they have a pretty shallow understanding of NPD though.

Yes, often times a pwNPD has trouble admitting they are a narcissist and therefore has trouble seeking treatment, because they see nothing wrong with their behavior, but personally once I actually got into therapy and took it seriously, I was able to recognize my issues and work on them. Finding the right psychiatrist helped a lot and I would recommend you keep looking if this person isn't the right fit for you and is insisting on one label without considering others.

[pirateprincessjess]

“Covid game me narcolepsy” no you fucking pervert it didn’t. You’re just a weirdo with a gross fetish. Covid didn’t make you suddenly want to fuck dead people. Keep that shit to yourself you gods damned weirdo

I have type 2 Narcolepsy. Studies have shown that serious viral infections can cause people to develop Narcolepsy if they are already genetically susceptible to having it. This includes covid. That is what happened to me.

You on the other hand might want to google the difference between Narcolepsy and Necrophilia….

[anonpolls]

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[noodles-and-tea]

Don’t worry, bud, Bruce will get it eventually…

[inkskinned]

i love you vaccines i love you research i love you reading the book instead of having chatgpt summarize it i love you critically thinking rather than reacting to a headline i love you investigating the source material i love you science i love you math even though you are personally my enemy (math/yn slowburn) i love you writing even though you try to stab me a lot i love you Experts in Your Field i love you Using The Brain

[miseria-fortes-viros]

dont tag bible stuff as mythology God isnt mythology

hi hello how are you. most if not all story-based religions are in fact considered mythology by definition including the abrahamic religions. god is in fact abrahamic mythos whether you think he’s real or not. im sorry if that upsets you but im assuming this is regarding the post i just reblogged and i have to say im surprised the part you’re upset about is me tagging biblicalia as mythology and not the entire discussion on who tops in jesus/judas ship discourse

[hellsitegenetics]

WHY ARE YOU MARKED RED ON SHINIGAMI, WTF DID U DO

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[innerchildabortionclinic]

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[lesamis]

are you a Byron or Wilde apologist?

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[fairycosmos]

Lowkey whats the point

honestly ive stopped looking for some big revelation. ive just started saving up to buy pain au chocolat once a week and letting that be it for now

[kensatou]

*calling your colleague voluptuous* *begging him for kisses* *bouncing on it (his lap, while manifesting a goal)* yeah. checks out. just a normal day at the office for them

[annabelle--cane]

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[wulfhalls]

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[cowboysorceror]

a falling star fell from your heart 🌠