#There's cis+ and then there's whatever I have

[werothegreat]

that's kind of my one beef with the newest version of the "inclusive intersex Ohio" flag - I'm all for making sure everyone is explicitly referenced, but it also makes it kind of hell to put together physically. you have a flag with 6 + 5 + 2 = 13 distinct colors on it that all have to be readable from a distance

(this is also why i prefer "queer" over "lgbtqi+" or whatever other letters we've added lately - although hearing a public figure say "lgbtq plus" tells me immediately they're not actually part of the community, so there's that)

i understand that the original simple rainbow flag got conflated into being just for cis gay men, but i think we need to loop back around to it just meaning everybody in the community. wasn't that the whole point of the new green/blue gay man flag?

It's pride month so I'll allow myself to express one opinion on the internet :

There are no "exact color" of pride flags.

I see more and more sites and posts talking about the exact hex codes for the lesbian flag, or the right purple for the ace one, and how it should be more or less saturated and I just want to say: pride flags were meant to be sewn in your kitchen. To be spraypainted and to be recognised.

There are no "exact colors" of pride flags because you should do them with what you have ! Nobody should care if you use a crimson red instead of a cherry red or whatever ! Be free ! wave your colors ! The colors you have !

[beemovieerotica]

With my line of work (bartending in a smaller town, VERY republican) I have to bite my tongue on a daily basis when a customer says something racist/transphobic/homophobic and my question is what if i were to lie and say that i am trans when someone makes a nasty comment to put them in their place? Im a cis gay man so it would absolutely be something i lie about on the spot only once, but TBH my main concern is if it would be hurtful to a trans person?

i don't think it hurts people necessarily, but worst case you get caught in the lie and then that does make everyone look kind of bad. like i think in that situation it would be just as effective imo to say "i have a friend who is trans--" and then whatever rhetorical strategy you need to use to get republicans to shut up and/or listen to you and possibly change their mind.

[kygerbearr]

I think I need to stop being lowkey about the agender thing cuz I like being considered masc but I don't like being perceived as A Man and have that erase any of what being agender means to me. I don't want whatever cis-sona your perception has made about me for you. I do not want to be perceived as having a gender just because I'm masc, it's not that easy for me so why should you get to have it easy for yourself. like I make ends meet by accepting he/they but that doesn't mean I want to be lumped in as a guy or nonbinary because it's literally *I do not want gender*, not "I'll settle for less male"

(and no, I do not want to be called an "it" in any capacity, I'm still first and foremost a human and I fight tooth and nail every day to continue to be called one)

[lazy-loner-bitofastoner-blog]

also friendly reminder that cis people dont “pass” & gender rules are made up. love yourself enough to make up your own without worrying why other people have theirs. to pass on the wisdom of a reddit comment from a deleted account that found me when I was struggling with identity vs expression vs perceptions, “You can do whatever you want forever. I’m not giving you permission, you already have it. Sometimes we all just need a reminder.”

i saw a post recently telling people they shouldnt lie to their trans friends about whether they 'pass' because it could endanger them, and while i get the concept i think the problem is that passing is... so highly subjective? different people are gonna intepret your gender presentation differently.

like i've personally had strangers adjust their gendered language with me mid conversation and had no clue what changed their mind. i had a lunch break where one coworker had clearly assumed i was a man while the other had clearly assumed i was a woman and both kept side eyeing eachother in confusion. which is fine by me, that's the kind of reaction i've intentionally cultivated, but it does suck if you're aiming for a stealth lifestyle because there really isnt a line where you wake up one day 100% passing.

maybe just... try not to resent people if they say you pass when it turns out others may not agree with them. there's a good chance they weren't intentionally trying to give you false hope, it's just that gender is in the eye of the beholder, and if you're mid transition different people are gonna behold you differently.

[stellargh0ul]

There aren't enough Papas soloing out there. I'd like a Papa masturbating to fantasies of reader. Personally I'm partial to cis gender Perpetua or Copia but do whichever Papa and whatever gender identity speaks to you. I'm not particular and I want you to be free with it.

order up, we got one Perpetua with a cock, one Perpetua with a cock for anon here with a side of panty smelling!

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you’ve been apart for a few months now, and it’s going okay- the tour’s doing great, tickets are selling like hot cakes, and from the reports he’s been getting daily, things are going just fine back at the Ministry. there’s nothing in that moment that Perpetua finds he can complain about, the world seemingly all going right for him-

that was, of course, except for the fact that you’d stayed behind when he left for the tour.

there was no practical reason to bring you along, of course, space on the tourbus at a premium and very little time he’d be able to spend with you during the tour anyway. when rushing from city to city, one did not quite have the time to sit with their beloved in peace and quiet.

and he knows all this! logically, of course, he can rationalize why the decision was made to leave you at the Ministry while he went on tour. there would be no better righthand person than his own partner to have watching over the work that still needed to be done while he was away.

but he still stole a pair of your panties to take with him, packing them away in his suitcase before you noticed they were missing from your laundry. you still haven’t noticed, as far as Perpetua can tell- at least, you haven’t said anything on your video calls.

it’s after a show, with adrenaline still coursing through his veins and the energy of the crowd thrumming through his bones, and all he think about is how badly he wishes you were there with him as he sits on the edge of his bed.

in his hand, he holds your panties to his face as he works his other around his cock, lube making it a slick, easy glide over the length. Perpetua bites into the fabric as he snaps his palm in a tight circle over his cockhead.

his head is filled with thoughts of you and all he can smell is your scent- it’s the closest he’s felt to you in months.

he imagines the noise you’d make when you realized your panties were missing, or even the look you’d give him if he were to tell you about his dirty little secret. he’s sure the space between your eyes would crinkle like it always does when you frown.

Perpetua imagines smoothing those wrinkles away with his thumb, like he always does, and cums with a gasp into his fist. he pumps himself through the aftershocks, pulling your panties away so that he can look down at his mess.

such a shame, that he has only his hand here. he wishes he was spilling inside you instead, hearing your sweet moans instead of the slick noise of his lubed hand.

even spent as it is, his cock makes a valiant attempt to get hard again as he thinks of you.

…perhaps he could do this again in a little while. it makes him feel closer to you, even far away as he is.

[i-willstealyourtoes]

can we get some engineer and trans male reader food im starving here... spicy perchance... holds out change jar

i love your work though—ive been meaning to request you for a while and you finally have your requests open!!!! whoopee!!!!!

Hell yeah you can get some Engie content !! I'm not trans myself so I hope I did this justice :'>

Engineer with Trans male!Reader (T4T)

Not like, he doesn't care about your body - he loves your body - rather it doesn't concern him that you're trans.

Some people HC Dell as trans, so I thought maybe we could work with that ??

Anyway, trans or not, Dell doesn't really care whatever you got in your pants.

Maybe if he was like, an insecure teen he'd bothered by his partner's identity like that, but now that he's a mature adult? He's just happy if you're happy !!

And it's even better you're happy with him :)

He might not understand everything, but he tries his absolute best to take mental notes of the trans experience to help you out with any struggles !

"I don't want you to ever feel uncomfortable or self-conscious with me, alright? I wanna make you happy."

Now, trans Engie? He doesn't need to learn as much, given he also knows the struggle of being constantly ostracized by the whole world.

But obviously he still wants to hear about your personal experience, since everyone has different journeys.

But it certainly is time saved not having to spend hours of explaining something he'll never fully understand (if he was cis)

He gets what it's like to be scrutinised for absolutely anything, put in a category or a box simply for being alive

For him, the whole being berated for his identity doesn't affect him anymore; he's solid in his identity.

But if anyone hurts you? As in, chip away at your confidence and leave you insecure?

It's all over for his patience.

He won't start a shouting match, or get physically violent, but he will definitely pull you away from the situation and give the person a firm warning to back off.

But after that he'll just lead you somewhere away and reassure you that you're just as valid as he is :')

"Some people stare, some people judge. Those types, they'll never understand. You ain't gotta worry about them, alright? You owe 'em nothing."

Once you two get back home/to base, he will shower you with all the affection you could ever ask for !!

Kisses on your temples, cheeks, hands,

Up your arm, down your neck, in between your legs

"Y'know, dreamin' about you ain't got nothing on the real thing."

He loves every part of you, even if you don't

In fact, he loves your body so much it's more than enough to make up for your own insecurities

But if you still don't believe him, he'll hopefully convince you by slowly coaxing you out of any of the remaining items of clothing you have, compliments flowing out his mouth like it was his first language.

"So handsome. I'm so lucky to have you. You make my world, honey."

Even if you don't want to do anything, he'll still comfort you, caressing your bare skin, guiding you to look at yourself in the mirror (if you can manage, of course)

"See? Look at you. I don't see how you could see this body as anything other than sexy."

Basically, he is in love with you and your body, and he's more than happy to prove it :)

[txttletale]

this kind of thing is literally the exact same argument TERFs make where they claim that 'trans women's hyperfemininity is enforcing stereotypes'. like--it is insane to do this kind of analysis of 'passing' as emblematic of a respectability politics and an adherence to a rigid gender standard instead of, yknow, the result of being forcibly and violently kept to a rigid gender standard. maybe trans women don't want to be 'clocky' because we don't like being hate crimed, and not because we've constructed a panopticon for ourselves with our Rigid Essentialist Identities.

& although i am focusing on transmisogyny and given the overall topic of this video think it's obviously very transmisogynistic specifcailly i think the fact that this is immediately followed up with the example of "a trans man's transition is deemed incomplete if he wears nail polish" or whatever is also absolutely hysterical. maybe trans men are hesitant to wear nail polish because they do not want to get called a faggot on the street, have we considered that. Passing is invoked over and over in this video as an ideological component of a rigid and defensive politics of identity instead of being a necessary survival strategy for many many people. this entire video smacks of a ridiculous detachment from anything that trans women oops i mean Binary Trans Pople actually face in real life. i mean, this is presented as the 'future risk' of liberal/mainstream trans politics relying on the 'born this way' narrative:

and just quite frankly how fucking ignorant do you have to be to paint this as some terrible potential future consequence of the ideological failings of these Rigid-Identity Binary Trans People and not as the actual literal status quo that is immediately and violently imposed upon transfems right now by every aspect of society (including and especially the entire field of ''trans healthcare'', a field dominated by cis people who btw are very much responsible not just for pioneering the 'born this way' narrative but for very much violently enforcing it on trans people by making conformance to it a prerequisite to access healthcare!)

if they'd simply made a short video consisting of the parts of their own personal experience and how the egg jokes about cobain made them feel alienated and why, that would have been one thing -- but the Essayist must tackle the Big Questions, i suppose, and so what could have been a short piece on personal experiences with gender and how to appropriately speak about the dead is expanded outwards into an ignorant, incoherent politics that lectures the strawman "binary trans person" as to how they are the ones inventing and enforcing the systems that oppress them. no investigation, no right to speak!

i just have absolutely no patience left for anyone constructing a caricature of a ""binary trans woman"' that they can lecture about having a simplistic/essentialist/whatever view of gender. like whatever your intention was it is always going to come across as thinking of trans woman as too fucking stupid to have developed complex and individual relationships to and ideas about gender

[nefelegies]

IMPORTANT ROUNDUP: asks, statistics, "good science", and "the follow up video". i would really appreciate if you gave me your attention span for this one.

an update i gave on youtube that i don't know if people here saw: i may be doing a follow up after all now that i'm slightly less freaked, because my data was way too much of a mess and i would feel guilty if people began taking it and running with it while unaware of the informality and weakness of my study. i am potentially working with some people on discord to do a pedantically objective demographic study that will help clear the air but it will take some time to come out. the sampling methods and the questions being asked are very different, but/as such, the percentages that are coming out of that one are admittedly less bleak; this is of course a good thing! i am not a defeatist i am not blackpill or whatever i WANT things to not suck. i very badly want them to not suck. this new study (at least in its current stage) is more about objective demographic measures and not necessarily the far more subjective or qualitative or "investment gauging" measures i considered in my original; although i believe strongly that these measures matter, i don't know if any metrics i originally considered can give an accurate picture. i guess in a way i wish i had either taken way more time on the data gathered, engaged with it differently, or presented the video solely as a matter of opinion, but i felt that no amount of talk piece would get me taken seriously. to be clear: all the data presented is the data i collected. the data i collected was collected in the exact way described by the video. i just am not sure that my methods produced results i may "responsibly" draw conclusions about, especially when people start taking them as gospel (guys please i tried to disclaimer not to do this....).

regardless of whether you agree with my rhetoric (and i of course agree with my own rhetoric), the truth of science is that research conducted with the intent of proving a truth the author is already convinced of (see: anything published by BYU about you know. lol.) is not good research. again, even if intentions are pure and that truth was held to be objective, setting out to prove it would be contrary to the philosophy of science and "good practice". even if these things are abstract to you, they do matter greatly to me, as this is my career path, and if i knew when i started that i'd hit 100k and not like. 500 people total, i wouldn't have taken the tongue-in-cheek approach i did.

i worried about whether or not it is irresponsible to leave the video up in its current form but i am also worried that with its current spread, any move on my part to take it down would see it reuploaded by someone else, at which point i would be powerless to provide disclaimers such as these. so it remains up, but with some added context like this in the description, and comments are still disabled to try and .... slow down the spread. i guess.

all that being said: as i will likely mention in my follow up, the inability to objectively measure "who cares about what characters" does not change the reality so many people have come to me to talk about. i don't know yet if i'll compile for the video the legitimately HUNDREDS of testimonies of people telling me they've been noticing this attitude in artist circles for years, but it will be trivial to do so if i want. even if these things resist the clear quantification i would like to be able to provide (i've always been a literal thinker), the impact on countless artists' and creatives' lived experiences is undeniable. there is also something ironic about the fact that, in making a video claiming the community secretly harbored misogyny, i have been targeted by all manner of explicitly misogynistic and homophobic harassment. i wonder if the video may have been received differently if i had clarified that i am dysphoric, or that i use any pronouns, or if i had made my cishet brother do my voiceover.

i don't really know where i'm going, this got meandering. i guess what i mean to say with all of this is: i am grateful to everyone who has felt touched or even vindicated by my video; i am grateful to everyone who has approached the topic with deep self reflection; i am grateful to everyone that has reached out with a newfound commitment to be the change. i stand by every opinion presented in my video and maybe one day i will make a pure opinion piece on this same topic where i really try and grapple with "why". i just wish i had been more careful to shove messy numbers into the world i suppose.

also, about asks:

good lord there is Many Asks. um. like Many A Lot. i don't know if i should reply to them individually publicly because this is meant to be an art account and presumably none of you want your dashboards flooded with them but i also don't know if people would be underwhelmed to receive private replies????? i considered grouping at least all the positive asks into one big post but i didn't want that to come off as dismissive(?). i hope everyone knows i have been reading them as they arrive but i just. it's a weird time for me right now mentally and i somehow picked the busiest irl period of my life to instigate all of this and the idea of how long it will take to actually reply to everyone is becoming a looming threat.

thank you to everyone that actually read all this. p.s. someone made a really thoughtful response that you should watch--it's in spanish but has english subs.

[transfemme-shelterdog]

it's so, so deeply annoying about pocket-deer-boy basically bragging about how unnamed, undefined trans men say he has "transmasc energy"– whatever the fuck that means– while openly saying that trans men have male privilege and shouldn't talk about our oppression. the absolute audacity he has to say something like that is sickening.

what, pray tell, is "transmasc energy"? i want someone to tell me without it being some transphobic, bioessentialist bullshit. people only thought he was a trans man because no one thought a cis person would have the audacity to speak over them about their own oppression. ugh, "transmasc energy". i don't know what it is about that phrase, but it makes me feel sick.

Yeah I don't know either, as trans guys vary so fucking much in presentation, it makes no sense, and makes me wonder if he even ever heard that.

[alexs-life-is-a-bit]

tbh. i feel like there's plenty of transphobic "cis" people that are definitely trans in some way. like and they just don't know. and they will never know.

like i know everyone has a different perception of gender or whatever, but i seriously feel like some of those people who are like "i don't understand being trans, if i woke up as a boy the next day I'd be fine with it" have GOT to be eggs that will never be cracked. also all the people that go "oh yeah im a girl i guess" only because of the enby stereotypes. or all the people that think they can't be trans because they still feel mostly like a boy (but they might really be demigirl or demiboy) or the people that will never be comfortable in their identity because they were told he/him is for boys and she/her is for girls only. or the people who are actually nonbinary but don't like they/them so they think they can't be. or the people who are actually transmasc but like dresses so they feel invalid. it's just so sad how so so so many cis straight people probably have sides to themselves they just don't know about. like. idk if this made any sense.

i wish i could just tell everyone that

YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. FOREVER!!!!!

labels are just fun accessories and no one can stop you from doing what you want with them!!!

[princess-glassred]

I finally made a Bowers Gang OC! ❤️‍🔥👹🤬🎈🩸💉🗡🪓🧃🍊

Barbara Dahl Midland

•She was born September 11th 1974, making her fifteen and her star sign Virgo

•Her family moves to Derry when she was fairly young, but considering she's a total bitch she acclimated extremely well.

•Her sexuality is straight and her gender is cis

•Despite identifying with punk music and dressing punk and calling herself as such, i cannot emphasize enough, that she is a total fucking poser. She doesn't stand for anything politically, and she's about close minded as you can imagine. Whatever your preconcieved notions about cool anarchist punks are throw em away because Barbara is no anarchist, she only acts in her own self interest and her self interests can be very bigoted. There's a reason she's in the bowers gang.

•Barbara is about as mysoginistic as a woman can be, she's actually probably the most mysogistic member of the bowers gang. She hates women, ahe always makes jokes about how whiney women should just shut up and make her a sandwich or some shit. The bowers gang find this oddly confusing considering she is a woman but they just roll with it.

•She is a total pick me not like other girls girl, she just want boys to date her so fucking bad she will do anything to endear herself to them. She also spends a lot of time seperating herself from other "bimbo skanks" because she doesn't wear dresses or excessive makeup or enjoy typical girly things. She's actually interesting /j.

•She just wants one of the bowers gang boys to date her so bad, she honestly doesn't care who it is.

•Ironically all her pick me girling is in vain, because the bowers gang are 100% totally disgusted by her. It's not even based on her looks or anything, she's not particularly ugly or pretty, but it's just her weird ass personality that makes all of the bowers gang see her like she's some kinda of disgusting mutated frog monster. She just wants a boyfriend more than anything but all the guys she likes thinks she's the most repulsive thing in the world, solely because she's doing too much.

•Barbara is genuinely a very unlikable person. She's abrasive, loud, rude, obnoxious, aggresive, attention seeking, really you name it. This has led to Barbara not having any friends, even the bowers gang don't really enjoy being around her. She doesn't particularly care, all she wants is a boyfriend and she hates women so much she cant stand to be around them, but it's a little sad.

•Belch actually thinks she's a dude, which only makes her attempts to hit on him sadder. It's not based on her appearance at all, it's solely based on the fact that women are fun to be around and likable and barbara is a soulless void of charisma.

•For all of Barbara's not like other girls postulating she'd probably LOVE to get married, have a son and be a housewife. I can picture her being a boy mom so hard its disgusting.

•Her favorite colors are orange and black

•her favorite food is sweet potato pie and her favorite drink is energy drinks

•She likes punk music, goth fashion, riot girls, moshing, live music, putting other women down, putting men on a pedestal, being attractive to dudes, hating everything, watching MTV, anime, bullying other kids, thrifting, tail gaiting, fast cars, any guy with a slightly edgy style, action movies, getting into physical fights, dancing, and destroying personal property.

•She dislikes other women, dresses, anything remotely feminine, her parents, madonna, new kids on the block, really any song on the radio, her braces, makup that isnt eye liner or lipstick, high heels, barbie dolls, anyone prettier than her, super models, soap operas and teen dramas, most of the stores at the mall, people who can see right through her cool girl image and don't buy it for a second.

•The bowers gang make jokes about her appearance all the time, right to her face. They usually compare her to large animals like really big fish or marsupials, mostly just cause they find her so repulsive. They never call her fat or say she has specificically bad facial features because she's not and doesn't have any really, their insults are more dehumanizing.

•Her one and only goal in life is for dudes to think she's hot, even tho all she ever does is act like other women are shallow bimbos.

•Out of all of the members of the losers club, Ben Hanscom and Beverly Marsh are her least favorites

•She's very overdramatic about everything all the time

•She's the kind of girl to he really protective of her ugly ass boyfriend that nobody wants

•Barbara's parents are as stereotypically perfect and 1950's american as can be. Her father is Bobbie Darren Midland, car salesman and her mother is Betsy Dana Midland, beauty pageant organizer. They are as nice and affectionate as can be but oh lord she hates them both. They're very indulgent with her and give her just about everything she wants, all the while praising her like she's the best thing ever. They really love barbara, but barbara acts like they are ruining her life by trying to hug her and take her places. The bowers gang love to tease her for her square upbringing, especially because it only adds to the narrative that she's a poser. Somebody like henry is still an awful person but he never had much of a choice in becoming a bully considering the nightmare living situation he was in. Barbara is well off and has two parents that are crazy about her but she acts like she's living in hell.

•Her favorite method to bully others is verbal abuse, but since nobody is really intimidating by her it's just kind of annoying. She has been known to get in physical fights before tho, and she's actually pretty good at that.

•Her nicknames include Barbie (most kids call her that and she HATES IT), henrietta bowers (by bill denbrough, she thought it was a compliment but it wasnt), tennis ball tits (by richie), repulsive attention seeking hag (by victor criss), dude (by belch huggins), and buttercup, pumpkin pie, and sugar blossom (by her parents).

•Her name is a reference to Barbie Doll (Barbara Dahl Midland) and her last name midland is a pun about hiw generic her home life is. It's mid.

•She has a horrible fear of thunderstorms and dinosaurs, she's always been terrified of storms for how frequent they are in maine and the terrible loud noises they make, and her fear of dinosaurs stems from when she was really little and wound up getting lost in a museum. She found herself in the dinosaur wing and when she was surrounded by the giant dino skeletons she had a fucking panic attack, made only worse when she got to the end of the exhibit and saw mock up pictures of the dinosaurs going extinct. Dinosaurs suffocating from fumes, some burning to death, others being drowned in things like molasses or trapped in caves where they would starve to death. Ugh, safe to say she was traumatized.

•As an adult i think she'd end up working a constant rotation of jobs because she'd constantly get fired, but that doesn't really matter tho cause she dies before she ever reaches adult hood.

•one day when lurking down in the sewers with rhe gang to find a knife that henry dropped she got turned around seperated from the group. She ended up in this big room with a very high ceiling. Suddenly, rain began to fall down and barbara thought that she had mistakenly walked under a leaky pipe, until she realized that no- somehow clouds had forrmed above and a whole ass indor storm had clicked up. The rain poured down as thunder boomed through out the echoey sewer room, the exit blocked off so she couldn't get out even if he tried, the water in the room rising and rising until it reached her waist- the constant rain and wind making her eyeliner drip as she started to cry. Then a door opened, and out walked her worst nightmare. A giant dinosaur of no species she'd ever seen, hungry and with it's eyes pointed directly at her. She couldn't even bring herself to run, she just stared up at it with wide, horrified eyes and a quivering lip. And then she screamed snd banged on the door some more, begging for literally anyone to come help her before its too late. And then, in a perfect twist of irony, the bowers gang did hear her, but they decided to ignore her. After all, nobody liked barbara and she was well known for wanting attention. Every woman wants dudes attention, she said it herself, its all they ever think about. This is definitely some ploy to make the boys go rescue her or some shit, and they ain't fallin for it. Barbara midland was gobbled by pennywise in the form of a dinosaur and declared missing the following week. She's a suspected teenage runaway due to how miserable she always was, and nobody really misses her besides her parents who often wander where she is now or what she's doing- ignorant to the fact that she's rotting in their sewer system. Her death is a very good reminder that you can try to be one of the good ones all you want, but when push comes to shove, you're still low on the totem pole.

Soooo yeah, that's basically barbara. She doesn't have a voice claim yet but ill get to that. I wanted to make a female oc who was in the bowers gang but just as terrible as they were. I didnt want her to be the stick in the mud or the voice of reason or just a pretty girl who follows them around. She's terrible, just like all the bowers gang dudes. I based her off of dee from its always sunny if you couldnt tell lol. Hope you love to hate her as much as i do.

[dogclownmuppetthing]

No one dictates my level of transness but me so this isn't a 'I don't feel trans enough' post particularly but I kinda wish I knew of more ppl like me when it came to experiencing dysphoria

I was assigned a girl I'm happy being seen as a girl even if I know full well that doesn't fully describe me . But yet . I still feel wrong in the body I was in and wish I had the 'opposite gender' parts . Like . I feel like my body misinterpreted some instructions in some direction I feel like there's smth missing th

[lazycranberrydoodles]

everybody go home. this is my magnum opus

[ack-cough]

What if

LET ME PRETEND THERES A GOOD ENDING

[camellcat]

I think it's a bit funny I have seen spike been called both a trans man and a butch lesbian. the people may not be able to agree on a specific label here but the answer's certainly queer

[khattikeri]

underrated favorite scene in tgcf is when xie lian hides hua cheng in his bed with him while jun wu is literally in his room lecturing him. that is PEAK parent grounding their kid complete with sitcom suspicions that the kid snuck their boyfriend into the house