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Empowering from Within: Visualization for Boosting Confidence
Visualization for Boosting Confidence Confidence and self-esteem are the cornerstones of personal and professional success. They define how we perceive ourselves, interact with others, and tackle challenges. The ability to believe in oneself is a catalyst for achievement, influencing every aspect of life. In this article, we delve into the transformative potential of visualization as a tool to…
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Feeling like a work of art. This digital portrait is giving me all the confidence boosts. I'm loving the vibrant colors and the way it captures my personality. Who else is feeling like a masterpiece today?
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♧How I Induced the void through SATS


And i know, I've wanted to and said that i'll induce the void through lucid dreaming, but here's the thing. Sats is actually so easy and effortless to do, lucid dreaming feels like a chore now (to me). And the thing is, I, ironically took break from tumblr and void because void state was starting to be viewed "too hard" (💀) to get into, literally induced it unintentionally through sats, it was THAT easy. Let's get right into it, I'm gonna start from the very basics, so you can know how sats works and how to actually utilise it :)
1. What exactly is SATS?
It's a deeply relaxed state, a state where you're groggy and drowsy. Like, yk before going to sleep, you hit this one point where you're half dreaming, half awake ish? like you can't (or don't want to) open your eyes, and you're just halfway through drifting off to sleep. That's exactly it! Your subconscious mind is HIGHLY suggestive to literally anything you tell it in this state. You access right before sleeping and right after waking up, and if you use it carefully you could really benefit from it :)
2.! How i Induced the void through SATS and how to relax :)
I actually did not realise relaxing was subjective to everyone until this experience. Let me tell you what happened.
It was a normal day. Like I mentioned above, I had taken a break from tumblr so I just scrolled through youtube. I was tired that day and wanted to sleep, but yk me and my phone addiction lol. So long story short, I saw some video about a beach, and then I just decided to go on pinterest, look at some comforting dark stormy beaches (💙) and some more peaceful shit and just imagined scenarios that RELAXED me. I like visualization and I'm good at it so imagining the scenarios was extremely peaceful. Basically I just looked at them pictures and just imagined sitting or laying there peaceful and relaxed, and other stuff.
Then i re-downloaded tumblr because I couldn't resist, and the first thing I saw was bunch of void success stories from a tumblr blog. They motivated me a lot and improved my mindset towards void, one of them being like "I was tired, so I affirmed, relaxed, felt a sucking feeling and entered", which to me was crazy because I was already tired and relaxed. So I laid down, relaxed, and almost immediately got into the SATS because of how relaxed and tired I was. Then in the sats I started to affirm for the void. And guess what? I felt a sucking feeling, something pulling me in, and then it was total black. I couldn't feel, hear or see a thing. I didn't affirm anything because of how peaceful it felt and forgot I had to do that (😭). When I woke up it motivated me a lot because I just realised how EASY it was and that I proved myself wrong.
Now, how is relaxing subjective? because to me, relaxing was like blindly following a guided meditation. Almost every blog i saw told me to meditate to relax (NO HATE TO ANYONE!!), and I thought meditation was just meditating to some guided meditation on youtube or the typical high frequency breathe in breathe out shit, which made me alien to the idea of meditating, because for me honestly following some youtube video on how to relax just didn't sit with me, because I wasn't even "relaxing". After the experience I realised what relaxing or meditating actually is. It's about discovering your own peace. It doesn't matter what it is.
(p.s. from the same concept I Induced the alpha state, lmk if you want a post on that. And no I did not count from 13 to 1 then 12 to 1, or even count at all).
and that was literally it. Imagining some peaceful scenarios, lying down, immediately getting inside sats and affirming, then inducing. I even entered 1-2 times after in two consecutive nights which boosted my confidence. Guys, it really is that easy.

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ʜᴏᴡ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇ ᴄᴏɴꜰɪᴅᴇɴᴛ ᴘᴛ. 𝟤
1. Upgrade Your Self-Talk
Be Your Own Hype Person – Talk to yourself like you would a friend.
Challenge Negative Thoughts – Ask: Is this really true, or just fear talking?
Use Affirmations – Say things like "I am capable," "I deserve success."
2. Look & Feel Your Best
Dress for Success – Wear clothes that make you feel good.
Grooming Matters – A fresh haircut, skincare, or just standing tall makes a difference.
Exercise & Stay Healthy – Movement boosts energy and self-esteem.
3. Step Into the Spotlight
Speak Up More – In conversations, meetings, or even small social settings.
Take on Challenges – Volunteer for tasks that push you a little.
Learn to Handle Criticism – Take feedback as a way to improve, not as an attack.
4. Master a Skill
Be Really Good at Something – Whether it’s a hobby, work skill, or sport, excelling in one area boosts confidence in others.
Keep Learning – Confidence grows when you feel capable.
5. Visualize Success
Imagine Yourself Winning – Before an event, picture yourself doing great.
Use Positive Memories – Recall past successes to remind yourself of what you're capable of.
6. Keep Showing Up
Confidence Comes with Experience – The more you do, the better you feel.
Don’t Fear Failure – Every confident person has failed a lot. They just kept going.
Stay Patient & Consistent – Change takes time, but small steps lead to huge progress.
Drink water now <3


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Your moon sign and the best manifestation techniques for you
In astrology, your Moon sign represents your inner self: your emotions, intuition, and natural instincts. Unlike your Sun sign, which shows how you present yourself to the world, your Moon sign is all about how you feel and connect to your deeper desires.
Because manifestation is about aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions to bring your dreams into reality, understanding your Moon sign can help you pick a manifestation method that works best for you.
This can also apply to what house your moon is in.



1. Aries Moon
Action-Based Manifestation
If your Moon is in Aries, you’re driven by passion, enthusiasm, and a need for action. Aries Moons often feel things intensely and have a “go-getter” attitude.
Best Method: Physical Action Manifestation
- Set a clear, strong intention for what you want, and then take immediate action toward it.
- Make a vision board or list, but focus more on doing things that bring you closer to your goals.
- Try “energy-boosting rituals,” like lighting a red candle or working out while thinking about your goals.
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2. Taurus Moon
Visualization and Sensory Manifestation
Taurus Moons value stability, comfort, and pleasure. You connect best through physical senses, so you need to feel your manifestation in a tangible way.
Best Method : Sensory Visualization
- Sit in a comfortable space and imagine your dream life with all five senses. Picture the colors, sounds, scents, textures, and even tastes of your goal.
- Use physical objects, like stones, candles, or money, as manifestation symbols.
- Write affirmations about your desires in a journal, and keep them somewhere you see every day.
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3. Gemini Moon
Verbal and Written Manifestation
With a Gemini Moon, you’re naturally communicative, curious, and mentally active. You connect easily with words, making verbal or written manifestation very effective.
Best Method : Journaling and Scripting
- Write about your dreams as if they’re already happening. Describe them in detail, as if telling a story.
- Practice “affirmation speaking,” where you say what you want out loud as if it’s already true.
- Keep a manifestation journal and revisit it daily to keep your thoughts and energy aligned.
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4. Cancer Moon
Emotional and Intuitive Manifestation
Cancer Moons are deeply sensitive and intuitive, meaning you manifest best when you connect to your feelings. You need to feel your desire deeply to believe in it.
Best Method: Emotion-Focused Visualization
- Picture yourself experiencing your goal and focus on how it makes you feel.
- Use moon rituals or water-based activities, like writing your goal on paper and setting it under moonlight.
- Connect with your heart, imagining the joy, peace, and comfort you’ll feel once your dream is real.
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5. Leo Moon
Creative Visualization and Affirmations
If you have a Leo Moon, you’re naturally expressive, confident, and full of warmth. Leo Moons thrive when they bring creativity into manifestation.
Best Method : Creative Visualization with Affirmations
- Use mirror affirmations: say your desires out loud while looking at yourself in the mirror to boost self-confidence.
- Create a vision board with bright, inspiring images and colors that match your goals.
- Visualize yourself shining and receiving praise for achieving your goals, like watching yourself on a stage.
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6. Virgo Moon
Practical Planning and Daily Affirmations
Virgo Moons are detail-oriented, analytical, and practical. You feel best when things are organized and clear, so a structured approach works wonders for you.
Best Method: Goal Setting with Step-by-Step Plans
- Write a detailed plan for each goal, breaking it down into small, achievable steps.
- Use daily affirmations that keep you focused on steady progress.
- Dedicate a “manifestation notebook” where you track your progress and reflect on what’s working.
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7. Libra Moon
Balance, Visualization, and Partnership
Libra Moons value harmony, balance, and connection with others. You manifest best in environments where you feel calm, and often benefit from working with someone else.
Best Method : harmonised Visualization and Partnership Manifestation
- Visualize your goal in a peaceful setting. Think of a serene scene that represents your dream life.
- Use positive affirmations for balance and harmony, like “I attract peaceful, joyful experiences.”
- Consider finding a “manifestation buddy�� to set goals together and support each other.
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8. Scorpio Moon
Deep, Intuitive, and Transformation Rituals
Scorpio Moons feel emotions intensely and are highly intuitive. You connect deeply with transformative and spiritual practices, so you manifest best through focused, powerful rituals.
Best Method : Intense Visualization and Transformation Rituals
- Use candle rituals, incense, or crystals to amplify your manifestation energy.
- Practice “shadow work” — explore hidden desires and be honest about what you truly want.
- Use visualization, imagining yourself completely transformed and in your ideal reality.
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9. Sagittarius Moon
Adventure and Abundance Manifestation
Sagittarius Moons are optimistic, freedom-loving, and drawn to adventure. You need a manifestation method that feels fun, big, and open-minded.
Best Method : Future Vision and Gratitude Practices
- Imagine your goal as an adventure waiting to unfold, feeling the excitement it brings.
- Use gratitude journaling: write down everything you’re grateful for daily, especially things that relate to your dream life.
- Dream big — don’t be afraid to visualize goals that may seem “out of reach” and trust the process.
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10. Capricorn Moon
Goal Setting with a Focused Plan
Capricorn Moons are practical, determined, and ambitious. You manifest best with structured goals and long-term focus, often preferring realistic methods over “magical” approaches.
Best Method : Structured Goal Setting and Visualization
- Set a clear, realistic goal and create a plan of action with deadlines.
- Visualize yourself achieving each milestone and feel the sense of accomplishment.
- Create a “success board” where you note each step you complete, keeping you motivated and focused.
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11. Aquarius Moon
Unique Visualization and Group Manifestation
Aquarius Moons are original thinkers, independent, and open-minded. You thrive with unique, forward-thinking methods, and may enjoy manifesting in a group setting.
Best Method : Creative Visualization and Group Manifesting
- Try out-of-the-box visualization techniques, like drawing or making abstract art that represents your goals.
- Write affirmations on sticky notes around your room, or visualize your dream while listening to uplifting music.
- Manifest with like-minded friends or groups, as shared energy aligns with Aquarius’ love for community.
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12. Pisces Moon
Spiritual and Dream-Based Manifestation
Pisces Moons are dreamy, intuitive, and deeply spiritual. You connect best with manifestation methods that feel magical, gentle, and imaginative.
Best Method : Dream Journaling and Meditation
- Before sleeping, visualize your dreams as if they’re happening right now, letting your imagination flow.
- Keep a dream journal by your bed and write down any insights you get upon waking.
- Use guided meditations or spend time by water (like a lake or river) while focusing on your dreams to enhance your natural intuition
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Manifestation is most powerful when it feels like an authentic extension of you.
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The 'It Girl' Nighttime Routine:
Every chic woman knows that a captivating day starts the night before. This routine is all about luxurious self-care – because waking up as the most poised, radiant version of yourself is a lifestyle. Ready to transform your evening into an elegant ritual? Let’s step into your new, elevated bedtime routine.



Create an Atmosphere: Begin by setting a serene mood. Dim the lights, light a sophisticated candle (think notes of sandalwood or bergamot), and play a calming jazz playlist. This is your time to unwind and transition into a world of serenity.
Sophisticated Cleansing: Start with a cleansing oil to melt away makeup and daily grime. Rinse it off, then follow with a gentle, hydrating cleanser. This double cleanse is like a reset button, leaving your skin ready for its nighttime restoration.
The Hydration Layer: Pat on a luxurious serum – hyaluronic acid, vitamin C, or a skin-renewing elixir. Then, apply a rich night cream. Imagine each layer as a silk robe for your skin, nurturing and hydrating it while you sleep.
Elevated Facial Massage: Use a jade roller or gua sha to massage in your serum. Not only is this relaxing, but it boosts circulation and helps define your natural contours. It’s a moment of quiet elegance – a way to remind yourself of your own grace.
Silk Essentials: Swap your pillowcase for silk. It’s gentle on your skin and hair, reducing friction while you sleep. A chic woman wakes up with smooth skin and effortless hair – because beauty is in the details.
Hair Ritual: Before bed, brush your hair and apply a touch of light hair oil to the ends. Twist it into a low bun or a loose braid for natural waves. It’s a simple yet sophisticated way to keep your hair looking polished in the morning.
The Nightcap: Pour yourself a cup of herbal tea – chamomile, peppermint, or lavender. Sip slowly, feeling the warmth relax your body. A classy woman indulges in these small, soothing rituals to unwind and replenish.
Outfit Planning: Select tomorrow's outfit with intention. Choose pieces that make you feel confident and chic, whether it’s a tailored blazer or that perfect little black dress. Lay everything out: jewelry, shoes, and bag – so your morning flows seamlessly.
Screen Detox: Put your phone on “Do Not Disturb” mode at least 30 minutes before bed. In this quiet time, you’re choosing presence and grace over endless scrolling.
Read Something Timeless: Replace your screen with a classic book or an inspiring magazine. This is how chic women nurture their minds and escape into elegance before drifting off.
Visualize Tomorrow: As you close your eyes, picture yourself waking up refreshed, glowing, and composed. See yourself moving through the day with grace and poise. You’re setting the stage for a day where everything aligns effortlessly.
This is more than a nighttime routine; it’s a ritual of self-respect and refinement. Wake up to your fullest potential, feeling radiant, empowered, and impeccably put-together. Sweet dreams, darling – tomorrow, the world is your runway.
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How to Stop Procrastinating by Managing Your Emotions
Procrastination happens when we delay doing things, and it's often connected to our emotions. Feelings like being afraid to fail, feeling worried or stressed, getting bored, or lacking motivation can all contribute to procrastination. To stop procrastinating and get more things done, it's important to learn how to handle our emotions better.
Boredom:
Break the task into smaller, more engaging sub-tasks.
Find ways to make the task more interesting or challenging.
Set a timer and work on the task for a specific amount of time, followed by a short break doing something enjoyable.
Feeling Overwhelmed:
Prioritize tasks and focus on one thing at a time.
Break the task into smaller, more manageable steps.
Delegate some parts of the task if possible or seek help from others.
Use tools like to-do lists or task management apps to stay organized.
Anxiety:
Practice deep breathing or mindfulness techniques to calm yourself.
Challenge negative thoughts and replace them with more positive and realistic ones.
Start with the easier or less intimidating aspects of the task to build momentum.
Set realistic expectations and remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes.
Self-Doubt:
Focus on past accomplishments and successes to boost your confidence.
Seek support or feedback from others to gain reassurance.
Remind yourself of your skills and capabilities to tackle the task.
Use positive affirmations to counteract negative self-talk.
Perfectionism:
Embrace the concept of "good enough" rather than seeking perfection.
Set realistic and achievable goals for each task.
Recognize that mistakes and imperfections are part of the learning process and growth.
Indecisiveness:
Break decisions into smaller steps and make one small decision at a time.
Set a time limit for making decisions to avoid overthinking.
Trust your instincts and make the best decision you can with the information available.
Apathy or Lack of Interest:
Find aspects of the task that align with your values or long-term goals.
Break the task into smaller, more manageable parts and focus on completing one at a time.
Reward yourself for completing the task to make it more appealing.
Stress or Burnout:
Practice stress-reduction techniques such as meditation, exercise, or spending time in nature.
Break tasks into smaller steps to reduce the feeling of overwhelm.
Prioritize self-care and take breaks to avoid burnout.
Feeling Uninspired or Creatively Blocked:
Engage in activities that stimulate creativity, such as brainstorming, mind mapping, or seeking inspiration from others' work.
Start with a simple and basic version of the task to get the creative juices flowing.
Collaborate with others or seek feedback to gain new perspectives.
Fear of Success:
Identify and challenge the negative beliefs or fears that may be holding you back.
Visualize the positive outcomes of completing the task successfully.
Focus on the benefits and personal growth that come with success.
Impatience:
Break long-term goals into smaller milestones to track progress.
Practice mindfulness to stay present and patient throughout the process.
Remind yourself that progress takes time and effort.
Lack of Confidence:
Celebrate your past accomplishments to boost your confidence.
Seek support and encouragement from friends, family, or mentors.
Focus on building specific skills related to the task to increase confidence.
Avoiding Discomfort:
Acknowledge that discomfort is a natural part of growth and improvement.
Break tasks into smaller steps and tackle the more challenging aspects gradually.
Remind yourself of the long-term benefits of facing discomfort.
Overestimating Future Motivation:
Practice discipline and commit to starting tasks even when motivation is low.
Set specific deadlines for tasks to create a sense of urgency.
Establish a routine that includes regular work on the task to build consistency.
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𐙚 Nct Dream Kinks 𐙚
Genre: Smut MDNI 18+
Mark
• Praise Kink - Mark thrives on hearing you praise him, especially during intimate moments. The way you acknowledge how strong, skilled, and desirable he is makes him feel powerful and boosts his confidence. He loves knowing that you’re completely captivated by him.
• Dirty Talk - Mark can’t get enough of talking dirty to you, and he especially enjoys when you respond in kind. He loves setting the mood with words, and his dirty talk is laced with both affection and command, making you eager to please him.
• Mutual Masturbation - Mark enjoys watching you pleasure yourself, and he loves when you do the same for him. The visual stimulation and intimacy of being vulnerable together while getting each other off turns him on, and it deepens the connection between you both.
• Edging - Mark takes control over your pleasure, bringing you to the brink and holding you there just long enough to make the eventual release even more intense. His control is intoxicating, and the anticipation he creates fuels both his and your desire for the ultimate satisfaction.
Renjun
• Humiliation - Renjun enjoys when he can make you feel small in the most teasing way, pushing your limits while still keeping it playful. Whether it’s gentle teasing or making you admit something naughty, he knows just how far to take it before it becomes too much. The power dynamic in this aspect turns him on, as he loves the control it gives him over you.
• Blindfolds - Renjun loves using blindfolds to enhance the power he has over you. The loss of sight heightens your other senses, making every touch, every whisper, feel more intense. He enjoys watching you squirm as he teases you, knowing that you can’t anticipate what he’ll do next, which makes the experience that much more thrilling.
• Power Play - He loves taking control and putting you in your place, whether it’s through commands or physical dominance. Renjun enjoys when the balance of power shifts and you surrender to him. He finds it incredibly arousing to have you under his command, and he loves exploring every side of this dynamic, making you feel both submissive and adored.
• Overstimulation - He’s all about pushing your limits. Renjun loves taking you past the edge, making you squirm with pleasure, only to pull back right before you hit your peak. He enjoys seeing you desperate and needy, and when he finally lets you release, it’s everything.
Jeno
• Strength kink - Jeno loves how easily he can fold you like a pretzel with his sheer strength. The way he can manipulate your body into any position he desires turns him on. Whether it’s pinning you against the wall or bending you in ways you never imagined, he gets a rush from knowing how much control his strength gives him.
• Breeding kink - Jeno’s protective and dominant nature comes out with this kink. He gets aroused by the idea of claiming you in the most intimate way possible, with the thought of filling you up and marking you as his. It’s about him taking control and enjoying the feeling of having that kind of influence over you.
• Dacryphilia - Jeno is deeply turned on by seeing you in a vulnerable state, particularly when you’re overwhelmed to the point of tears. The emotional intensity of the moment makes him crave you even more, and he feels a sense of pride in being able to push you to that point, all while ensuring you’re safe and cared for in the aftermath.
• Size kink - Jeno loves the way you react to his size. He can’t get enough of the way your body responds to him being bigger and stronger, whether it’s the way you squirm or the way you beg for more. The power dynamic his size creates is something that drives him wild, making him want to push the boundaries even further.
Haechan
• Cunnilingus - Haechan loves pleasuring you with his mouth. The way he makes you squirm under his touch, using his tongue and lips to bring you to the brink of pleasure drives him crazy. He takes his time, savoring every moment of making you come undone. The way you react to his attention between your legs is a huge turn-on for him.
• Face fucking - Haechan loves the feeling of his cock in your mouth. He likes to take control, making you suck him deep and hard. His voice gets rough when he’s in the moment, the sound of him groaning only adding to the intensity. He’ll push you to your limits, encouraging you with dirty words to take it all, knowing it turns you on as much as it does him.
• Voice kink - Both Haechan and you are addicted to each other’s voices. The way he whispers dirty things in your ear or growls your name when he’s close to climax makes you shiver. You love hearing his breath hitch and the way his voice cracks when he’s getting lost in pleasure. When he speaks softly or commands you with that teasing tone, it sends chills down your spine. His voice is your weakness, and he knows exactly how to use it to drive you crazy.
• Creampie - Haechan loves filling you up. The idea of cumming deep inside you is a huge turn-on, and he gets more excited every time he sees the evidence of his pleasure inside you. He’s not shy about showing how much he wants you, and he makes it clear that he’s not holding back when it’s his turn to release.
Jaemin
• Orgasm Denial – Jaemin loves having control over your pleasure. He’ll tease you for hours, bringing you to the edge but never letting you climax. The way you beg for release only excites him more. He enjoys making you wait, the frustration building until you can’t take it anymore. His control over your pleasure is a huge turn-on for him, and he loves to watch you squirm.
• Muscle Kink – Jaemin works hard for his body, and he loves when you admire it. Whether it’s you running your hands over his abs, gripping onto his biceps as he holds you up effortlessly, or just the way you moan about how strong he is—he eats it up. He’ll flex for you, make you feel just how easily he can handle you, and smirk when he sees how much it turns you on.
• Love Making – While Jaemin enjoys rougher moments, he also has a deeply passionate side. He loves slow, sensual sessions where he can worship every inch of you, taking his time to make sure you feel every bit of his love. He’ll whisper sweet nothings in your ear, kiss you like you’re his whole world, and hold you close the entire time. It’s not just about pleasure for him—it’s about connection.
• Praise Kink – Jaemin is always telling you how good you are for him. He loves seeing the way you react when he praises you, whispering sweet affirmations about how perfect you feel, how beautiful you look, and how much he loves making you feel good. He wants you to know just how much he adores every single part of you, and he won’t stop reminding you.
Chenle
• Public Sex – Chenle thrives on the thrill of getting caught, loving the way it heightens the tension and makes every touch feel more electrifying. He enjoys teasing you in risky places, whispering in your ear about how easily someone could walk in and see what belongs to him.
• Degradation – He has a sharp tongue and knows exactly how to use it. He loves putting you in your place, calling you names and making you beg just to see how desperate you can get for him. He’s cruel in the best way, making you feel embarrassed yet so turned on by his harsh words.
• Marking – Chenle makes sure everyone knows you’re his. Hickeys, bite marks, scratches—he loves leaving proof of what he’s done to you. If they fade too quickly, he’ll just have to do it all over again, reminding you exactly who you belong to.
• Hair Pulling – There’s something about the way you react when he tugs on your hair that drives him crazy. Whether he’s guiding your movements or just pulling for the sake of control, he loves the sharp gasp it earns from you and how it makes you even more obedient for him.
Jisung
• Choking - Jisung’s love for choking goes beyond just power; it’s about the control he exerts over you in those vulnerable moments. The feeling of your pulse beneath his fingers as you struggle to breathe, mixed with the sensation of being completely under his command, is something he finds intoxicating. There’s a dangerous thrill in seeing you completely at his mercy, and knowing that every part of you is completely dependent on him. The intimacy in this act is raw, and he thrives on the way it makes both of you feel alive and connected on a deeper level.
• Squirting - For Jisung, there’s nothing more exhilarating than the sight of you losing control. Squirting is an intense experience for both of you, but it’s the way it happens that drives him crazy. He loves the rawness of it — the desperation and pleasure mixed together as he brings you to that point. The feeling of you trembling, your body betraying you in the best way possible, fuels his need to keep pushing your limits. Every time you squirt, he knows it’s because of him, and that power is something he can’t get enough of.
• Breeding - There’s something about the thought of marking you in the most intimate way that excites Jisung. For him, breeding isn’t just about the physical act — it’s about the connection, the sense of ownership, and the deep bond that’s formed in that moment. The idea of leaving his mark on you, knowing you’re completely his, fills him with a sense of pride and satisfaction. It’s a raw expression of dominance and affection, all rolled into one, and he’s completely captivated by how it makes you feel — cherished, desired, and completely claimed.
• Brat Tamer - Jisung loves the challenge of taming you when you’re being bratty. It’s not that he enjoys being bossed around — quite the opposite, actually. But when you test his limits or get a little cheeky, it sparks something inside him. He loves the chase, and the way you push his buttons only makes him want to control you more. He’ll tease, push your boundaries, and make you regret every sassy word or look, but all in a way that makes you crave more. There’s something irresistible about bringing you to the brink of submission, reminding you who’s in charge, and making you feel just how badly you need him to take control.
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Candle Colors: A Beginner's Guide୨ৎ
Candles are a fundamental tool in witchcraft, offering a powerful way to focus energy and intention. Every color carries its own unique vibrations, making it a versatile and customizable element for your magical practices. Let’s explore the meanings behind some common candle colors and how you can incorporate them into your rituals.
Color Meanings in Candle Magic
🕯️ White:
Represents: Purity, peace, clarity, and new beginnings.
Use for: Cleansing, protection, and healing rituals. White candles are also great substitutes for any color if you're short on supplies.
🕯️ Black:
Represents: Banishing negativity, protection, and endings.
Use for: Releasing bad habits, warding off unwanted energy, and grounding during transformative periods.
🕯️ Red:
Represents: Passion, strength, and vitality.
Use for: Love spells, courage, and boosting energy. Perfect for rituals focused on physical desires or personal empowerment.
🕯️ Green:
Represents: Abundance, growth, and connection to nature.
Use for: Prosperity magic, garden blessings, and healing related to the heart.
🕯️ Blue:
Represents: Tranquility, communication, and emotional healing.
Use for: Enhancing intuition, calming conflicts, and strengthening spiritual connection.
🕯️ Yellow:
Represents: Joy, creativity, and mental clarity.
Use for: Studying, attracting inspiration, and boosting self-confidence.
🕯️ Purple:
Represents: Spirituality, psychic abilities, and transformation.
Use for: Enhancing meditation, connecting with higher powers, and deepening magical knowledge.
🕯️ Pink:
Represents: Love, friendship, and harmony.
Use for: Self-care rituals, strengthening bonds, and emotional healing.
🕯️ Orange:
Represents: Energy, enthusiasm, and success.
Use for: Career growth, creative breakthroughs, and manifesting opportunities.
🕯️ Brown:
Represents: Stability, grounding, and connection to the earth.
Use for: Home blessings, financial security, and balancing scattered energy.
How to Use Candle Colors in Practice ✮⋆˙
☽ Set Your Intention:
Decide on your goal for the ritual or spell. Align it with the corresponding candle color.
☽ Cleansing and Charging:
Before lighting, cleanse your candle by passing it through the smoke of sage or incense. Hold it in your hands and visualize your intention, “charging” it with your energy.
☽ Dress the Candle:
Anoint the candle with oil (like olive or lavender oil) while focusing on your intent. This enhances the connection between your energy and the candle's purpose.
☽ Light the Flame:
When you’re ready, light the candle and let it burn completely, if possible. Never leave it unattended,always remember to be safe when working with fire!
Budget-Friendly Candle Tips.☘︎ ݁˖
♡ Use What You Have: Even a white tea light can be infused with powerful intent.
♡ DIY Candle Colors: Wrap colored thread or paper around plain candles to mimic the desired color energy.
♡ Reuse Wax: Collect remnants of old candles to create new ones for future rituals.
Share Your Candle Magic! ୨ৎ
Do you have a favorite candle color or a personal ritual you'd like to share? Comment below, I’d love to see your practice!
✨blessings!
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All About Glamour Magick

Glamour magick is the art of illusion, enchantment, and transformation. It is a form of witchcraft that influences perception, helping you shape how others see you—and how you see yourself. Often associated with beauty spells, glamour magick extends far beyond physical appearance, touching on charisma, confidence, energy projection, and personal empowerment.
What is Glamour Magick?
Glamour magick is the ability to create an aura, illusion, or energy field around yourself to influence perception. This can be subtle (radiating confidence, appearing more attractive) or dramatic (completely shifting how you are perceived in a space).
Key Aspects of Glamour Magick:
• Illusion & Perception – Shaping how others see you.
• Energy Manipulation – Projecting an aura of beauty, mystery, or confidence.
• Psychological Influence – Aligning your actions and appearance with desired outcomes.
• Inner Alchemy – Changing your self-perception and unlocking hidden power.
Glamour magick is not deception—it is a tool of empowerment, allowing you to embody different versions of yourself as needed.
Uses & Applications of Glamour Magick
⭑ Personal Power & Confidence
• Make yourself appear more confident, charismatic, or authoritative in important situations (interviews, speeches, negotiations).
• Command attention when entering a room.
• Enhance self-love by seeing yourself in a new light.

⭑ Beauty & Attraction Spells
• Enhance your natural charm and allure.
• Strengthen magnetic presence, making others drawn to you.
• Boost your radiance and personal style.
⭑ Influence & Social Perception
• Be seen as trustworthy, mysterious, or irresistible depending on the desired effect.
• Appear invisible or unnoticed when needed (useful for avoiding unwanted attention).
• Shift your perceived energy (e.g., appearing powerful in a leadership role, approachable in social settings).
⭑ Spiritual Transformation
• Align with goddesses or deities associated with beauty, wisdom, or seduction (Aphrodite, Freyja, Hekate).
• Use glamour magick for shadow work, integrating hidden parts of yourself.
• Enhance dreamwork and astral projection by shifting your astral form’s appearance.
Methods of Practicing Glamour Magick
Glamour magick can be performed through visualization, ritual, enchanted cosmetics, clothing, perfumes, and energy work.
⭑ Visualization & Energy Work
One of the simplest forms of glamour magick is projecting an aura through visualization.
Example: Confidence Aura Spell
• Close your eyes and breathe deeply.
• Visualize a glowing golden or red aura surrounding you.
• Imagine this energy making you radiate power, beauty, and confidence.
• As you step into a room, picture people noticing and respecting your presence.
⭑ Enchanted Beauty & Self-Care Rituals
Makeup, skincare, and beauty routines can be ritualized and infused with magick.

Ways to Enchant Your Routine:
• Lipstick or Lip Balm Charm: Before applying, whisper:
“With each word I speak, my voice is heard. My words captivate and command.”
• Mirror Enchantment: As you gaze at your reflection, say:
“I see myself as divine, radiant, and powerful.”
• Perfume or Cologne Spell: Anoint yourself with intention: Rose for love, jasmine for sensuality, lavender for peace, cinnamon for attraction and boldness, etc.
⭑ Glamour Through Clothing & Colors
Fashion is a powerful tool in glamour magick. The colors, textures, and styles you wear influence energy and perception.
Color Correspondences in Glamour Magick:
• Red – Power, confidence, passion, boldness.
• Black – Mystery, protection, authority.
• White – Purity, elegance, divine energy.
• Pink – Soft attraction, friendship, charm.
• Green – Wealth, prosperity, health.
• Blue – Calm, wisdom, trustworthiness.
Example: Enchanted Clothing Ritual
• Hold the clothing item and infuse it with intention (e.g., a red dress for power, a black cloak for invisibility).
• Say:
“As I wear this, I become the energy I invoke. I walk with power, I shine with radiance.”
⭑ The Art of Presence & Body Language
Your posture, eye contact, and movement influence how people perceive you.
• Stand tall and move with purpose.
• Maintain eye contact to assert confidence.
• Slow, intentional movements exude mystery and grace.
• A well-timed smile can captivate and disarm.
Glamour Magick Exercise:
• Imagine a golden thread pulling your spine upright, making you appear poised.
• Envision a soft glow around your face that makes you radiant.

Glamour Magick Spells & Rituals
⭑ Magnetic Attraction Spell
To draw attention and admiration.
Needed:
• A red or pink candle
• Rose or jasmine essential oil
• A small mirror
Instructions:
Carve your name into the candle. Anoint it with essential oil while saying:
“As this flame burns, so does my allure. Eyes turn, hearts stir, my presence is known.”
Light the candle and stare into the mirror. Envision your aura glowing and expanding, making you irresistible. Let the candle burn down. Carry the mirror with you for continued effect.
⭑ Invisibility Spell
To avoid unwanted attention.
Needed:
• A black candle
• A smoky quartz or obsidian crystal
• A small black cloth
Instructions:
Light the black candle and hold the crystal. Whisper:
“Shadow cloak, silence veil, unseen I move, unheard I sail.”
Visualize your aura dimming, blending into the background. Wrap the crystal in the black cloth and carry it for continued effect.
Glamour magick is a form of self-empowerment, transformation, and energy work. Whether through enchanted beauty rituals, confidence spells, or aura manipulation, this practice allows you to embrace your divine presence and radiate power.

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Visualization for Boosting Confidence and Self-Esteem
Visualization for Boosting Confidence Welcome to the exploration of an empowering journey: utilizing visualization to enhance self-confidence and self-esteem. In this post, we’ll delve into the foundational aspects of visualization and its profound impact on self-assurance and self-worth. Keep reading to discover the power of visualization for boosting confidence. The Power of…
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7 ways to reprogram your subconscious mind 🍂



learning to control your subconscious mind is a critical component of lifelong success. your subconscious mind influences your habits and behaviors, and is basically the reason of why you are who you are today. here’s 7 ways to successfully reprogram and control your subconscious for the better:
positive affirmations. repeat affirmations each day like, “i am not my past. each day is a new day to start fresh.” “i am aligned with the frequency of growth and favor.” “i welcome abundance into my life.” or “i am no longer available for struggle, i only welcome success.” these positive affirmations transform your mindset and help to overcome negative beliefs. repeating affirmations daily can reinforce positive energy and boost self confidence within. focus on aligning your thoughts with positive outcomes!
visualization. the more you visualize your mind’s eye and accept an event or achievement as a potential reality, the more easily your subconscious mind will align with the behaviors towards achieving that reality. spend time each day in visualization for a minimum of 10 minutes, thinking as your dream self. it is very helpful to use your five senses to guide you. think thoughts like what fragrance is my dream self wearing?, what kind of breakfast does my dream self have?, or what does my dream self spend time doing?
subliminal audios and videos. try 30 minutes each day for at least 4 weeks. it is highly recommended to listen to these audios first thing in the morning or when you lay your head down at night. subliminal videos are available on youtube from a wide range of creators, but i highly suggest listening to ‘Mary Kate’ or ‘Lisa Alexandra’. these videos offer several benefits that improve aspects of your life. these include, targeting your subconscious mind and reinforcing positive beliefs, reducing stress, bettering emotional wellbeing, and improving mental clarity.
meditation. including meditation in your daily routine is a valuable tool to controlling your subconscious mind. there are many ways to effectively practice meditation such as, mindfulness meditation by focusing on your breath, mantra meditation by using affirmations, movement meditation with yoga, visualization meditation by imagining a desired reality vividly using all 5 senses, body scan meditation by imagining a gentle wave flowing through your body, or spiritual meditation by talking to a higher power. choose which feels most comfortable to you.
controlling your will and habits. move beyond what you know and adapt good habits. do what is fulfilling to your soul and avoid what is draining to your body. read a new book each month, eat healthier, let go of bitterness. do not act on negative thoughts or lazy mindsets. intentionally choose each day to do what is right such as, expressing gratitude before complaining or showing compassion instead of judgement. each step in the right direction counts!
auto suggestions. consciously tell yourself that you will commit to something or accomplish a goal. positive statements, repetition and visualization is the key to achieving a successful outcome. use statements such as, “I will wake up early.” “I will put myself first.” “I will work towards becoming the best me I can be.”
talk to a higher power. aim to be open and connect daily with God, Allah, the Universe, etc. and have faith that you are being supported and loved no matter what. life is always working for you and with you, never against you. by investing in a higher power with good intentions, you can be healed, calm and balanced in your mind and life. each person’s experience is unique but we all need guidance.
overall, having a healthy subconscious mind is a great way to attract the life you desire and deserve. by intentionally following the right steps and staying on the right path, there is no way you can fail. i wish all of us the best success that aligns with our minds in the most beautiful ways! 🤎
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The Charisma Myth: things that I liked

Three quick tips to gain an instant charisma boost in conversation:
Lower the intonation of your voice at the end of your sentences. Reduce how quickly and how often you nod.
Pause for two full seconds before you speak.
The very next time you’re in a conversation, try to regularly check whether your mind is fully engaged or whether it is wandering elsewhere (including preparing your next sentence).
Expensive clothing leads us to assume wealth, friendly body language leads us to assume good intentions, a confident posture leads us to assume the person has something to be confident about. In essence, people will tend to accept whatever you project.
when you can project both power and warmth together, you really maximize your personal charisma potential.
charismatic behaviors must originate in your mind. Knowing how to skillfully handle mental discomfort is even more important than knowing how to handle physical discomfort. Anxiety is a serious drawback to charisma. First, it impacts our internal state: quite obviously, it’s hard to be fully present while you’re feeling anxious. Anxiety can also lower our confidence. Anxiety, low presence, and low confidence can show up directly in our body language, as well as reduce our ability to emanate warmth.
The single most effective technique I’ve found to alleviate the discomfort of uncertainty is the responsibility transfer. Pick an entity—God, Fate, the Universe, whatever may best suit your beliefs—that you could imagine as benevolent. Imagine lifting the weight of everything you’re concerned about—this meeting, this interaction, this day—off your shoulders and placing it on the shoulders of whichever entity you’ve chosen. They’re in charge now. Visually lift everything off your shoulders and feel the difference as you are now no longer responsible for the outcome of any of these things. Everything is taken care of. You can sit back, relax, and enjoy whatever good you can find along the way.
Golfer Jack Nicklaus said that he never hit a shot, even during practice, without visualizing it first. For decades, professional athletes have considered visualization an essential tool, often spending hours visualizing their victory, telling their mind just what they want their body to achieve.
“There is good evidence that imagining oneself performing an activity activates parts of the brain that are used in actually performing the activity,” Professor Stephen Kosslyn, director of Stanford’s Center for Advanced Study in the Behavioral Sciences, wrote me. Visualization can even physically alter the brain structure: repeated experiments have shown that simply imagining yourself playing the piano with sufficient repetition leads to a detectable and measurable change in the motor cortex of the brain.
Silvia recently confided that visualization is one of the secrets to her success. Before key meetings, she’ll imagine “the smiles on their faces because they liked me and they are confident about the value I’m bringing them. I’ll imagine as much detail as I can, even seeing the wrinkles around their eyes as they’re smiling.” She visualizes the whole interaction, all the way through to the firm handshakes that close the meeting, sealing the deal.
A twenty-second hug is enough to send oxytocin coursing through your veins, and that you can achieve the same effect just by imagining the hug. So the next time you’re feeling anxious, you might want to imagine being wrapped up in a great big hug from someone you care about.
Self-confidence is our belief in our ability to do or to learn how to do something.
Self-esteem is how much we approve of or value ourselves. It’s often a comparison-based evaluation (whether measured against other people or against our own internal standards for approval).
Self-compassion is how much warmth we can have for ourselves, especially when we’re going through a difficult experience.
It’s quite possible for people to have high self-confidence but low self-esteem and very low self-compassion.
Types of charisma:
Focus: Focus charisma requires, of course, the ability to focus and be truly present. Good listening skills are nonnegotiable, as is a certain degree of patience. To develop focus charisma, cultivate your ability to be present.
Visionary charisma makes others feel inspired; it makes us believe. It can be remarkably effective even though it won’t necessarily make people like you. We assess visionary charisma primarily through demeanor, which includes body language and behavior. Due to the fact that people tend to accept whatever you project, if you seem inspired, they will assume you have something to be inspired about.
kindness charisma comes entirely from body language—specifically your face, and even more specifically your eyes. Kindness charisma is primarily based on warmth. It connects with people’s hearts, and makes them feel welcomed, cherished, embraced, and, most of all, completely accepted.
Authority charisma is primarily based on a perception of power: the belief that this person has the power to affect our world. We evaluate someone’s authority charisma through four indicators: body language, appearance, title, and the reactions of others. you’ll need to learn how to “take up space” with your posture, reduce nonverbal reassurances (such as excessive nodding), and avoid fidgeting. You may need to speak less, to speak more slowly, to know how and when to pause your sentences, or how to modulate your intonation. Look expensive.
Avoid holding a drink in your right hand, especially if it’s a cold drink, as the condensation will make your hand feel cold and clammy. Before shaking someone’s hand, whether you are a man or a woman, rise if you’re seated. And keep your hands out of your pockets: visible hands make you look more open and honest. Make sure to use plenty of eye contact, and smile warmly but briefly: too much smiling could make you appear overeager. Keep your head straight, without tilting it in any way, and face the person.
Ask people open ended questions, focus on questions that will likely elicit positive emotions. With your questions, you have the power to lead the conversation in the direction you want. In fact, even when you’re speaking, the one word that should pop up most often in your conversation is not I but you. Instead of saying “I read a great article on that subject in the New York Times,” try “You might enjoy the recent New York Times article on the subject.” Or simply insert “You know...” before any sentence to make them instantly perk up and pay attention.
Another way to exit a conversation with grace is to offer something of value:
Information: an article, book, or Web site you think might be of use to them A connection: someone they ought to meet whom you know and can introduce them to
Visibility: an organization you belong to, where you could invite them to speak
Recognition: an award you think they should be nominated for
When someone has spoken, see if you can let your facial expression react first, showing that you’re absorbing what they’ve just said and giving their brilliant statement the consideration it deserves. Only then, after about two seconds, do you answer. The sequence goes like this:
They finish their sentence
Your face absorbs
Your face reacts
Then, and only then, you answer
The next time you’re given a compliment, the following steps will help you skillfully handle the moment:
1. Stop.
2. Absorb the compliment.
3. Let that second of absorption show on your face. Show the person that they’ve had an impact.
4. Thank them. Saying “Thank you very much” is enough, but you can take it a step further by thanking them for their thoughtfulness or telling them that they’ve made your day.
It’s not just metaphors that can paint the wrong picture. Some common phrases can have the same effect. When you tell someone, “No problem,” “Don’t worry,” or “Don’t hesitate to call,” for example, there’s a chance their brain will remember “problem,” “worry,” or “hesitate” instead of your desire to support them. To counter this negative effect, use phrases like “We’ll take care of it” or “Please feel free to call anytime.”
You can deliver value to others in multiple ways:
Entertainment: Make your e-mail or meeting enjoyable.
Information: Give interesting or informative content that they can use.
Good feelings: Find ways to make them feel important or good about themselves.
The longer you speak, the higher the price you’re making them pay, so the higher the value ought to be.
If your goal is to communicate power, set the pitch, tone, volume, and tempo of your voice in the following ways:
Pitch and tone: The lower, more resonant, and more baritone your voice, the more impact it will have.
Volume: One of the first things an actor learns to do on stage is to project his voice, which means gaining the ability to modulate its volume and aim it in such a targeted way that specific portions of the audience can hear it, even from afar. One classic exercise to hone your projection skills is to imagine that your words are arrows. As you speak, aim them at different groups of listeners.
Tempo: A slow, measured tempo with frequent pauses conveys confidence.
To emanate vocal warmth, you need to do only one thing: smile, or even just imagine smiling.
Charismatic people are known to be more “contagious”; they have a strong ability to transmit their emotions to others.
The most effective and credible compliments are those that are both personal and specific. For instance, instead of “Great job,” you could say, “You did a great job,” or, better yet, “The way you kept your calm when that client became obnoxious was impressive.”
Here’s one specific—and surprisingly effective—recommendation for phone charisma, courtesy of author Leil Lowndes: Do not answer the phone in a warm or friendly manner. Instead, answer crisply and professionally. Then, only after you hear who is calling, let warmth or even enthusiasm pour forth in your voice. This simple technique is an easy and effective way to make people feel special. I recommend it to all my business clients whose companies have a strong customer service component. The gains in customer satisfaction are impressive.
Charisma takes practice. Steve Jobs, who appeared so masterful on stage, was known to rehearse important presentations relentlessly.
Retain at least a certain measure of equanimity. Most charismatic leaders are known for their ability to remain (or appear) calm even in the midst of turbulent circumstances.
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Achieving a goal takes planning, discipline, and persistence.
Set a Clear Goal – Be specific about what you want to achieve. Instead of "get fit," say "lose 10 pounds in 3 months" or "run a 5K in 8 weeks."
Break It Down – Divide your goal into smaller, manageable steps. This makes it less overwhelming and helps track progress.
Set a Deadline – A timeline keeps you accountable. Without a deadline, it's easy to procrastinate.
Make a Plan – Outline daily or weekly actions to move toward your goal. Having a roadmap makes execution easier.
Stay Consistent – Success comes from small efforts repeated over time. Stay committed, even when motivation fades.
Track Progress – Keep a journal, use an app, or create a visual tracker. Seeing progress boosts motivation.
Stay Accountable – Share your goal with a friend, mentor, or support group who can check in on you.
Overcome Obstacles – Expect setbacks and plan solutions in advance. Flexibility and resilience are key.
Visualize Success – Picture yourself achieving your goal. This boosts confidence and keeps you focused.
Reward Yourself – Celebrate small wins along the way to stay motivated and reinforce positive behavior.
Remember take care of yourself <3


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Wilson Books
TL;DR: Good books are good! Links!
Cheltenham in Antarctica – Biography of Edward A. Wilson, amply illustrated, correct in its quotations where Seaver took some editorial liberties. The paperback is only available used; a very very nice deluxe leatherbound edition in a slipcase can be ordered direct from the publisher.
Discovery Illustrated – A coffee-table sized treasure trove of the rarer or otherwise unavailable images depicting the whole of the Discovery Expedition (1901-04). The actual book is nicer than the image there, which is a promo leaflet and not the cover. Also available used.
Nimrod Illustrated – Same but for the Nimrod Expedition (1907-09)
Edward Wilson's Nature Notebooks – Same sort of big juicy edition, but of Wilson's sketches, paintings, and observations of natural subjects in more temperate climes.
Edward Wilson's Antarctic Notebooks are also a thing (a glorious thing) but they're not presently available on the publisher's site or on World of Books.
Terra Nova Illustrated – Keep reading ...
Nonfiction bookselling is an unforgiving place. If you want to publish your research, you either have to convince a publisher that there's a market for it and tailor your output to the lowest common denominator, or publish academically where maybe a few dozen people will see it at best. The middle ground is going with a tiny independent press – even a vanity press – and hoping your book finds the people who are into the subject enough to appreciate something detailed and esoteric, with no marketing budget. This is where the real nerd gold is, but it's hard to source, often our of print, and with no economies of scale, expensive.
David M. Wilson, great-nephew of Our Bill, has been putting together books on Antarctic history – most, but not all, having to do with his predecessor – and these are full of stuff you will not find anywhere else. In order not to compromise on content or depth, he's published through a one-person outfit in the West Country which, aside from the digital printing, operates in roughly 1998. Sales are slow; neither of them are on social media and the books are too esoteric for most bookshops to stock.
David is currently working on the latest in his Illustrated series, and it's the big one – Terra Nova. Because of his unique connections with institutions and expedition families worldwide, it's going to be an assemblage of images that you likely haven't seen before – the whole point of it is to fill the gaps in the visual record, and oh boy there's some good stuff in there. (I have been occasionally consulting on Guy IDs and I can vouch for this.) But his publisher is hemming and hawing about his previous Illustrated books not selling well. Obviously Terra Nova Illustrated is going to be the most successful of the bunch (at least until he comes out with Endurance) but in order to give his publisher a little more confidence it would be great to shift some of the backlist.
As I am on social media, I offered to signal boost a link to the online shop, but whoa the website is terrible and that may explain why they're not selling anything. I have now taken the trouble to take you to the shop pages for each individual book, and also link you to new and used copies on World Of Books, which is kind enough to kick a little back to the author even on used copies. They also have a slightly more modern website.
Shipping in A.D. 2025 is not making anything easier, but polar fandom is a cooperative bunch, and it may be possible for multiple people in one country to group their orders and divide the combined shipping. This ought to work out cheaper for everyone than each person individually paying full price to ship from the UK.
Let's make Terra Nova Illustrated look like more of a commercial prospect!
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