#and im not tryna start discourse

[strangled-with-a-halo]

tagging a metalcore/posthc artist with zero dance punk/new wave/noise rock influence as sass is honestly transphobic like just say you think she sounds like a faggot

[hmmbo]

not all machines are girls!!! some are boys!! some can just be genderless!! there are so many options the world is your oyster!!!

[itsbebebrainrotting]

Me when i remember how the "beef" involving sunny and tallulah/leo involved sunny constantly reaching out to them and trying to be friends with them.

[saulathan]

it's funny that you chose to ignore the ask where I point out that you were literally SPAMMING people's inboxes for your "funny haha" joke. your art is really good, it's a shame you're hiding.

i was gonna answer that earlier but fergot, oops haha... i genuienly dont mean to harrass or spam anyone, i triedta ask people once but i accidently ended up, probably askin em multiple times!! I dont mean no harm at alll n its just a harmless joke where i ask people to draw dirk strider doin somethin!! Ive asked people n they agree its not harrasmennt!! If yer offended by my joke, im sorry! But i seriously dont mean any harm n if you dont like the lil joke, you could ifnore it? Not tryna be passive aggresive, i just dont wanna cause discourse around "saulathan" er somethin haha!! I think its genuienly really sweet n cool to see all the cool art about dirk strider eatin a ice cream sandwich/cookie!! I love seein all the different art styles n renditions of him! It started as a small joke with me friend but its realllyyyy awesome to see yall draw amazin stuff with a silly prompt!! But seriously, if ya dont like my ask, please ignore it! Dont let yerself stress over a guy on the internet!! Its not offensive er anythin, im sorry if i offended anyone! Im workin on my own lil art fer the dirk epidemic!! I think its a lighthearted lil joke that happened that ended up sweet!! ^_^ sincerelllyyy, saulathan!!!!!!! edit: i always thank people n im truly grateful that people even take their time outta their day to draw this prompt, i seriously mean no harm, all good!!!

[freak-shcw]

🎠 Welcome to our freakshow ! ~

We are the freakshow system! We’re just here to interact with people alike, be open and have fun on the internet! :D

Our collective name is Porcha! but we’d appreciate if you used individual alter names rather than porcha for us all! ^ ^

Bodily 18, collectively he/they prns and any terms are appreciated! :}

not too sure what our gender or sexuality is collectively, we just exist lol

We are a polyfrag did system (traumagenic)!

((We are fictive heavy ^_^))

We have autism + ADHD. We won’t be listing any other disorders but we feel as if saying those two would help people understand us a little more!

We do not owe anyone any explanations!

basic dni criteria (im lazy). This will go both ways. I’ll block you if you’re on my dni. You mind your business and we’ll mind ours!

Any harassment, insults, hateful shit, people tryna start syscourse, etc. will be insta-blocked! any discourse actually! we are generally neutral(?) stance to most things that aren’t harmful. that includes transids (<- harmful ids are on thin ice generally because i’ve heard they arent really acted upon), non-harmful paras (<- if harmful then very very anti-contact + pro-recovery plus i wont be interacting with you), proshipper, profic, etc.

we just dont like actual people being harmed + affected in anyway! we remain neutral because we feel identifying any specific way will create a divide.. and we dont want that!

We won’t be listing alters or the like (high alter count), we will just sign off with names + prns on posts/reblogs.

(dividers belong to @cafekitsune + we cant remember who the sysboxes belong to. If anyone knows plz let us know asap!)

[doniisuar]

I hate the online LGBT community and I hate how y'all treat trans men. I wish I knew gay people irl, everything feels so bullshit online and most of the time doesn't apply to real life. Like I really dare you tell me what you think I am to my face, I will laugh at you because first of all, I don't know you, second of all, who do YOU think you are tryna tell me what I am?? As if you could ever know me better than I know my damn self??? I'm still figuring my shit out so wtf makes you think you've already got me figured out??? YOU don't even have yourself figured out and that's not a bad thing, we're forever growing and changing but don't bitch at me for it, don't be pissed off at me for discovering myself and my own damn body and calling myself things that have nothing to do with you.

Right now, I am a transmasc/nonbinary man and nobody can tell me otherwise because y'all niggas don't know me at all and I don't really want y'all to anymore, maybe we should know each other less on the Internet bro. I really can't stand y'all fr, not everyone on the Internet of course but a LOT of y'all. Got me stressing out on my own phone bro it's embarrassing for me. All this discourse y'all do too, who do you think you're helping??? What are you doing???? It's not gonna do shit 99% of the time because y'all aren't arguing so you can learn or teach others, you're arguing so you can be right and get the last word in. It's annoying to watch.

I want a real sense of community, I really do and certain places on the Internet have that until they become too popular and then suddenly a bunch of drama starts in those circles and ruins everything, like right now I'm on NOCD and I'm hoping so hard that nothing comes up and a bunch of people start arguing with each other about a "popular" NOCD user doin this and that and somehow we ALL in it so we all gotta talk about it, suddenly you gotta denounce that person in the group or else you'll look like a weirdo creep that sides with em and its EXHAUSTING. IM TIRED.

[mint-yooxgi]

YELLING about that anon because what the actual HELL 💀💀💀

This is not me tryna start discourse in your inbox or anything I promise, but I actually HATE most yandere's i see because I'm so tired of seeing abuse of any types against women in media being claimed to be 'hOt and rOmAnTiC' 🤢 which is why i loved and appreciated hotel california so much because i love love love obsessive possessive ill destroy the world for you love interests like yes please be so obsessed with me!!!!!!! idk we can have all that and MORE without the woman being subjected to horrible shit it's just as hot im sorry 💀

Im reading the second part (i forgot the name im SORRY 😭) and imo the guys' behavior is still 💀🤔 sometimes and im cool with that LMAO like yandere and tsunderes and all that isnt just one thing or another like you SAID so anon needs to relax like imagine getting so mad over a fanfic lol

Just keep doing you my friend! You're working on a commission right? Hope that's going along well for you!!!!!

Oh, believe me, Anon, you're not the only one who doesn't enjoy those types of yanderes. It's one of the reasons I write mine the way I do now. That, and it just gets so boring and repetitive to see that as the only interpretation of a yandere in my opinion. It's... not fun to write if it's all the same. At least for me.

I really appreciate you sending me such a sweet ask, and I could not agree more with what you've said about women's abuse being glorified and romanticized in media. I can't stand that.

Lmaooo literally, imagine getting so heated about a FREE fan fiction on a FREE webbed site.

Thank you so much for your support, it really means a lot to me! The commission is going well, the hiatus is definitely helping me focus on it more, so I might be gone a little longer than I said, but we'll see how it goes!

I hope you have a lovely day, and happy reading!!

[divamaryandjoseph]

bts post, non army mutuals can ignore 💋💋💋

LISTEN !! im ot7 and everything and i love and miss yoongi too…but how come on every video ive seen of seokjin’s return all the comments are like “where’s yoongi?” “yoongi rlly meant see yall in 2025” “yoongi yoongi yoongi” YALL. THIS AINT ABOUT YOONGI !!! i have been waiting since december for seokjin to come back and all yall can do is wonder where tf yoongi is. im not tryna start any discourse, i love yoongi sm, but omfg yall cant yall be grateful that we finally have jin back ?? like FAWK !

[tornad001]

how u perceive ur own gendered experience is kinda irrelevant to my point. once u start talking about it, ur back in the same language game as everyone else. gender theory is just as much a philosophy of language as it is a philosophy of gender.

and again, i acknowledge that the notes ur pointing out r transphobic. that's why i think it's important to correctly identify the problem, which is their assumption that if something is performative its therefore inconsequential. which you even appear to agree with seeing as u felt the need to add the "(just)". because nobody would take issue with saying the almost tautological statement that "calling yourself a woman is a performative title". because the problem isn't that gender is performative or that woman is a title, its the denigration of performativity - its presumed inauthenticity.

i know im being kinda pedantic but it's fucking tumblr so whatever, im not tryna attack u. and i agree with ur post overall, its relatively measured and its a damn good critique. im just pointing out the one weak point i noticed. yadda yadda discourse and all that

I'd like to talk for a bit about the genre of post that's like "sure you're a boygirl fagdyke genderfreak but do you respect [trans identity]?" I think these sorts of posts do address a lot of important points, such as:

Even if you're genderqueer and going "gender isn't real! smash the binary!" there's a real possibility you haven't unlearned or might still be upholding some very transphobic sentiments, and you should do some introspection about that

Some people only want acceptance for their trans identity but don't want to do the work to deconstruct what gender looks like, stop holding other people to their own gendered expectations, and unlearn their internalized bigotry about different trans identities

Sometimes the [trans identity] is specifically relevant to the identities referenced, such as people who will do surface level acceptance of "boygirls" but then call multigender people problematic for using "contradictory" terms like male lesbian, or asking "are you normal about intersex people?" to point out the prevalent intersexism in the multigender community.

But if the [trans identity] or intersex identity being asked about isn't related to multigender community issues, it seems a little strange to consistently single out labels like boygirl and fagdyke that tend to be used by multigender people in these posts. All kinds of trans people can be transphobic about other trans identities. All kinds of trans people are capable of fighting for their own acceptance but not anyone else's. But these posts are pretty frequently just about boygirl fagdykes.

It reminds me of posts about a "theyfab named Sock being transmisogynistic." Are there transmisogynistic FTX nonbinary people? Yes, no one is immune from perpetuating transmisogyny. But these types of posts are still exorsexist.

Similarly, though I'm not saying the pattern of "sure you're a boygirl fagdyke genderfreak but do you respect [trans identity]" is necessarily exorsexist or transmultiphobic, since like I said they do address important points, some of which actually are multigender community issues. But people do use those types of posts to be really transmultiphobic and exorsexist, but in an "acceptable" way, because the boygirls are transphobic so it's okay to hate them.

Some examples in the notes of this sort of post asking 'are you normal about trans women?":

This assumes that multigender identities are only an online thing, only a young person thing, that all multigender people look cis in real life, that no multigender person has experienced real transphobia.

Again, this assumes that no multigender person "looks like a freak" for their gender, that they never struggle with transphobia offline. And straight up saying they have a "huge issue" with girlboy genders.

Multigender labels aren't "performative titles," they're our genders. This person is just straight up admitting they think our genders are fake, that they're only "titles" and not real fucking identities.

"I tend to Not like multigender people" okay so we're just saying the quiet part out loud now

By all means, keep talking about intracommunity transphobia. It's important. But don't throw multigender people under the bus to do so.

[whumpwillow]

You ever feel like this?

{no discourse}

[bireggiemantle]

[americanphysco]

which hsm movie do yall think is the worst. there is a right answer.

[codariidoescrimes]

Time to post more star wars opinions that alienate absolutely everybody jk jk

hi i’m arden and i ship sith warrior x jaesa wilsaam BUT only with them both lightsided and only in kotet onwards

look..... there is NO way dark side jaesa x swarrior is ANY kind of healthy under ANY circumstances.... literally in canon on the dark side route you murdered her parents and MULTIPLE of her mentors to turn her to the dark side it’s Big Fucked Up and I massively side eye anyone who is into that (espc if they think L!Jaesa is “boring”)

anyways one day I’ll make that followup post on the parallels btwn jaesa and a ls!f!sw that i’ve been promising for like 6 months but the short version is, by the time the two of you are reunited post KOTET she’s had.... 5? 7? years to exist as a person independent of ur swarrior and to explore her own relationship with the force AND in the cutscene SHE initiates it, leaving your swarrior to reciprocate or not which.... the fact that she’s an active participant who has had time to grow as a person outside of your influence just makes the whole situation something that definitely has some fucked up elements in the past (you did still ya kno.... hunt her down and convince her to leave the jedi order, even without it being as brutal and cruel as the DS!route) but is a lot more palpable to me as something that has the potential (whether it works out that way or not)

also like... it’s about time we got a f/f love interest who isnt evil (sorry lana stans but she is SO dark and i like her as a character but.... she’s not the most compatible with light leaning individuals even fellow sith)

[cayatelynn]

I gotta say when im saying idc who you ship i truly mean that (outside of certain circumstances) but i dont understand being anti c/a and then shipping g/c

Like yes i also think g/c is fun! I like it! Same with c/a, g/a and c/g/a but antis saying they don't ship c/a for reasons that could also be applied to g/c

Idk it don't make no sense to me chiefs

[spopz]

in light of recent events......... like don't get me wrong i love the spop crew but i REALLY wish they would give us official ages. like that would clear up so much confusion......... i dont care for shipping discourse i do NOT but i dont think its unfair for ppl to be asking like. whats going on

[hyperfixationtimego]

I feel like y’all have gotta be able to differentiate between purposely funny and stereotypical lgbt songs in musicals (i.e, “Gay or European,” “I Love My Dead Gay Son,”) and blatantly homophobic and unnecessary songs or lyrics (for example, “but not because we’re gay, etc. etc.”)

There’s a difference between writers making fun of misguided stereotypes and writers actively reminding us that being gay is embarrassing/something to be ashamed of ://