#mbti relationships

[your-favorites-mbti]

Example of an ISFJ-ISTP romantic relationship: Golden Garden

ISFJs (Willow) primarily look for authentic, emotional connections. As a result, they have a need to feel deeply connected to their partner, and they enjoy figuring out ISTPs (Hunter). 

ISFJs have a natural talent for reading people and noticing subtle changes in body language and ISTPs tend to find this emotional intelligence attractive, as ISTPs appreciate partners who can help them get in touch with their feelings because this doesn’t come naturally to people of this personality type.

Both personality types are practical and down to earth. 

ISTPs and ISFJs are both introverted, Sensing personalities, meaning they are reserved, pragmatic, and focused on the here and now. However, ISTPs are generally more logical and adaptable, while ISFJs are empathetic and organized.

[mbtiblogfun]

MBTI INFP romantic pairings and couples:

Lol yes it’s back! A lot of people seemed to really like those posts, so I thought I'd do an update since I found a couple more examples recently. However this time I'm gonna compile them all into this one post instead doing individual all over again lol. I compiled a pretty good list so I hope you guys like it! Also Happy 69th post! Woohoo! 🥳 (Yes I’m childish like that lmao)

Carlos de Vil (INFP) and Jane (ISFJ) - Descendants

Ashlynn Ella (INFP) and Hunter Huntsman (ISFP) - Ever After High

Sybil Crawley (INFP) and Tom Branson (ENTP) - Downtown Abbey

Furukawa Nagisa (INFP) and Okazaki Tomoya (ISFP) - Clannad

Allison Cameron (INFP) and Gregory House (INTJ) - House M.D

(I was hesitant to put this one bc they technically weren't really ever a thing but they did have feelings for each other)

Allison Cameron (INFP) and Robert Chase (ISTP) - House M.D

Allen Ginsberg (INFP) and Lucien Carr (ENFP) - Kill Your Darlings

I was hesitant to include them as well because they have a complex relationship, but I don't wanna spoil lol. So for those of you who do know what I mean, I'd honestly just say it depends on your pov (like with house and cameron).

Agustin (INFP) and Julieta (ISFJ) Madrigal - Encanto

Cameron James (INFP) and Bianca Stratford (ESFJ) - 10 Things I Hate About You

Izumi Miyamura (INFP) and Kyouko Hori (ESFJ) - Horimiya

Kou Sakuragi (INFP) and Naoya Nifuji (ENFJ) - Wotaki

**Note, I think most of their screen time together as a couple is in the OVA

Dorthy Boyd (INFP) and Jerry Maguire (ESFJ/ENFJ)

It's been a while since I've seen the movie but ik he's def Fe dom.

Mia Thermopolis (INFP) and Michael Moscovitz (ISFP) - Princess Diaries

Mia Thermopolis (INFP) and Nicholas Devereaux (ESTP) - Princess Diaries 2

Alrighty that's it for now lol

Let me know what you think! :) Feel free to share any thoughts or recommendations!

[mbtimyths]

What do you think about the ISTP x INFJ pairing?? How do you think their dynamic could be?? Thank you! 💕

Hi Anon!!

Well lucky for you, I am an INFJ who had a 2 year relationship with an ISTP. I've reflected on our time as partners in these posts:

How ISTPs can do better when paired with INFJs

How INFJs can do better when paired with ISTPs

My (INFJ) relationship story with an ISTP

and for fun, a meme.

I hope these provide some insight! However, I suspect you were looking for less of a personal reflection and moreso a socionics analysis, so here's that:

Each the reverse inverse of the other's ego, ISTPs and INFJs are partners and playmates. In the expanded theory of Myers-Briggs, this pairing is known as "Supplement", and in Socionics its denominated "Activation".

This pairing can resemble complements; however, these relations are somewhat less fulfilling (hence "supplementary" rather than "complementary"). Activation relationships are often romantic if both partners find each other attractive. These relationships are often very easy to start, as both partners share either extraversion or introversion. Introvert activation relationships appear reserved.(a)

When presented with the same scenario, Supplement pairs will begin reasoning from different angles but ultimately follow the same logic. It's like racing the same track but starting from opposite sides of the loop; they arrive at the same conclusion by retracing each other's path, ending up in agreement but for different reasons.

For ISTPs and INFJs, this is likely to lead to both mutual appreciation and fascination. They find each other's perspectives useful for connecting the dots. Their constructive rapport and unique affinity makes them good partners in both work and play; while they don't quite balance each other like yin and yang, they do fit together and finish each other, like yin and upsidedown yin.

While INFJs seek external harmony, ISTPs value internal consistency. The INFJ will be intrigued by the ISTP's mental frameworks, and the ISTP will be compelled by the INFJ's holistic analyses.

As a couple, the ISTP and INFJ will remain somewhat mysterious to each other, yet one will always meet the other where they are at. As two developed individuals, they will naturally have each other's backs. Where the INFJ struggles to structure their world the ISTP will step in to help, and where the ISTP lacks insight into their choices the INFJ will offer wisdom.

However, as two undeveloped individuals, the ISTP and INFJ will easily slide into codependency and contempt. The INFJ will resent the ISTP for their unwillingness to engage in emotional labor, and the ISTP will feel burdened by the INFJ's avoidance of technical labor.

To avoid these pitfalls, the INFJ will have to get their shit together, and the ISTP will have to face their wounds. The INFJ may benefit from a coach, and the ISTP needs a therapist, rather than each asking the other to fulfill that role for them. Once they address these personal liabilities, they can flourish into a fruitful interdependence where they find safety, stability, and deep trust in each other.

Thanks for the request, feel free to send more asks in the future!

(a) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socionics

[justanotherinfpgirl]

[llviragoll]

Can you do a mood board for me pls? Thks : ENFP 794 x ISTP 963 gay ralationship

Hii sorry that I am late but I still hope you enjoy this ♥️

[thembtigals]

MBTI Gals Introduction

We're two gals who like MBTI. We will provide written MBTI content and will take requests for MBTI relationship readings, personal growth tips, and even some MBTI/astrology crossovers. Get to know us below and watch out for content coming.

Meet Kristen:

Kristen | INFJ | Late Twenties | East Coast US

Meet Alyce:

Alyce | INFP | Mid-Twenties | West Coast US

She also writes K-pop fanfic on her main blog: @farfromsugafanfic

Both Kristen and Alyce have gray cats, are writers, and met through BTS fanfiction. Kristen brought a love for MBTI, Alyce brought a budding interest in astrology and together they have both become a little too emotionally invested in their MBTI types.

[witchthewriter]

𝐒𝐢𝐡𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐜 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐛𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐮𝐝𝐞

⤷ gender neutral, ambiguous race, and any size reader. Requests are open, thank you for reading!

Warnings: some spoilers for the series xx

ᴹᵃˢᵗᵉʳˡᶤˢᵗ | ᴹᵃˢᵗᵉʳˡᶤˢᵗ ᴵᴵ

ISTP

Hufflepuff

Chaotic Good

Scorpio Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Cancer Rising

𝑺𝑭𝑾🌿

・The most sweetest, most gentle and most loyal husband you could ever imagine.

・Exactly like the ones in the romance novels - you are his world.

・And he would do ANYTHING for you. Sounds cliche but he would literally climb the tallest mountain, ask Uhtred to help him bring down the moon, Sihtric is crazy in love with you. And it doesn't stop after the honeymoon phase.

・Any part of your body that you dislike, Sihtric is the first one to be like "what? I don't get it. You are ... the most glorious person to ever walk on midguard."

・Has cried while alone when he's away from you.

・Not when he's been asked by Uhtred to spy though - he just thinks about you when it's safe to do so (he takes caring for his friends very seriously. He's big on loyalty.)

・Further with the loyalty comment; it's actually hilarious that it was he and Uhtred who set up that ruse in season 3. Sihtric would rather die than actually be that person

・Buys you any and every kind of jewellery; bracelets, rings, earrings, necklaces. If you follow his religion/way of life, then he buys you your own thor's hammer pendant.

・When he places it around your neck, he tugs you forward and leans his head against your forehead.

・Calls you, "sweetheart," "my love," "beautiful/handsome". But also likes to call you cheeky ones too: "troublemaker," "danger."

・Puppy god eyes, puppy dog eyes, PUPPY DOG EYES. He doesn't even know he's doing it. It was practically beaten out of him when he was younger by his father and half-brother.

・But when he realised he was doing it, Sihtric thought, 'I have never felt safe enough to act like this. With anyone.'

𝑹𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑 𝑻𝒓𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒔

Calm bf (Sihtric) x Hyper gf/bf/non-binary partner (You)

Gives Jewellery (Sihtric) x Tries To Wear Everything Every Day To Make Them Happy (You)

Black Cat (You) x Black Bat (Sihtric)

𝑹𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑷𝒍𝒐𝒕 𝑻𝒓𝒐𝒑𝒆

Enemies to Lovers

You first saw Sihtric when he was living with his wretched father. You never expected to find him tied up under Uhtred's command.

𝑻𝒉𝒆𝒎𝒆 𝑺𝒐𝒏𝒈

Lady of the Dawn by Peter Gundry

𝑁𝑆𝐹𝑊 🔞 No one under the age of 18 past this point.

・When he first gets back from being away from you, he's hungry - like a dog in heat, he's rough, he needs to feel you, all of you.

・Sihtric's favourite thing to do is go down on you. Your juices, your smells; it drives him mad.

・After he's made you cum thrice, he rubs your cum/juices on his clothes just in case he has to leave again. He wants to be able to smell you.

・It has become a ritual now - if he doesn't then it's bad luck in his mind.

・If Sihtric is home for a while then his fucking turns into love making. Gentle, loving, slow, passionate.

・Long strokes, in and out of you while kissing every part of your face from above, nuzzling his face into your neck.

・Has a massive breeding kink (even if your body does not have the means to create a child); he likes to talk dirty while pumping into you.

"That's it, let me cum inside you my love. I want to put a child in you."

・When you agree with a whimper, it sends him over the edge. Hot ropes of cum shooting inside you.

・Sihtric keeps pumping though. The fantasy of having a large family with you made his cock hard again.

[incorrectinfpquotes]

INFP: I am straight up depressed. ENFP’s been doing their best to cheer me up. They gave me this sticker this morning just for waking up.

INFJ: Ew, it’s like you’re dating your teacher.

INFP: I know, it’s so hot.

[its-simply-just-krys]

[typing-mbti]

About MBTI romantic compatibility

In this post I want to talk about my personal thoughts based on what I observe about MBTI romantic compatibility or romantic compatibility in general.

Because remember, MBTI isn't enough when looking for a partner; there can be:

Very different people of the same type

Similar people of very different types

It also depends on what similitarities and differences mean for you.

MBTI: COMPATIBLE, SIMILIAR, DIFFERENT

Think at colors: there are colours which matches armonically to you but maybe you still preferer a "very similar" colour that accompany you or "very different" one that make you natural color stands up

1) COMPATIBLE if you look for an armonical balance between your differences (dichotomies) and similarities (same primary function but inverted and same process thoughts of the other two functions)

E/I + P/J difference or also F/T or N/S depending on what is the primary function (change the other). F/T or N/S lead to apparently more differences but deeply same way to process some thoughts (exactly same middle cognitive functions)

Example: INTJ x ENFP or ENTP

Example: ISFP x ESFJ or ENFJ

2) SIMILIAR: same type or similiar in many things (but not having the same primary function and thinking process can still lead to a not so small difference): you prefer having more similitarities with your partner (e.g. both introverted)

Change just a letter (be conscious that usually the S/N difference alone could still lead to a strong difference)

Example: INTJ x INTJ or ENTJ or INFJ or INTP (or also ISTJ)

ABOUT changing only the last 2 dichotomies: it will lead to a more complex mix between similarities and differences, usually it can be great at times but can also lead to many misunderstandings, for this reason I see more friendships than romantic partners on these.

Example: INTJ x INFP

Example: ESTP x ESFJ

3) DIFFERENT: very different type or opposite type: you feel safe with a companion that can do the things you can't do.

Example: INTJ x ESFP, ESTP, ESTJ, ISFJ,...

Is it immature?

If all you look for is just a personality type yes, but if you consider many things among which a specifically personality type... no. People choose their partner based on physical appearance, interests, sympathy, familiarity, style of life... and choosing based on the way a person perceive and process reality that affect every part of their daily life is nothing but deep.

"BUT if you both are willing to make it work..."

I will be honest here on my opinion. We are not talking about getting along with colleagues or in family or something forced, but with romantic relationships. It's so natural to look for a "compatible" friendship, why not with romance? Friends can be many while a romantic partner is hopefully just one and for every day of our life; and every relationship is already difficult by itself without us making it more complicated. We will live and share everything with our partner, make decisions with them, see and talk to them everyday: for this reason I personally don't see why we can't be selective.

So... is MBTI compatibility important? Depends

My personal opinion is that compatibility in general is very important, but not each couple needs MBTI compatibility to work well.

Your perfect match depends on who you are and what you look for in a partner.

-> Some thoughts to consider for wishing to have MBTI compatibility or not:

If your MBTI type is a huge part of who you are and your mental process - choose YES

Passions, interests, character and other things have a huge impact of who or your partner are more than MBTI - choose NO

You are selective and look for deep understanding of who you are to feel completely gotten - choose YES

You get along easily with others and feeling get is not your primary need (or not by a partner), you enjoy and look for other things - choose NO

Your process thoughts deeply, analyse others and observe a lot - choose YES

You are in tune with the ambience more than focusing too deeply on the others, you are more practical and a doer - choose NO

IMPORTANT CONSIDERATIONS

Your answer can be different of the one of your partner. For example an INFJ chooses her ENFP for MBTI compatibility because she wants to have long conversations and feel mentally connected with him while ENFP chooses her for the way she treats him and prefers spending time doing some hobbies together. So their relationship's will won't match.

If you wish for MBTI compatibility:

I will repeat it another time: MBTI isn't enough! There are always other things that defines us as values, humour, interests, style of life, mentality. So your life partner will be one of the personalities you get along with: not all will work perfectly with you!

MBTI isn't a guarantee! There is no perfect balance and every couple needs work.

If you wish for other kind of compatibilities:

Still be conscious about your personalities! Sometimes feelings cover our differences and you are ok with how are some things now but maybe in the future you or your partner will look for other things.

Be aware! Not thinking about it doesn't remove their type and your similarities/differences, the best is knowing your MBTI types and still be sure it's the best for you! MBTI knowledge in any case could always help in your journey.

Some example of couples I know:

MBTI compatible couples:

ISFP x ENFJ: natural match and they also share the same way to see life - worked

ESFP x ISFJ: compatible but the mental disorders of one destroyed their relationships and also their interests didn't match - didn't work

Not MBTI compatible couples:

INFP x ISTJ: they have the same values of family and both looked for a companion that can do what they couldn't, and feel safe in the differences of the other - worked

INFP x ESTJ: they loved the differences because they made them feel safe, during life they realized they needed to feel understood by the other and suffered for the lack of similitarities - didn't work

FINAL THOUGHTS

Be careful and choose what is best for YOU depending on what you and your partner look for in a relationship. Because at the end knowing what you want in your love life and waiting until you find it is the most important thing! If you want read this last part by thinking at different characteristics other than MBTI.

Different partner: more work to to but they can help you with doing the things you can't do. Always looking for an opposite partner can be sometimes linked to low self esteem, or positively to a strong adaptation ability.

Similiar partner: less work to do but you will have the same limits and face the same problems. Always looking for a very similar partner can be sometimes a sign of immaturity, or positively of a sensitive trait.

I'll say it again:

I talked about MBTI compatibility but remember that MBTI doesn't describe us totally so choose wisely considering that person completely!

And work with your defects and mental disorders, with them every relationship is destined to fail or be unhealthy or toxic.

Maybe you are thinking "love is blind"... to our mind maybe yes, but unconsciously is linked to how we see ourselves deeply.

Feelings may last some time but having a partner hopefully will last a life.

I wish you all the best love life :)

[your-favorites-mbti]

Example of an ESFJ-ENFP romantic relationship: Kataang

ENFPs (Aang) and ESFJs (Katara) are very outgoing and bonds over their compassion and empathy for others. 

ESFJ is more traditional than ENFP and tends to keep a tight schedule. However, these qualities may inspire ENFP to become more focused on their own goals in life. At the same time, ENFP’s openness to new experiences and flexibility may inspire ESFJ to let go of the reins from time to time and try something new.

Both ENFPs and ENFJs love adventure and enjoy plenty of travel and memories that strengthen their bond. 

They are both tuned to their emotional side and have no problem opening up to each other. They also possess a sense of altruism and compassion. And both are social and outgoing, although ESFJ takes action more out of a feeling of obligation, while ENFP helps others because of their high levels of empathy.

[classic-entp]

Classic-ENTP #42

Any Ixxx Type: That's my new friend!

ExxP: ???????????????I thought you had social anxiety???????????????

[intpleasefreeme]

INTP: infp you know how I'm going to marry entp when I'm 30 if I'm single

INFP: *shudders* ick, yeah

INTP: ick? Like because it's entp or ick because of me getting married

INFP: I just don't like the thought of you and entp getting married, how about at 29 if your still single we'll get married instead?

[simply-smiley]

INFJ motto

Nothing is impossible for INFJ, it takes just a little bit longer to achieve.

[nitwitthegrey]

*ENTP & INFJ accidentally end up under mistletoe*

ENTP: *knowing look*

INFJ: "Who would put this here? I can't believe anyone would still be upholding this stupid tradition. It's demeaning."

ENTP: "Couldn't agree more."

INFJ: ...

ENTP: "Let's kiss tho"

INFJ: "Yeah okay."

[art-of-secret-dark-heart]

If MBTI types were yandere dudes #2 (INTJ)

Note: just in case… the mbti types as Yanderes are just for fun and I’m not an expert in mbti. It’s exaggerated so… I hope this doesn’t offend anyone. Lol… also this is more of a ramble for me to de-stress. DNI if minor.

Content Warnings: the usual yandere stalking, kidnapping, and obsession

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✨INTJ ✨

The brains behind everything. Maybe even the situation you’re in. (Like maybe if it was a isekai sort of deal, he would be the one for coming up with the plan of transporting you to his world.) He’ll always be planning every step of the way, from how to obtain you to having a bunch of backup plans for any of your attempts at escaping; whether it’s breaking out or trying to kill him or yourself etc.

Always so good with providing evidences for why it’s in your best interest to stay with him. It’s almost like the situation always work in his favor…. Breaking the rules or laws are nothing to him, maybe even ethics (more than the usual yandere fare of like kidnapping and such) just to have you. He will never regret this.

From the get go, he would be very focus on how to get you to fall in love with him. Thus he will observe and study you as much as possible. Researching what makes you happy, what makes you tick, what motivates you, etc. (probably even be in the library, reading books on how one goes about with romancing another being)

He would be drawn to people who can debate with him on an equal level. Or maybe you strongly believe in an idea that he doesn’t agree on, yet you still somehow manage to intrigue him, maybe something like the potential of the idea. Bonus if you got an area of knowledge that he’s not familiar with. At the very least, if you can keep up listening with interest to his long unraveling ramblings, even if you don’t really quite understand it, he will start taking an interest in you. But what seals the deal for him, would actually be if you happen to not think he’s a cold unfeeling being. Especially if you treat him warmly. He wants you to somehow naturally fall in love with him. Being a loner or having very few acquaintances at best, which he doesn’t usually mind, sometimes the loneliness can be too strong to bear. So when he keeps getting drawn to you, feeling like you are the one who can understand him, then he’ll want to isolate you with him. Quick to kidnap you, lock you up, and keep you by his side.

If you’re feeling lost with something in life, he might lure you in with a view that somehow sounds appetizing… or just so right to you. May or may not be some philosophical bs.

If you aren’t consider to be on his “intellect level”, he will be very condescending. He’ll think that he knows what’s best for you, ignoring any emotional distress or outburst you might have towards this. Would act cold if you do have an outburst though. It’s just more evidence for him to think this is why you need him. Ironically, if you act harsh or cold towards him, he might start to ignore you for awhile. Deep inside, he’ll feel hurt. So he’ll leave you aside for awhile, working on whatever ambitious project (other than you) he has got up his sleeve. Afterwards, he’ll throw himself into coming up on a plan for how to “fix” you. So this can be good news, leaving you for awhile…. unless you’re already kidnapped and locked up in a room, then it’s goodbye food or any sort of care you might need from him for… who knows how long.

He can tell when you’re acting and being dishonest. If you want to get on his good side, be honest…. or maybe get on his level of poker face. Lol. Has pride in his intellect so he might be shook, if you somehow escape.

He sees potential in you and wants you to do better. Better by joining in whatever plans that he has for the world. Will be more of a nasty sarcastic prick if you “misbehave”.  If you keep rebelling, he’ll start imposing a strict regiment schedule to “correct” your behavior. If he’s stress out, he might start to be more touchy and spend more time with you.

Will be ruthless towards anyone who harms you. Interestingly, he’s willing to hear you out if you aren’t happy about something. Then will try his best to do something about it (not including letting you go). Will always have the money to take care of you. Probably is a Mr. Moneybags. In any case, he just wants someone to show him some warmth and kindness. Have someone who actually listens to him. Doesn’t everyone want that?

Fantasy or whatever isekai: some kind of kingmaker, or someone who can influence the king on making laws and putting them into effect. Maybe even the big brain behind on how to run the kingdom. A mastermind.

more of a horror (based on popular movies or books): corporate lawyer or executive of a big influential company, who made a deal with the (literal) Devil.  ———-

Which MBTI type should I do next? I probably will post all them, one by one. But if anyone wants, they can ask for a particular one next.