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As someone who grew up with "I'm not going to praise you for doing what's expected of you; that's not being good, that's doing the bare minimum" I want to encourage you to celebrate every little thing you can. Everything that takes energy and effort should be appreciated and you're allowed to be happy about trying.
#I washed 2 dishes the other day and that's more than zero#I'm the best there is at my particular problems baybee
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In the past month, I’ve seen:
A “community cat” with a fractured jaw, respiratory distress, and massive hemorrhaging after being hit by a car
A kitten with one fractured leg, one severely lacerated, and another degloved (skin removed) with torn ligaments after being found in the street
A young cat unresponsive with an uncontrollably high fever due to a tick-borne disease
A beautiful, well-loved kitten who stopped breathing due to a suspected brain bleed and was unable to be revived while preparing for surgery to repair a shattered pelvis after being hit by a car
Again, all these happened in the past month. And these are just the really bad ones I can think of off the top of my head.
All these cats, except one, are now dead.
But yeah, free-roaming is good for cats. They know how to take care of themselves.
#note none of these problems are specific to the us#last I checked there are cars in the uk#maybe not that particular strain of tick borne disease#but definitely cars#the one that’s alive?#my colleague and I had to call a humane fund to get funding for her $4000 surgery#and that’s with a discount#cats#outdoor cats#animal death#animal welfare#vet med#veterinarian#vetblr
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“How are you?” I should be in a straight jacket but unfortunately for the both of us I’m here
#im officially unhinged#my bf/fp thinks our house is haunted#theres been experiences with mirrors and dressers and posters#so not me leaning into the belief of the ghost by knocking off one of his posters and gonna blame the ghost if he asks#fuck that poster in particular#actually borderline#actually bpd#bpd#bpd feels#bpd thoughts#bpd problems#bpd stuff#bpd mood#bpd shit#bpd fp#bpd blog
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hey, small psa:
fictives are just people. you wouldn't walk up to a person you saw on the news once while they're having dinner and say "holy shit guys it's Jimothy Cumwomble, great job on stopping that armed robbery, sorry your brother died in the process". that would be completely socially unacceptable - you'd be butting in on their life, overstepping not just their boundaries but basic social decency, and bringing up potentially traumatic life events. it's rude, infantilizing, and potentially directly harmful. so why would you do the same to a fictive just because you know, or think you know, their source?
and that's not to say "never bring up a fictive's source to them", plenty of fictives enjoy talking about their sources! but there's a little thing called tact. you can ask whether they're okay with talking about it, or join in on a conversation where they already are, even just a "hey if you don't mind could we chat about your source" would go a long way. but suddenly changing the topic to their source not just without warning but by singling them out as "weird" or "interesting" and saying things about their source that would never be appropriate to say to a singlet about their past is not cool.
TLDR, a fictive existing in a public space is not an excuse to single them out, put a spotlight on them, and bring up potentially traumatic parts of their history just because you think their source is neat. have a little common sense about timing and approach, or just let them exist in peace.
#plurality#plural#psa#fictive#vent post#this is half genuinely trying to be informative and half venting about someone doing this to Vi#she had a really hard day and had already been talking about navigating exotrauma in another part of the same server#thankfully she had already left front and the particular event they referenced wasn't a problem#but it very much could've been so we wrote this because wtaf#just let fictives exist in peace please#they're people not circus sideshows for fans of their sources#📝 gemini
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tee hee (*´∇`*)✿
#zu art#comic#studio#zudio#backstage#dream!sans#undertale#undertale au#utmv#I wanted to make it part of the plot but it's too kawaii to be true xd#although he does have problems with self-control and aggression in particular#scientists associate outbursts of anger with deep-seated feelings of guilt and narcissism; as well as comparison with a sibling :')#(it'll be shown later ig <3)#sorry for so much of [Dream] content xp We'll switch to [Cross] soon ;)#OH and thank you guys so much for 17 900+!! (*´꒳`*)
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Need people to stop saying "that graph is misleading" when the y axis doesn't start at 0.
Yes sometimes graphs are indeed intentionally misleading you with a weird y axis. But I have seen on this website, three times in as many days, and referencing different graphics, people say "that graph is misleading" when the y axis not starting at 0 is for real simply the best way to convey that particular data.
"I initially misinterpreted this graph despite the perfectly reasonably and very well labeled y axis" ≠ "this graph is misleading." Your data comprehension skills just need work. That's a you problem.
#leemursays#mine#mathblr#if you think this is about you#don't worry about it#I'm not vaguing at anyone in particular#this is a widespread problem#I've seen it multiple times lately#and i don't remember the urls of the relevant people#I'm not holding anything against you#don't get defensive#just get better
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#This particular plot bunny meme hit extra close to home while I was making it#plot bunny#janet cactus meme#the good place#writeblr#writblr#writing#writer problems#writer community#writers on tumblr#writers and poets#writerscommunity#creative writing#writing humor#writing memes#writing problems#writing process#writer#writers community#writing community
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I can't stop thinking of an AU where instead of killing Lenore Dove, Snow has her arrested for her 'crimes' and sent to the capitol to become an avox. A fate that, to her at least, is probably much worse.
Maybe Snow has her work in the tribute center too. Every year she can see Haymitch, and he can see her, but they are not able to touch, or talk. No comfort, just a reminder of what you can't have.
It is a threat, how he keeps Haymitch in line. The reminder that he can, at any time, make Lenore Dove's life worse. Haymitch spends years and years trying to think of a way to get her out, to save her, and keeps coming up with nothing. At least until the main trilogy.
Wouldn't that be, like, the worst, most fucked up, and tragic AU?
#25 years is a long time but he does save her eventually and they learn to adjust to a new world together#Katniss doesn't know why this one avox is so kind to her in particular (she is FAMILY)#I think Lenore Dove would still find ways to cause problems btw. She isn't the type to stop even when her life is on the line.#I am obsessed with the idea that Haymitch has to ignore her because he knows she will be punished if he doesn't#the tragedy of it!! Being so close but so far away#I do think they had a few stolen moments over the years though#I can also see Haymitch trying so hard to be sober when he knows that she might see him.#He succeeds sometimes but when he fails he feels so much shame. even more than he normally feels for her fate.#lenore dove would be so very super traumatized. My girl deserves the world.....#lenore dove#lenore dove baird#haymitch abernathy#thg haymitch#thg#sotr#sunrise on the reaping#the hunger games#haydove#my post#what if he learned sign language for her 🥹
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It's need to be emphasised that relatively little anti-atheism on tumblr meaningfully engages with the actual issues with New Atheism (or any other existing strain of reactionary atheist thought). Most of the rhetoric shows less concern with the main body of the movement and more with superficial shadows of its legacy; informed less by the specific role of New Atheism in supporting US Imperialism and more by the vague recollection that some atheist youtubers in the 2010s were anti-feminist and the vaguer recollection that some atheist intellectuals in the 2000s were Islamophobic. There's little critiquing the ideology and historical role of Hitchens or Dawkins and much more critiquing the personal character of u/edgyneckbeard93. The overall state of anti-atheist thought on tumblr has less in common with this and more in common with this
And on the relatively rare occasions someone following this strain of thought actually references New Atheism in place of "Reddit Atheism", the movement will have it's historical significance and contemporary legacy massively exaggerated while being rhetorically removed it from the broader context it occupies. Because the level of hostility many self "Progressives" on tumblr direct towards atheism as a whole is not remotely proportionate to the impact of it's actually existing reactionary manifestations. Little of this hostility can be described as a misguided but well-meaning reaction to the genuine problems of reactionary atheism. It's largely tumblr users engaging in their favourite practice of promulgating reactionary ideas using progressive language; the existence of reactionary atheist movements (whether referenced directly or not) is just a convenient excuse to engage in the most vulgar forms of anti-atheism without sounding like any other religious reactionary. Responding to critiques of tumblr anti-atheism by saying things like "Erm, you realise New Atheism was bad though" completely misunderstands the context what's being said and why
#stella speaks#like there's nothing wrong with criticising Atheists who are reactionary or use specifically Atheist rhetoric for reactionary ends#the problem is acting like Atheism itself is the source#a lot of Western Atheists in particular are chauvinist and reactionary; this is because a lot of Westerners in general are#it's a point of similarity with their Christian counterparts not of distinction
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if you write fic there will come a day, btw, when you look back at your WIPs and published works, notice some fun trends that line up with something in your dnd character's backstory, overlay that with the general vibe of whatever's going on in your brain, and go, "ah. fuck."
#me like eight years ago: yeah that's a fun idea I should write about that#me now: hm. not sure if I like how this is going. I may have a problem#looking back at my past self with intense awareness like. oh buddy. you're not gonna escape this one#good luck with that particular creeping sense of dread and desire#anyway after that moment you do go back to writing fic as usual btw#not really changing anything#things like this just happen sometimes#like sometimes you look at the last few fics you've written and go “ha that's a fun coincidence”#“I definitely meant to have this particular trope in all three of these fics”#just. just don't worry about it#it's fine#sbs rambles#personal#writing#fanfiction
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hiii how are we feeling about the recent wemmbu uu episode?? because im losing my mind im definitely not normal about it
#unstable universe#unstableverse#wemmbu#princezam#eggchan#wato1876#mutiny duo#they're being normal for once??(kind of)#the GOAT goat#can he be his own character please i think he's great#still figuring out my egg design bear with me please that man is so hard to draw#but i will draw him because he's the greatest character on the unstableverse#i miss him where the hell is he?????#wato was so fun too he really gives the tired divorced dad vibes#and wemmbu was like a rowdy teenager causing problems#also wato is a liar hes definitely picking favorites (and its parrot and wifies)#hes just like me fr#anyway i have so many thoughts about mutiny duo#and just unstableverse in particular im going insane but im not gonna spam my tags with it#okay im done yapping here i think#☆ my art .
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my brainrot about these two can be measured in liters
#dreamworks trolls#trolls#ex bandmates#trolls oc#hed#les#my art#this drawing is very old already but i really wanted to write a oneshot to go with it#because i have story in my mind that led to this particular moment#but ALAS. no motivation for writing#lets just say he had a shit class meeting about their end of elementary school prom where he got singled out and everyone collectively...#...decided that he can't participate in the traditional dance because he's too short (unless. an asshole classmate proposed. he finds...#..a dancing partner in like the 2nd grade. and the class teacher looked thoughtful instead of reprimanding that student.)#basically no one not even his friends stood up for him and it made him feel like a class nuisance they were trying to sweep under the rug#living in vibe city made him such an outcast in general. he did a lot of crying over wanting to be a funk troll and fit in :((#and of course les would blame himself for every one of his problems#ughuguguhugh#i have shed physical tears thinking about these two idiots who can't let go of resentment for each other but also love each other so so muc#fuck i'm crying again#someone put me out of my misery#hedley#leslie
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Seph hallucinating his mother protecting him from his father vs Angeal hallucinating his mother blaming him for his father’s death. THESE BOYS GOT ISSUES.
#i love how ff7 uses this particular set of characters to explore familial problems more than anyone else#hhfjjhjj#ff7#FS2#miniroth#angeal hewley#sephiroth#jenova#hojo#gillian hewley#lucrecia crescent
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You're not glossing over the suffering and trauma the Scavengers have been put through at the hands of Artificer or having them all be ok with it just because they felt sorry about it like so many AUs like to do right?
Who said anything about them feeling sorry about it ����Artificer has a lot of issues but if they were justified is not one of them they're grade A hater
On a more serious note: It depends. I don't like the 'genocidal maniac' style of characterization so they're pretty far from that, so if you consider anything less than that sympathetic you're not gonna find it here. They have a brain and a goal so their destruction is/was a little more targeted and less of a wildfire. They harm a lot of people in the process, and they don't particularly have any qualms with that ('Sometimes you get caught in the crossfire, get over it or punch back' mindset) but they aren't a killer for fun or a sadist or anything like that. As for what others think of them... What they did was still pretty awful, but I imagine its not something a lot of people know about. Or at least don't know that Artificer specifically did it. Not exactly something they're advertising and they also pretty much live in a toxic swamp away from the people who would be most suspicious.
#ask#rw anthro#Artificer knew exactly who they were aiming for this time#but also didnt really care if there was collateral#when I say that they dont really pay much mind to what they did do#its not because they have any particular problem with their actions#but more because they dont particularly think its something they need to bother thinking about anymore#unless someone wants to come and beat them up in revenge which#frankly they would be quiet happy about! they arent the most stable and would#frankly love for someone to try and murder them in their sleep it would be exciting for them#sadly the person most likely to do that is currently trying to clean up their mess
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The way Lando (and Carlos) immediately go back to each other after having a hard time and being down needs to be studied. They probably find comfort in each other due to the fact it reminds them of much simpler days aka their McLaren era. They’re soooo Call it what you want by Taylor swift coded

this is exactly how i look and feel like whenever they try to convince us that they're "just rivals" and nothing more until one of them retires, and then go and do this everytime.
#and they have anniversaries and eachother's families treat them like they're already part of them and#they get invited to family private events and they always are there for eachother and so much about them it's A BIG ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM#and it's so odd for rivals in such sports to be like this#being mindful of space between eachother while they're racing and prioritizing you both being on 'the podium together'#(creating one of the most skillful strategies ever seen too)#and caring about eachother's wellbeing when there's an incident#and looking out and speaking for eachother and getting asked about eachother's choices like you're eachother's partners#and they probably actually do consider eachother's opinions so highly its crazy#(let's think about lando knowing about carlos choosing williams before anyone and him defending carlos' choice too)#and all the times carlos brought up a problem because lando in particular was the first victim of it???#(lando's back pain for the seats and carlos bringing it up to fia unprompted)#AND SOMEHOW EVEN ALWAYS HINTING THAT IF THEY RETIRE THEY'RE GONNA BE IN EACHOTHER'S LIVES ANYWAY#AND IF THEY 'HAD TO CHOOSE ANOTHER JOB' THEY ALWAYS CHOOSE SOMETHING THAT THEY'D DO TOGETHRR#either it being a rescue for dogs OR ACTUALLY OPENING KARTING SPACES AT THE SAME TIME#AND THEIR GRANDSTANDS???? GOD YOU CANT TELL ME ANYTHING ABOUT THEM IS NOT INFLUENCED OR NUANCED BY THE OTHER#i dont even know why i am ranting but its getting honestly ridiculous to act like this is not the reality they live in#and its just THE STUFF WE GET TO KNOW#its probably not 5% of what actually they do with eachother or how much time they actually spend together#WE DONT KNOW SHIT#and thank god we dont#AND HELL YEAH THEY ARE A COMFORT FOR EACHOTHER BTW#i think carlos was probably the most supportive person lando had in his career and he was supposed to be his FIRST rival in equal machinery#and yet he took him under his wing he helped him get confident and taught him so much in the same way lando's approach to life probably#helped carlos get better and grow into who he is today... to this day they are so intertwined in eachother#friend it's just too small of a word#i get him actually#carlando#anon ask
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the absolute irony of this addition to one of my posts is that this person later goes on to dehumanize the exact person i was talking about when i said 'even them'.
and that's why you have to be so careful not to let your dislike of someone turn into a willingness to take away their humanity.
#loyal talks about stuff and things#this has been bothering me for awhile and the post came up in my notes again#the problem with this fandom in particular#is that it's SO quick to find an exception to the 'don't be cruel' thing#there's always an exception to when harassment and bullying is okay#there's always an exception to who gets their identity respected#it's absolutely maddening#fandom critical
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