#safe platform

[jellyjamiee]

id like to start posting here, so here is my first contribution 🔥

[imfromsixam]

Quick Guide: Stay Safe While Downloading Sims 4 CC & Mods

I just published a quick guide to help you download Sims 4 CC & mods safely. ⚠️ From trusted sources to spotting red flags. Keep your game clean and secure! 😊

Read it now

[donghyucktual]

unsurprisingly, i will not be supporting taeil or anyone who remains close with him going forward. if there is an attempt to make this about fanwars or similar, i will also disengage. all this is about is the victim and their safety. to make it about anything else is disingenuous, callous, and cruel. morality comes over any kind of gotcha, and to use suffering to justify prior opinions or uplift others will not be tolerated here.

[pseudonymphomania]

Solodeus First Holiday | for the @obeymeholidayexchange

I’m pleased to have serendipitously gotten my friend @ruewrites for this community event! If you love Solodeus, Asmo, Solomon or shipping in general, check her out!

[nomstellations]

the vore community has been, and will continue to be a place that is unsafe for both minors and victims of any form of abuse or grooming suffered within it. people have proven time and time again that they will refuse to acknowledge or in fact, violently defend abusers for any reason they can cook up because they do not want to face the consequences of doing so- all people want to do is consume vore content thoughtlessly and if ignoring their favorite artist's grooming allegations means they can do it, then so be it. ignorance is bliss- that's why so many blogs around here are still firmly in the "i don't care who interacts with me!!" boat if it means they don't have to think about it. believe it or not, you have to think about your actions in a kink space even if you don't see it as one.

you can't just excuse away the harm you're enabling with "i didn't know," or "i don't want to talk about that, i just wanna vibe and look at pictures of people eating each other!" that is still enabling, that is still causing harm, and that's just proving to hurt people that there's no one they can trust and when it comes down to it, no one will stick up for them when they open up about the things they've suffered. it's always the victims who are wrong for standing up for themselves or calling attention to people that have been or are still doing harm (especially if they aren't cordial and nonthreatening in the way they talk about it, even though they have every right to be upset), because there's no way your favorite artist could do something bad! their art is too good! their writing is too well-done to be made by someone bad! so it must be them who's wrong, because the abuser said so and the victim was mean! why don't we all attack the victim for daring to open up and nitpick how they did it, because surely that is what prevents people from being hurt! ignore how nobody's actually done any of these things, btw (and if they did, they get ignored immediately).

at worst, these people are callous and cruel and are abusers themselves. at best, these people are enabling harm to be perpetuated because they don't want to acknowledge it. or they're too scared to be dogpiled too, or whatever other reason there is. this culture this community fosters needs to die out or people will continue to be used and abused.

this blog will never come off hiatus. not while this place and people i used to admire and trust continue to prove themselves to be the kinds of people that will justify the sexual abuse i endured for years in this community.

[dsabian]

Australia is planning on banning under 16s from using social media.

So so many reasons this is a stupid idea but the main one is actually, counter-intuitively, ppl's online safety.

Grown ups know how to cross the road safely because they are taught as children. They get to practice with parental supervision when they're kids.

You keep kids off social media then give them unlimited access at 16 and they'll have no frame of reference, no supervision, no working knowledge of how to fact check etc. If you actually want ppl to be safe online, make it part of education.

When discussing Animal Farm in English, talk about how to analyse ideas that sound good but actually result in inequality in practice and then pull up some questionable tweets.

When teaching kids how to research for their next essay, give them a fb rant and show them how to verify the info.

And then whoever is teaching them about personal responsibility should introduce them to tag blocking on tumblr. Show them how to curate their own experience.

Chat gtp should be its own module titled "ai can and will lie to you please for the love of god learn to think for yourself"

[ilonar0]

I'm actually curious, what is the social media that makes you feel the safest?

(Please please please, if you choose Twitter explain me, because though I use it as well, I never feel safe there, and I just can't use it a lot. So I'm actually curious about how you feel about it.)

Edit (2024.08.04): Obviously this is biased because I'm posting it on Tumblr, but as of now, Twitter and TikTok still have 0%, which I think tells A LOT

[eywaseclipse]

Fuck Emilia Perez and the entire cast. They are so undeserving of awards and recognition. Fuck Zoe’s response to a Mexican journalist telling her that it was harmful to project racist stereotypes. This is why we need more self awareness in ALL forms of media consumption. So avatar writers get your heads out of your asses and stop exploiting cultures that don’t belong to you because you’re thirsty for clout. Stereotypes harm people. It’s not just fiction. And until you’ve experienced this in all forms yourself, this isn’t the space in which you get to disagree with me.

I’m so sick of the apologists in this fandom. And honestly Zoe is one of worst I’ve seen recently. A sobering moment to realized these celebs are not our friends. They simply just play characters we like. That film was very hurtful.

[pamshindouu]

Two Liberator pieces from last year! A little doodle of Shoto and his two birb partners, and some digital painting practice with my baby Unchain(ed). I'm enjoying Liberator a lot and I'm kinda shocked there isn't much fanart for it out there with how good the character designs are! I need to draw more of it eventually

[permasleepymoth]

basic info ✨✨

Shitposting side blog: @whenthemothhasadhd

Name(s): Moth, Mothy

pronouns: they/them, fluff/fluffs (singular, link for examples)

age: perma-toddler, chrono-minor (don’t be weird with me)

Species: snowshoe hare, spongy moth

my transID community

gender: no clue

Orientation: sapphic/gynesexual, just anyone that is woman or looks woman or feminine tbh

transID & permaID stuff ig: Trans/permatoddler, trans/permasleepy, permacozy, transadorable, transfamily, trans/permaharmless, transmoth, transbunny, transinnocentangel, transharmed, and more

I’m against harmful transition

BRAIN: (all cis) ADHD and GAD (both diagnosed) possibly OCD (undiagnosed. It runs in my family)

religion: polytheist. I mostly work with Greek deities but not exclusively. My patrons are Persephone and Hades.

stances I guess? Discourse kinda scares me: pro-para, pro-kink, pro-fetish, pro-mental health, ANTI-HARMFUL CONTACT for paraphilias, pro-non-harmful contact for paraphilias, pro-MOST Trans-IDs, pro-endo, ship discourse neutral, radqueer neutral, anti-xenosatanist, pro neoreligion, pro xenogenders and neopronouns, pro alterhuman (including links and similar), anti-harassment of any kind to anyone, pro contradictory labels (m-spec, lesboys, ect), pro atypical dysphoria/euphoria, pro informed self diagnosis, pro objectum, pro agere/petre, pro agedre/petdre, pro recovery, anti forced recovery, pro religious queers, pro most ug subliminals, there’s probably more but there’s way to much discourse on the internet for me to remember it all 😭

(this is somewhat outdated I probably need to redo it)

things I like: romance novels (especially dark romance), drawing, writing, doing quadrobics, chocolate, my cats, skincare

things I dislike: immature people, and loud noises, basically

Requests

(requests are closed)

things I make:

Flag redesigns

Term coining (+ flag)

subliminals (audio/video)

topics that are ok:

TransIDs (almost any)

paraphilias (of any kind)

xenogenders

alterhumanity

ect

topics that are not ok:

Anything excessively gory or violent (a little is ok)

anything pro-c harmful

anything explicitly nsfw (not referring to paraphilias)

ect

I reserve the right to not do any requests that I don’t feel comfortable with, even if they aren’t specifically listed here.

how to request something

to request something, please send me an ask. Do not message me. Please specify the desired things that you want in the ask.

ideas for things to tell me when requesting

flag redesign: what flag you want to be redesigned (obviously). What parts do you dislike about the current flag, what things can I change/improve? What parts do you like about the flag, things I know to keep the same/lean into. Color palette ideas. Anything else.

term coining: what is your idea for the term? What is it about? Similar terms and why you (might) want something different. Is it a transID, paraphilia, alterhuman thing, xenogender, ect? Anything else.

subliminals: what kinds of affirmations do you want it to have? Is there a theme? Do you want music, if so, what kind? Do you want a specific genre, creator, song, or not? Anything to definitely not add? Do you want asmr? If so, what kind? Specific triggers, creators, videos/audios, or not? Anything to definitely not add? Anything else extra, things like white noise or binaural beats or sound effects, ect.

All subliminals will be in between 3 and 5 minutes as to not kill my storage.

final things I want to say. This is not at all an NSFW blog, and the only reason I put my paraphilias was because I specifically want to talk about my paraphilias (and paraphilias in general) in a not NSFW way, because I kinda feel alone in my thoughts a lot of the time. But it obviously isn’t appropriate for me to share NSFW stuff, especially about myself, as a minor. It also isn’t appropriate for other people to interact with me in a sexual/NSFW way so please don’t do that! I will block and report. NSFW blogs can interact if they wish, as long as the interactions they are having with me are SFW.

[yanderethorne]

congrats to erika best song by a long mile just hope that contest will be the dream she's always wanted for so long and not become a nightmare.....

[riseandfallofamidwestbyler]

going back to what i said about the stranger things community on instagram, (here) i simply can’t STAND the AI generated milkvan photos. i still don’t understand how my instagram thinks i’m interested in see milkvan posts. it also makes me think about some of the gorgeous fanart i see for byler daily. but somehow i’ve never seen any mileven fanart. just AI generated slop. but anyways it isn’t hard to find if you want to see for yourself just look at the mileven hashtag on instagram. there’s like entire accounts dedicated to this stuff. it’s so weird.

[vocalux]

could u make a flag for PPSAD :3 would make the flag myself but my iPad broke -w- https://www.tumblr.com/mynameisuranus/765902591482888192/platform-parasocial-attachment-disorder-ppsad?source=share

— platform parasocial attachment disorder / ppsad

flag for individuals who have ppsad !

— honestly i liked these , i wish i had it just so i could use them

[kyouka-supremacy]

They got dazaiarchives????