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Can we please not romanticize what happened to Goo Hara? She’s not “with Sulli” now, she’s gone and it’s heartbreaking. It’s unbearable that it seems to have become a regular thing now for idols to die of suicide. Goo Hara died one month after her best friend. Whether or not that’s true, many people interpret their deaths as connected, as Hara following Sulli. Don’t tell people she succeeded. There’s nothing good about this, it’s endlessly sad and the K-pop industry needs to change. Comfort each other but don’t make light of it.

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Hara, a strong, brave, talented woman with a big heart. She was sexually assaulted, publicly scrutinized, threatened, bullied and abused. She tried to commit suicide in may this year. After some months, she lost her friend Sulli, too. This world was too cruel for a beautiful Soul like her, rest in heaven now Angel. You will be remembered.

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hara's harassment started six years ago in 2013. she was ganged up on by a bunch of mcs on radio star for...dating. she was called an "idol bus" for dating ONE person. then as she visibly got upset, they kept going. kyuhyun even said "if i open my mouth, hara would be over" and she pushed a water bottle and cried. and the results? were kyuhyun, yoon jongshin, jim kukjin, and kim gura reprimanded for this? a little...but hara was made the villain. she was bullied and harassed online for having emotions. people attacked her nonstop after that and hated her with such vitrol. even after kyuhyun expressed regret for what he did and apologized, hara was hated. then she's assaulted and abused by her ex choi jongbum, and she defends herself during the attack and is fucking arrested too. he threatens to release their sex tape and what fucking happens? the media takes his side, protects him, and people attack hara. how dare she be assaulted, how dare she scratch him, we wanna see the video. they mocked her suicide attempt. and now...hara is gone. and now they'll pretend to care. they'll point fingers and blame others. reporters will blame this on the industry. fans will say to be kind. and in two or three days? it'll all be back to normal.

hara, i'm sorry the world let you down. i'm sorry this happened to you. i love you and i will miss you.

hara was 28 and deserved better.

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A bit LOUDER please.

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remember when i stated what i stated abt not trusting miley cyrus or her “i have a girlfriend” thing??

as of today Miley, now that she has a boyfriend states “There’s so many good guys out there ladies so dont give up. You dont have to be gay, there’s good guys out there.”

and yall still dont pick up what im putting down like this girl is a straight white woman who camouflages when things get rough there’s really nothing compex abt it

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Is anyone else having issues with the app always telling you that you have no notifications when you actually do?

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Sulli is another example of SM's failure to protect their idols. Sulli and Jonghyun were both relentlessly ridiculed by the Korean public for simply breathing but SM never stepped in to put an end to it. Due to their (SM's) failure, we've lost another angel that people waited too long to appreciate. R.I.P Sulli. You will be missed. We love you. You deserved better.

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my new roommate said that her last roommate had an eating disorder and then talked to me about her clean eating and weight loss goals and how she buys clothes that are a little snug to motivate her to lose more

and like honestly? i have anorexia but this is why i constantly talk about the dangers of the “health and fitness” industry and diet culture bc we have essentially normalized certain symptoms of disordered eating but it’s ok if it’s under the guise of health i guess???

like how is calling it “clean” eating NOT a way to moralize food

how is intermittent fasting NOT the same thing as skipping meals

how come when i buy clothes that don’t fit, it’s something i have to tell my therapist about because it means i am putting pressure on myself to fit into them, but if a “normal” person does it then it’s just motivation for them?

where is the fucking line???

and more importantly when are we going to start acknowledging that the entire world is pro-ana but that’s too harsh of a description so we slap some health buzzwords on it to make it palatable

when are we going to take responsibility for encouraging disordered behavior instead of labeling those of us with EDs as the crazy/imbalanced ones

your fucking Whole30 or keto or whatever “clean” diet you’re on is just as restrictive as the diets we create for ourselves due to our disorders. but we are the crazy ones, right

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Bianca Del Rio lockscreens

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I really wanna post drag queen lockscreens

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highlights from the show!!

so we get there around 4:30

we check in n shit

we start talking w the people i mentioned earlier and we ended up becoming amazing friends

BIANCA IS SO FUCKING SWEET, she was like “is this your first time seeing me?” and when i said yes she said “oh warning you now i can be a nasty bitch” and it was great i love her so much

we went to a sports bar (w/ new friends) since we still had like two and a half hours before the show actually started

miss kasha davis opened up the show and KILLED it

then bianca came and OH MY GOD

she said how she wanted to start the show earlier but her dick got caught in a zipper (ouch)

she also commented on how her outfit (sequined clown jumpsuit) looked like a vagina

she talked about her best friend (first of 13 that she mentioned, i counted) who had down syndrome and she also mentioned how whenever she says something that makes people uncomfortable, she would just randomly spit out a fun fact

she talked about how she hated f****ts and it was absolutely hilarious

“FUN FACT! gay men have sex because they like it. straight women have sex because they like jewelry.”

she proceeded to talk about how pussies scare her, and when she started yelling about it through the mic, she was making DIRECT EYE CONTACT with me the WHOLE TIME and at the end she was like “THERES NO FUN FACT FOR THIS ONE BITCH” and i was D Y I N G

i think at this point she was around her fourth or fifth “my best friend”

she picked on a straight couple from the audience (who was sitting behind us) and a lesbian couple from further back

she picked on the “woman with the white jacket” in the expensive seating on the side

THERE WAS A WOMAN IN THE FRONT ROW WHO TURNED 79 LAST NIGHT AND IT WAS SO FUCKING ICONIC

there was also a woman a row ahead of me (i was third row) and she made supportive comments n shit every now and then and bianca LOVED it, it was so great

she also caught someone in a shitty seat filming when you weren’t allowed to take pics or videos during the show and roasted the HELL out of that person

she made a couple of abortion jokes, like how her friend got an abortion and she was really really supportive but then bianca remembered she locked her keys in her car and... i’m gonna leave the rest to your imagination

she made a joke abt her lesbian best friend (i think this was the 11th bff?) dave and how dry her pussy was

she roasted kasha davis

she trashed yvie oddly for not wanting to take pictures with her fans after she won her season and made a good point abt how her fame isn’t gonna last forever

she was like “i dont wanna get political but a few years ago this country fucked up” (starting to sound like she was sad) and then yelled “LETTING RUPAUL PICK AQUARIA” or some shit like that

“fun fact! i dont have any more.”

Q+A time

the first one she got was “why are you such a hateful bitch? love you obviously”

SOMEONE HAD A PICTURE OF HER PET SNAIL AND SAID SHE NAMED IT BIANCA SHELL RIO AND IT WAS SO FUCKING FUNNY

a 13-year-old girl in the front row asked how much duct tape she has to use and at first bianca was like “ok youre 13 i dont wanna respond” and everyone was like “DO IT” so she made a joke abt her mom having a loose pussy, 10/10

and then the video came! basically we were the last question and she had us come up on stage, and she called me a cunt and it was ICONIC

“is this your daughter? oh. so someone fucked you...”

my mom: “i have three!” bianca: “three fingers or three children?”

this one guy in the side area who looked really unhappy got invited up on stage and roasted. his name’s kevin.

and then the video came.

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It's 3am and I cannot stop thinking about Bianca fucking Del Rio and how geniuely amazing she is in like everything. I should have not watched Hurricane Bianca, I really should have not. Shit.

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Somi lockscreens

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