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This blog is done. Gemma and I are completely broken up.

I'm hoping she comes around but I don't think she will.

I'm sorry I let everyone down.

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I love your personality so much and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

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This blog might go on hiatus. Gemma and I are on a break. It kills me that we are, but I know her mental health is important. I know she'll be mine again when she's ready, otherwise nothing will be changing. We will still talk all the time, and still love each other, she just doesn't want the added stress of a relationship right now. Completely understandable tbh.

Nothing will change how I feel for her. Ever. She's still my beautiful spooky princess, and I love her with all my being. I'm going to support her every step of the way through this and show her that I'm not like everyone else who would just abandon her. I haven't yet, and I won't in the future.

I will still listen to Songbird every single day, and wait patiently, no matter how long, for my baby to be back where she belongs, in my arms, her name sweet on my lips, her beauty the only thing I see when we talk.

I'm so in love with her, and I'm not going to give up on this.

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“Thank you for being everything I ever wanted”

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Love isn’t perfect. Not by a longshot. There are fights, and jealousy, and sometimes feelings of distrust. There are nights when you’re too tired to cuddle, you just want to sleep, and your partner feels sad. There are days when everything seems to go wrong, and you might even snap at your lover by accident. You might go to bed angry at each other over something silly, and while they do say to never go to bed angry, it’s actually more healthy if you do, that way you both wake up with clear minds and can talk through things and apologize.

These things aren’t ideal, but they are a part of love, and you have to take the good with the bad. For richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, etc. (yes, I just quoted wedding vows, hush) These are the things that make your relationship stronger and cause you to love and appreciate each other more.

When you go through bad times, whether they be your fault or the universe giving you a giant middle finger, just remember what you have at the end of the day: someone who loves you. Think about the good times, laughing at stupid memes, or cooking your favourite meal with (or for) each other, or planning your future together. The bad days and fights and jealousy are not the end of the world, or our relationship. They’re a test to see if you’re worthy of the other person.

You have to take the bad days if you want to have the days of lounging around in your underwear munching all day, or going on walks through a part of town you’ve never been, or waiting all day to see your sweetheart and kiss them ever so gently on the forehead.

And if you’re having a lovely day, but yall burn dinner by accident, laugh it off and treat yo self to takeout in your jammies. If your love gets caught in the rain with no umbrella on the way home from work, throw some towels in the dryer and warm your wet bae up. Never be afraid to show you care with the little things that would seem insignificant to most, it’s more appreciated than you know, and shows the other person you truly love them.

I know love can feel like rocket science sometimes, but just work through it, make sure your partner knows how much you care, and you’ll never have to doubt if your love is true or not. You can get through any fight with time, patience, and understanding. You can overcome a jealous moment if you gently ask your partner about it. Feelings of distrust can be worked through with calm conversation, no yelling or accusations. Don’t ever give up on someone you truly love just because of bad days. No relationship is perfect, and they can always be improved.

Remember, you’re only on this earth for a short time. Don’t mess up your opportunities.

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who else is taking a big sip of

My Significant Other Is Amazing And Im So Lucky to Have Them In My Life juice on this fine tuesday

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I turned out liking you a lot more than I originally planned.

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