normalize long distance caregivers!
coming home after a long day and calling your carer with stiffness in your voice, they notice and let you lay down with you comfort items, maybe even help you prepare your diap on yourself since they arent there to do it for you! they’ll sing you a lullaby or two, maybe read you a book.. they’ll let you turn your camera on so they can observe you just being the cutest, most exhausted bab in the whole wide world. you two could watch an anime, maybe a cartoon together. something you both compromise on! they’ll show you its okay to not be physically together. they’ll show you its okay if you live far apart. they’ll make you feel valid , even if you cant be held!
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