anonymousfield

[anonymousfield]

Sometimes Fictives ARE literally who they say they are, but that shouldn't be the assumed default! Nor should it always be assumed they're not! Because we're all different, and above all else, we're all still people who deserve respect regardless of where we fall on the source connection spectrum.

[anonymousfield]

"we want our own spaces!"

ok. make one. stop complaining and make one? block people. make a discord server. find actual friends outside of syscourse? find a friend group??

maybe, just maybe, you like bitching more than you like fixing things. stop crying about it and try to make a difference because your posts on syscourse doesn't do anything to help you

"but wahhh endos are invading it!" block them. or just ignore like a regular person. or maybe stop hating them and you won't be so mad at them all the time

i promise you endos are NOT the issue, it is you ! you are your own issue because you would rather complain over and over again when you have the power to change it <3 curate your online experiences actually !

[anonymousfield]

I love you introjects connected to your sources. I love you introjects who identify with their sources. I love you introjects who love their sources.

[anonymousfield]

the issue is your first sentence. "having alters of real people that you do not know in the slightest is insanely parasocial and not okay whatsoever." you are right there saying that having factives AT ALL is parasocial and not ok. you then add "and" as to say also or this + this. you arent adding a condition to the first sentence. you are adding to it. i agree that broadcasting it to someone is weird (disgusting is a little far imo) and we dont do that with our factives. (and 99% of our factives are people we dont know personally.

so idk how im misreading your words. you said a statement and added to it. maybe you shouldve reworded your first statement

since people want to misread / misrepresent my words and attack my friends over it, no i am not saying having factives is bad. i literally have a handful of factives as headmates, but the difference is we :

a.) do not tell the person that i have a factive of them

b.) do not expect the person to be okay with it

d.) understand that behavior is parasocial & work on preventing that behavior

c.) WE SOURCE SEPERATE AND DO NOT INTERACT WITH SAID PERSON

its fucking crazy how anyone in the did/osdd sphere will jump to crazy conclusions based on 100% valid and normal boundaries to have. and to attack my friend whos laying out a boundary because other people cant behave is insane. god forbid i stick up for someone, next time talk shit to my face 🤞

[anonymousfield]

nah thats gonna go at the bottom of the willogenic todo list actually, priorities yk

Any space for anti-endos is a space to spread hate and bigotry about us for our existences.

I don't believe there should be any safe spaces for hate.

[anonymousfield]

worms for brains you say? chat would you still love me if i was a worm headmate

Any space for anti-endos is a space to spread hate and bigotry about us for our existences.

I don't believe there should be any safe spaces for hate.

[anonymousfield]

It's weird how sysmeds keep making these blogs claiming to correct misinformation, end up spreading tons of misinformation, And then just decide to block every single person who tries to correct them.

It comes off less as if you're actually interested in correcting misinformation, and more that you just want the ego boost.

You want to say a bunch of stuff without doing the slightest bit of research, play pretend like you're helping educate people, and then get the people who don't know any better to praise you for how much they're "learning" from you.

It's sad. It's pathetic. And it's oh so cowardly!

If you are planning to run a blog dedicated to correcting misinformation, at least grow some backbone and stop hiding behind the block button.

[anonymousfield]

imagine saying you are pro recovery and then turning around and saying that you want to make someone kill themself (which btw is MANSLAUGHTER)

i cant with these types of anti endos oh my god

Any space for anti-endos is a space to spread hate and bigotry about us for our existences.

I don't believe there should be any safe spaces for hate.

[anonymousfield]

can y'all stop naming your blogs [something] misinfo? idc what side of syscourse you are on, you are setting yourself up for disaster

you cannot be expected to be all-knowing on a topic that is as complex and understudied as systems

you can give out information! but anytime you fuck something up you are going to ruin your credibility and when you have misinfo in your user you just look stupid IMMEDIATELY

alsoooo stop pretending like you are "erm actually"ing people when you are just adding opinions. if you claim to be a blog about educating people with facts then why are you providing opinions?

in capitalism terms im basically saying you are false advertising and idk about you but companies that falsely advertise look pretty dumb in my eyes

[anonymousfield]

i love you in sys relationships!

we are collectively aroace & non partnering in the outerworld but interally we all have different identities! we all loosely connect to aroace since its our collective identity but a lot of us experience attraction! all 3 of us hosts are in relationships and they feel just so much better than the idea of an outerworld one. just because we are in the same system doesnt mean we never disagree, there are normal relationship dynamics in our relationships. but there is a connection we have because we inhabit the same body that we could never have with someone in the outerworld. and that means a lot.

i wish people took innerworld relationships (any type) more seriously!! they are very real to us

[anonymousfield]

actually hold on, on the topic of my last reblog + tags

when im in spaces where its safe to be openly queer but i dont want to be openly plural, and i wanna explain my gender but we dont have a collective gender (its just based on whoever is fronting).

how am i supposed to say, well im a girl but actually a boy though actually im neither but also im both but not in a nonbinary way or a genderfluid way but im still gendery but if you define it in any way it will be wrong BUT im not genderless.

[anonymousfield]

"I can't pick an option" not as in "choosing is difficult because I like/dislike all the options equally" but as in "I will tear myself up about whether I choose the 'right' one and no matter what I pick someone in here is going to be disappointed so it's better to just refrain from this business entirely"

[anonymousfield]

i love seeing plurals use the plural terms we coined :) we coined them cause they were experiences we felt we really needed a separate term for and the fact that others relate to them are very nice :)

[anonymousfield]

Endogenic systems that have naturally been a system as long as they can remember, you're so cool.

Endogenic systems that formed out of loneliness, you're so cool.

Endogenic systems that formed for no fuckin' reason whatsoever, you're so cool.

Endogenic systems that technically formed from trauma but it's not the "usual" type of trauma so they labeled themself endo, you're so cool.

Endogenic systems that formed for fun, you're so cool.

Endogenic systems that are multigenic, you're so cool.

Disordered endogenic systems, you're so cool.

[anonymousfield]

alright im not putting up with the misogyny and the misgendering i see on your blog being aimed at me sooo bye bye get blocked

i genuinely dont understand how you can think you are in the right after the disgusting comments you make on your blog

the idea that pro endos shouldnt fight back against anti endos or else that means we are being hateful and/or a hategroup is so stupid to me

imagine being told that your existence is wrong, you should kill yourself, you are "delusional", and these people dont just say it outside your community but they actively come inside your spaces and say it to your face. you are gonna look at me and tell me that i should just ignore it? because talking back apparently makes me worse than them? what are we in middle school? where when im being bullied my teacher is like "oh just ignore it and they will stop" when no fucking way it wont. so im not just gonna ignore you. ill respond to you, continue to talk about endogenics, keep my head up.

if you think that pro endos saying "wait until the world catches up and realizes that you are hateful and wrong" makes us a hategroup then you need to seriously rethink the kind of situation you are in. yeah its a threat. you know what else is a threat? the fact that you can go to prison for assaulting someone. is that a hateful idea? the threat of punishment for your actions? its almost like if you do something wrong there will be consequences. wow what a concept.

[anonymousfield]

i dont get why you are arguing a point no one is arguing against no shit not every single traumatizing situation will cause a person to become a system we know you arent saying that and that isnt an actual point you are just trying to say that we are wrong in any way you are trying to get people to say something that you can loop around to saying "and thats why endos cant possibly exist" so stop being stupid on my post thanks

the idea that pro endos shouldnt fight back against anti endos or else that means we are being hateful and/or a hategroup is so stupid to me

imagine being told that your existence is wrong, you should kill yourself, you are "delusional", and these people dont just say it outside your community but they actively come inside your spaces and say it to your face. you are gonna look at me and tell me that i should just ignore it? because talking back apparently makes me worse than them? what are we in middle school? where when im being bullied my teacher is like "oh just ignore it and they will stop" when no fucking way it wont. so im not just gonna ignore you. ill respond to you, continue to talk about endogenics, keep my head up.

if you think that pro endos saying "wait until the world catches up and realizes that you are hateful and wrong" makes us a hategroup then you need to seriously rethink the kind of situation you are in. yeah its a threat. you know what else is a threat? the fact that you can go to prison for assaulting someone. is that a hateful idea? the threat of punishment for your actions? its almost like if you do something wrong there will be consequences. wow what a concept.

[anonymousfield]

wanna clarify that me agreeing with "not all trauma causes systems" i meant it as not every situation with trauma would cause a system (which i was like yeah duh) when i now think that they were saying "not all types of trauma causes systems" which i dont agree with

the idea that pro endos shouldnt fight back against anti endos or else that means we are being hateful and/or a hategroup is so stupid to me

imagine being told that your existence is wrong, you should kill yourself, you are "delusional", and these people dont just say it outside your community but they actively come inside your spaces and say it to your face. you are gonna look at me and tell me that i should just ignore it? because talking back apparently makes me worse than them? what are we in middle school? where when im being bullied my teacher is like "oh just ignore it and they will stop" when no fucking way it wont. so im not just gonna ignore you. ill respond to you, continue to talk about endogenics, keep my head up.

if you think that pro endos saying "wait until the world catches up and realizes that you are hateful and wrong" makes us a hategroup then you need to seriously rethink the kind of situation you are in. yeah its a threat. you know what else is a threat? the fact that you can go to prison for assaulting someone. is that a hateful idea? the threat of punishment for your actions? its almost like if you do something wrong there will be consequences. wow what a concept.