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Happy Boop Day??

Made this ~extremely~ shabby aspec boop but wanted to share the boops with ya'll! Unfortunately this is a sideblog so I can't send you any from here but if you'd like some, feel free to send them in and I'll boop back!

💚🤍🩶🖤🩶🤍💜

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‘Yeah probably a-spec somehow’ is a valid a-spec identity.

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how about instead of endlessly defending the word “queerplatonic,” henceforth when an allo decides to start shitTM we respond by demanding they explain in detail what a “romantic relationship” is and then condescendingly ask them if they’ve ever heard of ““friends””

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Aro culture is feeling absolutely terrified and sick to your stomach when you got "crushes" on people or people had crushes on you, regardless if the feelings were mutual but then id-ing as aro and suddenly you find yourself no longer forcing yourself to experience attraction and everything feels so much better now! You don't have to fall in love or be romantically available! I can just vibe!

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[ID: The John Mulaney meme. The first panel shows John Mulaney yelling “No!” at “romance is more meaningful than friendship”. The second panel shows John Mulaney yelling “Yeah!” at “romance and friendship can be equally meaningful”. End ID]

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I think what really bothers me about my friends getting married and having kids is that it reminds me that there is a Life Path ™ out there that so many people follow and they’re all excited about it and it works really well for them and I’m just sitting here going “well I don’t know what the Hell I want out of life but it sure isn’t that”

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Weird kid aro culture is constantly questioning if you're actually aro or if you just convinced yourself you were so you'd be less sad about people not wanting to date you

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i just rlly want arospec ppl to know how damn excellent they are

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being oriented aroace is complicated because i still see myself as gay. like as an enby who identified as lesbian for YEARS and can still only see themselves building a life with a wxman... calling myself gay makes sense.

my mind is so used to thinking and seeing the world as a lesbian that even as i actively and fully acknowledge myself as an aroace person, i still see wxmen i’m aesthetically attracted to and think “ashsldjdkd i’m Big Gay 🤤”. because. well. i am Big Gay. just... maybe not the type of Big Gay you’re thinking of.

anyways, being oriented aroace can be weird sometimes.

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isnt it already

Since lesbians have Girl in red, and bisexuals have Sweather weather, I propose that the aro anthem is "Never been in love" by Will Jay

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Aros: Reblog this and put in the tags your thoughts on thunderstorms.

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Blank by @lazer-exe

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Smash that reblog button if you love being aromantic or aro-spec

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Me (15yo): I don't find any of the popular people attractive, I guess I just haven't found my type

Me (17yo): I'm not asexual, but I'd like having an asexual partner, they wouldn't always want sex from me

Me now: wait a minute...

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Top 15 Aroace HP Characters

15. Ranking 14. Them 13. Is 12. A 11. Fool’s  10. Errand 9. All 8. Aroace 7. HCs 6. For 5. HP 4. Characters 3. Are 2. Excellent 1. Charlie Weasley

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Lust is not a sin

Sex and sexual attraction without any kind of emotional bond is not wrong

You can be a kind, caring, gentle person while still wanting sex without romance

Sexual attraction without romantic attraction is normal and healthy

*Anyone can reblog but this post is specifically about alloaros, do not derail