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Things I've Learned Thus Far in Year Twenty-Fine...

This year, was the year that I truly stepped into who I am in everything that I am. I am operating in my purpose while continuously learning things about myself. This is the BEST journey that I could ever be on. These are some of the things that I’ve learned…

Belief in something greater than you (God) is the best foundation you'll ever have

Forgive yourself for who you used to be...you didn't know any better

Pour into yourself before anyone else..you can't give from an empty cup

Be your own biggest fan

Believe in you....even if you're the only one

Make peace with what was, so that you can embrace what is

Not everyone is deserving of your love

Time is the one thing that no one can reimburse you on...spend it wisely with people who matter

Clarity comes when you are still in who you are

Accountability will always set you free from your demons

The truth will always show its face when it matters the most

Happiness is a choice...if you choose it, it will choose you

Rejection is always protection

Be the love that you wish to receive

The great things in life require your patience

Loving yourself out loud is a form of affirmation...the universe hears your thoughts

Life doesn't owe us kindness...you have to give it to yourself

It's OK to outgrow people and situations

Separation comes before elevation

Do good things and it will always come back to you

Healing takes time

You will always find the answers you seek when being still

Love is and always will be an action word

Putting yourself first is not selfish...it's self preservation

Fear can only thrive if you feed it

Energy is real and if it doesn't feel right...run the other way

Success is what you believe it to be

Don't take things personally....a lot of shit has nothing to do with you

Life is too short to not do and be whatever and whoever the fuck you want.

Follow me on social media or write me an email...either way we good.

I wrote a book…..get it here

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He released me into orbit...🎼 That show last night has been playing over and over again in my head. If you don’t know who @this_nao is..swipe right to hear the vocals hunnnnnyyyyy. Her music is amazing WITH meaningful lyrics. Look her up. I’ll be seeing her whenever she comes this way again. #astoldbywhit #life #nao #friday #friyay #concert #greatness #orbit #saturn (at The Masquerade) https://www.instagram.com/p/BtpIBjOndPK/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=usfqon7fa7rt

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She’s a writer writer. Yes I cried. Yes I’m still crying. Yes I screamed. Yes I’m still screaming. It feels good to hold in your hands something that you worked hard at doing. The late nights, the early mornings, and the road blocks in between. God is good. I can’t wait to share with you all ❤️ #astoldbywhit #writer #authorsofinstagram #author #greatness #tuesdaymotivation #blackauthors #tuesday #book #firstbook (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BthIo5VHm_G/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1xdqvqrwo5fod

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Cover art for my upcoming novel....coming soon! I’m super excited! The sample is on the way for final approval! I’m a perfectionist and I want this to be as close as perfect for you all to enjoy! Writing is my passion and I hope you all relate to and enjoy this book. Details on a release date are coming soon! 😘 #astoldbywhit #friday #bookstagram #publishedauthor #authorsofinstagram #blackauthors #blackgirlmagic #love #life #friyay #coverart (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BtVpL90H75A/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=lqn6a1t5doee

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Needed this today ❤️ Happy Sunday Beautiful People 💋 Catch up on the latest blog and podcast at www.astoldbywhit.com #astoldbywhit #life #love #podcast #blogger #vlogger #greatness #sunday #sundayfunday #sundayvibes #godisgood https://www.instagram.com/p/BsldsQcH-T1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=h0sfodyhg1im

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I Still Believe.... New blog post is up! Link in bio and below! www.astoldbywhit.com/new-blog-3/believe #AsToldByWhit #love #blogger #writer #blackwriters #happyfriday #friday #fridayreads #lovelife #growthmindset #video #cinematography #creative #vlogger (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsfeLK7ncxU/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=706j18akui9k

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#tbt 💋 Missing the camera...more photoshoots...coming soon 💋 📸 @atomblk Styled By: @cocomonroe89 #AsToldByWhit #life #love #model #tbt #photography #grafiti #blackwriters #blackblogger #thursday #vlogger #thursdayvibes #photography_lovers https://www.instagram.com/p/Bsc6NuTn2OT/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=105f80axbeykk

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Not Another 2019 Goals Blog Post is up now at! Check it Out! http://www.astoldbywhit.com/new-blog-3/2019 #astoldbywhit #blogger #2019goals #vlogger #life #love #friyay #happyfriday #friday #writer #blackwriter #blackblogger #fridaymotivation #motivationalfriday (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsNZjw-ntb5/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ujvo9551uwpn

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First Selfie of 2019! *insert some kind of amazing caption* #astoldbywhit #life #love #writer #blogger #vlogger #thursday #motherhood #naturalhair #puff (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsK-hXynr6Z/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11xa0rbcwwicg

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Best Moment (next to buying my house was this) Taking my kid to the happiest place on Earth by myself, and funded by myself. 🙌🏾 His eyes in this moment will forever be printed on my heart ❤️ 2019 where shall we go next? Don’t forget to check out the last podcast of the year! Link in bio 💋 #astoldbywhit #life #love #greatness #disneyvacation #disneyworld #happiestplaceonearth #parenting #motherhood #motherandson #blessed #2018highlight (at Disney's Animal Kingdom) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsEX5e3nFFq/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=76xqikvcu1a3

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It’s been real 2018 ✌🏾 Listen now to the last podcast of 2018 for @astoldbywhit featuring @pinklipkilla and @superstarraa 🥳 iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/as-told-by-whit-podcast-edition/id1255933303?mt=2#episodeGuid=570bf6d720c64777421cbae6%3A59595e7486e6c0de95549238%3A5c296053758d46566d006d68 🍾 SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/user-461232275-397896236/last-podcast-of-the-year 🎊 Website: www.astoldbywhit.com/podcast-edition/thelastpodcastoftheyear 💋 #astoldbywhit #life #love #happynewyear #2018 #blogger #vlogger #podcast #monday #mondaymotivation #happymonday #pickme (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BsDt18wnQ8J/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=j7rgqaazwv9c

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Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 #astoldbywhit #life #love #holidays #great #tuesday #family #writer #blogger #vlogger #brandambassador #motherandson https://www.instagram.com/p/Br0ZU3RHNjr/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=zpzq6b48r6pr

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A Word... #astoldbywhit #life #love #quotes #saturdayvibes #saturday #motivationalquotes #writer #blogger https://www.instagram.com/p/Brs-jNknpoN/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=129o11fxyda5

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Bathroom photoshoots are always fun 💋 This outfit is by @twoavenue and it is 🔥 Shop @twoavenue TODAY just in time for the holidays! Tell em Whit sent ya 💋😉 #AsToldByWhit #life #love #greatness #photoshoot #bathroomselfie #thursday #thursdaynight #model #brandambassador #twoavenue #blogger #vlogger #writer (at South Carolina) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrWhBhwH7sr/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1oqdwc3bpmwcg

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Oh the weather outside is frightful but the fire is so delightful... #astoldbywhit #life #love #parenting #motherandson #goals #tuesday #fire #fireplace #happyholidays #blogger #writer #vlogger #family https://www.instagram.com/p/BrROJsRH2zI/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1saw1pwzu57n2