We are a diagnosed DID system blog. Our system name is Atlas and we have 10 known members. There's Rox, Rosemary, Torton, Mimi, Greyson, Lilo, Clarice, Cassie, Snap and the host Mordecai.Other DX C-PTSD, Panic Attacks, pseudo autism symptoms caused by trauma, ehlers danlos, Bipolar disorder, Anorexia, essential tremor. Also host is Trans Two-Spirit/Genderqueer
Well, I apparently have OCD. Which makes sense because it’s the first diagnosis I ever recieved nearly 10 years ago. I always disregarded it because it was like OCD and hypochondriasis had a baby out of wedlock.
But recently my eating disorder has gotten much better. Everything has gotten much better. Except now I have overwhelming thought anxiety that is torturous and the obsessive thoughts are no longer about health issues. I’m scared that I’m gonna get hit by a car, die in some horrible accident, cause a car or bus crash, accidentally kill someone, accidentally kill a kid, be unable to perform cpr or first aid correctly, kill someone by doing cpr or first aid incorrectly etc. etc.
My psychiatrist asked if I had any compulsions and I said no. And then I started noticing them. Obsessively reading first aid manuals (multiple), checking to make sure cars aren’t coming multiple times, checking locks, checking ovens, checking my backpack to make sure I have my first aid kit even though I checked five minutes ago.
Here I thought it was just normal anxious thoughts. And I don’t know what to do. I’m practicing mindfulness of thoughts and self soothing mostly but the thoughts won’t stop and it’s horrible and I’m constantly afraid. My sleep has been terrible because I’m afraid we’ll all die in a fire. This is horrible and frightening but I’ll get through it somehow. I really don’t want another med though.
Hey, Rosemary here! I've been out for a bit here and there but this is the longest in awhile. The room looked like a hurricane hit it...a massive hurricane. Cleaning is a massive trigger with him when it's anything other than minor cleanup. In exchange I picked out a meal. Mordecai relapsed with the eating disorder massively, and we will likely have to go back to residential. He promised not to use behaviors after this, so at least I got some nutrition into this body.
Especially since we're dealing with Mitochondrial Myopathy, which gets worse without proper nutrition. He had a lung functio test on Monday and did so poorly that the computer wouldn't even record his breathing.
A few days ago I wrote a suicide note, which I've never done before when suicidal. I've been starting to accept that I was sexually assaulted in January. And with that I feel hopeless that I will ever be strong. I feel like I can't defend myself at all and that I'm too weak to exist. I believe that it will happen again and again, and I can't do anything to stop it. Rosemary came out and notified the staff of my worsened suicidality. She handed over the note and talked to one of the therapists. She suggested I talk about it during group processing. This scared the shit out of me. I did discuss it, but only the therapist replied. No one else has anything to say. Support felt absent. I feel like it did not help me at all. But I am trying to fight it.
Now I'm on sharps restriction. No knife use during cooking group. I don't think I can use scissors. All glass and sharp things are locked up. Frequent check ins from staff. And if gets worse or I become more unsafe then I'll be transferred to a hospital inpatient psych unit. Which would be counter productive. Their groups suck and are barely helpful, I wouldn't have the same compassionate staff support, I'd isolate more, I'd be alone more often, and I'd have insufficient or absent support with eating and no weight checks or nutritional supplementation.
Can you like/reblog this post if you’re part of a system and your body is over 20 years old? I’m tired of how we’re seen as cringey because we’re “too old to be multiple” when treating systems as cringey really just reveals that people think systems are fake.