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So we got an uncredited repost of grouchy old people complaning about young people and their phones having fun

Who’s in control?  

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Can you please take this out of the anti tags?

Anti-Blogs

“Wait, what are we doing?!”

“We’re raising awareness of this horrible ship so that everyone knows how bad it is, and that they shouldn’t ship it because it makes people like us feel bad, and that makes them bad!”

“But how is THIS going to do to accomplish that? No one who already ships this is going to stop because of our content. Why should this ship determine how we spend our free time?”

“It doesn’t! It’s just…I mean..it’s so…”

“….AAARRGH!!”

“I know, I hate this ship too!”

“But we’ve been spending so much time on this lately, making countless text posts, sending anon hate, even making art and music about how much the people who ship this suck.”

”This ship is the reason we made this blog.”

“Oh gosh…we are obsessed!”

“Look, I don’t want to stop talking to you, and creating fan content with you, but I don’t want to make it about this ship I hate anymore. Let’s focus on the ships we like, let’s put more content out there for them! Let’s raise awareness of the good ships!”

“Yeah. Let’s just blacklist the content we don’t like, and dedicate a blog to talking about how much we love the good ships!”

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lol people can hate ships if they want to

this is pewey all over again

why cant you all be mature for once and just let people ship what they want

im so tired of this, 

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Greg X Pearl sucks ass

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And hey. Pearl is still very much a lesbian. Pearl X Dewey sucks

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Hey. I haven’t been on here much because honestly a lot of times I feel like being an anti is incredibly draining

I probably won’t be very active in the future on this account and on Tumblr in general like I have been since April

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Gender and pleasure

So much of the Euro-American understanding of being trans (or anything other than 100% constantly identified with your assigned gender) focuses on discomfort. 

Some people take this idea to an extreme and claim you can’t be trans unless you hate your body and want every surgery available to you. As many other writers have said before, that’s not true. It’s perfectly possible to be trans with only mild dysphoria or none at all. It’s perfectly possible to be trans and have a mental map of your body that looks just like the one you already have. 

But I’d like to push even harder against the idea that trans=discomfort. I’d like to offer this: sometimes the exploration of one’s gender can be motivated by pleasure rather than discomfort. 

Let me give an example. Let’s say there’s a person named Cal. Most people think of Cal as a boy, and Cal’s all right with that. So far as Cal’s concerned, a boy isn’t a bad thing to be. But sometimes, Cal likes to imagine being a girl and being treated as a girl. Those fantasies are always accompanied by feelings of pleasure, satisfaction, anticipation, and warmth. Eventually, having had these thoughts for years, Cal asks people to use ‘she’ pronouns in private and to refer to her as a girl. Cal does this for another year before claiming the label “trans”. 

Some people would say a person like Cal can’t be trans because there’s no dysphoria, self-hatred, distress, or even discomfort. There’s just a pleasure-based preference. But why is distress necessary? Why are trans people supposed to be defined solely by our pain and self-hatred?

It’s my opinion that defining trans people solely by discomfort is an aspect of transphobia. The idea behind trans=discomfort is that being anything other than 100% cis is so awful that no one would do it unless the alternative were unlivable. Think about that: defining trans people solely by their experiences of discomfort means believing that being trans is so awful that only misery could drive us to it. And to me, that sounds like the thinking of someone who really hates trans people.

So I’ll come out and say it: sometimes transition or self-exploration of gender is not just about lessening discomfort, but is about improving and deepening the pleasure we take in our lives. 

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Camilla’s armor looks like shit! The only reason she’s like that is for fanservice alone!

Charlotte’s armor is a different case though. She chooses to wear that kind of armor to trick men. Because she chooses to wear it, that’s not in the same vein as Camilla.

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Nobody else has it in them to callout the gross shit in the FeFates fandom, so damned if I have to do it all myself!

Gross FeFates ships:

Kamui/royal siblings (you’re related)

Kamui x Azura (spoiler: they’re cousins)

Kamui/royal sibling children (this..shouldn’t have to be said)

Kamui x Shigure (Azura is your cousin, therefore Shigure is related to you to)

Kamui x Rhajat (She’s incredibly invasive of Kamui’s space, very unhealthy)

Kamui x any young kid (like Midori or Percy..they’re definitely not adults!)

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So I’ve been playing Fire Emblem Fates for the past month. I gotta say, the fact that there are canon incest options are pretty gross. The game also lets you marry little kids who are also related to you! That’s pretty shitty!

The game tried to  justify this  by making your siblings be not canonly blood related to you, but making you adopted instead and, in their logic, somehow making adopted siblings not siblings anymore and therefore not “real incest”. Adopted siblings = still your siblings! Just b/c you find out your sib isn’t your blood sib anymore does it make them stop being your sib!

Oh and before any shippers say that I’ve been posting in their ship tags- I put a hyphen in so that it wouldn’t show up in your incest! You’re welcome (not really)

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http://wishgod.tumblr.com/post/141509358578/enoshimo-billdiphater-lmaooo-why-do-people

sighhh more aro/acephobes to block

Please block wishgod and enoshimo if you’re in the aro spectrum, ace spectrum, both, or give a crap about aromantics and asexuals.

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The way m/m is fetishized in fandoms turned me off to exploring a healthy selection of that genre for quite awhile. So, shipping same gender doesn’t automatically make you a good ally because you can actually increase homophobia with your gay fetishes by making gay men a porn genre instead of treating them like people.

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💝 pls help me fight cancer 💝

hello, everyone! this will probably one of my few posts that isn’t related to TV shows or whatever. BUT this is more important, I promise. I’m a part of a club at my university called Colleges Against Cancer. We are a group that, as the title suggests, is very actively involved with fighting cancer. We hold at least one fundraiser a month in which all of the proceeds go to the American Cancer Society. Each year, we hold a large fundraiser towards the end of the year called “Relay for Life.” It is our biggest event of the year, last year we raised over $80,000 for ACS.

Basically what I’m getting at is that I plan on raising (at least) $100 for the cause. If you guys could donate to my link, I would greatly appreciate it! Even the slightest bit would help me immensely!

Click anywhere in this sentence to donate and/or check the link out! Thank you :)

PS–I know that my Relay profile is bland and generic, but I just got around to creating it. I promise I’ll have more info about myself and why I Relay up shortly. Thank you for being patient w me babes xoxox

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I'm becoming more popular! Aro/acephobes are engaging in argument with me!

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A fool: aros and aces don't belong in the lgbt!!!

Me: then what's that A for?

A fool: um..,apples,,,anteaters,,

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Tfw people haven't realized that the "controversial statement" post was talking about people who id as both aro and ace. Though they have a place in the lgbt, Cishet aro/aces are straight and cannot reclaim the q slur

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Lmaooo why do people still believe aces aren't oppressed