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I think it's funny how men just jerk off sometimes nonchalantly. Like that's such a dude thing to do. Jerkin it while doing nonsexual shit like playing minecraft, listening to music, reading a book, sometimes even in public restrooms. Just jorkin that thang. Lol. No, no, every dude does this, I promise. Yes, really. It's just a funny little quirk all men have and so you should really consider it as a part of your transition. Take your t dick between your pointer and middle finger and jerk it for a bit every time you shower or scroll on your phone or take a piss -- actually, how about you do it right now. Uh, we're both men. Of course it's fine. Don't make it weird. Yeah, there you go. Just like that. Good b- job, dude. And if both of your hands are busy, you can just put a vibrator in your pants and keep it on low. Just enough to keep your cock nice and hard. Yeah, man, every guy I know does this. Whether you're doing the dishes, going for a walk, going shopping, you can always get off to keep yourself nice and dumb and masculine. Always make sure to stop before you cum though.

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STOP! before you decide you are irretrievably doomed, try one of the following options:

transition

bdsm

iron supplements

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something that isnt really mentioned too much about bottom dysphoria (or probably cus I dont look for it since it makes me uncomfortable) is that if you are healthy and have a libido having your genitals stimulated feels good

like regardless on how dysphoric you are, its a fully functioning vagina with alot of nerves so duh, its gonna make you orgasm

and alot of people equate bottom dysphoria with it always being painful and hating the feeling during the act but for me that just aint true. When all the hormones rush into your head it just feels pleasurable

but for me the dysphoria comes after

i feel numb, i feel gross, i remeber that i hate that my body is hardwired to want this. Its not that i think its disgusting or shameful but it isnt me or what i would normally want

after masturbation or sex youre supposed to feel light and calm, not dissasociate while having uncomfortable after shocks

it would be so much easier if it hurt or felt bad as justification but it just isnt, biologically my body wants that and thats where disconnect is so : bam, a different version bottom dysphoria

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im not kidding, i have never felt more euphoric than when I put my realistic packer in a pair of cute red lace panties

giving new meaning to hard silicone am i right

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I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

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something really funny about not being attracted to a women's chest at all is thinking 'nice rack' with absolutley no inflection behind it

like a deadpan : wow cool tits 12ft tall poster lady on victoria secret's shop window, and then walking away imagining that bra on a busty dude

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i mean, duh

heres the link :

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*a fantasy of mine is to have a public ring ceremony and then a private collaring one with just us two so im testin the waters

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A word I hear thrown around alot regarding transgender people (or more accurately, transgender people who wish to take hormones/have surgery) is mutalation

They obviously dont know what they are talking about because I feel like I've already been torn apart and put back together wrong, thats the whole point

The true mutialtion is waking up everyday as if I feel asleep with the right genitals then waking up with an open wound, as if someone cut it off in the night. Shocked, numb, naked and wrong.

And like that couldnt suck enough, every jackass with a megaphone starts shreiking to anyone whod listen: you are insane for feeling this way, there is nothing wrong you are just mentally ill, god sent you as a demon to corrupt our christian values or whatever

First time I heard the word mutliation in regards to transgender people I was eleven. Called broken and disgusting before I understood the meaning of the word and yet I'm still here. Degradation and neglect isnt something new to us. Now what

*this is more of a transexual rant than a transgender one. I ID as both obviously, but the looming threat of having all my medical necessities stripped away is becoming more apparent than anything

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is it true that straight people are out there marrying someone they are lukewarm at best with or are yall pulling this out of your ass?

Where is the fire?! Where is the crazed co-dependency and schedueled date fight nights where whoever bleeds first bottoms!?!

​if you dont massage your lovers hands after date fight night are you even alive?

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How faggy am I allowed to be with u? I have a weird proposition involving online sexting stuff

no fagginess permitted, I'm a pervert but also demisexual so that kind of makes things harder

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just accidently saw the most fucked up porn on twt, am now dedicating myself to only buying softcore gay mens underwear magazines circa 1987 and beleiving that if I jerk off too much my palms will get hairy

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I want the type of relationship where we both have collars on, both leading eachother by our leashes at the same time and as we walk the other in different directions its snaps us back so hard our heads make an audible bonk