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Life of Lamb #2: Allies

This comic was based on a real life incident, and to me feels important to post on Pride Month.

If you take away any message from this, it's that there are cis people who will stand up for trans people, even when push comes to shove.

We are not alone.

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I’m not a linguist, so there’s every possibility in the world that I’m not defining things correctly, but in the same way that cold is the absence of heat, I do think that shame is the absence of pride.

It’d be easy to say that it’s silly to be ashamed of aspects of yourself, but that’s neither true nor fair.  If you’re ashamed of the circumstances of your birth, that doesn’t come from you, that comes from a world that has socially conditioned you to believe you are less than.

I grew up in a politically conservative family.  I’d be in the car or on the couch or in the kitchen and my parents would have on conservative talk radio or fox news or similar, and I was conditioned to think that my gender issues were something that I should be ashamed of, something I needed to keep hidden. 

My shame was a learned behavior taught to me by my family.

It took decades, but I did learn to love myself.

I did come out.

I did develop a sense of pride over who I am.

If you’re someone who’s in the closet, or someone who is struggling with their identity, or feeling shame over who you are, you’re not alone. 

You’re also not to blame for feeling that shame.  There are always going to be people who try to “other” folks.  Those people are the issue, not you. 

It takes time to overcome the feeling; it doesn’t happen overnight.

Someday, I hope you can feel the same pride I do now.

Happy pride.

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I am Emma, goddess of the moon flower. I love it ✨✨✨

*psst* @aliceistiredofhiding *whispering* wanna try?

I am Arran, god of the most important thing

EDIT: if y'all don’t wanna use your name use your username

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The Curse of Loving Like a Trans Lesbian.

I think the most beautiful and cruel part of being a trans girl—especially one overflowing with emotion—is just how affectionately, how deeply, we love.

There's no “casual” setting for us. No dimmer switch. We fall in love hard, like we end up staying up too late just to hear her breathe on the other end of the line.

Especially when it’s with her, you know the one—it feels like everything hits deeper. Every touch, every giggle, every sleepy cuddle while sharing a blanket that's too small.

We get attached so fast—not because we're weak, but because we feel everything. Because we see each other, hold space for one another in ways the world often never has.

And when the visit ends… when the door closes, or the screen goes dark, or the warmth beside you is suddenly gone—?

It feels like a heartache. Like your entire world has quietly unraveled and no one else even noticed.

You walk around suddenly feeling extremely touch-starved, or wearing her clothes because they still smell like her. We are suddenly aching for the weight of her arms, her voice, her little silly rituals she does that only you know about.

You can try to play it cool, but you know deep down, your whole soul is just screaming:

“Please come back. Please hold me again. I need to feel your touch.”

But the truth is… this is part of the magic too.

Because when two trans girls fall in love—

we really do fall in love.

It’s not just romance to us, it’s something more.

Because being a trans girl in love? Can be heartbreaking at times, sure.

But, it’s so worth it.

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✨🏳️‍⚧️ A short pride comic, hope you’re all well 🏳️‍⚧️✨

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This is so sweet I just can't 😭😭😭

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happy pride month to all the “weird” queers. The ones who use neopronouns, the ones who feel xenogenders fit them best, the ones who use micro labels that barely any people know, the ones that make their own flags. I love you, and you’re not “too weird” to be in this community.

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I walk through fields of flowers, that bloom when they see your moonlight, your beautiful rays of mystery, your sorcery of confidence, your insightful and elegant looks and expressions, the symmetry of your judgment, along with the whimsical joy that you bring to me when you joke about whatever. These flowers know as much as I do, for I, too, bloom when I see you.

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BREAKDOWN BREAKDOWN 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Featuring @koalaphoenix !! Go follow her instead she is much cooler than me

ALSO DISCLAIMER: I actually love mitochondria and biology stuff lmao BUT schools 100% should teach practical stuff as well. In my high school I had 3 classes a week dedicated to religion that could've been used to show us which stocks to invest in or sm

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Pumpycakes 🧡🎃

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i ❤️ non passing trans people

i ❤️ passing trans people

i ❤️ non stereotypical trans people

i ❤️ stereotypical trans people

i ❤️ binary trans people

i ❤️ non binary trans people

i love trans people

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Duuuuude but ok listennnnnn.

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Sanbun 💕

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So, gumball is an egg, right? He literally refers to himself as a girl indirectly and is perfectly fine wearing girl clothes and just overall gives off heavy egg vibes. There's so many moments that just scream egg, and there's literally a pride flag sticker in the show, so it's not like the creators were unaware of lgbtq stuff. They made him like that for a reason, and its not played for a joke like some shows do. It's an entirely serious part of his character.

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My endos coming to fill me with estrogen and T blockers

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“You’re a nerd” I say as I look at you with heart eyes while you info dump to me