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Grimoir jsk by Metamorphose. Lace blouse is from Lolita Collective the black with red floral petticoat came from Devil Inspired.

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New dress from Metamorphose I love the little cape it’s super cute and fun to wear! The shoes are the Worlds End wood platform ballet flats from Vivienne Westwood. The blouse is from lolita collective. The pochette is Nekokumya and socks both from Baby the Stars Shine Bright. My favourite part about this coord is the way the little flowers on my petticoat peak out from under the dress just enough to know they’re there but not too much.

I’m currently collecting metamorphose I really love their products and the shipping is fast. This is my second jsk from them with a third on the way and plan on adding more in September. 😇

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Diamonds may be a girls best friend but a sturdy umbrella will keep you dry and cool it can also be used for self defence in a pinch! ☂️🌂 ☺️

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Sacred Heart purse by Enchanted Dream Couture arrived in the mail today. I already know what jsk and other accessories I’m going to use with it. 😇

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Had a package arrive from BTSSB today. The Nekokumya pochette is my first stuffed animal purse and I love it! 😇

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New kitsune tail to add to my collection of tails. This one has a medium sized tug plug on it that can be removed if the situation requires a tie on tail. Each tail is 29” long and is made with faux fur.

This is my second tail from the Ukrainian seller Okova on Etsy. So if you’re looking for a nice handmade tail or ears I recommend their products. 😇

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Be more queer…

Be more goth…

And tell the TERFs to fuck right off!! 🖕

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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Ha! My grandma knit these slippers for me. Just a lazy Friday afternoon look 😇

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Marble vampire dress. I need to add a few gothic headpieces next. 😇

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This is my first brand dress! The quality is just amazing and it was worth every cent! Unfortunately it’s a little too small so it’ll be an awesome motivator to lose some weight before spring so I can wear it comfortably. I’ve been doing a ab and glute workout every other day and dieting which has also been helping reduce the pain I get in the mornings from Crohn’s disease. 😇

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please please PLEASE be wary of devil inspired!! theyre very well known to basically be run on a string and you are lucky if you have a good process. their customer support is non existent, several listings on the site aren't actually in stock, if you manage to get a hold of support they will just straight lie to you, etc. please find a different taobao reseller + actually know the brands you are buyin! knowin taobao or the reseller name is not really too helpful in findin the dress nor does it help the brand to have it's dress torn from it and slapped with a different company's name.

also dw abt not makin lolita. makin clothes isn't really cheaper if you want it to be good quality ft. also hours of your time + equipment costs. most lolitas do not make their stuff like, at all.

I couldn’t really recommend DI although I’ve had a good experience shopping there I’ve also heard some bad things as well. That’s pretty much the same for every taobao reseller, long wait times and terrible if not nonexistent customer service. I only bought my first order from them because I am still really new to lolita and trying to find my way. I’ve only been into it since October and I didn’t know I could use other, more reliable and faster shopping services to buy directly from lolita shops in Japan which is how I’m buying my dresses going forward.

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This dress is named “Where is the Cat?” by Lady Sloth. The bat lace details on it is my favourite lace so far.

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I may have to go check this out!

Transgender characters in  Sims 4 can now wear binders, shapewear, and have top surgery scars

Life simulation game Sims 4 shows the world how easy it is to be transgender positive.

Pink News reports:

The new options can be found under three categories: medical wearables, top surgery scars, binders and shapewear.

Medical wearables include hearing aids and glucose monitors, while binders and shapewear include new tucking underwear, tank tops, and binders.

Over at The Daily Beast Shannon O’Connor writes:

Not only does it add some much needed inclusivity to video games, but it also is an outlet for queer players of The Sims who are going through the personal struggle of coming to terms with their identity that lets them truly be seen. Now, anyone struggling with gender dysphoria can create a Sim with top surgery scars or a binder, live a little like that in the game and maybe start to feel a real sense of self. 

There are obviously also a lot of trans people who use Sims to explore and express their gender identity before (or without) transitioning, and who will not make use of these additions. That is fine too.

Regardless: Electronic Arts (EA) deserves praise for taking the needs of trans people seriously.

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Where do you get your stuff? How much is handmade vs bought and if its the later do you have stores you recommend?

I bought this dress on Devil Inspired. It’s a big website for J fashion and I find the prices are pretty good. I think you could probably save some money if you have the skills to make it yourself unfortunately I don’t have that kind of skill. Would love to see if you do make a dress yourself though.

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Henlo,

My name is Daphne. I am a transgender woman from Canada and new to wearing lolita fashion. Looking forward to meeting new friends in the community. 😇