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Divine beast! Born to be wild and free, and yet you hold yourself so noble and reverent. A chaos of contradictions, a bundle of conflicting natures that compliment each other to create a cohesive yet confusing whole. Thousands of years old, but created yesterday, one entity yet many. Prince Daoinrai the Dearheart, feylord of Reunion and Mending. Found family and outcasts.

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The idea that blood is necessary to live is actually a lie spread by werewolves so we don't give food to poor hungry vampires.

Actually you can lose all your blood and be fine, so if you just let me in your house...

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Don't ask me for relationship advice cause I'll tell you to kill him

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sorry he bit you. It’s his coping mechanism

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Bella spooked a snake outside (I didn't get a good look at the head or belly but most likely a black racer, nonvenomous) and it hid in our A/C unit.....

We went inside immediately, so hopefully it comes back out before the unit turns on :(

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Sometimes I remember there was a time when we all had folders on our computers specifically to house reaction gifs

and I feel like a victorian explaining how penny candy used to work or something, even though this was like less than a decade ago

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Both silly and frustrating that the mind can be chock full of creative ideas and things I want to do meanwhile I look like this

head full, body sleeby

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you. yes you, person with rejection sensitive dysphoria. this message is for you. your friends DON'T hate you. they aren't mad at you. they aren't talking behind your back or wished to cut their friendship with you. they love you and treasure you and they are good people who wouldn't hurt you like that! ok, that's all. have a nice day.

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i want 60 thousand votes by next thursday

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I can't stop thinking about what his story would be like if he were a tiefling.

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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

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Fangs in my neck

Please

Please

Please

Hello

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coloring cabochons and having a great time

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do you ever think about how sometimes it just... takes one random message? and suddenly you find yourself with a best friend or in constant conversation with someone who lives on the other side of the world but is just as much of a freak as you are or maybe you find yourself in love with someone without a last name but with so much kindness and affection in their words and presence. crazy how life and love and friendship just happen