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Flashback to that one moment where it felt like I'd found an aroace cheatcode on life somehow

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Okay, I'm gonna rant a bit about love, queerness and amatonormativity.

I love my best friend. I hug her, I kiss her, I cuddle with her. But we're "just" friends.

People think we are a couple all the time, they even ask if we fuck, if we are together, if we are exclusive. We're friends, why can't I cuddle with a friend?

If we're out she usually sits on my lap and I hug her waist and rest my head on her shoulder. Yes, it's intimate and we're both bisexual girls, but why can't we be "just" friends? And why do I have to say "just"? When someone asks it's always "oh no, we're just friends, nothing more". Wtf? She's not a "just", she's the person who helped me during my depressive episodes and who still helps me, she's the one who listens to my rants, my insecurities, my special interests, literally everything. We went on holiday together, I know her allergies and her medical problems, her coffee order and her little obsessions. I'm more comfortable with her than when I'm alone with myself.

Nothing of this happened with my ex boyfriend. He sure as fuck didn't know all my insecurities and didn't held me when I cried.

But he was someone I loved and she's "just a friend".

I love her too. It's not romantic love but why is it so important? Why do I have to have a hierarchy of people and the love I feel for someone is worth more than the love I feel for someone else?

I'm a bisexual, demiromantic, lovepunk, polyamourous anarchist, what makes you think that I want a hierarchy of any sort in my life?

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—*•.¸♡ diane x king ♡¸.•*

— 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘨 𝘪𝘧 𝘶 𝘴𝘢𝘷𝘦. 𝘥𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘵¡! ♡

— 《紫》

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Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

Bombing kids is not self defense

[escapistpainter]

Noor Harazeen you are the world's hero. You're completely correct, this is not normal. This is evil and no human needs to make these decisions.

[escapistpainter]

Hi everyone! This will be my first time making a blog so I'm not too sure how everything works just yet. The main stuff I'll post about is shows, animes, manga series, some video games, mental health recovery, fanfics if requested, and just random stuff.

My fandoms list:

• Assassination Classroom

• Bungo Stray Dogs

• Haikyuu

• Hazbin Hotel

• Obey me

•Omori

•Ouran Highschool Host Club

• Sally face

• Tokyo revengers

My Dms are open if anyone wants to talk