feline-good-iykwim

[feline-good-iykwim]

I don't really post about this kinda stuff anymore but

coming from a system who was harassed off their old account by endos due to us using plural tags.

YOU HAVE FULL RIGHT TO USE ANY TAGS TO DESCRIBE YOUR DISORDER.

yes plural, yes plurality, yes collective, yes multiple. Anything at all

If you get hate from endos who are breaking your boundaries and dni, block them

I tried to educate and inform, even simply telling them to not contact me, but they are harmful.

please just block them.

We can take the term plurality back from ableists

WE ARE SYSPUNK AND WE WILL RECLAIM OUR TERMS

I will very likely get harassed by their "safe" and "welcoming" community again. This time I will simply block them and ignore their hateful behavior. I advise you to do the same.

reassurance and advice under the cut:

Somthing a lot of endos claimed I was doing was being "hateful" for venting on my account about the ableism and misinformation from endos

You are not hateful for being upset about people faking, watering down, and spreading harmful misinformation about your DISORDER.

You didn't ask for this, none of us did

If an ableist (endo) calls you ableist, remember:

they "identify" as a non disordered system

you proving facts proved by psychology and the science of the development of a child's brain is NOT ableism, in fact, it can't be. They don't "identity" as having OSDDDID, they just identify with being a system. You proving them wrong is not and will never be ableist.

You are not in the wrong here. Your disorder is being appropriated and being treated horribly.

Endos support the idea of telling singlets to "become systems", even creating posts like "build an alter". Theres "syshopping" and "selling alters" which they've created. Making people take our disorder so much less seriously. Its horrible and extremely dangerous towards the young and impressionable minds on the internet.

FOR THE RECORD:

I do not support the idea of misusing tags that are genuinely for endos to stir up an argument (such as #endogenic #endos #pro endo)

It can be incredibly dangerous for your mental health and is being hateful, I know they're ableist, and it isn't fair, but we have to be the bigger person. We cannot stoop down to their level.

Yes, they will break your and my DNI's, they are harmful, this is a fact. But we must not break theirs,

we will be better than them.

[feline-good-iykwim]

was boutta start crying bc i thought u were hating on green eye ppl and we have green eyes but yes i do agree with the satirical context of this post :P

Green eyes shouldn’t actually be considered an eye color. It’s just not common enough, it’s a VERY SMALL percentage of the population, 1-2%. Green eyes are also caused by an irregular mutation. Most people have blue or brown eyes, so those are the two eye colors.

All the “green eyes” positivity is actually a bad thing, by the way. Having green eyes is linked to higher rates of retinal melanoma. You’re celebrating something dangerous that can cause suffering.

And besides, most people with “green eyes” lean closer to blue or brown anyways. They should just make up their minds and be brown eyed or blue eyed. And if it’s too hard to tell, they should get corrective surgery (because green eyes are dangerous, and associated with more difficult medical care!) or at the least wear contacts so they don’t confuse people. But also they should be required to

I hate to sound like this, but green eyes are a far more recent development than blue eyes in the mutagenic history of humans. So humans weren’t created to have green eyes.

And hazel eyes? Those are just a variant of brown eyes—come on, they’re far closer to brown than green. They just have a couple greenish traits. And there’s no way there’s that many green eyed people, or a wide variety of eye colors… It’s just not natural.

I don’t have a problem with green eyed people, they didn’t ask to be born that way—but there’s just too few of them for it to be an actual eye color. We don’t need all this “green eye positivity” or putting green eyes in media. The internet is making people delude themselves into thinking it’s more common than it really is.

‼️ THIS POST IS ABOUT THE TREATMENT OF INTERSEX PEOPLE ‼️

✅ I HAVE GREEN EYES THIS IS SATIRE ✅

⚠️ PLEASE DON’T SEND ME ANY MORE THREATS OF VIOLENCE IN DEFENSE OF PEOPLE WITH GREEN EYES?? ⚠️

💧 THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT EYE COLOR?? IT’S ABOUT INTERSEXISM AND BIGOTRY 💧

[feline-good-iykwim]

[feline-good-iykwim]

"endos are just minding their own business"

endos are watering down a severe and heavily debilitating disorder.

endos are creating spaces where trauma survivors think they'll find others like them, only to be surrounded by people who don't actually understand what they're going through and make them feel isolated and alone.

endos are making it impossibly difficult to get a proper diagnosis and treatment due to them giving DID the reputation of "roleplay as your favorite character disorder".

(endos are especially making it hard for minors to get diagnosed. medical professionals already brush off any and everything a child says, and now traumatized kids aren't getting treatment because they're "just following trends".)

endos are tearing this already fragile community apart, whether they're actively attacking systems or not. wake up and get your head out of your ass.

[feline-good-iykwim]

work ur magicccc

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

[feline-good-iykwim]

boo :3

Moots?

I'm looking to find/make friends here so please interact if you relate to any of the following: - otherkin/therian/alterhuman/nonhuman - witchcraft/spiritual/pagan/wicca - play video games, PC, Xbox, CoD, Seige, Stardew Valley, Minecraft - listen to music (I listen to literally everything and anything) - like nature! (rocks, vulture culture, pretty crystals, plants, etc.) - like travelling, cultures, ancient history, languages - like the occult, paranormal, supernatural, aliens, ghosts, etc. My Intros': - Regular Intro - Otherkin Intro

[feline-good-iykwim]

[feline-good-iykwim]

helloooo!

im an alter in a traugmatic system and i wanted to just say that endos aren't actually systems

but they can still be totally valid!!

systems and alters are formed through trauma

endos would be more of a spiritual belief in having multiple personalities/identities

using these labels that are exclusively for traumatised and disordered ppl is hurting them :<

ik you probably just want a safe space and thats totally valid

we all want a safe space, but please find your own

systems are only formed through trauma nothing else, sorry to burst your bubble/gen

im not saying you're invalid at all or trying to police identities, its just that using these terms and forcing yourself into this community is hurting a lot of ppl

also i haven't had very "good neighbor" experiences with endos, a lot of them have been really mean, and you seem to be pretty nice so im hoping you dont shout at me too :<

imagine you're living in a human apartment complex and this alien comes in and says that they are living here because they want to be human, and then start fights when the humans try to tell the alien that they cannot be human and that the alien apartment complex is actually just down the street

probably a bad analogy but i hope you can understand TwT

i hope you have a nice day, and please read this thouroughly before assuming im being mean to you because im not :<

im just trying to lessen the amount of hate on both sides and fix misinformation

endogenic systems will not be seperated from the system experience, ever. they are systems too. please welcome them in as if you would a good neighbor in the same apartment complex as you.

[feline-good-iykwim]

friend asked for ideas to decorate their side-table

i present to you Miku smoking a leek like a joint

(i got lazy and hands are hard)

[feline-good-iykwim]

kai gets so fuckin offended when i spiral abt being a fake system he's like "mf do you not see what i do for you, fronting when ur having a mental breakdown???"

just remember if you think you're faking, why would you be doing that?

when you struggle with it, mostly privately, who are you doing that for?

if you cant find a reason then most likely you aren't faking it

severely questioning whether you're faking it or not is actually a sign that you aren't because your brain is naturally skeptical and its pretty hard to accept trauma a lot of the time

we're still a newly aware system and have a lot to go through but i believe in you

and so does Rarity from my little pony so you're doing pretty good

sys culture is "oh im faking, there's no way"

abd then "sir?? i am literally right here? you have people in your brain trust"

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[feline-good-iykwim]

i’m seeing a lot of people reblogging suicide hotlines and this is just a reminder that this is a suicide help line that works like a text-based instant messenger for people who may need to talk to someone but have trouble/are uncomfortable making phone calls

[feline-good-iykwim]

i like eating but we'll skip out on meals a lot by mistake or not eat much because it's something we don't really like

i guess there are some times when we dont eat because we "dont deserve" to eat but its not like we're starving ourselves to become skinny we're already bone thin

I don’t think I have an eating disorder, I just forget to eat because I’m not hungry, I’m not hungry until my stomach growls and hurts. The thought of food in the morning is nauseating to me, and my schedule is so unpredictable that I rarely ever eat lunch either.

It’s weird because I love cooking, I just don’t have the time or the energy for it, especially when I don’t feel hungry but know I should eat.

[feline-good-iykwim]

ITS SO MUCH WORSE WHEN WE'RE READING SMUT

reading fanfiction of two characters who you have fictives of can get very awkward

they're barely conscious half the time

[feline-good-iykwim]

i always liked him :3

idk just a sweet guy imo

ik im dumbing down his character but i havent seen any scooby doo media in a while

but i do know i liked fred and thought he was super cool

still do

Scooby doo fans when Fred drives everyone in his van, makes plans, looks for clues, and is the one who creates the traps so they can actually capture the monster: he’s useless

[feline-good-iykwim]

i seriously made this blog to post something and i forgot what it was ohmygod

[feline-good-iykwim]

hai hai

Kai got a sideblog so i made one too

im Ashe

any pronouns but masc, no he/him at all please

part of a pdid system

just gonna be my yaps :3

kai's sideblog: @insane-in-the-brain

system/mental health/venting sideblog: @i-cant-be-trusted-alone

main blog: @smowyashe