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I am obessed with Agatha/wanda being like the top best neurosurgeon and doctors and being strict on reader and then it just tension and shit. GIVE ME MORE

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Agatha making reader cry (#1 on the smut request list) would be sooooo 😍

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You know Anon, I think so too. 😁🥵

Music inspo: Got You (Where I Want You) - The Flys (THIS HAS BEEN STUCK IN MY HEAD FOR DAYS), Violence - Grimes, Leash - Sky Ferreira, Rev 22:20 - Puscifer, War Pigs - Black Sabbath

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"What's a nosy little thing like you doing down here? You know this isn't where the extra tea towels are..."

Your head whips so quickly to glance over your shoulder you see Agatha in a blur. She's standing at the bottom of the stairs with her arms crossed over her chest and maybe even, purposefully pushing up her breasts.

But you can't think things like that right now. Now when she's caught you red handed snooping around her dungy and cold basement.

It's unnaturally cold; like you've stepped into a walk-in freezer. Your skin has been goose pimpled since you made it to the bottom of the step when you snuck down here moments ago.

You were sure Agatha had gone outside to cut some fresh flowers for the vase on her dining room table.

You guessed wrong.

"Agatha...I..."

"Mmmhm?"

"I thought they were."

She laughs at you; cold and calculated and dark before she walks over to you. Her gaze never falls away from you as you remain semi-hunched over the shelves. Something had drawn you down those wooden steps and across the dirty concrete floor. Something whispered sweetly in your ear; summer sweet and warm like soft grass against your face.

You could almost smell the sunshine in the voice that pressed you to move your feet towards the basement door.

And now you were here, down where it wanted you. Caught by Agatha herself.

You had always known this part of the house was off-limits. She had welcomed you everywhere else but here.

She waits for you to stand up straight and face her; turn away from the shelves and her boxes of decorations and books she's collected over the years. The second your body is turned to hers, you feel a tightening around your neck.

You almost see stars or maybe, they're dust motes floating behind your eyes. Burst of light; pin pricked as you gasp for breath.

Agatha laughs again as she presses her body right up against yours.

"Open up, Sweet Thing."

Your body obeys before your mind does as your lips separate and your tongue hangs loose in your mouth.

Your watch with downcast eyes as Agatha bring her left hand up between the two of you; pointer and middle fingers pressed together as she traces your bottom lip with her fingertips before she slides them into your mouth.

The tightness around your neck is amplified and you almost choke.

Agatha doesn't seem at all concerned.

You can see wisps of purple from the corners of your eyes; unsure if that's just light bouncing off of something she has down here. But, as your brain starts to work itself to reason, you notice it's almost solid.

Like tendrils, tentacles.

"..A..Ag..."

Agatha presses her fingers down onto your tongue and slips them further back into your mouth. You had to shut your eyes closed; unable to take the pressure coming from two places at once. Tears prick behind your eyes and fall from the outer corners of them. You try your hardest to slow your breathing all the while, you're trying to savor Agatha's fingers on your tongue.

Your body and your mind are fighting with trying to stay alive and trying to get off on the situation simultaneously.

"Shhh...let me take care of you..."

You can hear Agatha's voice but something deep inside of you tells you she hadn't needed to open her mouth to speak. You shiver and slowly allow your eyes to open. She's grinning; her smile takes over her face and you want to shut your eyes closed once more.

But you don't, you can't. Something is screaming at you to pay close attention to when she pulls her fingers out from your mouth.

Your tongue curls upwards as if trying to lick her fingers clean; press in between them. She clicks her tongue against her teeth and her head recoils back. Her smile fades to an open mouthed response that more turned on that shock.

Her fingers come out of your mouth dirty.

Sooty. Stained.

The dirt that covers them goes right down to the knuckle. Even her nails are blackened.

She brings those fingers up to her own face, lets them trail her jawline seductively until she slips them into her own mouth to taste you.

You moan and your sounds echo; the concrete and dirt don't help with muffling anything.

You watch her pull the same fucking maneuver as she curls her tongue up to push it in between her fingers. She holds your gaze as she does; daring you to blink away from her stare. She moans softly as she slowly pulls her fingers out of her mouth and lets the saliva string.

Her fingers are still black.

"Such a desperate one, did you forget what dignity feels like?"

Before you could even attempt to respond, those purple tendrils around your neck begin to move or maybe, duplicate. Over and over again until your body is almost covered in them. You have no control anymore; not of your body anyway. Your mind is over-heightened and maybe, you realize, that's exactly how Agatha wants you.

The purple vines pull you down until your on your knees and your hands are behind your back. A single tendril pushes up underneath your jaw to keep your head titled up at Agatha so you can watch her as she looms above you.

You feel that all familiar throb between your legs and instantly hate how your body betrays your mind.

That curled hand under her chin shifts as her fingers begin to move. She curls them, moves them back and forth like she's creating a wave with only her fingers. Something shifts in the air between the two of you and it takes you a second to realize she's no longer wearing the outfit she had caught you in.

It's a silk purple slip now that hangs loosely on her shoulders; one strap already fallen down her arm. Her hair looks even wilder than before and the darkness that had sprouted from her fingertips now stretches down past her wrists and stops just below her elbow.

You can't explain it at all but those tiny tears that had pricked your eyes become full on tears that roll down your cheeks. It's almost as if that's the final blow you give Agatha to continue. She watches from above as you cry for...pleasure? Pain?

Agatha.

She hoists the ends of her slip up over her thighs as she takes a single step towards you. Her toes touch your knees.

All you can think of is the rightful queen taking back her throne.

Queen of Swords.

The tentacle at your jawline recoils to tip your head to a neutral position before it wraps around your neck once more like a gentle scarf. The 'tip' of it pushes the point of your chin back ever so slightly so that Agatha has the perfect seat.

Because you know, she deserves perfection.

You breath in deeply as you feel her skin connect with yours. The tip of your nose just grazes over her clit as she positions herself to her liking. There's a scent and even a feeling of desperation coming off of her. She's pushing teasing and foreplay out of the window as her lips meet yours and you realize, she's cutting right to the chase.

You try to press soft kisses to her folds to show nothing but devotion but Agatha, as always, has other plans as she grinds down onto your face. You realize you feel no tension in your neck muscles and come to the conclusion that the tendrils are supporting you to be as comfortable as possible.

Agatha wouldn't want you cramping up while you're eating her out.

The thought makes you groan into her skin; a domino effect of sorts that makes you decide to push your tongue out to trace her lips. You can feel her shudder above you as she grinds down a little deeper. You wonder where those sooty hands of hers are now. You picture them groping her own breasts against the silk of her slip and moan once more.

"You...are...so goddamn...precious..."

Her voice is a hot and wet whisper as it spills from her lips.

Your tongue pulls away from tracing to dip into her wet core.

Those purple wisps come back to coil around your neck; squeezing harder than before. Your vision almost goes to black and images of her fingers inside of your mouth, your cunt fill your thoughts. You're not even sure if you're still able to control your tongue, your lips as you eat Agatha out. Are you even conscious? Is she controlling you? Are you even, if ever, in control?

You swear you can feel her fingers deep inside of you, scissoring as they collect your cum. But maybe that's not true; not when you can feel her wetness in your mouth, covering your lips. You feel it drip down your chin and wonder then if that sweet summer whisper that lured you down here was Agatha all along.

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Nanny for Ms. Maximoff

Summary: You're the nanny for the prestigious Wanda Maximoff. She's one of the top business women in New York, making newspapers and magazines about her success. Due to her busy work life, she needed someone to watch her two young children, and thankfully you were desperate for a job. Only, you can't help but lust after your boss. Does she feel the same for you?

CW: use of dildo, older woman younger woman, dirty thoughts, reader is very perverted, secret camera A/N: if this is a success and hits 500 notes I'll do part 2

"Goodnight Tommy, goodnight Billy," you say softly to the young boys, tucking them into their bed. They insisted on sleeping in the same bed, and after what felt like a year long tantrum, you gave the okay. They sleepily wave their hands, their eyelids growing heavy and falling shut, hugging their favorite stuffed animals before sleep takes over and the twin boys snore softly.

You smile and reach over to turn off the lamp, double checking the nightlight is still on. You forgot to check once and you never heard the end of it from them, who woke up screaming in a dark room. Surprisingly, children hold grudges.

You close the door with a quiet click and you raise your arms above your head, feeling the aches and tiredness of the long day slither through your muscles and out the tips of your fingers.

Taking care of twin boys is not an easy job. They get up at 7 am on the dot every morning and it's not like they need time to wake up. No, they're bright and energetic and bouncing all around the house. Unless they didn't get their full ten hours of sleep, then it's hell until nap time.

See, you're the nanny for Wanda Maximoff. Yes, THE Wanda Maximoff, runner up for CEO at Avenger's Enterprise. One of the top ten business women in all of New York, admired for juggling a full-time job and motherhood. She went through an entire packet of potential candidates to help take care of her children, and out of the 150, you were chosen. Considering you had wonderful recommendations, experience in childcare, reliable transportation, know CPR, and you're able to keep up with her kids after a trial week, Wanda thought you were the perfect person for the job.

There are nanny cams. Wanda told you this during the interview. She keeps a camera in the playroom, living room, and the upstairs-the camera only faces towards down the stairs and not into any rooms. She likes to check on the kids throughout the day and she assured you she's not spying on you, just wanting to make sure neither of the twins fell down the stairs.

You languidly walk down the hall, feet cushioned by the soft, plush carpet, and stop in front of two doors with golden curved handles, the wood freshly coated in white. You bite your lip, rocking back and forth on your heels while fumbling with your fingers.

The doors in front of you lead into Wanda's room. The older woman has a queen sized bed covered in silk sheets and a giant soft comforter. Four high bed posts with a canopy tied back. Dark wood dressers and a walk in closet with a vast collection of various heels, flats, shoes, and clothes you'd never find anywhere, only exclusive. A giant bathroom you'd swear could work as two bedrooms.

How do you know this?

Well, it's a bad habit of yours to sneak into her room and try on her clothes. You can't help yourself. You live in a rich woman's house who owns everything expensive. Sometimes, you like to picture yourself living a lavish life such as this.

"No," you scold yourself, turning away from the doors and crossing your arms over your chest. "You promised you'd stop going through her stuff! It's not right."

Diamonds and heels flash through your mind and you spin back around, tonguing the inside of your cheek. "Well...it's not like I'm stealing."

You push open the doors and close them, giggling to yourself as you run over to the closet. Flipping on the light, you're never failed to be amazed by the sheer size of the walk in closet holding luxurious, expensive brands. You run your fingers through the clothes, mouth open in awe. These dresses are definitely more than your paycheck.

A scarlet red dress catches your eye and you pull it out, sighing. It's a silky smooth dress that stops mid thigh. A plunging v-line and a thigh slit. Holding in your hands felt as though you're holding gold. You shimmy off your clothes and slip it on, ignoring the space in the chest and butt area.

Wanda is blessed with a shapely body. Supple curves that leaves many envious and many drooling.

Truth be told, you're crushing hard on your boss. You couldn't help it. You've become drawn to the older woman, shivering from the scent of her floral perfume and mouth going dry whenever she stood too close. More than often you've grown embarrassed from staring at her plump, delicate lips that are just calling to you.

You ache for the touch of her body upon yours. Whenever Wanda needs help choosing an outfit, she'll stand in her bra and panties and hold dresses against herself, asking which you think is better. On the outside, you're cool and collected, giving your honest opinion, but on the inside you're a howling wolf. You'd cover her in kisses if allowed to. God, just thinking about it is leaving you tingling. You shake your head and pair the dress with red heels and gorgeous diamond earrings and necklace.

You do this for a total of fifteen minutes, trying on different dresses and shoes. The closet is an endless maze full of expensive clothes probably worn once and left on the rack, watching as more clothes are added to the collection and left to suffer the same fate.

The array of clothes leaves you envious, but one day you'll have a big walk in closet like this and fill it with expensive clothes from exclusive name brands. You try on more jewelry before putting everything back where they belong and gather your clothes, shutting off the light. You lean against the threshold momentarily, staring at the nightstand that suddenly caught your attention. You hum and lift yourself up, sitting on her bed and open her drawers.

In her nightstand were multiple dildos of different sizes and color. A few ribbed, curved, and a vibrator with a clit sucker. You sit there, eyes wide and face flushed, feeling as though you're interrupting something...personal.

Wanda is a grown woman. Of course she has these. Though you're left wondering...

How often does she use them? What does she think about when she uses them? Is she massaging her breast while thrusting the dildo deep into her wet heat? Does she attach one of them to a pillow and bounce on it until completion?

You gasp as you realize you're stimulating your nipples and jump up, clothes falling from your hands. Heart ramming itself into your rib-cage, damn near threatening to burst free. Your eyes dart towards the door, half expecting to see Wanda walk in on you in nothing but your panties and her drawer of toys opened. Thankfully, she's working late tonight. You sit back down, sighing in relief before smacking yourself upside the head. Keep your dirty thoughts to yourself! Walk out of her room and pretend you never saw anything!

Except, you keep staring at the drawer full of lube and toys, pussy throbbing.

Without realizing it, your hand is reaching out to grab a hold of a bright neon dildo, ribbed around the tip near the fake silicone folds of the tip. The dildo is thick, nearly the same size as your forearm. Is this..is this her favorite toy?

The tension in the room grows thick with arousal, heat seeping into your flesh rising with goosebumps. A shiver runs down your spine as you pant against the dildo, peppering the toy in kisses. Your chest heaves, supple body flinging back against the plush mattress. And oh, is this mattress heavenly.

Imagines of Wanda thrusting this fat dildo deep into her yummy pussy fills your mind and you suckle on the tip, a finger tracing around your glistening folds. Nasty wet squelching noises emitting from her fat, delicious cunt rings in your ears, your stomach doing flips.

God, she's so fucking hot.

This is wrong, you know, laying in your boss's bed and imagining her fucking herself on her toys, but you can't help it. Wanda Maximoff leaves you hungry, and goodness are you starving. You trap your clit between two of your fingers and go to town on your poor, innocent rosebud, moaning around the thick toy.

You whimper, upset the toy doesn't have a single trace of her. You're desperate for a taste. You'd love it for her to sneak into your room and plop her pussy on your lips, having you wake up to yourself eating her out.

"Wanda," you moan, back arching off the bed from the pleasure you're giving yourself. You rub your clit in quick circles, mouth dropped open, thick breaths heaving out. Your breasts bounce against your chest as you squirm against her mattress, pussy weeping out onto Wanda's silk sheets.

Your thoughts went from Wanda playing with herself to her grinding her fat pussy against yours, clits bumping against each other. She's staring down at you over the arch of her nose, perfect lips curled into a devious smile. Her massive breasts bounce and jiggle with every thrust, sloppy holes hotly kissing each other.

You bite down on your lip and push the fabric of your panties aside, guiding the dildo to your entrance. You swirl the plastic tip around your hole, body jolting, and pushing it against your slit you fight back the urge to squeal. It's already so thick!

"Look at you," Wanda purred, tongue dampening her swollen lips. "Taking it like the bitch you are. You like it when our holes kiss? You can feel that, right?" When you don't respond, she slaps you across the face, angling her hips so her clit fucks your hole. "Answer me!"

"Yes!" you cried out, but in reality you mouth it, trying to stay quiet. You slap a hand over your mouth as the dildo eases into your velvet heat, it's girth spreading you apart and your mind nearly melts.

"Good girl," she praises, tossing one leg over her shoulder. "You're going to let me play with this pussy all night long, hm? Until I'm satisfied?"

"Y-Yes! Fuck! Just keep fucking me!"

"Such a needy little thing," Wanda said, clicking her tongue. Her head falls against her shoulders and she moans, thrusting harder into you.

The dildo pumps in and out of your cunt, pleasure coursing through your veins. You imagine all the things Wanda could do to you. All the things you want her to do to you. The older woman completely taking control and power over you, and you'd let her. You'd let her do anything to you and you'd beg her for more.

She can mark your skin in bites and bruises and you'd find more spots on your flesh to show her so she can mark you up more.

You end up squirting all over the dildo and sheets, body shaking violently, vision blinded momentarily. You lay on the bed, panting, coming down from the high of your orgasm before you realized what you did. In a panic, you scramble up, cleaning the toy and hastily tossing it into the drawer, putting on your clothes and tearing the sheets off the bed to go clean.

Thankfully Wanda won't be home anytime soon, giving you plenty of time to clean up after yourself.

However...you didn't realize there was a camera in her room. A camera that was only active when she checked it.

And it was blinking red the entire time.

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My bad for being so inactive on my post

Life been busy, posts will return soon

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As a deaf submissive, I love this.

Thank you @mommyownsmee for writing this!

Non-Verbal Communication in BDSM: Navigating Scenes with a Deaf Submissive

╰┈➤ Strategies for Building Trust, Clarity, and Consent Without Spoken Words

BDSM is built upon trust, consent, and clear communication. These elements are essential for ensuring that both partners can fully engage in the dynamic while feeling secure and empowered. For a submissive who is deaf or hard of hearing, traditional verbal communication methods are either limited or entirely unavailable, necessitating alternative strategies to ensure a safe, effective, and immersive experience.

Non-verbal communication in BDSM is not merely a workaround for the absence of spoken words—it is an opportunity to cultivate deeper connection, enhance awareness, and refine the nuances of a power exchange. By developing a structured, reliable system of signals, adjusting sensory engagement, and prioritizing pre-scene negotiations, both Dominant and submissive can achieve a dynamic that is not only inclusive but also intensely rewarding.

In This Article:

Establishing a Non-Verbal Safeword System

Enhancing Sensory Awareness & Adjusting Play

Pre-Scene Talk & Tailoring Play for Individual Needs

Aftercare Requirements – What Is Needed for a Smooth Transition Out of the Scene?

Ensuring Emotional & Physical Safety

A Deaf Submissive is Not a Burden—They Are a Gift

1. Establishing a Non-Verbal Safeword System

BDSM relies heavily on safewords and signals to regulate intensity, provide real-time feedback, and ensure that both partners feel safe, in control, and able to communicate their needs effectively. When engaging in play with a deaf submissive or a partner unable to use verbal safewords, traditional vocal cues are ineffective. This necessitates the use of alternative, equally clear, and instantly recognizable communication methods.

A well-designed non-verbal safeword system should be accessible, intuitive, and effortlessly executable under a variety of play conditions—including physical restraint, sensory deprivation, and high-intensity scenarios.

Designing an Effective Non-Verbal Safeword System

An effective non-verbal safeword system must meet the following criteria:

Easily Executed: The submissive should be able to signal distress or a limit effortlessly, even when tied, blindfolded, or physically overwhelmed.

Recognizable & Distinct: The chosen signal must be clear and intentional to avoid misinterpretation or confusion.

Consistently Visible or Tangible: The safeword system should function seamlessly in all play environments, whether in dim lighting, restrictive positions, or immersive scenarios.

By integrating these principles into non-verbal safeword alternatives, both partners can maintain a fluid, uninterrupted scene while ensuring that safety and consent remain at the forefront.

Other Non-Verbal Safeword Techniques

Hand Signals

Hand signals provide an instant, visible method of communication and are particularly effective when the submissive has full use of their hands. These are best suited for well-lit settings, close-contact play, or when visual communication is a natural part of the scene.

Standard Hand Signals:

Green (“Continue”) → A thumbs-up or an “OK” gesture to indicate full consent and readiness to proceed.

Yellow (“Slow Down, Check In”) → Wiggling fingers, tapping twice on the Dominant’s body, or making a waving gesture to indicate the need for a pause or check-in.

Blue (“Pause for Non-Scene Needs”) → Pointing to the mouth, miming a drinking gesture, or raising a flat hand palm-up to indicate a need to pause the scene for practical or physical reasons—such as using the restroom, hydrating, or addressing a non-play-related concern.

Red (“Stop Immediately”) → Holding up a closed fist or crossing the arms in an X shape over the chest to signal an immediate halt to the scene.

Hand signals are simple, widely recognized, and highly effective for maintaining real-time communication during immersive play, allowing for quick feedback without disrupting the intensity of the moment.

Tactile Signals (Tapping & Squeezing)

For scenarios where the submissive’s hands are restrained, occupied, or limited in movement, tactile communication (based on controlled pressure) provides a reliable alternative.

Three Firm Taps: Tapping on any accessible surface—such as the bed, floor, or the Dominant’s body—signals an immediate stop.

Sustained, Tight Squeeze: A firm, prolonged squeeze on the Dominant’s wrist, thigh, or hand indicates the need for a pause or check-in.

This method is particularly useful in low-visibility or sensory-deprivation scenes where visual signals may not be possible. It ensures that the submissive always has a tangible way to communicate distress or discomfort.

Drop Method (Using a Physical Object)

In scenes where the submissive’s mobility is highly restricted, a physical object can serve as an unmistakable emergency stop mechanism.

The submissive holds a small, lightweight item in their hand—such as a soft ball, a bell, a piece of fabric, or a ribbon.

If the object is dropped, the scene stops immediately.

This method requires minimal effort from the submissive and provides a clear, immediate safeword alternative for scenarios involving rope bondage, immobilization, or restrictive positions.

Visual Cues (Lighting & Written Cards)

For low-light environments, sensory-deprivation play, or immersive scenes where gestures may be difficult to perceive, visual indicators can replace verbal cues.

Traffic Light System Lamps:

Red = Immediate Stop

(Blue = Pause)

Yellow = Slow Down, Check-In

Green = Continue

Pre-Written Cards or Signs:

Cards with phrases such as “Stop,” (“Pause,”) “Slow Down,” and “More” can be kept within reach, allowing the submissive to communicate quickly and clearly.

Visual cues ensure that consent and communication remain intact even in altered sensory conditions, allowing both partners to stay fully engaged in the scene while maintaining clear boundaries.

The Significance of a Non-Verbal Safeword System

A robust, non-verbal communication system fosters a deep sense of trust, confidence, and security within the BDSM dynamic. It eliminates ambiguity and ensures that the submissive retains full control over their boundaries—even in scenarios where verbal speech is not an option.

By implementing these carefully structured, adaptable methods, both partners can create an experience that is not only safe and intuitive but also allows for uninhibited immersion and deeper emotional connection.

2. Enhancing Sensory Awareness & Adjusting Play

If verbal cues are not available, sensory modalities—touch, sight, and pressure—become the primary means of communication during play. By heightening these elements, the Dominant can craft a deeply immersive and controlled experience that not only ensures clarity and understanding but also intensifies connection, trust, and submission.

Without words, the language of the body takes precedence, and every movement, glance, and touch becomes an essential part of guiding, commanding, and reinforcing the dynamic.

Tactile Communication & Physical Guidance

Physical touch is no longer just a form of sensation—it becomes the voice of control. Every stroke, grip, and press serves as an unspoken command, reinforcing authority, presence, and intention.

Leading through touch: Instead of spoken directives, the Dominant can use firm, intentional movements to guide the submissive’s body into position. A press between the shoulder blades could signal a bowing motion, while a guiding hand on the hips could direct a change in stance.

Attention cues: Without the ability to call a submissive’s name to demand focus, the Dominant must instead use calculated touches to command their attention.

A light tap on the shoulder could indicate a shift in direction.

A firm grip on the chin could demand eye contact and stillness.

Fingertips tracing along the skin could both redirect and tease simultaneously, reinforcing control through sensation alone.

Writing on the skin: The Dominant’s fingers could trace commands, symbols, or even teasing messages onto the submissive’s body, letting them feel each word like an intimate whisper.

Spelling out “good girl” along the curve of their spine.

Drawing an arrow on their thigh to tell them where they should be feeling the most.

Physical communication ensures the submissive always knows what is expected, maintaining the intensity of the scene without breaking immersion.

Eye Contact & Body Language

Since auditory processing is not an option, the most powerful form of communication becomes visual. The eyes, the posture, the deliberate shifts in movement—all become a dominant force of unspoken instruction.

Prolonged eye contact: In the absence of spoken words, a commanding gaze can do everything a verbal order can—if not more.

A locked stare can mean “don’t move.”

A sharp glance downward can order the submissive to kneel.

A raised eyebrow can silently question whether they are hesitating, or disobeying.

Exaggerated gestures & clear body language: To ensure nothing is lost in translation, the Dominant’s movements must be clear, strong, and deliberate.

Pauses between actions allow the submissive to process, react, and internalize what’s happening without feeling rushed or overwhelmed.

Gestures should feel natural, intentional, and commanding—just like the touch-based instructions.

Every movement should have meaning, reinforcing authority without needing words.

A single glance, a well-timed pause, a shift in stance—these elements create an unbreakable psychological hold without ever needing verbal confirmation.

Incorporating Vibrations & Pressure

In the absence of vocal cues, other sensory-based feedback methods can be used to signal changes in rhythm, pace, or intensity.

Vibrations as a signal: Using a vibrating device (this one also works with one bracelet + an apple watch; and there are vibrating cat toys that can be bought that work too) pressed against the body\wrist of the Dominant could create a coded system for guidance:

One quick pulse → “Hold still.”

A steady vibration → “You’re doing good, but don’t stop.”

A sudden, stronger vibration → “Brace yourself. I’m about to take you deeper.”

Pressure-based commands: Since touch is the foundation of control in non-verbal communication, varying the level of pressure applied to the skin can establish an intuitive system of commands.

A slow, dragging stroke could mean “breathe, relax.”

A sharp squeeze on the wrist or thigh could signal “brace yourself.”

A firm press between the shoulder blades could command “deeper, lower, submit.”

Pre-determined touch-based signals: Just as verbal commands would be used in a typical scene, these signals become the unspoken rules that govern the dynamic:

A single tap could mean “pause and wait.”

A long, lingering touch could mean “keep going, just like that.”

A grip on the back of the neck could mean “you’re mine, and I want you to feel it.”

Sensory-based commands create a seamless and intuitive exchange of power where the submissive can feel every shift in control, even without verbal confirmation.

When verbal communication is not an option, BDSM play must be adjusted to heighten sensory awareness, redefine control, and strengthen the connection between Dominant and submissive.

Touch replaces words.

Eye contact replaces spoken commands.

Pressure and/or vibration replace tone and inflection.

This doesn’t just maintain the integrity of a scene—it enhances it. By removing verbal language, we allow the body to speak for itself—to respond, to react, to surrender. And in that silence, every touch, every glance, every breath becomes an order waiting to be obeyed.

3. Pre-Scene Talk & Tailoring Play for Individual Needs

A well-defined negotiation process is the foundation of any BDSM scene, ensuring that both partners share a clear understanding of expectations, boundaries, and safety measures before play begins. For a deaf submissive, these discussions take on an added layer of importance, as non-verbal communication, sensory adjustments, and accessibility considerations become essential to a seamless, safe, and immersive experience.

By taking the time to discuss and personalize every aspect of the scene, both partners can enter play with confidence, trust, and a fully developed system for maintaining control and consent.

Key Areas of Discussion

Each submissive’s preferences, needs, and limitations are unique, making pre-scene discussions critical for establishing the right environment where communication, safety, and pleasure remain uninterrupted.

Cochlear Implants – Should They Remain On or Be Removed During Play?

For submissives who wear cochlear implants or hearing aids, deciding whether they should remain on or be removed is a vital part of scene planning.

- If left on, this allows for partial auditory awareness during play, ensuring that the submissive can still detect some environmental cues, vibrations, or sounds. However, it may also cause sensory distractions or discomfort, depending on the intensity of the scene.

- If removed, the submissive experiences a fully silent scene, which can heighten other sensory experiences (e.g., touch, pressure, visual cues). This choice may enhance immersion but also requires clear non-verbal communication systems to be in place.

- Some submissives alternate between having them on during the beginning of the scene and removing them as play intensifies.

Deciding on this beforehand prevents unexpected interruptions, discomfort, or miscommunication during play.

Subspace Experience – How Does It Affect Sensory Processing?

Subspace can alter perception, awareness, and response time, making it essential to understand how it uniquely affects a deaf submissive.

- Does subspace cause heightened sensitivity to touch and pressure, or does it numb certain sensations?

- Do they tend to lose track of time, movement, or control when deep in submission?

- Does the submissive experience delayed response time when transitioning into or out of subspace?

- What grounding techniques (touch, breath, visual focus) help them stay connected during intense play?

A submissive in subspace may struggle to use safeword signals, making pre-determined safety measures even more crucial.

Preferred Grounding Techniques – What Physical Sensations Provide Security?

Since a deaf submissive’s experience of sensory processing may differ, pre-negotiation should include discussing what physical sensations offer grounding, reassurance, or stability during play.

- Does deep pressure touch (gripping the waist, holding the wrist, steady weight against the body) provide security?

- Do they respond well to rhythmic tapping, stroking, or repeated gestures as a way to maintain awareness?

- Do they find comfort in eye contact and facial cues, or does too much visual intensity become overwhelming?

- Are there certain types of touch (e.g., soft stroking vs. firm grasping) that help them regulate their emotions when deep in submission?

Understanding the submissive’s grounding needs helps the Dominant maintain a controlled, safe, and immersive experience without disrupting the flow of the scene.

Triggers & Comfort Cues – What Actions Promote Relaxation or Distress?

Because communication is primarily non-verbal, identifying potential triggers, comfort cues, and emotional responses is necessary to prevent distress and reinforce trust.

- Are there specific touches, positions, or actions that may cause panic, discomfort, or overstimulation?

- Does sudden loss of eye contact, restraint, or silence create anxiety?

- Are there preferred calming cues that help the submissive reset if a moment of distress occurs?

- Are there rituals (e.g., a comforting physical gesture, a specific reassuring signal) that help the submissive feel safe?

By recognizing and respecting triggers, the Dominant can ensure that play remains within an enjoyable and safe framework while fostering emotional connection and security.

4. Aftercare Requirements – What Is Needed for a Smooth Transition Out of the Scene?

For a deaf submissive, aftercare should be tailored to their sensory, physical, and emotional needs post-scene.

Do they prefer physical touch (hugs, weighted blankets, gentle stroking) to help them transition?

Does visual reassurance (written affirmations, comforting gestures) provide a better emotional grounding than spoken words?

Are there specific comfort items, foods, drinks, or routines that help them recover?

If they’ve removed cochlear implants or hearing aids, would they prefer to put them back on immediately, or do they need gradual reintegration into their usual sensory environment?

Tailoring aftercare to individual needs ensures that the submissive feels valued, safe, and emotionally supported after an intense experience.

The Importance of Pre-Scene Negotiation

A well-established pre-scene discussion ensures that both partners enter play with absolute clarity, confidence, and trust. For a deaf submissive, this process is not just about safety—it’s about accessibility, emotional connection, and creating a space where communication is effortless.

By addressing every sensory aspect of the experience, the Dominant can tailor the scene to heighten pleasure, eliminate uncertainty, and reinforce trust at every level.

Because BDSM is not just about control—it’s about understanding, adaptation, and ensuring that every moment feels intentional, immersive, and profoundly satisfying.

5. Ensuring Emotional & Physical Safety

The Dominant’s responsibility extends beyond control and intensity—it is about ensuring that their submissive feels physically safe, emotionally secure, and fully supported throughout the scene. When engaging with a deaf submissive, this requires an even higher level of attentiveness, as verbal cues are not available to signal distress or discomfort.

Safety in BDSM is not just about preventing harm—it’s about fostering an environment of absolute trust, where both partners can engage in play with confidence, security, and full awareness of each other’s needs.

Key Safety Measures

Because non-verbal communication is the primary method of maintaining control and consent, the Dominant must incorporate multiple layers of safety measures to ensure that the submissive’s well-being is continuously monitored, respected, and prioritized.

Constant Body Language Monitoring to Assess Distress

Without spoken words, body language becomes the most critical indicator of the submissive’s comfort, arousal, or distress. The Dominant must develop an acute awareness of their partner’s non-verbal cues, recognizing even the smallest changes in movement, breathing, or expression.

Key signs to monitor:

Tension in the muscles → A sudden or prolonged stiffness may indicate discomfort, pain, or distress.

Changes in breathing patterns → Shallow, rapid breathing could be a sign of panic or overstimulation, while sudden breath-holding could indicate hesitation or uncertainty.

Avoiding eye contact → If a submissive typically maintains eye contact but suddenly avoids it, this may indicate emotional withdrawal, distress, or discomfort.

Involuntary flinching or freezing → If the submissive stops reacting naturally, their body may be signaling that something feels unsafe or overwhelming.

Submissive’s physical engagement → A responsive, fluid movement indicates comfort and enjoyment, while rigidity, shrinking away, or lack of response could signal distress.

A Dominant must be able to detect distress even before the submissive consciously recognizes it, allowing for immediate adjustments without breaking the intensity of the scene.

Frequent Check-Ins Using Non-Verbal Cues

If the submissive cannot verbally communicate discomfort, the Dominant must implement regular, non-disruptive check-ins throughout the scene. These should be subtle yet effective, allowing for immediate response without breaking immersion.

Placing a reassuring hand on the submissive’s lower back, thigh, or wrist → This can act as both a grounding touch and a silent “Are you okay?” check-in.

A pre-established squeeze system → The Dominant squeezes the submissive’s hand or wrist lightly, prompting them to respond with one squeeze for ‘I’m okay’ and two for ‘I need a break.’

Eye contact confirmation → A subtle lift of the chin, a slight nod, or an intentional pause while holding eye contact can serve as a silent check-in, allowing the submissive to affirm their comfort through physical response.

Slow, intentional changes in intensity → By easing into any escalation of sensation, the Dominant provides the submissive with time to adjust, process, and indicate their comfort levels.

These check-ins ensure that the submissive remains present, engaged, and within their limits, while still allowing the scene to maintain its intensity and fluidity.

Immediate Cessation of Play if Uncertainty Arises

If there is any uncertainty about the submissive’s safety or comfort, the scene should pause or stop immediately. Because verbal reassurance is unavailable, the Dominant must trust their instincts and never ignore signs of hesitation, discomfort, or distress.

Key indicators that warrant an immediate stop:

Failure to respond to a non-verbal check-in.

A loss of responsiveness (e.g., submissive appears frozen, unreactive, or emotionally disconnected).

Rapid, shallow breathing or physical distress beyond what was agreed upon.

A safeword signal being given (hand gesture, tapping, dropping an object, etc.).

Upon stopping the scene, the Dominant should immediately engage in grounding and reassurance, using pre-established techniques to help the submissive transition out of the heightened state.

No scene is worth pushing past uncertainty. It is always better to pause, reassess, and ensure safety rather than risk emotional or physical harm.

Customized Aftercare Protocols for Grounding & Emotional Security

Aftercare is not optional—it is essential. Particularly for a deaf submissive, aftercare should be highly personalized to accommodate their unique sensory and emotional needs.

Key aftercare considerations:

Does the submissive need immediate touch or space? Some prefer tight, grounding pressure (hugs, holding hands, weighted blankets), while others need a moment to regulate alone before engaging in post-scene care.

Do they rely on visual cues to feel connected post-play? If verbal aftercare is unavailable, written affirmations, hand signals, or intentional facial expressions can help reassure them.

Reintroducing cochlear implants or hearing aids (if applicable). If they were removed during play, allowing them time to readjust before speaking or engaging can provide a smoother transition.

Physical comfort items. Blankets, favorite snacks, temperature regulation, or a preferred relaxation activity (watching a movie, drinking tea, cuddling, or journaling) can help bring them back to equilibrium.

Emotional reassurance. Without verbal confirmation, intentional, repeated physical gestures (tracing soft circles on their skin, kissing their forehead, stroking their hair) can reinforce security, care, and connection.

Proper aftercare prevents emotional drop, ensures the submissive feels valued and cared for, and reinforces a sense of safety and belonging within the dynamic.

The Role of a Dominant in Ensuring Safety

A responsible Dominant does not just control—they care, observe, adapt, and protect.

For a deaf submissive, the absence of verbal communication means that every movement, every response, and every adjustment carries weight.

It is the Dominant’s duty to understand their submissive’s body language as fluently as spoken words.

It is their role to read between the lines—to recognize hesitation before it turns into distress.

It is their responsibility to create an environment where silence is never a barrier to safety, trust, or pleasure.

Because true dominance is not about power alone—it is about the ability to hold that power with care, responsibility, and unwavering attention.

6. A Deaf Submissive is Not a Burden—They Are a Gift

BDSM is not about forcing individuals to conform to a singular mold—it is about building experiences that honor, respect, and embrace the unique needs of each participant. Power exchange is not limited to verbal commands or conventional communication; rather, it thrives on adaptability, trust, and mutual understanding.

A deaf submissive does not “complicate” a dynamic—they enrich it. They bring an intensely immersive and uniquely sensory-driven approach to submission that can transform the way power is exchanged, heightening awareness and connection between both partners. Instead of viewing accommodation as a barrier, it should be recognized for what it truly is: an opportunity to deepen trust, sharpen dominance, and explore new dimensions of control and surrender.

Reframing the Perspective

Instead of perceiving non-verbal communication as a challenge to overcome, it should be recognized as a privilege—an invitation to expand the boundaries of power exchange and experience submission in a profoundly intimate and intentional way.

6.1. Accommodation is an Honor, Not an Inconvenience

BDSM is built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering attentiveness—qualities that are heightened, not hindered, when accommodating a deaf submissive.

Learning a new method of command is not a burden—it is a privilege. Whether through touch, eye contact, or pre-established non-verbal signals, the process of refining communication strengthens the Dominant-submissive connection in ways that verbal interactions alone never could.

Accessibility is not “extra effort”—it is an act of devotion, an affirmation of care that proves a Dominant’s commitment to their submissive’s safety and pleasure.

An adaptable Dominant is a skilled Dominant. Adjusting to silent command, sensory-based cues, and body language control only sharpens a Dominant’s ability to lead, instruct, and maintain presence without relying on words.

True Dominance is not about ease—it is about precision, awareness, and the ability to command in any circumstance. A submissive’s needs are not an obstacle; they are a doorway to a richer, more profound dynamic.

6.2. BDSM is Infinitely Adaptable—Every Dynamic is Unique

There is no single “correct” way to engage in power exchange. The most meaningful dynamics are those that evolve, shift, and adapt to fit the desires and boundaries of those involved.

A deaf submissive is not excluded from traditional BDSM structures—they are simply engaging in them through a different sensory lens.

Scenes that rely on silent command, physical guidance, and intuitive control can be even more intense and immersive than those built around verbal exchange.

The removal of verbal cues heightens the importance of non-verbal connection—a Dominant must study their submissive’s breathing, posture, muscle tension, and microexpressions to gauge their comfort, limits, and readiness.

Without words, a single glance becomes a command. A single touch becomes an order. A single moment of stillness becomes an entire conversation.

BDSM is not about limitation—it is about limitless creativity, adaptation, and mutual understanding. A submissive’s ability to hear is irrelevant to their ability to submit, obey, and surrender.

6.3. Deaf Submissives Offer a Distinctive and Enriching Perspective on Power Exchange

A deaf submissive does not “miss out” on traditional BDSM—they redefine it, reshape it, and bring an entirely unique perspective to the experience.

Their submission is deeply sensory. Without spoken words, they respond to touch, movement, breath, and unspoken intention.

They heighten a Dominant’s awareness. A Dominant must be more attuned to their partner’s body language, developing an almost instinctual understanding of their needs, reactions, and desires.

They bring a new depth to discipline and control. The absence of spoken safewords or commands demands that every movement be precise, every rule be deeply understood, and every expectation be unmistakably clear.

They create a new kind of intimacy. Communication through unspoken cues, skin-to-skin direction, and silent obedience creates a level of submission that is incredibly raw, deeply immersive, and profoundly intimate.

A deaf submissive’s presence in BDSM is not a deviation from the norm—it is a reminder that power exchange is about more than words. It is about control, trust, and the ability to command and surrender on a level that transcends language.

6.4. The True Gift of a Deaf Submissive

A deaf submissive is not a limitation, not an exception, not an accommodation to “work around.” They are a gift.

They offer a unique, powerful, and deeply enriching experience of submission—one that pushes past the limits of spoken commands and into a realm where communication is built entirely on presence, connection, and sensation.

They challenge a Dominant to be better—to be sharper, more precise, more attuned to their partner’s body and mind.

They prove that BDSM is not about fitting into a predefined role, but about redefining what power, control, and surrender can look like.

Because at its core, BDSM is not about whether a submissive can hear a command. It is about whether they can feel it.

And with the right Dominant, they will feel it in every fiber of their being.

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[filmedbyharkness]

Thinking about watching a show but we're not paying attention because you're three fingers deep inside me

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i hate work. i should be a pretty lil housewife ready to be bent over at any second😣

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in desperate need of a sleepy and gropey makeout sesh that ends with me face down ass up while you tease me about how easy it was to make me drip down my thighs

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The feeling when she finally slides her fingers in after teasing me forever

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call me your girl while i take your strap all the way?

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It starts off with something small

Like, a good morning kiss that’s a bit more intense, or a hungry look across the kitchen table at breakfast. But I’ll pretend I don’t notice any of it. Because I need you to say it.

Then, when I’m having my lunch break at work, you decide to send me some pictures. With that one pair of black lingerie that drives me absolutely insane. You know exactly what you’re doing, and so do I.

“Don’t take that off. I’ll be home in two hours.”

Oh how it brings a smile to my face, knowing exactly what kind of effect my words have on you. And that by that message alone, I’ve got you squirming in your seat, already soaked at the thought of me.

Through out the day, my phone keeps buzzing. You’re so fucking needy for attention, that you’ll keep texting me, even when you know I’m busy with work.

And when I finally finish up my day, I text you a short reply

”I’ll be home in 15.”

There are no other words needed, from me at least. You know exactly what I want you to do and where I want you to be, and oh how you obey so sweetly.

Because when I get home and make my way to our bedroom, I’m greeted with the most gorgeous sight. You, on your knees, still wearing that god damn lingerie.

I walk around you, slowly, letting my hand slightly touch your neck, knowing it’ll send shivers down your spine.

Then, I take your chin in my hand and make you look up at me.

The lust burning in your eyes makes me feel feral, but I won’t let it show, not yet.

“Now darling, I see you’ve been a bit of a needy slut today, haven’t you?”

A slight blush rises to your cheeks

“Y-yes Miss”

“That’s what I thought. So, instead of trying to be sneaky, how about you speak up like the good girl I know you are, and tell Miss what you’ve been so desperately craving.”

I see the slight embarrassment flash in your eyes, before that gorgeous gaze finds mine again and you gain that small bit of confidence back that I knew you had.

“M-Miss I want you to tie me up, and fuck me with your mouth and strap. Please Miss? I swear I can take it. I’ll be so good”

Your filthy words mixed with the sweet sound of your pleading are what finally makes me give in.

I switch my hold from your chin to your throat and then bow down to whisper,

“That’s my girl. Now, get on the bed. This will be a long night.”

This is a post about sapphic sex !!MEN AND MINORS DNI!!!!

[filmedbyharkness]

My prom 🤍

[filmedbyharkness]

Bless you bc I literally forgot all about “who is she?” 🙉 the vibes of it will forever be immaculate 🤌🏾

And Sailor song??? Crying😭😭😭😭 there’s this one cover of it on TikTok that I love so much and I wish she would come out with a full one🤧

You would be my favorite person to carpool with, I don’t know anyone else who listens to these songs/genres😩🤧

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So glad you love it!!!

I was a bit worried because I am such a sad song girlie and sad songs are sometimes what I always listen to…

But I am so happy that you love it!

Ps: good morning everyone

[filmedbyharkness]

LMAO you’re so real for that😂

If you like pizza do you dip it in ranch? I had a friend judge me the other day and I’m like you’re crazy for eating it plain✋🏾

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Unfortunately I don’t…

I never tried it with ranch but I think I am just gonna be too picky or scared to try it

[filmedbyharkness]

I felt that!! Plus it’s your blog, do whatever the hell you want to it😌

Bdubs will always be the og🙌🏾 my section and I used to go all the time after a band competition and some of the football home games!! Gonna be honest I think it’s a bit overhyped for how much it costs, but that could just be my area cuz not everyone knows how to cook🙅🏾‍♀️ I normally go there when I want wings but have no one to sit down with, which isn’t all that often but anyways I will say the ranch lives up to the hype if you like it!!

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Oh girlie.. I LOVE RANCH.

I be dipping my wings so deep into my ranch sauce 😛

Bdubs on top 🔥

[filmedbyharkness]

Omg new theme is eating and you’re so pretty!!🙂‍↕️✨🌸

You don’t have to apologize girlie!! You’ll get to them when you get to them🙂‍↔️

Those sound so good right now😩 honey chipotle is my go to unless it’s wingstop then I’m going for half garlic, half Korean bbq

That’s good and I love that for you!! I saw wildcat and immediately thought high school musical 😂 OMG CONGRATS!!!!🥳🤩✨They’re gonna be so lucky to have you in their program! It’s well deserved after all the effort you put into work and school!!💗

Oh no, that sucks:( sending you lots of massages and warmth to combat the pain 🤗🫶🏾

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Omg thank you! I am turning this blog into a personal/horny blog bc why not plus time for a change..

Hehe I love Buffalo Wild Wings, I never had wingstop before but I really want to try it so bad

Thank youuu

[filmedbyharkness]

Omg you’re a boneless wings girlie too😍 they’re so much better and easier to eat than regular ones🤞🏾

I did!! My job is doing an appreciation week for us student workers and they made us gift bags and filled them with goodies a drink and some notepads and I just thought it was the cutest thing ever🥹 I’m gonna miss working there when this semester is over😭

I hope you’re having a wonderful day!!

Sorry! I been so busy :(

Yess I love my boneless wings, my favorite will always be Garlic Parmesan 😛

Awww that is soo sweet, I am also having a good day today! I got selected for “ Wildcat of the Week” or like staff spotlight and then I found out that I got accepted into my college Ambassador program which I had to be interviewed for! Today been treating me really well 🥰

However, I am now on my period…cue the dramatic music and the cramps.