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Situations where it's not appropriate to use AFAB/AMAB:

-When youre trying to talk about a persons genitals

-When you're trying to generalize about the type of childhood someone had

-When you're trying to generalize about how people tend to think, feel or act

-When you're trying to generalize about other assumed biological characteristics, like uteruses or prostates

-When you're trying to generalize about the types of political oppression people experience

When it's appropriate to use AFAB/AMAB:

-To describe yourself or your own experiences

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I recently got into a relationship, we both know we’re into the same things kink-wise (BDSM just to give the broadest term), and we still definitely need to crack out of our shells and get more comfortable talking about it. we’re both virgins and they’ve never dated, and I had an abusive relationship as my first. Do you have any advice on how you’d approach the conversation/scenes that may happen given both our situations?

Since you're both virgins, I guess its first good to take stock of where your intimacy is at right now. Do you cuddle? Kiss? Make out? Dry hump? Questions to ask each other: are you both ready to explore kink stuff with each other (with or without 'sex')? Do you both want to try sexual stuff too? You're off to a decent start if you both already know that you have similar kinks. It's still a good idea to just get familiar communicating in general. Not just verbally, but physically. What does it feel like when your partner enjoys basic touch? What does it feel like for you when you want to slow down or stop? How do you practice communicating that and understanding that through body language? How do you practice communicating that verbally when body language isn't working? I tend to think of sexual connection as an extension of communication in general. Once you're both comfortable just exploring sensually with each other, and you both know you want to try more...what those conversations look like will depend on your kinks. It's nice to be in a habit of just talking about what you both fantasize about. It can be really casual when you're in the habit of talking about it. It can be really fun to ask "Whats one of your biggest fantasies?" and then respond with everything you like about it. That can naturally transition into a pre-scene negotiation type conversation. You both lay out things you want to have happen....how to stop it if its too much...then you give it a try. Aftercare looks different for everyone but I find it super helpful to have a post-scene conversation about what you both liked and what you;d like to do differently or try next time. If something didn't work, it's not a big deal, you're just playing around and exploring together!

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Special interest group "Denny Blaine for All" Ironically seeks to close Denny Blaine to protect property values.

Their lawyer in court is quoted as saying: "“Only people who are enjoying the park are the people who don’t respect the law. Normal people can’t use it” Who is primarily using the park? Gay, lesbian and transgender people and their families of course.

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statements like "It's wrong to masturbate about a person without their consent" and "It's wrong to do something that quietly arouses you while you are in public even if no one can see it" show that a person's understanding of morality basically involves magical thinking. like I wrote this post on the toilet. That's not the same thing as me literally shitting on you

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It's okay i did the math and it's actually 100% ethical for me to use our intense and deep emotional bond to facilitate putting you into a more suggestable state of mind 👍👍👍

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hot take (I GUESS) but never put your real age anywhere on the internet lmao. its a bank security question, dont share that.

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i desperately need to introduce a friend of mine to the clone murderfuck post was that you?

yes indeed, my favorite piece of smut i've written. i'll link in the replies

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fuck em up gang

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While we’re talking about censorship, I need everyone to stop playing this little amnesia game where we pretend not to remember what internet and fandom has looked like for the past 20 years. Weird and taboo porn has always existed, it used to be a LOT easier to access, and you won’t die if you look at it. We simply cannot continue placating the crazy mob of people who are scared of sex and love overstating harm, they’ll call you a pedophile literally no matter what, and they’ll roll around in their cognitive dissonance like a hog in mud when you point out that the other group calling you a freak and a pedo are the conservative alt right. Fucking exhausting being a fag and a pervert in 2025.

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In the US there's no way to make an illegal video game unless is somehow abuses real people or animals so...? This is also a complete fucking lie because they dont allow ANY purchasing of adult content at all. NONE.

fuck em up gang

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Lines of thought that seem Normal but are actually rooted in extreme puritanism:

-Seeing the nude human body is inherently traumatic -Sex scenes in art are pointless -Wearing kink-related clothing in public is the similar to performing a sex scene in front of unwilling participants -Depicting female characters expressing sexuality is always degrading -People's sexual fantasies are always an endorsement of the behavior they want to see in real life -Sex work is more traumatic and coercive than other types of work The goal is to treat sex as just another thing people do. That is a much healthier attitude than hiding it! It's not uniquely traumatic, it's not weird to talk about it or include it in society.

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do not let up the pressure

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the fetish post author's poorly-disguised second, less acceptable fetish

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Do not. Under any circumstances. Do not even. Do not. Absolutely not. Even if you are in a country with universal healthcare. Even if you are in a hospital right now and have a doctor waiting. No.