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OBSOBROSEXUAL

a person who identifies as abrosexual due to sexual orientation OCD / SO-OCD.

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VARIORIENTED

refers to someone whose sexual orientation and romantic orientation are "mismatched", split, incongruous, or mixed. (ex. pansexual aromantic, bisexual lesromantic, homosexual biromantic)

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high butch and stone femme flags, as counterparts to my stone butch and high femme flags! also based on my butch/femme flags.

people sometimes use “stone femme” with the same definition as “high femme,” so to clarify, i use it here to mean a femme who exclusively tops/touches but isn’t touched, and high butch here means a butch who exclusively bottoms/is touched but doesn’t touch.

these are for use by all LGBT people who identify as butchfemme and use the stone/high labels.

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TRANSBOY ISOGIRL

an identity describing someone who is both a transgender boy and an isogender girl simultaneously

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TRANSHETSETIC

a relationship that is by definition gay/queer, but due to the members of the relationship’s transness, has a (trans)het couple vibe to it.

TRANSQUEERSETIC

a relationship that is by definition heterosexual, but due to the members of the relationship’s transness, has a gay couple vibe to it.

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Keyholder

an alter who is considered a trusted person by a gatekeeper and thus is allowed limited powers associated with the gatekeeper role, primarily the ability to access limited spaces.

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✦ THORN BUSH.

pt: thorn bush. end pt.

A queer individual who is defensive of their queerness and/or presents their queerness in a defensive way (whatever this may mean to the individual).

A thorn bush may also feel as though part of their queerness defensively hides another, more sensitive, personal part of their identity.

coined by puppy.

requested by none.

@vndead-pvppy @rwuffles @isurvivedtheinfinity @radiomogai @0bseumcoining @sangrenfreude @vampitsm @vampitsming

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Revitrans-

Revitrans-masculine: a term describing a gender identity in which a transfeminine individual finds a newfound reconnection with masculinity through the process of their transition (social, medical, etc.); one who feels a revised, distinctly transgender connection to masculinity through their transfemininity

Revitrans-feminine: a term describing a gender identity in which a transmasculine individual finds a newfound reconnection with femininity through the process of their transition (social, medical, etc.); one who feels a revised, distinctly transgender connection to femininity through their transmasculinity

there are no restrictions on who may use this label; if you feel it fits, you may use it. an example of the way I identify with this label for clarity's sake:

i am a bigender butch transmasculine individual. after beginning hormone replacement therapy, i felt myself becoming more comfortable identifying as both male and female simultaneously. my feminine identity post-transition is not the same as the femininity forced onto me through my childhood & adolescence; it is distinctly transgender in nature, not cisgender. i feel that through the process of transmasculine transition, i have developed a revised relationship with femininity. thus, i identify as revitrans-feminine.

colors are picked from @8stripe (formerly xenonflags)'s transfeminine and transmasculine flag color adjustments

READ THE "READ MORE" BEFORE COMMENTING ON THIS POST

this is a coining post for a term wei have been floating around for a bit internally, but wanted to share. wei haven't been able to find a label that accurately describes our experiences, particularly the ways that our identity as transfeminine is distinguished from others through the way we discovered it and interact with the world.

there has been so much discourse surrounding "afab transfem"/"amab transmasc" identities, often filled to the brim with many transphobic (and anti-multigender) sentiments on both sides. wei have struggled to have productive discussion about people who share this experience of reconnecting with their gender assigned at birth in a new & distinct way from when it was forced upon us -- an experience that is definitively transgender in nature, and is interconnected with our initial transgender identity as well.

this term is not meant to imply that revitrans- individuals have the same relationships with systemic oppression based on AGAB as other transgender individuals, in fact, it is the opposite. my experience as revitrans-feminine is simply not going to be the same as AMAB transfems. my interactions with transmisogyny on a daily basis are not the same, either. regardless, wei firmly believe that our relationship with gender should not be defined by the oppression we face. multigendered identity is complicated and nuanced, and this term serves to define just one of many multigendered experiences. this term does NOT reflect a desire to appropriate any groups experiences, but rather, a unique multigender experience that maintains connections to a more common/coloquial understanding of transfemininity/transmasculinity

respectful discussion in the replies/reblogs/tags of this post are absolutely encouraged, but interactions that are bad faith, aggressive, and non-productive will not be entertained or tolerated. skepticism is fine, but please enter conversations seeking understanding, rather than looking to win a debate.

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Image Description: The "I bring a sort of X vibe to X that X don't really like" edited to say "I bring a sort of all these rules are made up vibe to sexuality and gender that exclusionists don't really like"

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i think the queer community asks “but what if cis(het) people…” too much.

“what if a cis man identifies as a lesbian if you include men in the definition?”

“what if trans people are less respected because too many people start using neopronouns?”

the real question is what if the world was made of pudding?

why do you center what cishet people will do/say/think instead of the queer people in your community? stop prioritizing what non-queer people think of your identity; be yourself and let others do the same.

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manabro | womabro | enabro minabro | finabro | ninabro plurabro | monabro | nullabro

flags for some terms i feel could be useful! i’ll probably coin more, i just wanted to get the basics out of the way. these are terms for abro- people who are always attracted to a certain gender/genders!

manabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to male genders

womabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to female genders

enabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to nonbinary genders

minabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to masculine genders

finabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to feminine genders

ninabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to neutral genders

plurabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to multiple genders

monabro-: an abro- person who is always attracted to one gender

nullabro-: an abro- person who is always aspec

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Fagdykegender / Dykefaggender:

[Pt: Fagdykegender / Dykefaggender end pt]

Fagdykegender / Dykefaggender is a label for one who feels like their Fagdyke / Dykefag identity intertwines with their gender,,, their gender is Fagdyke/Dykefag/FDIN/DFIN (fagdyke / dykefag in nature),,, their gender is both fag and dyke,,, they are a fagdyke / dykefag in both attraction and gender,,, or any combination of the terms.

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BASED ON THIS FLAG HERE by @vampygender

[Pt: Fagdykegender / Dykefaggender is a label for one who feels like their Fagdyke / Dykefag identity intertwines with their gender, their gender is Fagdyke / Dykefag / FDIN / DFIN (fagdyke / dykefag in nature), their gender is both fag and dyke, they are a fagdyke / dykefag in both attraction and gender, or any combination of the terms. End pt]

SYMBOLISM BELOW CUT

Symbolism in the flag:

The sun is used to represent power and positivity. These two themes are important to queer identities, and represent the reclamation of the terms "fag" and "dyke."

The chevron triangles in the sun are representative of the meaning of chevron shapes in the queer community. They symbolize progressiveness and unity in views and community. It also represents the defiance of the status quo and alignment with non-conformity. These themes are vital for our identities in the queer community, and especially for reclaimed slurs/derogatory terms.

Intended to be a stand-alone gender, however it CAN have genders that fall under [as a gender system] it if one thinks of one!

Any of our terms or flags or posts may be added to archives, wikis, other sites, etc. Archives are important! I do not mind where you use my terms

Anyone may use my terms; I will not police your usage.

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flag id: two flags with 5 stripes. the left flag's stripes are soft brown, soft red, peach, very light sky blue, and sky blue. the right flag's stripes are soft green-grey, soft blue, periwinkle, very light warm pink, and warm pink. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

camelliboy | hibiscugirl

camelliboy: a camellinine boy; a feminine boy, with that femininity in no way being connected to womanhood/femaleness/etc.; someone who both considers themselves male and has some significant connection to femininity which is not connected to womanhood/femaleness, either in their gender or expression; a boy aligned with camellininity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both male and camellinine

hibiscugirl: a hibisculine girl; a masculine girl, with that masculinity in no way being connected to manhood/maleness/etc.; someone who both considers themselves female and has some significant connection to masculinity which is not connected to manhood/maleness, either in their gender or expression; a girl aligned with hibisculinity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both female and hibisculine

[pt: camelliboy: a camellinine boy; a feminine boy, with that femininity in no way being connected to womanhood/femaleness/etc.; someone who both considers themselves male and has some significant connection to femininity which is not connected to womanhood/femaleness, either in their gender or expression; a boy aligned with camellininity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both male and camellinine

hibiscugirl: a hibisculine girl; a masculine girl, with that masculinity in no way being connected to manhood/maleness/etc.; someone who both considers themselves female and has some significant connection to masculinity which is not connected to manhood/maleness, either in their gender or expression; a girl aligned with hibisculinity; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both female and hibisculine. end pt]

camellinine rosboy and hibisculine azurgirl terms!

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks

tags cont: @p-rtyboy, @dragonpride17

dni link

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calling myself alloaro despite the fact i’m technically aceflux bc who cares

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Mandox & Womandox Pride Flags

Mandox | Womandox

Mandox Alt  w Symbol | Mandox Alt

Womandox Alt w Symbol | Womandox Alt

Mandox - from “man” and “paradox”. Both man and not a man.

Womandox - from “woman” and “paradox”. Both a woman and not a woman.

[ID: six pride flags.

First is the mandox flag. A pride flag consisting of 6 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, blue, green, off white, yellow & purple.

Second is the womandox flag. A pride flag consisting of 6 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, pink, orange, off white, green & purple.

Third is the mandox alt. flag with symbol. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, blue, green, a thick off white stripe, yellow, purple and black. Included overtop the stripes is the Mars symbol rotated 180 degrees.

Fourth is the mandox alt. flag. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, blue, green, a thick off white stripe, yellow, purple and black.

Fifth is the womandox alt. flag with symbol. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, pink, orange, a thick off white stripe, green, purple and black. Included overtop the stripes is the Venus symbol rotated 180 degrees.

Sixth is the womandox alt. flag. A pride flag consisting of 8 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are black, pink, orange, a thick off white stripe, green, purple and black. 

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Stripe Meanings

Black Stripes: Paradox

Second Stripe: Prescriptive (Wo)Manhood

Third Stripe: Authentic (Wo)Manhood

Fourth Stripe: Ideobinary & Viabinary Genders

Fifth Stripe: Abinary & Atrinary Genders

Sixth Stripe: Mesobinary Genders

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꒰ ᩭᘏᗢ ྀིྀི ꒱ UNLQ

꒰ my coined term and flag ꒱

alt name is unlabeled loves queer

this term means you are an unlabeled person who is attracted to queer people, and only wants to form relationships (typically romantic but not limited to that type of relation) with queer people.

this is a general term to describe attraction, even people who are unlabeled sexuality can use this because it is an extension of the term unlabeled.

if you are an unlabeled person who uses other unlabeled terms you can also add a letter from your terms to the abbreviation.

ex: doxiunlabeled dunlq / DUNLQ

ex: flu-unlabeled f-unlq / F-UNLQ

the flag’s colors are inspired by one of the queerian flags and one of the unlabeled flags.

the symbol is the unlabeled symbol from this flag being interlocked with the letter capital Q that stands for queer.

an unlabeled person may also call themselves queer as an umbrella term, and may use both unlq and qlq

inspired by @charlie-lottie ‘s post and their coining of UNLM (unlabeled loves men). you can see that post here.

and credits to @gendergasm for the doxiunlabeled term and flag. which you can see here.

“how can someone who doesn’t use labels, use terms and flags?”

happy pride! 💜🩷🤍💚🩵

꒰ ᩭᘏᗢ ྀིྀི ꒱

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Lesbian progress flag thing