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Hii! Hope your day is going great:3 If it's not too much trouble, I wanted to ask something. What does it mean if someone's uranus, neptune and pluto is the same as yours. I noticed a strange pattern of the people I like always having the same uranus, neptune and pluto as me.

i don’t think that means much. uranus, neptune and pluto move very very slowly, so there are a lot of people who share their placements, especially people who are around a same age.

their influence is more generational.

have a great day <3

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Hiii I live your account 💗hope you have a great day 💕 send you love 💛

thank you baby!! <3 have a great sunday!

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do you have any tips for harnessing the power of certain placements? i have cancer moon in 8th and i've been told there's a lot of power there but i can't feel it. is there a way to connect with certain placements better?

maybe the most obvious way of perceiving your power would be to look at how you feel when a loved one needs something, especially in the emotional aspect. the best way i can picture in which your power could be expressed would be as the ability to understand how significant others feel and, from that, provide them ways through which they can better transform themselves.

life is about change. and our potential for change depends on how well we can perceive when something isn’t going well in life. there are times when we can feel when life’s outgrown us. when the way we feel or go about things doesn’t serve our best interests. or harm ourselves or others. if we can look directly at those problems and address them, we can change. but we can also choose to ignore them and be successful at that, before these same problems arise again in some point in the future, usually worsened.

so your power would be to help people notice such emotional problems. and to give them strength to overcome (not ignore) them. you could be a catalyst for change. when we think of the 8th house, we think that this power would be more noticeable in the private sphere. you helping one person at a time. but you could grow to be very influential on a social level.

of course that power applies to you yourself. if that is your power, it is certainly because life’s given you a path of many emotional troubles and a lot of sensitivity. tools and situations to help you learn how to better transform yourself and those around you in more mature and conscious individuals.

people are in general governed by their unconscious. but if you notice that. just noticing it. can have a big impact on how much you leave yourself to be governed.

i think you have a most beautiful power. i wish you very well in your journey.

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Hi V. I just want to ask you this astrology-based question. When it comes to the 1st house and the 10th house, which do you think is the most prominent/influential in the chart? I actually have both of these (jupiter in the 1st and pluto in the 10th house) so I'm a little bit confused about them

hello there~

the first and tenth houses are both angular houses. that means they rule very important, prominent aspects in life. so it’s okay to be confused. the issue here (and with astrology in general) is trying to understand how different influences can produce a unique and complex manifestation. and that manifestation would be you.

but i am inclined to say that it depends. if you are pondering about carreer related aspects. if you are worried about how you can grow to improve society on a greater level. how you can have an impact on the greater, outer world. then you should look at the tenth house and at Pluto seating there.

the first house’s influence is a bit more obvious to see. anyone around you should find it easy to notice Jupiter’s characteristics on your overall personality, how you react instinticvely to the world and how you perceive life’s journey in the great scheme of things.

we could argument that first house characteristics are indeed more influential. the first house is so instinctive, that it’s influences can be found everywhere in the personality and in any situation in day-to-day life. even if disguised or in the background. if you were to make an effort, you’d still find them there.

but to dimish the tenth house’s importance would be unhappy. in conclusion, it’s a matter of where you’re looking at.

i hope that helps at least a little bit <3

thanks for asking,

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Could you share info about transits if you have any please? thanks!

hi dear~

the only posts i have on transits are the ones about past new and full moons, so i’m guessing they won’t be of any help. sorry~~

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hi love! i have a new relationship. i’ve never felt this way before, but at the same time i have lows and highs because of her. she confuses me and i dont know if those mixed signals mean i should break things off. she has a leo stellium. her dc is cancer, and i have a cancer stellium. my true node and jupiter conjunct her dc. her juno trines my asc. her mercury, true node, and mars conjunct my mc. her venus conjuncts my sun. her mc conjuncts my asc. would any of these make her magnetic to me?

hey baby~

certainly, i’d say. just as much as you’re magnetic to her.

i guess, in her mind, the reasons why she likes you can be clearer. that can make it, to her, a bit more rationalised (not rational though) but that also makes it very very difficult for you. because, try to understand, even though she may think she’s got it all figured out, i’m sure there is a whole part of you that she misses, that is just hard for her to understand, grasp, or, more importantly, even see, at least clearly.sso i guess this is a matter of: how can you make yourself be seen (and understood) by someone whose whole thing might just be to deny, in themselves, a most essential part of you?

i hope that makes some kind of sense. and, if it doesn’t, you can just come back and ask me again.

best wishes,

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Your Moon sign and your relationship with your mother

The Moon in Aries person and their mother…

Your relationship with your mother is never boring. She is strong, emotionally clear and direct. However, because of your intense moon in Aries desire to be a strong leader who charts your own course, your mother can also seem overbearing and willful. This is due to your constant need to push your own agenda forward, which naturally meets resistance from your mother who doesn’t always agree with your plans. You see this resistance as willful and you believe it is only meant to sabotage your plans because you fail to realize that she only looking out for your safety and well being. So, you push her further. When she finally gets angry, you see her as antagonistic, selfish and belligerent. The more you push, the stronger she has to be to hold the line with you. As you get older, this cycle makes you see your mother as an assertive, strong willed woman who knows how to take care of herself.

The Moon in Taurus person and their mother…

As a moon in Taurus person, you have high expectations of your mother’s ability to provide for your practical, every-day needs. You expect her to be dependable and practical while making sure you have the necessities of life to remain comfortable. Life is meant to be savored and your mother is meant to provide the practical means for you to savor it. As you go through life, you ask her to provide you with a constant stream of things to make your life pleasurable and satisfying. If she is able to provide them easily, you see her as a sweet, reliable provider who is always there for you. If she isn’t always to provide them, you see her as an overly practical person who is stubborn and too careful with money. However, because your nature is gentle and sensitive, yet persistent, you push her to her limit to make sure you can get what you want. Yet, you never push her hard enough to make her attitude toward you turn angry and sour. So, you generally see her as kind.

The Moon in Gemini person and their mother…

Your light, detached, active and agile Gemini moon always keeps your mother on her feet. You are like a feather dancing in the wind and she can never quite catch you. She quickly realizes it is useless to try and gives you the freedom you always assume is normal in life. Her reaction to and acceptance of your need to run free makes you see your mother as light and detached, but she is only reacting to your behavior. You are never going to accept a slow, restricted life. So, if your mother allows you space, you see it as a bit flighty or disconnected at times. If she fights you on this, your quick mind will likely find plenty of sharp and unfortunately often painfully precise verbal rebuttals. Her reaction to these rebuttals will make you believe she has the sharp tongue not you. However you do look to her as a source of information and as a teacher. You always know you can learn from her, and your inquisitive Gemini moon delights in her as a person with whom you can exercise your mind or sharpen your mental claws. Because she can always engage you in games, conversation or any kind of mental gymnastics, you come to see her as intelligent, someone with a sharp mind, or at the very least, someone who is always there to chat.

The Moon in Cancer person and their mother…

You see your mother as someone who goes through a lot of emotionally exhausting times in her life. It’s not that she’s weak, but she is someone who lands in situations that constantly try her emotional strength. Your need for her motherly nurturing gives you a deep emotional connection with her. It’s your need for her emotional attention that makes you focus on her and gives you insight into her emotional ups and downs. You are focused on her, and because she can’t give you attention you need when she is in pain, you almost feel the pain with her. Your need for her love gives you a desire to see your mother as sensitive and caring. Then when she isn’t, your reaction can be quite powerful. Even the hint of rejection from her sends you into emotional turmoil. The pain of her rejection, which may only be temporary, beyond her control or for your own good, will make you reflect your bad feelings back onto her because they are too painful to claim as your own. It has to be her fault, otherwise you just can’t cope. Then suddenly she becomes the mean person who is purposely hurting you, when you are likely just blinded by your own pain. Your feelings for her are strong and you need her in your life, caring for you. She is a pillar for you and you rely on her, but you it doesn’t just work one way. You are also always there for her.

The Moon in Leo person and their mother…

A big presence, whether for the better or worse, describes your mother. She is expressive and doesn’t hold back her true feelings. You always know where you stand with her because she tells you what’s on her mind immediately. Your up-front approach in dealing with hermakes this possible for her. You don’t mind calling her out on any lies she tells you and you have no problem telling her to mind her own business or stop treating you like a child. This stems from the high sense of pride you have in yourself. It fuels your need to keep a balance of power in your relationship. So, when pressed, you aren’t afraid to raise your voice to your mother and tell her how you feel about whatever she is saying or how she is dealing with you. However, your sense of pride in yourself also makes you self-conscious and it gives you a haunting desire to assure yourself that your mother likes you. You must constantly balance your need to maintain power with your need to be accepted and liked.

The Moon in Virgo person and their mother…

Somehow even as a young child you are acutely aware of the give and take dynamic in relationships. Your sense of how much your mother does for you and how well she cares for your needs is acute. So, it’s difficult for her to measure up to your expectations and it often seem she isn’t meeting your needs. At these times, she seems flighty. It can be frustrating for you because she isn’t always available when you need her. It can seem like a certain need for freedom seems to lead her away from you, and you often feel like you are more of adult than her. At the same time, her need for freedom gives you freedom, which you need even if you don’t always realize it. Unconsciously you prefer your relationship to be exactly how it is. Your Virgo moon is critical by nature, so it’s nearly impossible for anyone to measure to your standards especially someone as important as your mother. In your youth, she is the center of your world and because your focus is centered on her, your critical nature can’t help but analyze her every action. Despite your acute sense of her shortcomings, you accept them as being part of a her.

The Moon in Libra person and ther mother…

Your mother has standards for your relationship that are clearly defined and understood. She has certain expectations that she always assumes you will fulfill, and you usually do. However, without realizing it, it’s actually you who worked to define these rules in order to assure you are always treated fairly, kindly and to assure that your mother will always be there for you. Your expectations and reactions to your mother have served to set up a protocol in your relationship that keeps things peaceful between you. Over time, you each have come to understand your roles. You both know what behavior keeps things fair between you, and therefore, keeps the peace. Although your relationship can, at times, seem a bit formal and structured, it gives you comfort know that as long as you both follow the rules, you will both be happy. You are always careful to tactfully maintain a certain element of control in the relationship so that you can keep your mother close to you, but still make your own decisions, and you mother unconsciously understands that you do this.

The Moon in Scorpio person and their mother…

Your mother sparks more emotion in you than she realizes. You know she cares about you intensely, but she can be too close to you when you need space and too distant when you need her close. From being overly concerned with things that you want to disregard, to becoming enmeshed in your life when you need emotional privacy, it often seems that she is out of tune with your emotional rhythm. But your passionate, and at the same time private, nature creates this very dynamic that ends up driving you crazy. Although you need her close for emotional reassurance and support, you also have a tremendous need for emotional privacy. It’s difficult for her to accurately gauge your varying needs for closeness and distance. In trying to figure you out, she may probe you for feedback, which usually makes you clam up in silence. Your resistance can be frustrating and can spark an angry response from her, which makes you see her as aggressive and controlling. However, it’s most likely you who is trying to maintain control, and she is the one reacting to you. So, depending on your reactions to her, you see her as a powerful ally in your life who is willing to do anything to protect you when you are willing to trust her with your deepest emotions. However, when you aren’t willing to open up and trust her, you see her as manipulative and controlling.

The Moon in Sagittarius person and their mother…

You are difficult to contain and control, so your mother may have a difficult task at hand in raising you. You require freedom. It’s not an option. If your mother isn’t willing to give it you, your struggle to get it can exhaust her because you’re will not give up until you get it. As a universal sign, you have an “above it all” attitude that makes you feel as though you are very mature and wise, no matter your age. The whole childhood thing can make you restless because you experience the world through the eyes of one of the older astrological signs. For this reason, you see your mother as less mature than she should be. Your moon in Sagittarius vantage point makes you critical of her, and her faults are obvious to you. The fact that you see them, makes her merely human in your view and you can’t understand why you should be subject to her commands or requirements when you are both just two humans. From your perspective, she has just as much to learn as you. She is fallible and often immature. In your view, her need for freedom is just as strong as yours. You both deserve to enjoy it, not just her. She comes off as hypocritical because she holds you to standards that she can’t live up to in her own life. What’s more, her inability to see this makes her seem naive to you and makes you feel even more like you should be in charge of your life.

The Moon in Capricorn person and their mother…

Some way or another, your mother always leaves you feeling vaguely guilty. She may not come right out and say things to make you feel guilty, but they may be subtly woven into her comments. Or in many cases, she just seems to have a very difficult life, and your joys are dimmed in comparison to her hardships. In either case, she controls you with guilt because your Capricorn moon can’t help but empathize with any suffering she encounters. You know your mother always has a serious core to her regardless of her outer attitude. She always puts work before play and she never stops planning for the future. She is security oriented and very aware of the how the worst can always happen. You have a driving desire to help her and you always believe she does everything in her power to provide the best for you. On some level, you always feel like she could just make some changes in her life to make things easier for herself but it never happens. She recognizes your ability to act maturely and she often relies on you for practical and emotional support.

The Moon in Aquarius person and their mother…

Your emotional maturity and strength is fully developed from such a young age that your mother’s ability to help you grow and support you is almost unnecessary, making your relationship with her a bit distant and detached. You just don’t seem to need the coddling that many other people enjoy as children. If anything, you notice that your mother could actually use some. However, you see this intellectually, not emotionally. So, you aren’t one to cry with her, hold her closely and have deep emotional conversations. Rather, you simply don’t burden her with your problems. You give her space to live her life and time to deal with her issues. It’s almost odd when she reprimands you or treats you like a child. There’s always a part of you that sees the whole thing as very silly and unnecessary. You know when you have done something you shouldn’t have, and her attempts to guide you are nice, but not really helpful. However, it doesn’t take very long for her to catch on to your level of maturity and treat you more as equal from a rather young age.

The Moon in Pisces person and their mother…

Its seems that your mother is forever surmounting difficulties. An emotional strength that isn’t always obvious pulls her through her life. The sacrifices she makes for you and your family are made out of necessity and she doesn’t ask for thanks. However, they do draw her away from you. From a young age, you accept this and you grow up very quickly because of it. With all that she deals with, you know it would be wrong to burden her with too many of your problems. You are strong enough to help yourself with most things and she respects you for it. Yet at times, you can’t help but feel like you would like to be more of a helpless child. Even though you are emotionally tough, you sometimes feel like you would like to be able to just rely on her instead of being the strong child she expects you to be. So often she seems to be lost in her own world, which consequently leaves you lost in your own world. You’re not always sure she realizes this and so at times it feels like you are bit lost.

Source: http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/

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hi hello, i would first off like to keep this post private as i am a sun 8H. my partner is a sun 1H and we are both sags with conjunct mercuries. we both have a cap venus mine being 8H and his being 2H. also both libra mars. we have opposing risings and i’m a taurus he’s a scorpio, any food for thought??

relationships can be like mirrors. by relating to others, we can very often catch strange, painful glimpses of our own selves in other people surfaces’. this, i think, can be especially true in your case. so what is it that you see? and how does that make you feel? i’m sure you, mostly, can learn a lot about yourself from this relationship.

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Hey V, i dont understand something. I read that pluto transits/stays in one of our houses before it moves into the next house roughly about 2 years. But pluto stays in a sign for about? 14 years? How does that even work together I dont get it

i don’t get that either, sorry! can’t see how it could make sense…

help? anyone?

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What's it like to be a Venus in Gemini?

a healthy bondbetween myself and somebody else can get me feeling so very light and content!i can fluctuate through entire weeks with ease. i taste as sweet as a four yearold, still passionate about life’s mysteries and so eager to learn so manykinds of things.

on theother hand, i can grow cold very quickly if i think i’ve been disrespected.cold and distant. like a merchant or a businessman, i guess. bad relationshipscan become all about power, after all. but it’s not like that for me, notideally and not most of the time.

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What house system do you use?

Koch!

 but i do also take a look at Whole Signs when doing some predictions (for Solar Returns, for example).

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Since it was mentioned previously... I'm a gemini sun and moon and virgo rising and mars and when it's virgo season it's always REALLY hard and stressful for me... I start questioning everything I do and it all seems wrong and out of place. This year I almost went crazy.

i find Virgo energies so very hard to deal with!! this year’s season was really hard for me too, especially regarding health issues, which had never happened before. it was (is) truly challenging.

i can only imagine what it was like for you. hope you can find some strength in the suffering you’ve been through this year <3

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your Capricorn moon post - bravo

lovely <3

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Hi sorry about this but I was wondering if you could help explain how should I read houses . I’m having trouble interpreting how the sign and planet come together to work in that specific house . Ex) Capricorn in 7th with moon (Aquarius) and Uranus ( Aquarius) Should I focus on the traditional rulers of the planets ( moon-cancer/ Uranus-Aquarius) or look at my sign ( Capricorn) that’s in that house ? Or look at my own sign in those planets ? 🙏🏽 for your patience

uuugh i alwayshave some kind of difficulty reading these types of charts, too. a bunch of myfriends were born under skies just like that.

the thingis… you should focus on both. i know, that’s upsetting, but there’s no otherway.

you’ll soonnotice that the planets and the signs they’re in have a more relevant or,rather, a more obvious expression in the individual’s character in general.

let’s say i’mgetting to know you. after some time, i’ll understand your Aquarius Moon in the7th dynamic, the traits you express that are reflect upon thatsymbol.

however, ifi’m to get to know you truly,deeply, i’ll have to understand how you deal with your relationships in aCapricorn fashion. trust me, it is there, it’s just a little bit deeper underthe surface. maybe something you believe about yourself. a detail i’ve yet todiscover about what you expect from others, as opposed to who you are moreinstinctively (Ascendant). it’s subtle, but it’s there and it’s important.

forexample. i’m a Scorpio Rising, so i’ve got Taurus in the seventh. but, also, aGemini Venus in the seventh.

it shouldbe rather obvious to you that i can be very agreeable and interested in smart,talkative, airy people. my relationships are important to me. i’m attracted tothe mind and the tongue. that’s all very Venus, very Gemini of me.

but if youtruly knew me, you’d understand that, underneath all of this, i really do wishthe external world was predictable and reassuring to me. i wish people wouldcounterbalance my need for some chaos and constant transformation. and that’svery Taurus in the seventh of me. it’s just not that obvious, though.

is thatclear? do come back if you need anything

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ohmy, this is the cancer sun and gemini moon (TAT)/ I don't feel deserving to recieve such a long reply to my ask. Thank you so so so muchTwT I'm really grateful you spent time to type it all out for me. Please post something on your blog if you are ever in need of any help and I will try my best to be of service :D Take care

don’t worry, love! it is truly my pleasure.

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hi wow you appreciate kpop too! just wanna let you know faq links on mobile arent working 😢 really love scrolling your blog ❤️

hello there~

and yes!! i confess i’m a bit outdated as far as kpop goes, but still enjoy the groups i’ve always enjoyed.

and thank you for letting me know, dear. they work fine for me, but i’ll have a better look into it soon.

please enjoy your stay <3 i’m glad you like it here.

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Is it common for certain times of the year to be harder for people based on their placements? I’m a Leo sun, Scorpio moon, Aquarius rising, Scorpio midheaven and the months of Dec-February always just seem to reallllly suck

well…

there’ssome talk about times being harder when there are planets transiting your twelfthhouse, which, for you, should happen around the months you mentioned. because this is thehouse of undoing, unknown and unseen enemies, unconscious secrets and traumas… thistype of argument is also used to explain why some people have it harder on themonth previous to their birthday’s month (the concept of astral hell).

i sincerelydon’t know what to think of it, though. i’m inclined to think it may be true,only… some people deal more easily with an energy that demands rest and lettinggo and undoing and suspension and introspection.

i haveindeed noticed that the people who complain to me about astral hell orsomething similar to that generally aren’t the types of people who are moreintrospective or accustomed to listening to themselves in a more silent orsolitary manner. this is — as i have noticed — what produces suffering in thesecases. there are times when everything that’s happening around ask us to be quiet and retreat into ourselves. but this isn’t easy for everybody to do.

but as ihave said, i truly don’t know yet. but i’d say it is common, yes.

bye love <3