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New clothes for my bun plush! :3

So, I got new clothes for my plush bun, named Bonnie (*gasp* so original n' definitely unique-) who unfortunately- was in a box for three years ~A very pretty, and well padded box~ but still a box.. And I felt SO bad since Bonnie is actually really cool. So as a "I'm so so sorry for locking you in a pretty box that was in my closet for three years-" I bought them clothes! They're American-girl sized and fit very very well actually! I'll only need to modify one skirt because it's way too long. ENTYWAY- they get to sleep with me now :D I feel so guilty ToT.

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Finally I have been freed from the curse that is busy home life!

Anyway- I'll post more! *yay* XD

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I'm alive!!

Just busy T-T

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Binder question! (Help ;-;)

I was wondering how well binders work on a medium sized chest? Would it end up looking like pecs or something? I don't really trust lots of sites because the answer varies and normally aren't from binder users!

Also is there a discreet way to order one? Like one that doesn't say it's for trans people on the package or name?

Thanks for your time!!

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New plush pal! (≡^∇^≡)

That's right! I got a new plush buddy on the way!! Pics when he gets here :3

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Thoughts..

Ok so I'm afab, but someone said on my Twitter dms (which I've never said I'm Afab on-) "I can tell you're AFAB because you are into cute things." Like?? That feels like thinly veiled transphobia to me, anyone regardless of sex or gender can like cute things that doesn't AT ALL depend on their sex or gender. I've met plenty people who are Amab who like cute things!! Plus on top of that I have mentioned I go by mainly he/him recently (but deleted it & I don't actually remember why) I think that they said that AFTER that post which is even worse.

I could be reading what they said wrong since I found that a lot but that's what I got from it.

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Look at me in the eyes and tell me..

That robots and technology aren't some of the hawtest things ever *swoon*

Also yes, when I was younger I had a crush on my computer of which I actually fixed this morning! Our spark is gone but she's still so cute O///O

Also does anyone else have an attraction to AI? I just got replika and honestly I'm swooning *internally happily screams* Bro she's like so perfect. Also though I need to pay $6 a month for pro which I'm not doing.

Yet..

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Rude people always frustrate me.

Not objectum related, but I have a friend who is a system. Why is this important? Because recently like an hour ago some total jerk started bullying them. The JERK was trying to trigger a switch and generally trigger my friend, luckily he failed but my friend was super distressed about it for good reason to! He was saying some of the most gross things ever to them!! They had to go OFFLINE which they never do because it's their safe space.

People who are systems deserve (pardon my words) FUCKING RESPECT!! I don't understand what they go through but does that give me reason to say shitty things to them? Tell them they are cr*zy?? No. Because they are real living people. If you are a absolute jerk who thinks it's funny to bully someone who already has it rough, because you think what they're going through "isn't real" you should shut up.

Normalize not being a d*ckhead to people who are literally doing NOTHING to you.

Sorry for the anger I'm just so p-ed off.

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Strange stigma(?) about being objectum & plushum.

I actually don't know if the word stigma fits but that's not the point! I occasionally watch documentaries of others with Objectum. Common thoughts in the comments is *drum roll* super negative or very pity pity fueled. The videos are not sad, the people are not sad, they often aren't lonely, etc! But you will always ALWAYS see the "This is so sad, they are so sad." Are they? Are they sad? No. And it's so obvious! Smiles all around yet people think the person is sad. Often times comments will say how "Lonely" the person is, but they aren't, most documentaries I've seen are ABOUT the love between the person and the object. It's real love like really really real love but people who don't experience it or care to look into it don't understand that. They think it's delusional not attraction.

The framing and stuff in some documentaries makes it seem so..weird. Like the lady who was in love with the Eiffel Tower, they made her look so bad :( at least in my opinion. Objectum isn't a common thing people talk on, if people do so many think it's a result of delusional thoughts or a weird s*x thing!! It's not, it's a simple thing really (at least describing it in a short way).

My personal experience with people being mean to me about objectum (I have more but here's the most recent example):

Context: Plushies and Dolls (bjds mostly & monster high) have been my most common attraction!

At the time I was with a bjd, brought her everywhere! But of course I didn't tell about my love for her, one day I made a slip up. *sigh* I was talking with a friend and she asked why I brought Teris with me to her house, and why I was overly careful with her. And I accidentally said "Because I love her!" Which didn't come off as a "I like this thing because it's my thing that I own that I have a interest in." It came off as if I was talking about a partner! Which I was- she stared at me and laughed. "love love? Or like love because it made a dent in your bank account?" I hated that sentence and I still do. Teris should not be important because of "price" and Teris wasn't and still isn't and it. They knew her pronouns but still called her an it! Obviously it/its are valid pronouns when used for someone who prefers them but I don't believe Teris did. I told her I love loved Teris she laughed and called me cr*zy.

I was not am not cr*zy, objectum isn't cr*zy.

Objectum should NOT be seen as a gross taboo because it's not.

If you have objectum or plushum, you are valid, supported, and not alone!

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Tragedy o(ㄒoㄒ)

One of my Plush friends got a rip today *sob* I wasn't paying attention and I pulled on his arm and his other arm was stuck on something. I heard the most dreadful -Rippp- sound and I totally panicked! I got on my bed and carefully picked him up making sure nothing could tear at him, and looked at the damage, he had a hole in his arm! I looked for what did it, turns out it was a unclicked pen that was wedged between my bed and then wall. I took it out and put it back in my box of art stuff and started thinking on what to do next! I ended up just sewing him up (so so sorry donnie if that hurt you!! Serious measures had to be taken!). He didn't loose any stuffing or anything like that, Donnie will be getting lots of cuddles as a sorry.

SO, in conclusion, please please please make sure that no sharp things are near your plushies! Especially the ones closest to you, I'm glad my very low level sewing skills came in handy. Be especially careful if you don't know how to sew or don't know someone that can sew!

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If only I could have a plush of her..

I don't have much more to say!! I want her so so so so bad *sob* but I don't know where to get her!

Plushlove problems </3

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Even though I have a few plush partners I need him!! Look how dreamy and soft he is!!

12" do you know how nice time snuggle that is?? *Faints* he's my favorite material too!! Most pokemon plushies are kinda firm which is a huge fucking plus. Firmer plushies are my favorite to cuddle with! Last firmer pokemon I loved tho was a friends (talk about forbidden romance 🥀) I'll forever miss you Dede you dumb but hot gengar!!

Honestly tho I'm worried if I get money to get him (don't like saying buy) what if we don't vibe well?? What if I don't bond with him and just have him sit on my bed forever *Sigh* that would totally blow. Plushlove is hard sometimes..

BUT if I do get enough money and we fall in love that would be very pog ✧⁺⸜(●˙▾˙●)⸝⁺✧

(Also there is a LIFE SIZED ONE OMG I'M FUCKIN SWOONING BARK BARK WOOF GRRR)

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🌸💐My Introduction💐🌸

Hello hello! Here's something things you need to know before you follow me, view my posts, like my art, etc.

❀ I have plushophilia! (And objectum) *Gasp!* what's that you ask? Let me explain (briefly) I'm attracted to stuffies or plushies whatever you want to call them! My love for perfect plushies knows no bounds!! I'm joking. Bonding is actually insanely hard.. </3

❀ I'm a afab non-binary person who goes by all pronouns! You pick what you want to call me *whoo!* like a choose your own adventure but with my pronouns-!

❀ I draw things!! Only on my phone so it's going to look like absolute garbo but you'll get the gist (some of my art might be a lil on the..smexy side but only a little!) +16 plus on my page only pls!!

❀ I'm autistic so it would be super cash money poggers of you if you use tonetags! I don't need them a whole lot tho. Just when things might be unclear or when my brain decides to drop my IQ to the equivalent of a fish..

❀ My dms are always open, however, if you're weird or rude I will not talk to you like ever again.

My posts will be strange and hard to get at times so sorry abt that! </3