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Learning how to manage my adhd symptoms without relying on anxiety has been so difficult even with medication actually but I think I’ve figured out that like. You’ve gotta let yourself be slow sometimes. Sprinting isn’t really a sustainable way to go through life.

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bastille has done more for the queer community by just making all of their love songs about "you" instead of specifying a gender than taylor swift has in all of her discography. thanks for coming to my ted talk.

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Gay song. Let me know what you think!

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Having a ring means nothing.

Having a label means nothing.

Putting it on Facebook means nothing.

If the relationship is only valid because other people are able to talk about it and trash people and have no respect.

Then that's not a real relationship.

Being happy isn't and shouldn't be dependent on what other people think -- fuck you who said that also -- I'm still gay.

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Me:- a self published queer non-binary literature author who reblogs 50+ memes about being queer. 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈

Straight cishet men:- hi pretty. Where do you live? 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

No thanks hen 🙏👍

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Putting this as a pin, as I have said before, I am here to write silly blogs, promote my books, talk to my fellow writer friends and share memes.

If you must - message me about my books- otherwise, I refuse to answer personal questions from strangers.

It makes me extremely uncomfortable.

And yes as I've said many times 🤣

Tumblr isn't a dating site!!!!!! 😑😑😒😒

Look I'm not here for dating, I've explained again and that is not what anyone should be using Tumblr is for.

I've put this on every page I managed already but here I'll do it again to be clear.

I am not interested in dating. I'm gay and non-binary. I wear rainbows FFS!

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I used to do this all the time.

But then I stopped because people started making assumptions.

Like the filtered words get misunderstood.

Mixed up. Fixed up. People assume.

They think I'm straight? They think I'm them? They think I'm "normal" huh?

How? Maybe I am cis but that doesn't mean my brain works the same as theirs.

They think I'm like them and I don't want to smash tits in my face every so often.

They messaged me over and over.

Fucking hell I'm literally gay?

I published a book series about it!

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I found the ring for SALE HERE

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— Jasmine Gibson, from "Hot-Hand Fallacy," Don't Let Them See Me Like This (Nightboat Books, 2018) (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

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Look, I'm on the spectrum myself, so I totally get the impulse to try and logic things out, but if I see one more post that's like "neurotypical people are crazy because explaining to them why their emotional reactions are irrational doesn't cause them to stop experiencing those emotions" – buddy, that doesn't work on anybody. I'm willing to bet real money it doesn't even work on you. The problem you are experiencing is that you have chosen a deescalation strategy with a zero percent success rate.

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i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever