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fucking your fae bf outside so good that he grips the grass & plant life starts to grow rapidly around you both.

sucking ur tree boy off so good that spring comes early

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Okay I need to figure out some specifics for some bullying scenes and scenarios that I'm writing, and I need some input lowkey.

Context: senior in high school male latino mc who is a drama kid

Off the bat I'm struggling because I was bullied as a girl and that's much different than a guy. Like I don't think that anyone is going to be slut shaming this man.

Similarly, I'm not trying to use slurs in this writing because I'm not sure what demographic it's for, but I feel like boys mostly bully each other using slurs.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Is violence a super out of date bullying technique or is it something that happens now?

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The quora hole is like dragging me down and I truly don't know what to do....quora you beautiful beast why do you do these things to me...I was only trying to do writing research....

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i was going to go write outside for inspiration to help with my writers block but there was someone on my front porch already so i went to go back inside but i just slammed my foot on something random instantly so now im inside again, defeated and in pain.

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writers block

list of things ive done to fix my writers block:

read a book on writing

sleep

eat

watch multiple episodes of jane the virgin

delete paragraphs that i had written

list of things i have not done:

write

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unrequited love

can men please chime in and tell me what unrequited love feels like to you? (women feel free too but im writing a man rn and i need the insight)

thank youuuuu

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This is so real. I feel like women have been trained to be jealous of each other instead of lift each other up so that we are less powerful as a group. So that we are pitted against each other. So we fight each other instead of the system that's constantly putting us down and trying to make us hate ourselves. It's literally exhausting. The best thing you can do to fight the patriarchy every single day is to look at another woman and see beauty, and then go home and look in the mirror and do the same.

Dear Woman,

Seeing beauty in other women doesn’t take away from yours. Instead it raises your vibration, adds to your own beauty frequency and puts you in a higher state of being. That’s why one of the most self-loving acts you can do is to celebrate other beautiful women.

We live in a system that benefits from us not truly seeing how beautiful we are. One of my favorite things in the world to do is to notice beauty in people, in nature, in life itself. But I especially notice beauty in women like the top notes of a well-made fragrance lingering in the air because I know that we have been conditioned to be at odds with beauty in other women—to ignore it, to numb out to any pleasurable sensation we may feel when seeing a beautiful woman, to distrust her, or to scan for something we don’t like. Patriarchy and capitalism were sorely designed to silence the innocent sight of beauty between women, therefore any opportunity I get to experience beauty in other women, I feel so alive and blessed that I am not being led by conditioning. Being sincerely open to vignettes of beauty throughout the global world have always catapulted me into new narratives of myself, like a kind of beauty oracle.

But beauty is not only what we see. It is an energy that we feel that adds real value to our physiology every time and we must love ourselves enough to access it. Where is there is beauty, there is God. —India Ame’ye, Chapter: The Oracle and Spirituality of Beauty

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writers block

im literally going through the most write now, im 37,000 words into a novel and i am just now realizing all my characters need way more character development and my novel doesn't pass the bechdel test because the main character is a guy and it never switches povs which to me is very distressing. and its so hard to write men. im losing my mind.