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While I know seeing people claim all people with uteruses are women is shitty for trans women as well and goes hand in hand with claiming all people without uteruses are men (transmisogyny), I do not believe that pregnant trans men and nonbinary people with uteruses are to be blamed for their own oppression and I do not appreciate such additions on my post.

"wait, but what do I say to describe people who cannot get pregnant?" a guide.

Men cannot get pregnant: INCORRECT. Transgender men are men and many are capable of getting pregnant. Also, excludes the plenty of people who are not men who cannot get pregnant.

Cis men cannot get pregnant: INCORRECT. Intersex men who are technically cis, but have uteruses and ovaries, may be capable of pregnancy, even if it's unlikely. Also, excludes the plenty of people who are not men who cannot get pregnant.

Cis perisex men cannot get pregnant: Correct, but excludes the plenty of people who are not men who cannot get pregnant.

People without uteruses cannot get pregnant: Correct, but excludes infertile and menopausal people with uteruses who also cannot get pregnant.

People who cannot get pregnant: CORRECT. Excludes no one.

To use inclusionary language, you don't need to rip through the reeds in search of wider terminology when you could quite literally say things exactly as they are. Inclusive language isn't "overcomplicated" at all. It's straightforward.

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You gotta love how Israel is, apparently, simultaneously the scrappy underdog in danger of being completely overrun, and also so militarily better than the Iranians that the Iranians should just give up. Also apparently Israel needs America to get involved, but they're totally winning anyway without our help. Fucking lunacy.

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The fear of "male socialisation" is about as valid as conversion therapy or the hatred of "oreos" and mixed people in black spaces.

Here's a key part of the transfemme experience that is very overlooked: when you don't pass, people don't actually see you as a man, or treat you like a man.

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Do you read the things you write?

A popular artist suddenly made a trans man comic, and the viewers are not getting it

Being against a trans man's transition because you think it's too boring is transphobic, actually.

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And trans men's only worth is to sexually appeal to you.

A popular artist suddenly made a trans man comic, and the viewers are not getting it

Being against a trans man's transition because you think it's too boring is transphobic, actually.

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Responding to a cis man being vulnerable by telling him you don't find him sexually attractive would already be bitch behaviour. Doing it to a trans man is worse.

A popular artist suddenly made a trans man comic, and the viewers are not getting it

Being against a trans man's transition because you think it's too boring is transphobic, actually.

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I need to get multiple meds, I've been trying to put it off but I'm starting to not be able to function. Please help a disabled trans woman who helps run @rickybabyboy get back to being healthy.

$85/$175 raised

Edit: phone bill got pulled out so we're a bit behind

Venmo: AGIEF

Paypal: agieocean@gmail.com

Ko-fi:

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This post didn't manage to break ten notes before a white person told me that, as a trans man of colour, I am a danger towards "other AFABs" because I oppose slurring trans women. And then, upon discovering that I'm not white, they switched to calling me a transmisogynist. If you're wondering how much of a TERF psy-op this whole thing is (or why you don't get to comment).

It's telling how some trans men and women on this site will say really nasty shit about each other and claim it's them fighting their own oppression, but they won't be half as cruel about cis marginalised people.

The community on here is obsessed with "Trans men have privilege over us trans women, therefore I get to call them theyFAB whiners and say they face no unique oppression" or "Trans women have privilege over us trans men, therefore I get to call them scary baeddels and say transmisogyny is overblown".

The community on here is not obsessed with "Cis women have privilege over trans people, therefore I get to call them cunts and Females and dismiss them when they speak about misogyny".

It's not actually that we think it's okay to say bigoted things about people who have privilege over us. It's actually that we are hurt and angry and want an easy target, and there's no easier target than other trans people.

If what you're saying about other trans people is something that would be transphobic coming from the mouth of a cis person, it's transphobic coming from your mouth.

If the reason you're saying it is because you don't like terms like "transandrophobia" or "TMA" that have been used, mentally switch them with "transphobia against transmascs" and "transfem". Would a cis person saying it be transphobic then? Then it's transphobic when you say it, too.

Speaking as an "elder trans", I considered myself too old for this sort of discourse, but the amount of young trans people I've had telling me they were pushed into suicidal thoughts, not by cis people, but by other trans people saying this sort of thing, tells me this is Transmedicalism 2.0, and we all know the damage that ideology has done (especially to genderqueer people).

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It's telling how some trans men and women on this site will say really nasty shit about each other and claim it's them fighting their own oppression, but they won't be half as cruel about cis marginalised people.

The community on here is obsessed with "Trans men have privilege over us trans women, therefore I get to call them theyFAB whiners and say they face no unique oppression" or "Trans women have privilege over us trans men, therefore I get to call them scary baeddels and say transmisogyny is overblown".

The community on here is not obsessed with "Cis women have privilege over trans people, therefore I get to call them cunts and Females and dismiss them when they speak about misogyny".

It's not actually that we think it's okay to say bigoted things about people who have privilege over us. It's actually that we are hurt and angry and want an easy target, and there's no easier target than other trans people.

If what you're saying about other trans people is something that would be transphobic coming from the mouth of a cis person, it's transphobic coming from your mouth.

If the reason you're saying it is because you don't like terms like "transandrophobia" or "TMA" that have been used, mentally switch them with "transphobia against transmascs" and "transfem". Would a cis person saying it be transphobic then? Then it's transphobic when you say it, too.

Speaking as an "elder trans", I considered myself too old for this sort of discourse, but the amount of young trans people I've had telling me they were pushed into suicidal thoughts, not by cis people, but by other trans people saying this sort of thing, tells me this is Transmedicalism 2.0, and we all know the damage that ideology has done (especially to genderqueer people).

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this pride month consider helping out a south american trans woman

hi everynyan, it's me again. sadly i have bad news yet again. not only am i disabled, and at the best of times my wages are 0.69 usd an hour, that's right, 69 of uncle sam's own cents, for a total of 180 usd a month, when the cost of living where i'm at is ten times that or more.

and not only do i need life preserving medication that costs three times my monthly wages.

not only this precarious situation means that i stretch food to the point where i eat once every other day or go days without a meal.

and not only do i support a mother who's undergoing a cancer treatment, today one of my neighbors told the power company that i was "stealing her electricity" and now the lights are completely out.

so once again i come pleading and begging to all of you for anything you can spare so i can bring the lights back on for good and afford my medication. please, even if you can't share anything, share my post around so that it might reach others. i know you don't like seeing them, and i don't like begging as well, but this is the only resort still available to me.

my ppal is: https://paypal.me/V3nusP

and my kofi as well: https://ko-fi.com/S6S6IC6X

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If you're dating a transfem, especially a butch one or a tall one or a big one you gotta just... not treat her like something to be afraid of. Like in a world where we are constantly painted as rapists, aggressors, hysterical bitches, and monsters you gotta fuckin stop and wonder how many times your girl has defanged herself. How many times has she dipped her shoulders and bowed her head because she was scared of being 'the bad one'? How many injustices and slights has she let slide because she wants to be soft and to be loved?

What does it do to her when you're too scared to have the hard conversations with her? How does the person you love feel when you show her even at home she is reduced to a potential for violence? If you avoid her, what thorns and poison does she imagine within and around herself?

If you want to love us, give us the dignity of trust. Talk to us like reasonable adults and let us feel. Don't dodge us while you find the right words to say, don't scatter eggshells on the floor then make us feel guilty you're walking on them, don't use trauma as an excuse to traumatize.

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So many leftists think they can’t possibly be ageist because they!! were children once!! And it’s like... Statistically speaking, you will probably be disabled one day. And yet, you still know not to say you “hate disabled people ’’. We recognise that rich people who used to be poor saying they hate the homeless is classism. We hate transmedicalists. But you’re different? All the other bigots were wrong, but not you?? All along, children were the actual evil?? Bizarre

alright Imma just say it.

being child free by choice and circumstance is amazing and valid and wonderful. deciding that not having a child is a better life style choice for you is actually so selfless and amazing and good.

hating children is not punk.

actively acting like children, who are statistically some of the most neglected and marginalized people on the planet, are really making things worse is not cool.

when you say/post things like “children are fine I just don’t want them in my grocery store, airplane, other place where there is probably a necessity for a child to be in some point or time” you are not only showing that you don’t view children as you know human beings, but you are also using the same outdated logic as “I don’t care what the gay people do behind closed doors I just don’t want to see it.”

grow up.

stop tagging my posts about my kid “there is one good child”. children are human BEINGS and I know it’s a goof but with the violence statistically against children (and I’m not talking about the weirdo sound of freedom save our children bullshit I’m talking about real life in home ABUSE) it’s not the time for jokes.

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Hey, @ TumblrDotCom, why is it okay to have shitty sexual AI images of anime girls in your ads and on your site in general but when a trans woman post a normal selfie of herself it gets flagged as sexual content? Why are you viewing trans women just existing as "sexual content"? And why is lowkey AI generated hentai fine untagged? Answer me!

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Idk why people are constantly trying to put transmascs and transfems at odds because sometimes I just scroll through both of our tags and genuinely tear up at how beautiful it is to be part of this community and the hope we have. Seriously fuck people who keep trying to take that away from us

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trying to attack sexism/misogyny without attacking transphobia is like saying you want to get rid of racism without getting rid of colorism or racial segregation. like lmfao good luck.

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spoiler alert: the TERF website is thinks it’s way subtler than it actually is

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brainless?? 😭 are we forgetting something man

whenever i’m bored i go to r/petfree and scroll for a while because these people are so fucking insane and have cultivated an echo chamber that is so crazy and they don’t even know it. it’s like actually really funny