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Gay Males, Learn BJ Etiquette

Believe it or not, in any form of social interaction, there is an etiquette to follow. Many of which are based in common sense and common courtesy. The only ones who will deny this, or outright ignore it are those who are self-entitled. Well, how one plays at a sex party is no different. I have long said that in a sexual space, be it a sex party, bar darkroom, a sex shop, or even one’s bedroom,…

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X-Rayed Sex: Males Need To Talk About Kegels 

By LeNair Xavier Thotyssey presents a column by LeNair Xavier, a writer/poet who has worked in many levels of the sex industry, and has a lot to say about the social politics of sex, porn and sexual etiquette. The title was not a misprint or misspelling. In the great words of Nene Leakes, “I said what I said!”  Gay males most definitely need to talk about Kegels. And it is way more important a…

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Why I've Rarely Played With Black Males In Gay Spaces

I’m sure many have seen me in gay play spaces over the years. However, one thing they probably have not seen too often is me playing with Black males. There are some reasons for that. And those reasons come in stages. At first, since my early days of blogging, I was honest about my prejudice towards other Black males. Stemming from: being raised in a single-parent household with an absentee…

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Not My Proudest Moment, But Definitely A Provoked One

I laid into someone calling them the N-word. And not ending with an “-a”, but a hard “-er”. Shocking since anyone who knows me knows that is a word I hardly ever say in any connotation. And if I say it with an “-er”, it means you reeeeeally pissed me off. There was this guy who seems to be a regular at the gay cruising spot on the weekends. He’s a black male that wears a baseball cap, white…

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Anyone who has known me personally or followed me on social media for any good length of time knows that I am not a fan of #poppers... one would think I would be all for this new gov't crackdown on their production, like the recent search and seizure of Double Scorpio. Well, you would be wrong.

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America's Indoctrination

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What Led To Well Bred

We all have sexual fantasies. Some of which we don’t really want fulfilled because we don’t live in a world where it can safely come to fruition. While others all ongoing and possible. Those just need the right facilitator. The sexual fantasy that led to my erotic poem, “Well Bred” is such a fantasy. As told in my article, “My Dream Bangs Need To Be Seen“, I have a couple of gangbang scenarios I…

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The Last Straws To 'STFU When I F.'

"While I still get hard thinking back on those 2 nights of fucking, the idiots of each night also weighed on my mind...Hence how the poem 'STFU When I F.' came to be. A more socially acceptable title since what it really means is said in the poem... 'Shut The Fuck Up When I Fuck'."

While my poem “STFU When I F.” is new, it is unfortunate how the events inspiring it are not at all new. So far from new that years ago, I wrote a “Sex Party Etiquette” article on my old blog titled, “Sex Party Etiquette: Who Hired The Commentator“. But as with all such articles and poems, it takes one incident too many that makes me need to vent about the occurrence. Well, in the case of “STFU…

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(LeNair Xavier)

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Stop The 💩, Your Str8 Hook-Up Is NOT Straight

I have long said that there is nothing wrong with a gay male having sexual fantasies about a straight male. It is how my erotica series for Kiiroo, “Tales of a Male Straight Porn Actor’s Husband” was born. However, there are some gay males who take those fantasies too far. Trying to make them reality. They will hook up with guys who claim to be “straight” to the mainstream, but live secret gay…

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JUN BYEONG YUN

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STEVEN G. NORFLEET Beauty in Black 1.06 "Bang Bang"

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Proudly A Content Creator, Proudly Without An Alt

It has become quite common now for adult content creators to have an alternate account on social media, commonly referred to as an "alt"...I am not such a content creator.

It has become quite common now for adult content creators to have an alternate account on social media, commonly referred to as an “alt”. Many do so as a means to hide from their present or future primary employers. And in other fields, it is to keep their primary career goals separate from their adult entertainment goals. I am not such a content creator. Many who have an alt account (and/or…