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Feel it to receive it...You just need to convince yourself💯

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Channelize your energy to create what you want!! You have the choice to use your energy the way you want!

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Always be grateful for what you have. Even in the darkest times, there is something to be grateful for. Stop complaining as it only worsens the situation.

Feel it and be grateful for what you want to have.

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Now this is one of the most intriguing topic. In case the term self-lust is hurting anyone's religious sentiments, consider it Self-desire. How would a person if his partner loves him but doesn't desire him sexually or he is sexually desired but not loved? Of course, in both the conditions everyone would feel offended. I believe everyone wants to be loved deeply and sexually desired as well. 

Since, the most important and longing relationship you have is with yourself, both of these components needed to be taken care of. When it comes to self-lust, there is no absolute doubt that its a part of self-love. Self-love teaches us to be compassionate, sweet, accepting towards ourselves. When it seems that there is no one with us, Self-love says, "I am still here for you and I won't leave you ever." And acceptance means that you accept and admire yourself  physically as well. Self-lust is a part of Self- love that means feeling and owning your own sex appeal

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Many times, I have often observed that I tried to build a healthy routine but somehow I failed in doing so. There are certain reasons behind this and I believe once you understand them, you would also be able to follow a disciplined routine as I have. So let's start with problems that usually occur while we struggle to become disciplined-

1.  Cynicism- A cynical person is inclined to question everything that holds some value and is good. And because nothing in life is perfect, a cynic can always find a flaw in absolutely anything. Once found, the flaw is magnified until it overshadows everything else. A cynical is perfect in find out why any plan, idea or choice is no good and won't work

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The very essence of life is its meaningless nature. It is we who give meaning to our lives through our perspective.

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Its better to be alone than to be with wrong person.

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There is a difference between growing old and growing up!! Don't just grow old, grow up💯

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Fear of Unknown as the term itself describes-"When we are scared to act because we don't know anything". This is associated with fear of uncertainty and happens usually because we don't know how circumstances would turn out and we are in habit of staying in our comfort zone. Suppose you are shifting to a new company for promotion but still feel uncomfortable inside due to questions that arise such as what if staff would be uncooperative, what if the manager has rude behavior or what if the company would dissolve in future. 

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Is that true? Then what about people who have successful relationship and are living happy life. This is just an assumption that we have in our mind after we had a toxic relationship or we broke up with our loved one due to some reason. This assumption turn outs to be a belief and then we get into one relationship to other and get disappointed most of the times or sometimes feel that we are not worth being loved.

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Now it varies from person to person about what he means by letting go. If you are in relation then it has different meaning whereas if you have broke that relationship, it is need to be understood with different context.

In relation- While in relationship you need to let go of past mistakes of your partner, forgive him/her for not understanding your view, for not meeting your expectations certain times and your numerous assumptions that have been developed through bitter experiences you had with your partner. Of course there is limit to everything, and I am not asking anyone to tolerate abusive or violent behavior. But sometimes the facts are not real, you may misjudge a person through his/her behavior, but if you have spent enough time with that person, you’ll get to know what intentions he/she has for you.

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Now I have seen this many a times on Instagram and other media platforms where if any male does something good or unique from others, he is called Alpha male. This term is used with many reels showing heroes doing actions and delivering very popular dialogues. It signifies uniqueness as a their personality trait. Is this uniqueness an actual meaning of alpha? 

Well in reality an alpha means which in relaxed, drowsy and self-hypnosis state. It is the time when a person whether male or female is between 6 to 12 years because that is the time when their personality starts to develop at initial level.

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So, basically unconditional love is when you accept someone as he/she is. There are no conditions to it. Only thing that exist is love. You don't demand anything. You give it all without any expectation. Now ask yourself a question has it happened with you ever? Is there someone you love unconditionally or someone who loves you like that? Even we judge ourselves many a times and see what we have achieved as compared to others.

Be honest with yourself, only you know the truth. There is no wrong or right answer. Its just an observation. The answer could be your dog/cat or any other relationship who doesn't expect anything from you and you also love them the same way.