our-polyam-aspec-experience

[our-polyam-aspec-experience]

hello! it's planet partner anon again! I chose the name Ceres, after the first dwarf planet :)

it's kinda funny how I used to think I'd never meet anyone who would meet my very specific requirements for partnering, because I'm alloaro but wanted like, a long term partnership where we live together, but like at the same time I wouldn't love them romantically. I kind of wanted roommates who were also best friends that i could cuddle and kiss.

But like, now ive got 3 partners who care for me and respect my wishes, and they're all for having a non-romantic but still affectionate partnership!!! it's just. something i didn't think would be possible before. but it is.

only downside is they all live in the states 😭

but hey! they're all willing to move country to come live together at my place!!! (i will not step foot in scary usa 😋)

- Ceres

Nice to meet you Ceres. As an American I totally understand why you don’t want to come here. Also, I’m glad you’ve found people who care for you and are willing to be in the partnership that works for you.

[our-polyam-aspec-experience]

y'all ever see that post that is like

«monogamy is like 'this person is my sun, moon, and stars'

polyamory is like 'this person is my sun, this person is my moon, and this person is my stars'

both people love the whole sky»

well, i was having trouble figuring out what to call my qpps, because I'm engaged to one of them so i was calling him my fiancé but my other qpps just my partners, and i didn't like that it felt like hierarchical (fiancé partner and i are getting married for legal benefits). and i also needed a way to differentiate my qpps in convo w others

and so the post made me think. instead of girlfriend or boyfriend or joyfriend. what about PLANETS!!!

so now its like. 'this is my saturn/saturnfriend' :D

This is such a cute idea!

[our-polyam-aspec-experience]

Hey everybody!

My name is Oryn and I wanted to create a space for people who are Aspec and also polyamorous!

This blog can be for anything relating to that.

I also run @polyam-aro-culture-is

You might have seen me mention a discord so if you are interested let me know! (Though I’m aiming to have it be 18+)

I might do a proper intro post later but I am 23 and my pronouns are he/they.