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This post is specifically about a trans man and the trans community. Please watch these few words on being ftm and share this with others because it is highly important.

This video is really special to me, it’s my own narrative on being transgender. It would mean the world to me if people could check it out and share it. I want to share something and get this heard, being transgender IS NOT a curse and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. The past few weeks have been really hard for me, I hit a low point again and I channeled all of my energy into this because I hope that it can maybe reach one person and maybe it will help them in some way. I hope my followers will re blog this and spread the word, it would honestly mean so so much to me. Help spread the word that being transgender IS okay!

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why thank you for 251 followers. pls contact me with content u'd like to see like if u want validation posts, "date a polygender who.." posts, pride art posts(i do draw), im open to any suggestions bc im running out of ideas for original content, lol

and I'd like to post what y'all want to see since you all r supporting this blog

thank you!

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i for 1 do not understand the people that claim too many labels or new labels and concepts are annoying and nobody cares and you should be just like everybody else. Everytime a user interacts positively with a post i make i usually check out that person's tumblr. In my opinion, the most interesting part is the bio. Reading the diversity in other's bios is just fun to me. Its fun to witness so many ways people can be comfortable in themselves and its fun to be exposed to so many different ways just just be. I love that, idk about those aforementioned, though. maybs they're jelly cuz their bios r more boring idk

jk 😂

but it seems when someone is happy in something, those people try their best to tear them down. people cant just "be" differently?

why not?

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i keep forgetting this is a sideblog, so if someone ever responds to a comment @whippedcreamwisdom dats me lol

imma repost this post after a while too to let newcomers know

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right now, in this moment, on this fine day im having a hard time feeling positive about being nonbinary. but that's okay. if you struggle with constantly being positive about something like gender identity, that's okay. you'll feel better soon, and so will i. its amazing we ever feel good about being nonbinary in the first place because there's a lot of hate. wen it gets to you after a while, you can always take a break from trying to prove you exist, or trying to explain yourself. you can spend time doing other things while you wait this feeling out. 💐

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🌻date a polygender person who will provide u with a block list to make ur tumblr more safe, lol 🤣🌻

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explaining polygender #3

Every polygender person experiences their genders in a different way. To put us in 1 description is impossible. In the amount of genders some have, some static polygender people might say they feel more like 1 gender on certain days, yet the key word is “more like”. they still might acknowledge the other genders they usually feel alongside that one. Even static doesnt necessarily mean the same thing for everyone. It just may mean they feel this word describes them more than -fluid or -flux. Its a specrum like every umbrella term.

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explaining polygender #2

in gender alignment, polygender people may face issues. Many nonbinary people choose to id outside of binary alignment, which any polygender person can do. But if a polygender person is one of, or both binary genders, gender alignment becomes a little more detailed. Here’s the takeaway, any person with both binary genders can align as both woman and man. And this can change. A genderfluid polygender person can align as a woman one day, and a man the next. A static polygender person can id as both for their whole lives if they wanted to.

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explaining polygender #1

starting off with a definition, polygender is an umbrella term that encapsulates other genders. the only thing u must identify with to say you’re polygender is a lot of genders

so any gender ending in -flux

any gender ending in -fluid

pangender

etc.

as long as you feel comfortable with id-ing with the # of genders you go through, you can id as polygender.

there are strictly polygender people out there, though. similar to pangender people, they feel their genders in what we will call a static way, i.e. always 7 genders, as opposed to feeling it in a fluid or fluctuating way, i.e. separately 7 genders over time. these people might only use the word polygender as their identity, and that’s fine too.

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just so we're clear some people have identities under many umbrella terms and some people only identify as an umbrella term polygender is an umbrella term, therefore can be accompanied with other identities genderflux people can identify as polygender if they want to genderfluid people who identify as more than 3 genders(i say that because there's bigender for 2 and trigender for 3) could identify with polygender if they wanted to someone could say, "im nonbinary/polygender/genderflux," and they can because all those words work together for this person to describe themself if thats how many words it takes to define your gender then wOw?! lOoK at yOu sLaY tHose lAbeLs wHat abOut thEm pRonoUnS tHoUgh🆕️🆗️🆒️

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some things

-my paper on gender has gone into the editting stages(its rlly rough rn lol) -thank u for 200 followers?! 💞🙌 -go polygender people

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unorganized question

i would appreciate responses cuz idk so pls respond if u’re comfortable doing so!!

to other nbs would u consider pronouns part of ur gender presentation? im wondering if this is a common nb experience because personally i dont feel a distinct connection to these words they just feel like a description people can pull conclusions from; similar to wearing a skirt. because for nb people, pronouns dont always equal gender one could go by they/them but be demiboy. i feel the connection with pronouns to clothes because to me its about how u want to be perceived, not necessarily what it is u r, u know? and this practice of having differing presentation and gender encompasses a sort of nb agenda, which is to smash the binary. i mean there r no rules to gender right? so pronouns can mean whatever we want them to mean to ourselves. i still want ur opinions though.

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this friend doesnt want to be my friend anymore due to "differing political views"- their political view on the trans community being gender dysphoria is unnatural and should be treated like a disease- so in this situation if you're too afraid to break up with them yourself, they'll eventually get tired of you after their unsupportive revelation. so it'll end, eventually, to anyone still in this situation.

we hardly talk about those friends who start out supportive, then end up not supportive what are you supposed to do with them then? “am i against myself for staying their friend? do i rlly love them that much or am I just afraid of them? i do love them, do they rlly have to support me to be my friend? we could just stop talking about it forever” the people who end up shutting themselves down and being distant like this to their friend those mixed feelings and confusion the people who want to leave the friendship but don’t know how or when the people who imagined them and their best friend going to pride together, but now having to imagine going alone shout out to the people in that situation the choice is your’s but if anything is unhealthy it’s probably best to get rid of it but im here for those polygender people in that situation 🌸

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i keep forgetting this is a sideblog, so if someone ever responds to a comment @whippedcreamwisdom dats me lol

imma repost this post after a while too to let newcomers know

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im currently writing a paper on gender trying to incorporate unbiased, credited psychology, biology, and other related sciences in it. like this if u want to read it when im done(im 17 btw, going into my 2nd year of AP English, I can write college-level well), comment if you have resources that are helpful that are what i mentioned above, and reblog if u want other blogs to know! thanks in advance for anything!!

n also shout out to polygender high school students in AP courses okay bye!! 🤣🌻

edit: prepare for some Intersex representation in this paper

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polygender people deserve to have more representation than youtube "nonbinary snowflake cringe compilations"

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u dont owe an explanation to what polygender is to people who are deciding whether or not its real if its what u experience, its valid