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So. Much. This.

Read this if you read fanfics

I just read a fic which I personally really like and when I went to the comments section, it was so disheartening. Nearly everyone was so rude and hateful and completely disrespectful of the author’s efforts, all simply because the fic did not cater to what most of these people like. So in honor of this author and every other fanfic author, let this be a reminder to all you fanfic readers

fanfic authors are NOT obliged to please your personal preference

they can write whatever they want to write

they don’t owe you anything

they are writing fics for free, for fun, and they put a lot of effort into it. So at the very least, be respectful.

No personal preference is better than the other.

a more popular preference (ships, AU, etc) does NOT make it any better than a less popular one. All it means is that more people happen to share the same opinion for one and not the other. That’s it.

Remember that “personal preference” is basically an opinion. There is no right and wrong. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Being entitled to your own opinion does NOT justify you being a rude asshole

if you don’t like it, shut up and just leave. there’s no need for you to ruin someone else’s confidence by insulting their efforts just because it didn’t suit your personal preference

if you DO enjoy their work, please leave kudos and comments. You know damn well yourself that even just one rude comment can ruin the author’s confidence, or ruin their day, or make them doubt themselves. So please help to compensate that by leaving loving comments. If you like what they wrote, voice it out. It’s very encouraging and the authors will appreciate it A LOT.

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Me playing submissive to SPF's dom last Saturday at Wizard World Columbus. Yes, there is a backstory...a rather amusing one involving a sailor costume, a cupcake, and my riding crop. Maybe I'll tell it, if enough folks are interested. Or maybe you'd rather let your imagination run wild at just how I ended up in this situation. I will say this: it certainly didn't suck. :-)

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Ministry of Funny Walks, Boston Division.

HFPA & InStyle’s 2014 TIFF Celebration - Arrivals - 2014 Toronto International Film Festival

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Can we please talk about the creeper behind Chris on the left side of the pic? This guy looks wayyyy too happy to be there...

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Sean asks for an assist with a BJJ demonstration, wears a fake beard, causes mayhem with a marshmallow slingshot, tries to blow bubbles, and plays with a bullshit horn at Wizard World Louisville 2014. Taken while standing in line for his autograph.

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Sean Patrick Flanery & David Della Rocco talk about cake, cats, Donut the whore, Reedus’ inability to speak foreign languages, and…rattlesnake condoms???!

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Jason talks about returning to Game of Thrones, learning the Dothraki language, his favorite and least favorite parts about playing Drogo, filming sex scenes with Emelia Clarke, and how he spent his time in Ireland filming the show.

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Flanery assaulting unsuspecting con attendees with a marshmallow slingshot. #seanpatrickflanery #boondocksaints #louisvillecomicon #wizardworldlouisville #slingshot

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Bearded Flanery selfie. #seanpatrickflanery #boondocksaints #wizardworldlouisville #beard #louisvillecomicon

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Moses Flanery. #seanpatrickflanery #wizardworldlouisville #beard #boondocksaints

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The aftermath of being choked by Flanery. Somebody pass me a cigarette…and I don’t even smoke! #seanpatrickflanery #brazilianjiujitsu #submission #50shadesofflanery

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Getting my air supply cut off by @spflanery while he demonstrates a Brazilian jiu-jitsu move. Simultaneously terrifying & arousing. #wizardworldlouisville #seanpatrickflanery #brazilianjiujitsu #submission

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The first 8 minutes of Jason's Q&A, before I started having battery issues on my phone. He talks about a possible role in an upcoming Marvel movie, the saga of his dreadlocks, which of his characters would win in a fight, Drogo makin' babies with Daenerys, & his ass :-)

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The first of many #louisvillecomicon posts to come this week. Got to the hotel late; the upside? Ran into this lovely specimen at check-in. First thing he asked his handler? "Is Rooker already here?" I DIE. Long live Rookoa. I am such a creeper. #jasonmomoa #khaldrogo #wizardworldlouisville #hotelcheckincreepin #rookoa #hyatt

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The prison group must have raided a Free People outlet, cause I'm seeing a LOT of Free People stuff here. She was wearing the kombucha cuff thermal when Axel got shot...

The Fashion Progression of awesomely hot Carol Peletier

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Slapped Beth cause I was horny? Ummm...k.

Let’s go.

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I don't normally pay any mind to internet trolls just trying to get attention by hating on celeb/a celeb's significant other/whatever, but I do agree that Flanery is just an all-around awesome human being and neither he nor his family deserve that kind of flak. Especially since I consider Lauren to be the polar opposite of Cecilia: where the latter seems to go out of her way to instigate some of his fans and say "Look at me! I'm with Norman! *sticks out tongue*", the former has gone out of her way to stay out of the spotlight - aside from a few pix on the net and a YouTube clip here and there, she lays low (and keeps their son out of the spotlight). Why anyone would try to drag her into the same kind of nonsense that CS brings upon herself is beyond me...I'm guessing some people just have an abundance of time and bad juju on their hands.

And for what it's worth - Sean & Lauren are apparently good friends with Alfonso Ribeiro and his wife, and I consider Carlton Banks to be an excellent judge of character. So any friend of Alfonso's is a-ok in my book ;-)

Flanery hate enrages me. He's the nicest guy ever! Why talk shit? What's worse, they were talking shit about his wife (girlfriend? I'm never sure about their status)too. And that's double fucked up, Lauren does even less to instigate hate.

Some people are bastard-coated bastards with bastard filling. Flanery hate enrages me. He’s a lovely inspiring person. I know he gets hate because of being out-spoken and quite harsh in some of his judgements, but hating on Lauren (wife) and their son is just plain wrong, especially with some accusations towards her that were being made, and she is lovely from what we see and how she respects Sean’s privacy.

These people are sick. It seriously makes me want to cut a bitch.