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We only obsess over relationships that feel unfinished

- Carrie Bradshaw

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Sex and the City blog 🍸

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dream crusher

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Cheesy buttery eggs and bacon topped with syrup 😍 likeeee SO if you read my last post I was supposed to make pancakes this morning to try with my new @lakantosweetener maple syrup, buuuuut I literally got one hour of sleep ln (long story) and only had 30 mins to make breakfast until my pedicure appt. Probably will make pancakes Friday. Either way I tried the syrup and loved it Coffee made with 1 TBSP of heavy cream and MCT oil. My “lunch” will be 12 almonds as I’m going to be working all day, and dinner is grilled chicken, 1/2 avocado, and broccoli with garlic and oil prob. And then more coffee ofc #keto #ketogenicdiet #ketodiet #ketosis #ketofastosis #ketolife #ketones #ketolifestyle #ketoaf #ketorecipes #ketoforlife #ketoworks #lowcarb #nosugar #highfatlowcarb #lchf #healthylifestyle #health #weightloss #weightlossjourney #grainfree #bulletproofcoffee #coffee #ketobreakfast #breakfast #healthybreakfast #bacon #eggs https://www.instagram.com/p/BqZ7FWAgSqw/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=s0lsoo7i40xs

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to all the girls who have a broken heart

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“You’ve lost sight of it all haven’t you,” She studies me, her cigeratte dangling yet to be lit from her fingers. “You wanted to change the world, chase your dreams whenever they took you but you stopped. You let the dreaming end and listened when you were told ‘you can’t do that, that’s not realistic’. But you know it’s not too late to start again,” She gives me a small smile, “Take some baby steps, take some time, and find your dream again.”

- my life isn’t turning out how I planned, time to start chasing those dreams again.

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“In a way, you didn’t deserve how hard I tried to hold onto you, how hard I tried to get you to stay. Yet at the same time, I know I would’ve regret it had I not tried.”

— Excerpt from a book I’ll never write

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“I know that you’re afraid that you’re still in love with him. I know that you’re scared that you’ll be empty without him, that the best parts of yourself are wrapped up in the worst parts of him. You think that if he lets you go, you’ll look around your life and not recognize anything. You think that if you let him go, you’ll regret it, more than any choice you’ve made in your entire life. Because love is complicated. Love is messy. But babygirl, you weren’t empty before you met him and you damn sure aren't empty now. So what if you’re still a little in love with him? Love is about choices. So make the choice to seek closure, to move forward instead of being stuck in his toxic orbit. Extricating yourself from your past isn’t easy. But you can’t move on without feeling everything that comes with saying goodbye. You can’t fully embrace everything that the universe wants to place in your lap without letting go of the burden still clawing its way into your heart. And if there is some space in your heart after he leaves, fill it with love - for your parents, for your kid brother, for the professor that saved your life. But honestly? I really hope you fill it with love for yourself.”

— L.A.L. || I know it’s hard. It feels impossible. But I also know that you’ll be so much better for it.

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Healing is important, but sometimes we don’t let ourselves heal. Sometimes we love someone so much that when they leave, we let the hole they left behind stay empty, in case they ever decide to come back again.

Poetry At Most

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“Even the good people, the ones you dream of meeting, fuck up. People aren’t perfect and loving someone means handing them a gun and trusting them not to shoot you. But we’re all human and sometimes we get scared and we panic, accidentally pulling the trigger. That doesn’t mean that they don’t love you… it just means that Life doesn’t come with an instruction manual and sometimes we do the wrong thing. So do you banish them from your life and try to forget their existence when you might have made the very same mistake if the roles were reversed? If they shot you and are begging for forgiveness, willing to do anything to make it up to you, do you give them another chance and hope that the good you see in them will overcome the bad? Or do you just shut down and walk away?”

— I guess it depends what kind of person you want to be - Jess Amelia 

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“To everyone wondering if they will ever move on. Yes, you will. It will take you some time. By ‘some time’ I mean a long time. It won’t be easy. In fact, it will probably be the hardest thing you’ll have to go through. Moving on is messy. It is either being too happy or too sad at 3am. It is laughing till your stomach aches, or crying till there are no more tears to be cried and you just feel dead inside. Moving on is the shaking of your hands and the breaking of your voice when you realise that there will never be a them and you again. Moving on is wondering what you did wrong and why you just weren’t good enough for them. Moving on also means eating less and drinking more alcohol than you should. It also means stopping everything that you’re doing and thinking about them. Actually, you will think about them a lot. You will see their favourite restaurant and you will think of them. You will hear their favourite song and you will think of them. You will look at your coffee and the shade of brown will resemble the colour of their eyes. At one point they will be all you think about. It starts the moment you wake up and never ends because even in your dreams they will be haunting you. But one day you will wake up and you will feel okay. The next day you will feel more than just okay, you will be fine. You will think of them still, yes. But it’s going to be a different kind of thinking. It will be a “wherever they are, I hope that they are fine and happy” kind of thinking. You will have moved on. You will have survived this hell. You will slowly but surely forget them more and more each day, and forgetting will never have felt that sweet. But you have to let yourself hurt before you can heal, remember. To everyone wondering if they will ever move on, you will.”

— e.s. // to everyone wondering if they will ever move on.

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This is literally women lmao

Woman: *attempts to set a boundary*

Man: Woowww :( so you like, hate me? You’re mad at me? Can’t you like, compromise your comfort a little bit for my convenience? I honestly think you’re being a little too sensitive here! Maybe you should look inward and consider why you’re so cold and heartless 😔