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What’s the difference between being a butch lesbian and being a femme lesbian and how would I know which one I am?

I think I’m femme but a femme who uses he/him pronouns even though my gender at birth is female. I just started using them yesterday but I’m going back and forth between that and my gender at birth pronouns..

Look at me being so fucking bad at replying to asks on time. God, I am so sorry.

Butch and femme are two labels with very deep history, some see it as just the way they present, other people see it as a sort of gender that's like, exclusive to lesbians in a sense? But to cut it down to basics, butches are lesbians that usually present masculine and femmes are lesbians that usually present feminine. What they aren't is an "equivalent" to "male" and "female" roles in a relationship.

You also don't have to use certain pronouns if you're a butch or femme. You can be a butch that goes by she/her, a femme that goes by he/him, any combo you want. Gender =/= pronouns after all. :)

For example, I'm a femme, I'm attracted to other femmes. I also use she/they pronouns and I'm a demigirl.

I should also note, don't feel rushed to choose or slot into a certain category if none of them work for you. I have some lesbian friends that identify with neither butch or femme and that's fine too.

I hope this helped at least a bit and again I'm sorry for such a late response ;o;

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Reblogging again but on another one of my accounts because I'm obsessed

SHAWNEEEEEE 😭😭😭😭😭😭💖💞🩷💘💕💓💗

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The way these two women have got me feeling is fucking incurable. I have a disease and it is called lesbianism.

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The red gag Lynn Denlon wore you legendary prop.

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Guys, I made a personal blog a couple days ago and it’s gonna be multifandom and lesbian af but I’m currently on a SAW kick, so if you like SAW or literally just want to watch me go absolutely feral over media I like and also Amanda Young then feel free to follow it lmao. @femmemortes

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Hiii, what's your favourite scent and why :D

HMMMMM

Two and they’re total opposites.

First one is like vanilla, fucking LOVE the smell of vanilla. Just reminds me of all the good stuff it’s in, and food. God it’s so good.

The other is chlorine. Like chlorine water. Swimming pools. Idk why for this one, it’s just so yes.

Also the smell of summer nights when it’s been raining, I can’t describe this one but it’s incredibly melancholy for me but it makes me love it for that too.

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Reached peak lesbianisim, fantasising about Amanda Young. Girl, you are so strange and disturbed and weird, let’s make out.

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I NEED HER TO RUIN MY LIFE J NEED HER TO AVRUALLTY RUIN MY FUCHICKIGNG LIFE

“Music, sex, drugs and world travel. In that order.”

- Shawnee Smith on what made her want to become the lead singer in a rock band

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If you're fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.

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mutual 1: I want to turn that man's prostate into silly putty

mutual 2: here's smth i doodled during science class lol

mutual 3: pls remember that you personally can drink milk and still be a lactose intolerance ally!! anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't know their history :]

mutual 4: fucking a robot girl in the ass call that backend programming

mutual 5: holy shit I need him so fucking bad holy shit holyyy shit oh my god

mutual 6: anyone get kind of horny putting the ignition key in the car....it's so intimate....turning him on....

mutual 7: so lets talk about where scrimblo's arc is realistically going- I know a lot of people are trying to argue that he's being manipulated but this ignores the fact that there is clearly unresolved conflict between him and bleebus about their moralities

mutual 8: happy propeller penis thursday

mutual 9: "scrimblo and bleebus need to discuss their morality" god forbid a pathetic boywife does some torture 🙄🙄

mutual 10: WHO IS HYPED FOR THE NEW ALBUM LETS FUCKING GO

mutual 11: guys we're not getting a new album

mutual 12: please stop sending me death threats

mutual 13: why is my whole dash talking about this band I don't even listen to.....

mutual 14: hey boy nice knife wound can i put my tongue in it

mutual 15: i'm going to fall into lake michigan

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i feel incredibly normal about the saw franchise

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uh oh uh oh uh oh

guess who wrote lynnmanda because they got annoyed theres only 80 fics for them!!!!! (its me obviously, pls read)

:D

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They’re so gay help

guess who rewatched saw iii

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There is still hope. Say it out loud. Palestine will be free. The Palestinian people will celebrate their culture and heritage with each other. We will love and be loved. Do not fall into the trap of despair.

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here’s weirder asks

who is/are your comfort character(s)?

lighter or matches?

do you leave the window open at night?

which cryptyd being do you believe in?

what color are your eyes?

why did you do that?

hair-ties or scrunchies?

how many water bottles are in your room right now?

which do you prefer, hot coffee or cold coffee?

would you slaughter the rich?

favorite extracurricular activity?

what kind of day is it?

when was the last time you ate?

do you love the smell of earth after it rains?

are you a parent? (all answers qualify)

can you drive?

are you farsighted or nearsighted?

what hair products do you use?

imagine we’re at a sleepover, would you paint my nails?

do you say soda or pop?

something you’ve kept since childhood?

what type of person are you?

how do you feel about chilly weather?

if we were together on a rooftop, what would we be doing?

perfume/body spray or lotion?

a scenario that you’ve replayed multiple times?

about how many hours of sleep did you get?

do you wear a mask?

how do you like your shower water?

is there dishes in your room?

what type of music keeps you grounded?

do you have a favorite towel?

the last adventure you’ve been on?

is there a song you know every word to by heart?

what’s your timezone?

how many times have you changed your url?

someone in your life, other than a relative, you’ve known for 10+ years?

a soap bar that smells good?

do you use lip balm?

did you have any snacks today?

how do you take your coffee?

an app you frequently use besides this godforsaken site?

what’s your take on spicy foods?

you get a free pass to kill anyone, who is it?

can you remember what happened yesterday?

favorite holiday film?

what was the last message you sent?

when did you first try an alcohol beverage?

can you skip rocks?

can i tag you in random stuff?

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credits for the images:

letstalkpalestine