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last minute halloween costume ideas pt. 1 ⊹ ‧₊˚ ౨ৎ

okay 2016 youtuber era😭 anyways idk if anyone else also hasnt thought abt their halloween costumes like at all … but i know i haven’t! so heres some actual cute halloween costume ideas that arent super boring or overdone xo

priscilla presley

if you have dark hair, white dress and some black ribbon.. there you go😭 this is literally such a cute outfit idea (+ priscilla by sofia coppola releases 3 days after halloween!) and also soo easy <3 consider !

nina sayers

almost everything she wears could be thrifted or is sold at brandy 😭 every thrift store has dark ugg dupes, get some rosa sweatpants and a grey zip up + scarf and boom ! you probably already own half these things anyways

pink friday nicki

nowww this is probs the easiest one out of all of these🩷 all u wld need is jeans, a bombshell push up bra, a tank and a pink wig if u want and you probably already have almost all of those ! as well pink friday 2 is out a few weeks after halloween, and this would be super recognizable bc who doesnt know nicki minaj?

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In the haze

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my notion schedule જ⁀➴

i work on my daily schedule every morning, which is why it’s only half done lol </3 i find hourly planning helps me the most in terms of productivity !

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my notion homepage ౨ৎ

this is just what i find works best for me! <3

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would anyone want a post abt notion/notion templates? i’ve been using it a lot more recently for my academics this semester <3

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still very much on my study grind but school has been so easy it feels like there isn't much to post about... if anybody needs advice my asks are always open doe <3

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teenage girl reading list ❦

my year of rest and relaxation ; otessa moshfegh

the torn skirt ; rebecca godfrey

my dark vanessa ; kate elizabeth russel

age of consent ; amanda brainerd

a certain hunger ; chelsea g. summers

kairos ; jenny erpenbeck

girl interrupted ; susanna kaysen

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my plans for back to school ❦

i start school in three weeks.. someone send help.. anyways, as always, my goal is to look my best and feel my best! so here's how i'm preparing to go back to school with clear skin and a flat tummy x

celery juice + green tea every morning! for me, i find that green tea is really great for my skin! drinking it really helped with my acne, so i'll be drinking it more regularly in preparation for the first day of school. as well, celery juice helps a ton with bloating (in my experience) so i'll be drinking it every morning <3

no sugar + low sodium sugar and sodium are both absolutely horrible for your skin and acne, so i'll be avoiding both as much as possible. i already consume as little sugar as possible, but i'll be aiming to cut it out completely by using sugar substitutes + drinking starbucks less

soups leading up to the first day to avoid any kind of bloating during the first day of school, i'll be aiming to only drink soups (with konjac noodles/non-bloating vegetables) for the last few days before school starts. of course, remember to keep your body healthy + not starve yourself lol

aztec clay mask the day before the aztec clay mask works miracles for me, so i'll be trying to use it more regularly leading up to the first day of school, to prevent + aid with any acne i may get!

40 mins biking daily! this one doesn't need much of an explanation, biking is just my preferred method of exercise !!

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｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ. July will bring blessings.

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"oh how do i romanticize my life when it's so ugly" first of all shut up. nobody gives a fuck if your school is ugly or your room is ugly. in movies, is every room or every school or every character or every life perfect and lovely and well put together? no. because there's beauty in being imperfect and ugly and you fail to realize that. you're never gonna be happy and you're never gonna succeed in romanticizing your life if you can't accept the ugly and still decide to find beauty in it. romanticizing your life isn't only about making it pretty but it's also about loving it as it is. loving your tattered school uniform or loving your knock knees or loving your messed up life or loving your sadness or loving your grieving or loving your loneliness or loving the dirt in your room. it's about loving everything because how can you find beauty in it without loving it first?

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pretending you're in a movie will always be the biggest step in romanticizing your life no matter what anyone says. that is the most surefire way to find the beauty in your life.

when me and a boy i was talking to cut contact, instead of just being sad, i decided that this was just my new moon era. and maybe that sounds embarrassing but it worked better than anything.. because even though it didn't help me get over him, it helped me find the beauty in that sadness and that's how you feel happier.

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my plans for summer ❦

i dunno about you but i always, always spend my summers absolutely depressed. it's not a matter of whether or not you i friends, because i always have, but rather it's an issue of all that fucking time on your hands. two whole months of just.. nothing. so what do you even do? my plans for summer mainly revolve around helping my future self. because once september rolls around, what good will it be if i spent the past 2 months lazing around in bed? i won't be benefited by that, quite the opposite, really. so instead i've figured out what i need for the new school year and to really reach the goals i have for this upcoming year (post on that soon !). nothing revolutionary, sure, but it'll definitely help out at least a couple of you wondering what to do this summer <3

self care. this means caring of my body both inside and out. inside, i'm working on self improvement by becoming a kinder, more feminine person. i'm getting over my failed situationships and getting more comfortable being alone. i'm practicing detachment and, of course, protecting my peace. outside, i'm working on my hair and my body. i don't think it's any help to work on my wardrobe, because in summer you make really shit decisions. i've begun working out 3 times a week with my friend who's more experienced in the gym, mainly working on my glutes, cardio and abs. i'm planning on investing in heatless curlers, because my hair's volume hasn't been great. <3 ways you could practice self care: inside, you could work on your gut health, diet (eating healthy, not practicing any restrictive eating!), mental health, social life, self confidence. outside, you could work on your physical health (gym, running, biking), skincare, hair health, wardrobe (if you trust your decision making during this season), posture.

hobbies. you're not gonna want to go to the gym or journal every day, so finding some ways to spend your time alone and having fun can be really beneficial. i've started watching a couple tv shows, in july i'll be watching a movie every day (hopefully), scrapbooking more, making bracelets, and cooking. these aren't necessarily beneficial to future me, however they are fun and beneficial to present me, and balance is really important! summer is the time to take on projects and begin passions for things you can't do during the school year. hobbies that could help you: if you want something beneficial, try learning a new language, practicing an art (music, painting, writing), learning to cook, taking up a new sport, learning touch typing, or reading. if you want something fun, try watching a new tv show (skins, gossip girl, pretty little liars), watching a movie a day (you could do movies all with the same actor, by the same director, in a series, etc), scrapbooking, keeping a journal, growing a garden, crocheting, or decorating your room.

jobs. i have a late birthday so i can't volunteer yet, so instead i've taken on a few "jobs", mainly babysitting and doing things for my parents. it's not the most fun but if you want the money for the new school year (especially new clothes), you should do it. put the money into savings. of course, if you're under 15 you likely can't do much, but it's worth a shot. jobs you could take on: getting your volunteer hours (summer camps!), babysitting, working at fast food, designing carrds, mowing lawns.

planning. lastly, i'm planning out my next school year. it's good to have things figured out so that september doesn't hit you too hard. i'm working on things like schedules, study guides, phone decluttering, and, most fun, moodboards. i'll make a bigger post about my plans in specific <3 this is also a really great way you could practice manifesting. make your intentions clear and assume that these things will happen, and they will, but this isn't the place to be learning about that. things you could plan: your daily schedule (by the hour), outfit ideas, lunch ideas, goals, the mood for this school year, a desk system.

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most importantly, take care of your body. go to bed early and wake up early. run every night. shower every other day. practice hair and skincare. moisturize. trim your hair. show your body love.

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The secret to happiness is learning to not take anything personally. Let other people's actions and words speak for themselves. Remember that their negative projections highlight an inability to sit with themselves long enough to introspect and engage in some much-needed self-reflection.

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the most important thing will always be confidence. being insecure shows and it's never cute. loving yourself and being confident in yourself makes you unforgettable, being insecure and hating yourself will show through and makes you fade into the background.