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[shiftwithalex]

Ive had MULTIPLE shifters come to me in my DMS on TikTok (because I'm also on ShiftTok) and complain/vent about getting traumatized in their DRS, I, of course, provide with the comfort and tips on how to make it be easier, but I ask all of them ONE question - "Have people told you before you shifted to take the precautions and script safety?" And most of them have said yes. But they didn't listen to these people because before they shifted to these places they all had one thing in common, they didn't think seriously of how it would actually affect them.

So a lesson to all- Yes, you CAN erase trauma, but, even if you weren't "aware" of the traumatic event happening to you because its for your "backstory", you'll still end up feeling the trauma from the event, and any person with serious trauma knows this. Sure, go ahead and script the trauma you have here, 100% understandable because some people don't feel like themselves without it, but scripting unnecessary, abnormally large and IMPACTFUL traumatic events just to have your "main character moment" and have your s/o or friends comfort you for it is downright stupid, you're signing yourself up DIRECTLY for an emotional warfare with YOURSELF. Be careful with what you make yourself go through.

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you don’t have to answer this i just wanted to let you know that jess shifts @shifttokjess was saying you were lying on their live and said they sent your tiktok (where you talked about scars manifesting from your dr and the shifting police) content in their group chat to talk shit… incredibly rude

Hey! First of all, I wouldn't be making this reply public, or simply wouldn't reply at all, but I feel like what I have to say needs to be heard.

I've had multiple people talk behind my back on how my experiences are "fake" and I'm lying, which I don't mind, really, because at the end of the day they are literally just people on the internet. I didn't even know Jess existed before I read this (I thought you were talking about a different Jess the ShiftToker, who's my mutual but immediately knew it wasn't her because she simply wouldn't, she's a sweetheart)

Further more that I dived into her account, found out she doesn't support permashifting and doesn't "encourage" people to do it. Which personally, I see as a red flag, if you as a shifter, who believes that Permashifting is possible, don't support it and get up in other people's business around it, their opinion is completely indifferent to me.

And for treating the shifting police as something that can't exist, well, it's quite literally absurd. I get that it's hard to believe it now when it was turned into a massive ShiftTok joke, but she has probably never thought to think with basic human empathy and a possibility, that the person who first spoke up about them might've had a real experience with them, and someone took it way out of proportion, and then the whole community got in a scandal about them and then decided to turn it in to a joke, and label yet ANOTHER thing that exists "misinformation" just because they were afraid.

And for my scars (that are still on my body today, since that day) I get that this, out of all the things you listen that she'd said, would be harder to believe, but just because she, or anyone else who bluntly trusts her opinion, chose to limit themselves, therefore setting boundaries around themselves that they are not aware of, doesn't mean that I do. And it is one of the main reasons things like these tend to happen to me, I don't limit my own reality, or manifesting, or whatever you want to call it, the only thing I set a boundary at is when it's a concern of my safety, or others.

Lastly, it's ShiftTok, this happens every 3 business days in that hell spawn of a community.

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https://www.tumblr.com/shiftwithalex/752822041742278656/is-it-considered-cheating-if-i-have-a-bf-in-my-cr?source=share

Cheating is wrong because it violates the terms of a relationship so really whether or not it's cheating depends on the people in a relationship and how they feel about it. you could always choose to shift back to a CR where they're cool with it

Did you not read the rest where I said the fact you say this does absolutely nothing? I do not care!!! I know I have one special person for me in every reality, and what other people do is none of my business, neither is it yours, plus making your ask anonymous is a huge let down, you could've just said this straight up, or were you too anxious to, because you knew full well this wouldn't do anything? Learn to keep your nose out of other people's lives Jesus Christ it is not that hard

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Yk as a shifter and a person in general I LOVE ageing, like so much, and it's brings so much comfort that I know I don't have to loose loved ones because of old age, I can't wait to grow old in this reality either

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i constantly talk and act as if i’m my DR self (but not to the point where it sabotages myself in my CR) and i usually hide it from my mom but i let something slip the other day and she looked at me like i had three heads

good thing she already thinks i’m crazy because i do not want to answer her questions 😅

Acting like your DR self isn't actually something so big when you think about it, because your DR self is YOU, in all it's meaning, you are your DR self and your DR self is you, maybe you've scripted a personality change, or something like that, if you suddenly start acting like your DR self out of nowhere, you could take it as a sign you're getting closer to shifting!!!

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honestly a method of connecting to my dr self that i love to do is watching those ‘asking you personal questions’ asmr videos and answering them as my dr self 😭 it’s a really great way of connecting to your dr before you attempt to shift, it gets you relaxed and motivated!

I strongly agree with this, it also helps with the realization that you ARE your DR self, and that it isn't an "OC" of some sort!!

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Hi, so I was wondering if you could explain this TikTok to me? I don’t really understand it😅 if you don’t want to it’s totally fine though :))

Hai hai haiii!!! >.<

Okay, basically let's start of with the fact this (what Peter is talking about in the video) IS just a Theory, it is NOT proven, so if you think any different, you're 100% valid for it, because you shape how reality shifting works for you!! (Infinite possibilities babe!!💜)

What I agree with him on is the fact he's speaking about what you assume will happen, because that is the case (but for some individuals, it could not be, because everyone is different so open your mind before you start ranting unnecessarily), your Assumptions/beliefs can fully shape your reality, even HOW reality shifting works.

Okay so that was just a lil disclaimer before I get into explaining, To summarize it into short and easy terms, nothing happens to your body, if you want that to be the case, you keep functioning how you always would, Peter ir a firm believer in the other planes of existance (I think), and that the reality you were in before ceases to exist once you shift away from It, I personally don't believe that, I have my own theory on how it works, and that's the way it does work for me, it's a bit complicated, but hey, it works!!

Okay, so basically in short words: nothing happens to your body once you shift to your DR unless you want something to happen, you'll do everything as you do normally unless you don't want that to be the case, it all comes down to you, and your Assumptions!

(Remember I am simplifying it from MY point of view, I am not in any way saying this is exactly what Peter meant, and if you don't share a belief, be kind and move on, because it doesn't affect you in any way!!)

M'kay byeeeeee 🤗🤗🤗

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I am incarnation of confusion

I was so tired of shifttok freaking out about other shifters being 100+ years of age mentally, like no Allison I do not have all the answers to your questions just because I'm over 400 years old, and I said this too but nobody gaf about that💀, and the fact 400 and more isn't even "old", that's just because you're so used to the fact people "normally" live till their 70-90, 400 and up is NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, this is also why I lied about my mental age being 29 for so long, shifttok thinks: age=All the knowledge in the multiverse..

[shiftwithalex]

That man has power

I was so tired of shifttok freaking out about other shifters being 100+ years of age mentally, like no Allison I do not have all the answers to your questions just because I'm over 400 years old, and I said this too but nobody gaf about that💀, and the fact 400 and more isn't even "old", that's just because you're so used to the fact people "normally" live till their 70-90, 400 and up is NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, this is also why I lied about my mental age being 29 for so long, shifttok thinks: age=All the knowledge in the multiverse..

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I am so incredibly confused

I was so tired of shifttok freaking out about other shifters being 100+ years of age mentally, like no Allison I do not have all the answers to your questions just because I'm over 400 years old, and I said this too but nobody gaf about that💀, and the fact 400 and more isn't even "old", that's just because you're so used to the fact people "normally" live till their 70-90, 400 and up is NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, this is also why I lied about my mental age being 29 for so long, shifttok thinks: age=All the knowledge in the multiverse..

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so glad i found you!! you were one of the only shiftokers i followed!! i loved how open you were to all the aspects of shifting! like some people of shifttok will literally call u dumb and think they’re smarter than you if you believe something they don’t (as a permashifter, this one is the main reason i got off shifttok. ppl literally think they’re better than you bc you wanna permashift and you’re using shifting as “escapism” 🧐 like bye LMAO). anyway, thank you for sharing your experiences and being so open with your heart and mind, it’s so motivating. you are very much appreciated! so excited for you to spend infinity with the person you love 💗

NOW WHO IS THIS, I HAVE TO FOLLOW YOU BEA!!! and thank you so much, shifttok is shit!!🎀

[shiftwithalex]

hey sorry if this is invasive but how long did it take you to shift for the first time?

Around 3 years!!

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I was so tired of shifttok freaking out about other shifters being 100+ years of age mentally, like no Allison I do not have all the answers to your questions just because I'm over 400 years old, and I said this too but nobody gaf about that💀, and the fact 400 and more isn't even "old", that's just because you're so used to the fact people "normally" live till their 70-90, 400 and up is NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, this is also why I lied about my mental age being 29 for so long, shifttok thinks: age=All the knowledge in the multiverse..

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Is it considered cheating if i have a bf in my cr and then go fck with leonardo dicaprio in my dr🤠..?

This fully depends on you and your morals ngl, people say it's cheating, some say it's not, I stand in-between, because personally I don't really care, but I, myself, only have one person I love across the multiverse, and I simply can't see myself with anyone else, but I don't necessarily consider it cheating.

-and to people who might run at this post and start complaining about this whole take and how it is indeed cheating, shut up Jesus Christ, mind your own business, it doesn't affect you in any way!! So don't drag anyone for their business.

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THE TAGS??? EXCUSE ME (same)

omg I just saw another anons ask abt how they felt weird about their friend making sexual comments about their boyfriend I thought I was LOSING MY MINDDDD cus the same thing happened to me and when I brought it up all she said was "we'll youre not dating here so what the point!!" it actually made me so mad but I also thought I shouldn't be jealous bc she was kinda right but also like that's MY MAN but now ik that my feelings were 100% valid 😭

Whoever says that after literally sexualizing ur partner is genuinely disgusting!!!! Do they not realize they're real?!?!? Hello???? Would they say that Infront of your partner while you're there too?? I don't think so, god what the fuck

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omg I just saw another anons ask abt how they felt weird about their friend making sexual comments about their boyfriend I thought I was LOSING MY MINDDDD cus the same thing happened to me and when I brought it up all she said was "we'll youre not dating here so what the point!!" it actually made me so mad but I also thought I shouldn't be jealous bc she was kinda right but also like that's MY MAN but now ik that my feelings were 100% valid 😭

Whoever says that after literally sexualizing ur partner is genuinely disgusting!!!! Do they not realize they're real?!?!? Hello???? Would they say that Infront of your partner while you're there too?? I don't think so, god what the fuck

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seeing your post about your enemies to lovers trope makes me nervous about mine?

but mine is an enemies to friends to lovers and my s/o isn’t really an “enemy” he’s just the town bandit bc there’s a huge conspiracy going on and the actual evil guys made my s/o the fall guy so who knows what will actually happen when i shift over there 👀

Babe I love this!! But just for your safety (I say this to everyone now, since it's a really good tip of mine) script you forget your current feelings for your S/O and they resurface in the right moment, (I did this and it's a life saver) + you can script you forget you shifted for him, but it can mess with your head a little once you shift back (did this too, talking from experience), good luck!!!