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Atlantic City Vacation Revue

Imma start by saying that I wish I was able to enjoy some of the night life but I wasn’t able to. I’m not one who typically has an issue going out alone but if I’m unfamiliar with the territory i don’t go out at night solo. I don’t cause I don’t want to end up on the ID Channel

I was able to go out alone which is my speciality lol

I went to 4 places solo is the matter of 4 hours 1. Tanger Outlet 2. Tropicana hotel and casino 3. The broadwalk 4. Caesar Palace hotel and casino. I’ll review them in that order

Tanger Outlet ( the walk) Is a basic outlet mall . They really have store you can find at home so it’s not soo intriguing.

Tropicana hotel and casino I think this is where it’s at . Next time if I don’t have anyone who wants to go with me I’ll go alone. During the day it was mad cute. I love the shops in there. Their were soo many bars and clubs and one of the clubs was only 5 bucks to get in. I totally missed out on that but I went to wet willies the girl their was super nice. The casino workers were nice too which was surprising cause the they before when I approached a few of them outside they were all stank The boardwalk Definitely more lively on the weekend I loved the place we went to lunch. I can’t remember the name of it but I’ll post on here later. Their boardwalk reminded of the boardwalk in savanna they have a beach bar there I gotta try

Caeser palace This one seemed dead. Lol

Things a wanna try

1. Anthem night club 2. The bar on the beach 3. The aquarium 4. The light house 5. And I think they have an African-American museum somewhere I’ll prob do an air bnb or stay outside the strip but come back for 4 days before the summers over with my adventure buddies to do the rest

S/o to my god mother for the trip. I needed a break ♥️♥️

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Issa Single Girl Revue

I'm bacccccckkkkkkk, well I know I do the man review but I'm back with another single girl review. So I took a little break I don't know if it was monetary or because I decided to go back to regular dating (which was a huge mistake). I mean are used tinder which I got to stop doing . Either that app is horrible for right finding thing or men up north are garbage. I'm going with the latter... I have to investigate if I ever make a trip down south . Anyhow I guess it's season 2 of the review and I definitely started the season with a bang . Speaking of seasons I decided to attend season 4 volume 2 Connecticut Daybreak. It was held at The Russian Lady by There's Nothing Better and The Urban Professional Network and to my understanding it's mostly African-American young professionals networking and partying during the day, just having a good time and let me tell you it was amazing. I couldn't have started season two of my review any better and now everywhere else I go has to compete So the details of my time...Let me first say that getting out of my house was a struggle. I worked an overnight shift , went to sleep by 9am , this party started at 1 pm and I did not make it 1pm . I got there by 4pm but hey better late than never. I only had two hours of partying because the party technically ended at 6pm and I expired at 6 pm but it seem like the party kept going on The people there were amazingly nice. People spoke to me Even though I wasn't being aware of my body language. The drinks were affordable , the outfits were on point ( and my mini sundress with low cleavage fit in perfectly) and the music was bumpin. There was a patio , the main bar area and upstairs and each played different music ( old school hip hop, new hip hop and reggae). Had I had the energy and I got there on time it would've been ten times better. I did this as a solo girl date but the next time I'm definitely bringing friends because this is something they all have to experience .

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The Guy Review #2

The man with Alzheimer's

So in my dating experience there is this type of man where he’s definitely a sweetie and you can’t get enough of each other when you are together but as soon as you are away he forgets you exists. Now I find it that girls don’t realize when he’s doing this because if you contact him HE ALWAYS ANSWERS but HE WILL NEVER CONTACT YOU FIRST. When you stop contacting and finally do notice he’s disappeared he goes “ well you stopped contacting me ” Then you say “ why do I always have to hit you up ” Then u get the bullshit… this includes “ I’ve been busy with work or school or my child” “ I’ve been meaning to” “It’s not like that baby I just be forgetting” “ I’m sorry ma, I’ll try harder”

Listen ladies when a man wants you they will make time and check up. He’s likely texting and talking to so many he does forget

So if you find urself contacting first every day and PLANNING ALl THE DATES keep it moving

The man with Alzheimer’s…. avoid him

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The Guy Review #1

The lost man In my experience dating I’ve came across the lost man a couple of times. This is the man that really doesn’t know if he is coming or going. He can’t decide if he wants a girlfriend or not. What type of career he wants. He can’t tell you where he sees himself in 2 years. This man. ( I mean grown ass man like 33) does not know what he wants in life. His mind is blank and like to say “I’m just chilling and living life for now” He does know one thing though. HE WANTS TO HAVE CHILDREN WITH YOU! Girls avoid this man at all cost. He literally has “ dead beat baby daddy” on his forehead. You can’t guide him or help him find direction because he literally does not want to think about it or put in the work. he might temporarily act like he’s interested in his future to get your attention but he’ll always fall off Things he says- “Yeah but living with my parents is free and I’m saving up” “I’m OK making minimum-wage I don’t have bills like that” “I don’t know if I see myself married but I definitely want to be a dad" “ I’m not sure I want a girlfriend I just want ….( list everything a GIrlfriend does)” The lost guy…. lady’s avoid him!!

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I never understood people who want a great partner but they are shitty people. How does that work? Do you think you deserve an amazing person if you're a mess. Before you cash a check make sure you have enough in the bank. Work on self-improvement

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Cha cha changes

Hey guys member me well part 2 of the single girl review is coming up and things are about to change 1. I had ambitions of posting once a week but things changed, I dated again briefly and I was uninspired. I started new projects like a Podcasts and stuff with make up becoming a make up artist. So I've been quite busy but this is one my favorite projects I started and I didn't forget about you so I will be doing solo dates because I actually miss it I need the time for myself but my post will be more so bi weekly or every three weeks 2. And the biggest change is an adding a new segment called "the guy review" I'm going to go over guys that you should not date. This is going to add much more material to this blog I have a list of the guys we should avoid at all cost from my 2 and a half /almost 3 Years of being single (which is the longest time I've been single)I've learned a lot about myself and about what I don't want to tolerate. For example the friends with benefits guy or the guy who keeps you emotionally hostage by changing your relationship status with him every five seconds or the guy who acts like your boyfriend but won't give you the title . I'm gonna go in detail about the stories that I've went through and what I've learned hopefully helping any girl that could be going through so stay tuned PS i'm on episode two of my podcasts you guys could take a listen . we talk about current events and political social issues the world is going through it's called unspoken citizen find us at http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/the-unspoken-citizen-podcast https://m.soundcloud.com/user-260636927 https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/unspoken-citizen-podcast/id1198893203?mt=2 Listen rate and subscribe ( I'm Dee)

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Single girls lesson. lol

I spend most of my adult life in relationships and I had a method to catch a man. It was called put out and give. The first step was easy. At 19 I realized I was the queen of seduction even when I didn’t intend too. The second part was to give give and give. I would give my time ,invest in his dreams , protect him. It ranged from cooking to helping him apply for college. I would essentially social work my target. Until he saw me as an asset, he had to invest and i would win the GF title. the last person I social worked was my ex husband. I ………….. 1. Helped him find a job 2. Helped him get a license 3.Helped him find a car 4.helped him with school 5. Helped him update his entire closet 6 helped him find another job 7. Cook a new meal ever night while working 2 jobs (cause god forbid he leftovers) 😒 And he left as soon as he got all I had to give. I was a stupid girl …. I was also 24 when I met him.

These methods especially the give part was the method of an insecure woman. Girls do it all the time. Ladies you don’t have to do all that. IF and that’s a big ole IF I were to be with someone now it’s going to be someone who sees me as a catch when I look a mess and I haven’t done a thing for him. The one that sees my value without all the extras will get the extras ( the one I’m with next won’t need all the extras and I just do it cause I love him) once I’m His girlfriend . Until then I’ll cook for myself and invest in my dreams

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RAINBOW TWINS

Date :June 2016 I'm a restless free spirit and that means while I was in Minnesota for a wedding I was going to look for some solo date thing but I had no idea where to look. The day of the wedding I had to go pick up a few things at The pharmacy so I decided to walk to the CVS that was 20 mins away. On the way back I got lost but things are met to be because I notice posters for the Minnesota gay pride parade 🏳️‍🌈...BINGO! I asked a few of the locals what times was the parade , hurried back to the hotel ( I had now been walking for an hour total ) got dress and put on my DIY rainbow lipstick that I made with vaseline and my eyeshadow palette and walked 20 minutes back to were the parade was ( keep track of all the walking because by the wedding I died ) I got so many compliments on my lipstick and everyone was so friendly even the cops and I was pretty surprised with the diversity. It's no NYC pride but I was impressed. ( I had complimented the Minnesota police to my cousin later that day so when the Philando Castile police murder happened I was soo disheartened) I talked to a few people but I was enamored by the atmosphere . I did talk to these three women who dressed as pride fairies. I loved their outfits I learned that one of the women also blogged we took pics and I kept it going. I stayed for about an hour , headed back to the hotel, napped and prepared for the wedding. PS. by the end of the wedding and a night of dancing I called an Uber to take me back to the hotel.... the hotel was only 900 ft away 😂😂😂😂

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Hooo humm

Hey there hi there ho there Again I still haven't had solo dates. I really think its because I'm still regular dating. I'm fortunate enough to meet some highly attractive highly educated men on tinder and I've gone out on some great dates. Still nothing that tickles my fancy. I'm sorta looking for that bond you have with someone where no matter what for some reason you can't stay away from each other. Most of these guys I get tired of after a week. lol Regular dating is getting boring again so I'm sure I'll go somewhere solo soon. I don't want to be obligated to go places solo for this blog. I just want to go when I feel like it. On another note I will be working on some new project 1. My love life blog. It will be anonymous so you guys won't know it's me but my friends keep urging me to do this. Anyway once I create it I won't be advising on here cause it will have adult content and I also have to protect my identity because of my job. 2. I am starting a podcast about entertainment and politics with my good friend and attorney . Here's the thing she's a lawyer and I'm in social service management. She also lives in NYC I'm in CT. Our plan is to start the early part of 2017 but I don't see this happening until spring. We will be at the women's march in Washington DC so that would be a great topic to start with but we will have to hustle to get the first show out by February. I'll post the information once avail. In the meantime I will post about an old summer solo impromptu date Peace and love ✌🏾️

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Epic failure and easily distracted

Did I tell you guys that I have trouble with consistency. Well if I didn't I'm telling u now. So I haven't been going on my single girl dates and it started out because my job was raping my free time and all I did was go home and sleep Now I just haven't , I have the time but I've been bumming it at home Well...... every Saturday night I do go on dates but With men. So that's what I've been doing....dating. I re downloaded my single man finder ( tinder.... well for the most part they are single ) and every Saturday me, my contour and my little black dress hit the town with a little man arm candy .... If that sounded demeaning it was meant to be. Lol. I've again met some good and some bad ( some extremely hot ) but no actual keepers. It's cuffing season but I predict I will remain uncuffed. Time to get some body pillows But it's time to start my single dating so within the next couple weeks I will be posting again. Let say Friday for me and Saturday for my gentlemen callers lmao Anyway back to work. Stay tuned loves

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Diesel or regular (6/17/16)

So I didn't have anywhere to go this week. ( week of June 15th) soo I took my ass to a bar a friend suggested. Looking back at it , the person who suggested that I go , should have probably taken me as a kind gesture but I assume due to his own insecurities he didn't.😒😒😒. Well Let me tell you all the things that went wrong. Lol 1. I decided to go to this bar after a 4 p to 12 a shift ( so I would get there at 12:30a) 2. I couldn't find the damn place 3. I had only 1 hour n 30 mins ( 1hour 10 when I got there )to party I made it there with an hour left to kill So I hit the bar. The room was pretty empty for a Friday. It could be one of 2 reasons. 1. Friday's were slow nights 2. They were going to close. Regardless two drinks later and I felt pretty niiccceee. I ended up getting some guys number who seemed impressed that I was out solo. It always surprises me how I get the feeling that Guys are scared to approach me I'm assuming because I am alone. I literally watched another guy stare at me for 20 mins and not say a thing and before u know it the other guy started talking to me. Any imma rate diesel but honestly I have to go for longer and when there is more people