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there really are no consequences for being wrong about your gender, orientation, etc. for a while, btw. if you try something and it just doesn't fit, it's better to have tried and found out than to be left wondering.

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If I’m gonna have to see and then report over a dozen porn bots every day can they at least give me like a daily grinding quest for it like it’s an MMO. Can I get some gold and a mediocre loot drop

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Hi everyone,

I found a helpful and informative article about some myths about ADHD, it goes over the following:

Myth No. 1: Kids Will Outgrow ADHD

Myth No. 2: ADHD Isn’t a Real Medical Condition

Myth No. 3: All Kids With ADHD Are Hyperactive

Myth No. 4: Kids With ADHD Could Behave if They Tried Harder

Myth No. 5: ADHD Affects Boys More Than Girls

Myth No. 6: Medication Is the Only Treatment for ADHD

Myth No. 7: Kids With ADHD Aren’t Smart or Motivated

Myth No. 8: Poor Parenting Causes ADHD

Myth No. 9: ADHD Is Diagnosed Too Much

I’ll leave the article down below in case you would like to check it out. I hope you find it informative and helpful.

ADHD Myths

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If you're fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.

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it really is okay to be a girl and to want to be a girl. society likes to tell us that being a woman is undesirable. that women can't be funny, smart, nuanced, or have a personality. that women can't have interests. women can't be this and women can't be that- none of that's true in the slightest- talk to any number of women and you'll see that's just not the case. women are as varied and nuanced as people can get.

it's okay to want to do the "shallow" things that people hate women for. it's also it's okay to want to be a woman who doesn't shave or care about their appearance. it's okay to be a butch woman. it's also okay to want to be hyper feminine and wear very well crafted makeup and well planned out outfits. it's okay to be a smart woman, it's okay to be a funny girl. it's okay to be the weird girl. it's okay to WANT to be a woman and ENJOY womanhood, no matter how you express it, no matter what body you're in or how your womanhood presents itself.

trans women, genderqueer women, intersex women, butch women, gnc women, cis women- it's okay to enjoy being a woman. it's okay to find joy in womanhood. it's okay to be a woman in your own way, too, stereotype or not- even if other people say you don't act like a woman or aren't one- it's okay to love being a woman. it's okay to love womanhood.

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*sends an email* *makes sure that it's normal* oh ok *it's normal* *dies and explodes anyway*

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Hey remember when they found over 200 bodies of native children buried behind a residential school and the world cared for... what, a week?

They've counted about 6,000-7,000 now, for those of you who do still care

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so can we start hunting down white liberals now or what

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So.

Another 751 unmarked graves were found at a Saskatchewan residential school.

Seven hundred fifty one.

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look me in the eyes. you are aware some asexual people have sex, right. you are aware some asexuals aren’t sex repulsed. you do not need to baby asexuals and act like the slightest mention of anything sexual will cause them to die of a heart attack 

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"amab or afab" im alab experiment that went wrong

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btw, trans people who dont care about passing aren't "making other trans people look bad". there are as many ways to be trans as there are people on this earth. while one trans person may have dysphoria so bad they can't function from not passing and that's valid and important, another may get euphoria from not passing. some of us enjoy being androgynous or "other" looking. some of us enjoy "looking trans". that doesn't make anyone else "look bad". it doesnt "take away" from the hard work someone else put into their transition to pass. everyone transitions according to their own unique goals. we are not all the same, and one person's transition says absolutely nothing about another's.

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unfortunately, most intersex people are not told outright that they are intersex, in that verbiage, even by doctors or other medical professionals. most of us have strung together that conclusion through being told our specific conditions if we're lucky, or a piece or part of it such as being told a symptom, or even being told nothing at all. many intersex people undergo surgery at very very young ages and are never informed about it ever in life, and only find out by seeing scars, or never at all.

the only reason i discovered i was intersex was because of how apparent my condition made itself to me. i started growing a full beard during puberty and had some disruptions with my menstrual cycles that were so intense and severe i was having to stay home from school. i was told by the obgyn that i "produced too many androgens, and needed to be placed on estrogen to correct it." that's all they told me. by the way, the estrogen made things far worse for me, and the only thing that actually helped was starting testosterone HRT.

being intersex is for the most part a process of piecing things together. people are very hush hush about it for the most part and don't want to draw attention to it, so you have to be your own detective. you have to be your own advocate.