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(Sound on please)

Louis warming up, Soccer Aid, 15 June 2025

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Interesting take

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Harry likes to suck d**k .. he told me

Louis told us first.

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Harry walking through the airport with his luggage in Rome. (16 June 2025)

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i just wanted to report that louis spent 85% of his time on the pitch with his hands on his hips and i thought that was beautiful.

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hey louis know what you can do for me? get your new good friend off the streets + into that damn studio. thanks so much

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Louis' interview at the Yoto Daily podcast [12.06.25]

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https://www.tumblr.com/twopoppies/786351868242690048/why-is-harry-wearing-a-jacket-to-the-beach-at?source=share

The only logical explanation I found is that he doesn't want to be recognised 🤷🏽‍♀️

At this point, though, he's more recognizable in that hat and jacket than if he wore different clothes each time.

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on my way to attempt to subtly drive by the open house of choice #1 to spy on turnout in my pink jeep with eyelashes 🤦‍♀️

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Do you really find Louis good looking?

No , I just find him good to look at .

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Taylor Swift or sabrina carpenter ?

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I'm going to start therapy soon and I'm so nervous. I have been dealing with so much trauma on my own and I don't know how to go about it or what to expect. Was your experience positive? What if I don't like the therapist ?

Oh honey , I'm sorry you're going through a tough time xxx hang in there .. sending hugs !!

If you don't like your therapist , change them. Seriously , don't even waste your time if you don't feel like it's a safe space for you . I spent so much time going back to some therapists because I didn't want to hurt their feelings but ultimately we are paying for a service . It's their job to provide it to the best of their ability and ours to decide whether it feels fit for us or not. So , don't worry . I have been to so many therapists over the years and tried so many forms of therapy .

Remember, therapy isn't a social dialogue ( unless you want it to be ) It's a form of treatment. You don't need to feel obligated to fill in the awkward silences( unless you want to ) . You don't need to worry about the etiquettes of conversation. It's simply an act of you seeking professional help in a form you find best suits you . You don't need to worry about anything else but how you feel at the moment . They're there for you not the other way around .

I personally found therapy quite beneficial. I didn't have a good childhood and to have a safe space to talk about it without judgement and shame was quite therapeutic for me and helped me immensely. But it took me a while to find a good therapist .

I'm going to start emdr therapy soon and I'm hoping to work out some issues with that. There are so many forms of therapy out there and you need to explore ( if it's a viable option for you to do so ) and find a form of therapy that works for you. It's not a one size fits all .

Good luck with your session and if you want to talk , dm me , I won't judge .

Sending you love 💕

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So what is your opinion about Sabrina carpenter and her new album ?

Honestly , people are so enraged by this whole thing and no one has even heard her album yet. Maybe there's a point , maybe there isn't . Maybe it's deep , maybe it isn't . Ultimately whether she is a feminist or not and is simply doing it because she feels like it - I feel odd to scrutinize her for doing what she wants . I have done so much therapy to deal with the shame that I have harboured because of the judgement I faced from people that I can't for the life of me , judge another human being for simply existing and creating art.

Personally , I want to listen to the whole album first before I make any assumptions and conclusions about this era. Not that I have to have any opinions about this at all. We are more than free to not listen to someone's music if it turns us off. It's not like she's forcing it down our throats. Though the discourse around it seems a bit insane . I barely mentioned it and I already have 20 anons about this in my inbox already.

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Obviously choice feminism is your thing as a white woman no wonder you'll agree to her image .. smh

Where did I say I agree to anything ? I said I'm confused. And that I read so much about this stuff that I don't hold any opinions that are my own anymore .

Also , I'm not white -I'm brown . Am I supposed to mention that in my description? And why can't I as a woman , white or not, have an opinion about someone( whom I personally don't know and never will ) who puts our art / music for public consumption ?

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Larry blog not only posts about Louis . Just admit you're a louie and not a Harrie already

I'm so confused by the Sabrina Carpenter discourse that I don't have braincells left to understand this ask

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not to be like both sides are wrong, and only i’m right, but i have been thinking about sabrina’s album cover controversy. to me, it’s pretty evident that she is going to be exploring her own compliance in getting into relationships where she gets treated badly or well like a dog. while manchild is a tongue-in-cheek mocking song that is all about how she just keeps stumbling into bed with these loser men, woe is me, there is an obvious irony to lines like “won’t you let an innocent woman be?” “i swear they choose me, i’m not choosing them.” sabrina is hardly an innocent doe-eyed girl. she is very sharp and experienced in relationships, and no one is forcing her to date these men. the music video further emphasizes this point by showcasing her hitchhiking into increasingly more ridiculous automobiles with increasingly more ridiculous men who all let her down in various absurd and/or violent ways. and yet the closing shot of the video is her getting out of one car and immediately running over and jumping into the next, continuing the cycle. so while the song on the surface externalizes the blame for her mistreatment to basically everyone but her, the subtext is all about how sabrina is the one doing this to herself. when i see the album cover of her smiling at the camera on her knees while a man holds her hair like a leash, i see a deep and very uncomfortable self-awareness and acknowledgement happening here. it’s obviously going to be dressed up in the shiny pop music veneer and sabrina’s signature brand of dry humor, but this is a very sensitive topic that most upcoming pop girls wouldn’t touch with a ten feet pole because it is humiliating to admit that you’re complicit in your own mistreatment and degradation. that you aren’t just posing as a dog, but you actually let men treat you like one. manchild isn’t just the first single from the album but also the opening track, setting the stage for what the album will be exploring. and again while on the surface it looks like your usual my ex is a loser classic fare, in actuality it is all about how sabrina is deluding herself about her choice of partners. “manchild, why you always come running to me?” she asks, and i’m willing to bet that she is going to be answering that question in the album, eventually coming to the conclusion that these things aren’t as one-sided as she initially presented them to be. from what i’ve seen, sabrina is very smart and very deliberate when it comes to her branding. i highly doubt she chose such a sensational image just to “appeal to the male gaze.” yes the picture is meant to play into that trope, but hardly in a glorifying way.