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nothing baffles me more than getting misgendered while picking up my testosterone,,, like what gives girl,,, other than your transphobia,,,

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why i love being in a acebutch4acebutch relationship because we’re so focused on everything BUT sex and it’s so beautiful

Yeah, yeah, we get it, you want butches to strap you, step on you, pick you up and do your housework for you.

But do you want to love us the same way we love you. Do you want care for us when we're sick and make silly jokes with us and hold us when we don't want to have sex (even if that's all the time).

Do you want a butch as a partner, and as a person to be part of your life, or do you want a walking, talking dildo that does your housework for you?

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Uhh this image came to me in a vision

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no cuz,,, all the women in this are so gorgeous good GOD

everyone say thank you date everything for inventing women

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kinda need a femme to watch my butch and i garden and do yard work while they sit and look pretty

butch who loves to garden x femme who loves to sit in the shade and watch them work

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why is this literally Me wtf,,,

something something hot, older-brother archetype butch. kind of a loser, always smoking weed, who knows the last time they showered? but for some reason you just want to be closer to them. let their bad habits run off on you. let them smoke you out and show you a good time. let them use your body as a toy to get off. then when you’re done they roll over and keep playing their Ps5 like nothing happened lol

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thank you ryan ross for a fever you can’t sweat out but fuck you brendon for ruining everything and just,,, fuck you brendon.

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this but it’s better if it’s two fagdykes,,,,

looking to partake in some fag shit this summer

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summer just got 1000xs better w these shorts

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butch4butch

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bringing these back this summer

100% agree

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when someone fucks you over, don’t you dare ask yourself, “what did i do to deserve this?”  NOTHING. you didn’t do shit. someone taking advantage of your kindness will never be your fault.

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well, yes!

butch... butch boydyke... butch who's kinda a silly little fella... butch with funky gender... butch who calls himself a man/boy.... butch... gnc butch... butch as in lesboy... butch boy but butch boy in a dykey fuck ass gender way... but butch who's also kinda a guy... lesboy... u get what i am saying… butch

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need my butch pussy ate and my tdick sucked

there aren't nearly enough posts about eating butch pussy

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im sorry rad fems sold you the lie that butches are only Non Threatening (TM) cis women with short hair who wear T-shirts and jeans with a carabiner, but the reality of the situation is a lot of butches are trans, genderqueer, physically imposing, big, male impersonators, hairy (especially including facial hair), sweaty, muscular, "ugly" and/or fat. some butches are into extreme body modification. some went bald. some are body builders. some are transfem butches who don't wanna overperform womanhood, take estrogen, or medically transition. some butches start testosterone strictly to feel more like a butch. some butches pass as cis men, and some need to do so in order to feel like their butch selves. soft butches are great, but that's not the "One Right Way" to be butch. the butches i'm attracted to would make a rad fem scream and cry and piss themselves on the floor.

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it is so important that you are a little bit ugly. please get comfortable with having unplucked eyebrows and nonexistent jawlines and wrinkles. let your blue hair grow out into an uneven pale green and your clothes be old and mend them and modify them until they’re unique to you. wear lipstick which doesnt compliment your skintone and mismatched outfits which went out of fashion 5 years ago. be a little bit too loud and a little bit too passionate and as weird as you can be because oh my god there is nothing more disturbing to me than perfection. beauty is manufactured and sold to us and you need to realise that you are a fucking animal to live a joyful life I am so serious. you cant obsess over aesthetics forever please just live messily and make your body your home however you please.

if you dont do it for you, do it for all the teenagers who will see u in the street and know that they are not obligated to be attractive

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Tagging stone butch blues as wlw in 2025 is a hate crime

This is a joke and exaggeration. But yeah.

The book directly addresses how some lesbians do not identify as women. In the book its mostly butches.

But you'll find many femmes - and people who aren't either - who also have a complicated relationship with gender.

They/ she femmes. They/ he lesbians. Neo pronoun lesbians. Non Binary. Transmasc. Bigender. Two spirit. Intersex lesbians.

The author, Leslie Feinberg had a very complex relationship with gender, saying:

"I am female-bodied, I am a butch lesbian, a transgender lesbian—referring to me as "she/her" is appropriate, particularly in a non-trans setting in which referring to me as "he" would appear to resolve the social contradiction between my birth sex and gender expression and render my transgender expression invisible."

Anyway, I'm just once again expressing my issue with reducing lesbianism to "women loving women" because there's just such a wide range of identities within the lesbian community itself