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[system-of-idiots]

On the one hand...YAY PRETTY LIGHTS!!!

On the other hand... BOO LOUD SOUNDS

-Twyla [She/They/Ghoul]

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TW mention of CSA and Non-Contact CSA

More people NEED to talk about non-contact CSA. Barely anyone talks about it when discussing CSA.

Which means that a LOT of people going through it don't even know what they're experiencing is a form of CSA.

We didn't know that the shit our dad said to/about us growing up was non contact CSA, because we didn't even know that was a thing that existed.

Talking about non contact CSA means more people know about it, which means more peoples knowing if it's happening to them.

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You're valid if you're in contact with your abusers

You're valid if you're no contact with your abusers

You're valid if you love your abusers

You're valid if you hate your abusers

You're valid if you don't care about your abusers

You're valid if you've forgiven your abusers

You're valid if you haven't forgiven you're abusers

You're valid if you aren't sure how you feel about yours abusers

You're valid regardless of how you feel about your abusers, because there's no right or wrong way to feel about your experiences

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"My trauma isn't bad enough for me to be a system, so I'm clearly faking"

TRAUMA👏 IS 👏SUBJECTIVE👏IF 👏WHAT 👏HAPPENED 👏TO 👏YOU 👏WAS TOO 👏MUCH👏 FOR 👏YOUR 👏CHILD👏 BRAIN 👏TO 👏HANDLE 👏THEN 👏IT👏 CAN👏 FORM👏 A 👏SYSTEM👏 STOP👏 INVALIDATING👏 YOUR👏 TRAUMA 👏IT 👏WAS👏 BAD👏 ENOUGH 👏

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RANDOMLY GENERATED INCORRECT QUOTES, BUT IT'S OUR FREQUENT FRONTERS ~Lloyd [He/They]

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Clover: Is this about me?

Beth: No.

Clover: Then I've lost interest.

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Beth, to Arden: If you see Astrid, give them this message *makes a neutral face*

Beth: They'll know what it means.

*later*

Arden: Oh, and Beth said to give you a message.

Arden: *makes a neutral face*

Astrid: Oh no. The neutral face of displeasure.

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Ivy: Happy Throwback Thursday! Here’s a throwback to when Arden ate an entire tube of lipstick.

Arden, whining: But why would it be cherry-flavored if you can’t eat it?!

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Clover: I can’t tell if you’re a genius or just incredibly arrogant.

Bex: Well, on a good day, I’m both.

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Bex: Ivy is mad at me, and I'm not sure why.

Clover: Okay, did you talk before they got upset?

Bex: ...yes?

Clover: That's probably it.

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Beth: Do you know the best way to respond to disagreement?

Astrid: With tears?

Beth: No.

Astrid: *tears up*

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Astrid: Any tips on how to make someone like me?

Beth: Try to make them laugh all the time.

Astrid: Oh, wow! You actually help me for once, and it's even good advice!

Beth: Yeah, the more they laugh, the more time they spend with their eyes closed, so it'd be easier.

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Twyla: You are irrationally angry 365 days a year.

Ivy: Well, that’s just your personal opinion, I don’t have anger issues. Do you guys think I have anger issues?

Astrid: Well, I wouldn’t really call it an issue. An issue is something you can fix.

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Beth: New year, same me. Because I'm perfect.

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*The gang's thoughts on stabbing*

Twyla: Would never stab anyone.

Bex: Would stab someone in retaliation.

Ivy: Yells "I won't hesitate, bitch!" first.

Beth: Would stab without warning.

Arden: Would stab as a warning.

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Arden: What’s up? I’m back.

Ivy: I literally saw you die. You died. You were dead

Arden: Death is a social construct.

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Bex: We need a plan to beat them.

Ivy: Okay, listen up. First, we fill their shoes with wet cat food.

Bex:

Ivy: Judge me all you want, I get results.

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Ivy: Hopefully, Twyla has learned a lesson about respecting other people's feelings.

Twyla: Oh, shut up and die, Ivy.

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Random Shit Heard in Headspace

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Me *fronting*: I'm totally faking being a system

Scarlette: You are literally talking to me right now..in your head

Clover: Pfft- Yeah Bex, you're totally faking

Me: SEE?! IT AGREES WITH ME!

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Lilly (little): Why does she get candy?

Me *fronting* : Because she won it

Lilly: I want candy.

Me: We already won some yesterday.

Lilly: I still want some...

Me: It wouldn't be very fair if you went up and got candy when you didn't earn any. Would it?

Lilly: Yes it would

Me: How?

Lilly: Because I want candy.

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Cole: Do I look realistic?

Kai: Yes you do buddy

Cole: Thanks babe :)

Me *fronting*: BABE?! YOU GUYS ARE DATING?!