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Everytime bi utena discourse comes up I get mad bc it really seems folks cannot refute it with a reasonable argument, like it's bad saying she's bi because she's a lesbian and that's lesbian erasure and lesbophobia it's simple, but noo they need to say "Utena isn't bi because she was abused by men and if she was it would mean she had attraction to these men!" It's almost if Utena liked Akio/Touga it would make her abuse "less terrible" and bi women can't be abused apparently, they probably don't intentionally think this but that phrasing implies wheter they like it or not. "But they say she's bi therefore she wasn't abused by these men!" Again these people are being misogynistic and biphobic all at once, if they think Utena wasn't a victim they're just terrible and they also think women can't be attracted to their abusers I wouldn't even waste time to explain Utena have comphet. I really hate when people call Utena bi because she isn't but folks always love using a terrible argument as to why she isn't, the answer should always be "She is a lesbian that was going through comphet, she never liked them" and not a phrase that literally PUTS REAL LIFE WOMEN in danger it's not intentional but always pay attention to what you say…

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its weird how you like ulquihime but not bakudeku

The way I knew I would get an ask like this someday It's not weird actually! They're very different ships and their writing is the key as to why I like one but not other I'll dive in.

There will be anti bakugou sentiment here, so if you're a fan of him get off that post

Ulquiorra and Bakugou

The biggest reason as to why ulquihime is better as ship is Ulquiorra. Ulquiorra is a villain and a corrupted soul it's very implied he wasn't even human and was born in Hueco Mundo, and again there is place of corrupted souls, their rules and morality can't be applied as to the human world or Soul Society, which means Ulquiorra himself didn't saw his actions as wrong, when kidnapping Orihime he did it beause he was following Aizen's orders but nothing more, there was no malice in that and he saw no problem doing that, but now to things he intetionally done to make harm we can say the cruel things he said to her in order to break her spirit, I mean to hollows humans are inferior beings but Ori didn't hesitated and it gave a good impression on him and made him interested on her. Also is important to note that Ulquiorra wanted to understand Orihime and she thought the way she does, when Ori slaps him for being cruel Ulquiorra let it, he could've easily avoid it since he's insanely stronger than her but it was fine for him, I swear to God if it was literally any other Arrancar I don't even like to imagine what would've happened to my girl..., he cares for her too ofc in his cold way but he does! Ulquiorra was worried if Orihime didn't eat, got worried when she wasn't in the same place as always and protected her when Aizen didn't even needed Ori anymore.

Now Bakugou..., he's a human in a human world with human morality, like Ulquiorra Bk also saw Izuku as an inferior being therefore giving the "Deku" nickname, but Hollows see humans as inferior because of their species, Bk saw Izuku as inferior because of his own superiority/inferiority complex and because Midoriya didn't have quirk..., the blonde kept tormenting Izuku straight up ten years straight and the entire first year of U.A. always putting him down, insulting him and being pshisically agressive to the point of almost killing him in their first fight. Bk doesn't care about Izuku, neither his feelings or what he thinks, the Deku vs Kacchan fight and his apology are the biggest examples, Bk didn't wanted to know how Izuku was feeling during that moment, never asked his opinion or wanted to know how it would affect him. When Izuku fights back Bk reaction is always terrible he gets fucking pissed off as if "only him can do the harm", there's three instances in the manga where he actually cares and show it in a human way, his sacrifice, the hospital scene and when Izuku lost his quirk (but it really seemed to me that he was more worried about the quirk and their rivarly but oh well) and both of these took 11 years and over 300 chapters to happen...

Orihime and Izuku

This topic is mostly related to how they react to Ulquiorra/Bkugou

Ahh my princess Orihime, when she first go to Hueco Mundo she's obviously scared and with a good reason, Ulquiorra was the one she spent more time with and Ori knew he was strong and could kill her easily so at first she was very frightened and scared of him. Orihime only started to feel comfortable and liking him when Ulquiorra himself changed his approach to her, wanting to understand her feelings and being more "flexible" with her to the point Ori calls him Ulquiorra-kun, when he opened his heart to her Orihime also opened his heart to him and that's why when he killed Ichigo she didn't got mad or sad at Ulquiorra, because she knew he never was a bad person.

Now Izuku... oh hell, my boy always liked Bk despite the bullying he still got around him, as he grows up Izuku starts seeing that Bk is an asshole and tries to stay away from him, but after some time he starts wanting to get around Bk again and his admiration for him cames back exactly to what it was as child despite Bk not changing his behaviour at all, and at the same time the blonde actions became gags instead of y'know actual violence. Horikoshi really downplays Izuku negative emotions towars Bk as the story goes on for no apparent reason, to the point where they became one-sided besties? Again Bk change took a lot of time to happen it makes no sense to him start being all friendly with Bk so sudden and even stop worrying about being insulted and beaten.

Development of their relationship

I already made a post about Ulquihime not being that bad here but I will repeat myself a little bit to compare how both ships developed in their respective stories.

Starting with the Beauty and the Beast first! One main point to me shipping Ulquihime is their development, compared the Bk Ulquiorra was willing to change for Ori way earlier (1 arc vs over 5 arcs help), despite having no morals and she being "inferior" he was willing to listen and understand her, yes started cold and cruel but he ended protecting her and his friends, Ulquiorra even asks in verge of death what's Orihime opinion on him because he cares a lot. Also Ori was allowed to fear him and have negative emotions on Ulquiorra, she had reasons to start liking him it was not retconned for no reason, he had good heart. And Orihime could be herself around Ulquiorra there was no need to keep the facade of pure innocent girl.

Now bk//dk which a lot could say they also have development but again how long it took? It's one-sided and higienezed, like I said Izuku started to get friendly with guy that was agressive with him since they were little FOR NO REASON it was kinda obvious that HK was biased towards Bk so Izuku needed to be too, Izuku started to like the blonde again because he was strongly heroic which is kinda stupid since act 1 Izuku wasn't like that. Despite Izuku being kind to him it took years to get a little bit of reciprocation and hey Bk never got any consequence for his actions, the higienazation was also so bad to the point where we can't see how Izuku felt about Bk's apology and they always were childhood friends with good memories from that time and Bk violence became a gag like..., it took so many years and terrible situations to them get in good terms to the point it makes me incapable of shipping it and the way horikoshi doesn't even see their relationship pre-war as that bad makes everything worse.

So to sum up Orihime is allowed to feel negative towars Ulquiorra, Kubo portrays their first interactions as bad and develops his charater and relationship with Ori with a lot of care and sense, it was obvious Kubo always wanted to redeem Ulquiorra. Orihime doesn't need to keep doing the emotional larbor in their relationship, and it benefits her both as character and as person same thing for Ulquiorra, both need to confront each others midnset to evolve and they recognize each others streghnts.

Meanwhile Izuku keeps pedestalizing the gorund Bk walks on for plot convinience and is the one who keeps trying to make their relationship good, mind you the only time we see them having an actual conversation unrelated to OFA is in the timeskip 💀, Horikoshi admitted that he made Bk too "violent" but brushing this off in the story doesn't work beacuse it already was written it shouldn't be treated as it wasn't that bad because you regret it and seriously they don't match, they don't make each other better at all and their characters don't benefit from each other it doesn't matter how much the narrative says it does actually they make each other worse, they may have some good moments toegether but in general they're always better with other characters especially regarding their development.

So no it's not weird they may have "good person x someone who harmed them", but it was written in such a different way that is kinda comical to compare them. Anyways thanks anon, for giving me a opportunity to upilift Ulquihime and trash my NOTP!

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This is a take that could get me flamed but idc

The way RGU fandom talks about Chiho Saito is overexageratted and the reasoning is mostly from rumors and out of context things. First her homophobic manga at the time Bepapas already was formed and the manga as a story was created before the anime (yeah, despite them being launched together), Chiho was the lead on the manga but she asked Ikuhara various times about what he wanted and got left in the dark especially regarding characters relationships girl didn't even knew Anthy had a brother, so she decided to make the story as her own BUT ALSO the other members were cient of what Chiho was doing the manga it's literally said it was a GROUP PROJECT they saw what she did and approved to be put in the manga, so the het Utena and platonic utenanthy? Yeah Bepapas including Ikuhara approved that but only her is accused of being a homophobe... Now to her interview Ikuhara said JOKINGLY she didn't allow him to make utenanthy lovey dovey but look it's Ikuhara, if you don't pedestalize him you know that guy is a pervert and considering her response it really seemed he wanted to make a more risqué thing. If it was really that serious Ikuhara would've said it he's very direct and likes to do things on his own.

About Utenanthy being "inappropriate" to a shoujo manga another misconception. See RGU was published in the 90's in a very young targeted magazine Ciao and until today Ciao has 0 queer manga. What she said was that the STORY not utenanthy wouldn't be appropriate and interesting for the girls and it's true! I mean can you guys look me in the eyes and tell me a elemantary school girl would find it entertraining? That a show about patriarchy, csa, abuse, rape, incest and the heterosexuality regime would be appropriate to little girls? Also do you guys think Ciao editors would allow them to do this? Also when the manga of adolescence of Utena which is closer to the anime and has queer themes was published it was not in the same magazine as the first one why do you guys think that? Maybe because the themes were too heavy? Also is interesting how Chiho the homophobe made that one too when she could very damn well heterofy it? Isn't funny that when Chiho knew utenanthy were going to be a couple she put it in the manga?

Regarding also the fact she supposedly hates the homos, Chiho referred to Anthy and Utena as husband and wife tell me why? Why compare them to an actual couple if she sees Utenanthy as just friends? Chiho says RGU is a love story between girls and actually was nervous because she never did something like that before.

You guys are probably thinking why I did this post, why defend a woman that don't even know my existence? It's because I don't think is fair to treat it like that she is a fcking conservative trumpist, people put words in her mouth for no reason rather than hate her because of the manga and praise Ikuhara (who's a terrible man) they also try to downplay her importance to the franchise which leaves a bad taste in my mind since she's the only woman in the team, also I don't like calling folks bigots without CONCRETE proof.

Here a some of the interviews to show I'm not talking from my ass:

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Super cute ships that sadly get used as spite

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It's so funny how mad folks got when someone hcs a female character that's attracted and happily in love with men as bisexual, like what are you mad about?

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Idgaf about what anyone says bk//dk shippers are the biggest Izuku haters!

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Ochako love arc would go way harder and make more sense if she was a >>>CANON<<< queer character

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My most controversial ships apparently

They aren't controversial in a sense of being nasty or fucking illegal but because people tend to overreact to them or demonize the relationship for no reason shipping these is like killing 100 grandmas.

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Thinking about the few times where Sakura talks back Sasuke is to defend Naruto and she literally thought of killing him just to give Naruto peace and free him of that torment...

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A lot of folks say that Naruto rejecting Sakura confession is the proof he doesn't love her anymore when actually is the opposite. The fact that Sakura was giving him a chance and he finally could stay with someone he loves, but choose to not to because Naruto knew Sakura still had feelings for Sasuke and it wouldn't be fair to her live a life where she isn't fully happy he put Sakura feelings over his, he put Sakura happiness over his and that's the biggest love proof he could've ever showed.

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Saying that Ichiruki doesn't parallel Isshin and Masaki is kinda funny because it's the opposite! Kubo copied himself the Ichiruki moments from the first two arcs and decided to put into Ichigo's parents relationship, he decided himself to use Ichigo and Rukia panels to make Isshin and Masaki romantic 🤷‍♀️

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Being a Kamimomojirou shipper means that I'm always winning!

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I get so angry at myself when I see a dumb take with not that much likes and get frustrated but I can't help myself because sometimes it's just too ridiculous like look at this bs:

"Orihime is Ichigo light" Do they know what Rukia name means or???

"The only reason Ichigo has such tender and happy looks to Rukia, and strongly misses her is because she brings his powers" Rukia is nothing more than Ichigo's power battery cool that's exactly what he sees her for a source of power.

"Ichigo didn't go the Soul Society to save Rukia" I don't even know what to comment...

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Me seeing the canon Naruto shippers vs the Bleach canon shippers trashing each other couples:

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Bi flag color picked from gintaka colors!

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Femme flag color picked from Cure Macaron!

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Zira outfits