#/personal

[tittiedshrek]

[khihi]

feeling very bojancore today (ill for the second time this month)

[bookinit02]

girls when they’re working three jobs and volunteering and writing fic and taking four senior-level classes and getting ready for graduation and petitioning for financial aid and taking their cat to the vet and applying to grad school and writing original work and babysitting AND trying to have a social life and—

[euthanarexia]

i really love when someone slights me and i don’t even have to lift a finger for people to defend me. like, i love that i mask so well that people love me and stand up for me. because i can sit back and laugh at whoever fucked up while everyone gangs up on them. i feel like i have my own pack of guard dogs ♡

[sapphic-saionji]

I get mad about this on the regular I know and I've gotten hate mail over this subject before but the amount of insane hate togafuka as a pairing gets is honestly disgusting. Like, way too far by all and any means. The togafuka community is small and mainly consists of cute domestic posts about them living together in a healthy and loving relationship (mind you, these are two consenting adults who are not biologically related to each other), and people will scream to the heavens how it's disgusting because it would THEORETICALLY be abusive/toxic in canon and like... ok, where's the abuse content? Where's the hundreds of thousands of togafuka shippers who are making abuse fetish content then, if we're theoretically fetishizing abuse that ISN'T EVEN CANON, because they are not in a relationship and never have been?

Trying to say that two characters would have an abusive relationship when you don't know HOW they would behave in a relationship, because they have never canonically dated ANYONE, is atrocious logic. I could say ANY ship was abusive because NO Danganronpa pairing has ever been canonized. I could call Gundham and Sonia an abusive relationship. I could call Makoto and Kyoko an abusive relationship, because I personally believe that if they were in a relationship, it would be abusive, but I don't, because that is fucking insane people behavior. I have no idea what they would be like together!! The only thing I would have to base this off of is fan content, which depicts these couples in happy and loving relationships, JUST LIKE THE TOGAFUKA FANDOM DOES!!

The hate that that pairing gets also goes way too far entirely. I remember how uninhabitable instagram was for a while (possibly even to this day, I'm not sure as I don't much use it anymore) because the togafuka tag was spammed with so much irl gore and selfharm, and even posts that weren't gore and sh were just people talking about how much they fucking hated togafuka and how gross and abusive it was. The only hatemail I have ever gotten on this blog in my entire life, in almost a decade on this site, has been about togafuka. Just stop and think about how fucking batshit insane it is to direct this much hate and vitriol towards someone for being a fan of two non-related adults in a healthy, consenting relationship.

[nightmaredaisy]

I had dinner yesterday with my boyfriend (I made a quiche) (we opened a red wine bottle he got from his boss at work) (we drank it in proper wine glasses) and I have never felt more 30+ in my fucking life

we were watching Batman TAS on the couch which I think only deepens the experience

[sonickitty]

In 2 weeks, for the first time since May, 2022 I am going to have my own permanent space (the permance of a year lease anyway) and I won't be packing an overnight bag every weekend or switching AirBnBs every couple weeks or roadtripping 5+ hours or living with my parents and honestly? I kind of have no idea what I'm going to do with myself.

[tittiedshrek]

how can anyone get excited for anything anymore when it'll probably just get canceled after one season. how are fandoms gonna continue to flourish when they have to act as walking billboards and advertisements just so that the creators can actually tell their story in full. how can streaming services expect fans to support their favorite shows when they don't even bother advertising their own shows or making merch. how can netflix continue to market themselves as a way for creators to tell their stories without executive meddling when a well established showrunner can pitch 18 new ideas and the only ones that get approved are reboots based on previous ips. how can a show get high ratings on rotten tomatoes and praised for having good writing, representation, storytelling, music, etc. and win awards but still get canned bc god forbid someone asks for higher wages and be paid fairly for their labor. hate hate hate death to all streaming services

[loamsome]

I've been doing a couple carved eraser stamps to quell creative energy lately :)

[khihi]

i want to WRITE i want to write BOJERE i want to write KÄSH i want to write JANCE i want to write BOKRIS i want to write PLATONIC stuff i want to write POLY stuff i want to write FLUFF and SMUT and ANGST i want to WRITE but i C A N T

[oddishblossom]

i’m taking some time away from tumblr! going on an island getaway for the next two weeks. there’s like a million posts on my queue so it’ll be as if i’m still here lol. if anything huge happens while i’m gone (like if the forbidden season 2 of scum villain drops………) pls let me know i don’t wanna be out of the loop! take care ya’ll <3

[sapphic-saionji]

Since I've been seeing a few of these blogs in the deltarune tag, just so everyone is aware: If a blog has "pro-paraphilia, anti-c" or variations of such (pro-paraphilia, pro-c, pro-contact, anti-contact," these people are talking about pedophiles. Pro-paraphilia is a pedophile-positive stance. Do not engage with these blogs, just block them and move on.

[mangobubbletea7]

Don’t talk to me I’m crying over this snail picture

[alyjojo]

4 years ago, on the 19th, I was in the hospital, losing my girl.

Today, the 17th, I’m in the hospital losing my boy, and trying to handle it naturally, making myself near anemic from losing so much and causing an emergency situation for whoever got called in…the surgery team. Had we waited another day or so…idk.